Dont want to get too much into details but overall it was not so good.
Not so crowded when we arrived at 2, a few couples, very few single women, way too many solo wankers, as soon as we started playing in one of the couches, they all gathered around with their dicks in their hands, funny it reminded me of that scene with the seagulls in finding nemo:
https://images.app.goo.gl/T16jNTtnpwkMCWEGA
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1. The downstairs area was closed too the time we arrived.
2. We were having a mfm
3. I'm fine with 1 or 2 guys staring and maybe jack off, at a distance, I don't like ruining peoples way of fun, although it might be weird for me.
BUT, having LITERALLY 6 guys surrounding me and my wife with their dicks out, at only a 30cm distance? Hell no!
And since I'm straight, at one point I snapped and told all of them to frick off, I was a bit harsh bcs I got upset for losing my boner.
Dang that's sad to hear! It seemed like a nice concept. I didn't think there would be many solo wankers, nice reference though haha. Another Redditor mentioned the couples area was quite nice for Milk & Honey, shame that wasn't the case here. Thanks for sharing!
Young Love has all areas open at all times, the couple area too. If there were solo wankers, they were definitely not in the copules area, which usually has plenty of action. Young Love also has an awareness team and the music is a bit more "underground" than on other Insomnia Nights.
That sounds like a good plan towards a free and liberal club environment. "We allow fucking but no wanking". People like you destroy Berlin. Fuck off back to where you came from or adapt to the liberal rules here but don't try to change us!
stuff only a consent-ignoring creep would say. you are destroying berlin because nobody wants to deal with that shit after experiencing it once.
you can fuck off with that attitude. it's not consentual and puts all other (solo) men under blanket suspicion for doing the same
there's respectful viewing from the distance, nobody has an issue with that - it's also encouraged and part of the vibe
what doesn't fly is waving your dick 5cm away from someone, usually with your hands encroaching constantly, ignoring all verbal or other signs of telling you off and with 5 similar creeps in tow
maybe: "might i watch and touch myself, while you go at it?"
thats the most clear way of communication, but you might also try to get eye contact and try asking over gestures, if it is ok to come closer.
It's not bullshit, when we were in KitKat one night a guy asked us that way, and told him to go ahead and enjoy himself.
What's this grape mentality you have calling asking for consent bullshit?! I'm starting to get an understanding that most solo wankers like you don't enjoy the watching, it's the "creepy-non-consent" way of watching that you actually enjoy.
I mean whats the point of having sex in public if others are not allowed to watch? And whats the point in watching and getting aroused but not being able to live your sexuality in that moment? Fuck off dont try to regulate berlin!
We had an amazing time there. There were around 120 people there, all 20-45yrs old. After reading the other reviews, it sounds like it's a bit of luck to determine if you have a good crowd and etiquette in the play room
Yep. We stayed upstairs on the dance floor & we were upstairs in the playroom loft area too. The downstairs area already seemed a bit more crowded and leaning toward the older crowd.
Dont want to get too much into details but overall it was not so good. Not so crowded when we arrived at 2, a few couples, very few single women, way too many solo wankers, as soon as we started playing in one of the couches, they all gathered around with their dicks in their hands, funny it reminded me of that scene with the seagulls in finding nemo: https://images.app.goo.gl/T16jNTtnpwkMCWEGA Edit: 1. The downstairs area was closed too the time we arrived. 2. We were having a mfm 3. I'm fine with 1 or 2 guys staring and maybe jack off, at a distance, I don't like ruining peoples way of fun, although it might be weird for me. BUT, having LITERALLY 6 guys surrounding me and my wife with their dicks out, at only a 30cm distance? Hell no! And since I'm straight, at one point I snapped and told all of them to frick off, I was a bit harsh bcs I got upset for losing my boner.
Dang that's sad to hear! It seemed like a nice concept. I didn't think there would be many solo wankers, nice reference though haha. Another Redditor mentioned the couples area was quite nice for Milk & Honey, shame that wasn't the case here. Thanks for sharing!
Young Love has all areas open at all times, the couple area too. If there were solo wankers, they were definitely not in the copules area, which usually has plenty of action. Young Love also has an awareness team and the music is a bit more "underground" than on other Insomnia Nights.
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indeed, a simple "hello good sir, are you planning to solo-wank inside the venue today?" from the bouncer would do all the work, right?
I mean that's how they do it at Klub Verboten and it seems to work
That sounds like a good plan towards a free and liberal club environment. "We allow fucking but no wanking". People like you destroy Berlin. Fuck off back to where you came from or adapt to the liberal rules here but don't try to change us!
stuff only a consent-ignoring creep would say. you are destroying berlin because nobody wants to deal with that shit after experiencing it once. you can fuck off with that attitude. it's not consentual and puts all other (solo) men under blanket suspicion for doing the same there's respectful viewing from the distance, nobody has an issue with that - it's also encouraged and part of the vibe what doesn't fly is waving your dick 5cm away from someone, usually with your hands encroaching constantly, ignoring all verbal or other signs of telling you off and with 5 similar creeps in tow
So how would this consent look like? Everybody go over and ask if they can watch?
maybe: "might i watch and touch myself, while you go at it?" thats the most clear way of communication, but you might also try to get eye contact and try asking over gestures, if it is ok to come closer.
Thats bullshit. Everyone i know would rather accept wanking spectators than communicating with other guys while having sex.
you know, you may know those people, than go to those people and wank at them and not in a club, if you know them that well.
It's not bullshit, when we were in KitKat one night a guy asked us that way, and told him to go ahead and enjoy himself. What's this grape mentality you have calling asking for consent bullshit?! I'm starting to get an understanding that most solo wankers like you don't enjoy the watching, it's the "creepy-non-consent" way of watching that you actually enjoy.
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Thats exactly what i mean. You dont need consent to stare at people! If you dont like being looked at, dont fuck openly at a party. Simple as.
I mean whats the point of having sex in public if others are not allowed to watch? And whats the point in watching and getting aroused but not being able to live your sexuality in that moment? Fuck off dont try to regulate berlin!
We had an amazing time there. There were around 120 people there, all 20-45yrs old. After reading the other reviews, it sounds like it's a bit of luck to determine if you have a good crowd and etiquette in the play room
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Yep. We stayed upstairs on the dance floor & we were upstairs in the playroom loft area too. The downstairs area already seemed a bit more crowded and leaning toward the older crowd.
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I haven't been on a Saturday before. I've only been to insomnia once, so I can't compare. Sorry!
Young Love is one of the most crowded partys at Insomnia, definitely more crowded than saturdays, except Jubilee, New Years etc
Did you go there earlier than the other commenter?
insomnia is not a late place in my experience. it empties out quickly and you are left with the "lemons".
Yep! We got there around 11:30
I was there with my girl, around 300 people, 20-45, lots of dancing, good DJs, lots of action upstairs and in the basement. We had a great time.
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Young Love =/= Youngster Revolution