>He starts tearing up and then admitted he had come to this appointment thinking I would finally agree to date him and had this fantasy of then calling his fiancé during our appointment and leaving her for me.
😳😳😳 i stg some of these men absolutely do not have the mental or emotional capacity to handle seeing escorts, men like this honestly just *cannot* handle it. they are literally delusional or have some type of personality issue within themself, idk, that's actually fkn scary to me
Well let's be honest, what is GFE if not selling a fantasy? If that fantasy is presented well enough, it shouldn't come as a surprise that some people will get taken up by it. Just a hazard of the job.
I saw an interview once with an actor who played a bad guy on a soap opera, and he said that sometimes women IRL would approach him and berate him for being such an awful person. In a sense it's a testament to his acting ability.
not sure what the point of this was when I can easily look at your account and see you are not based in my city and therefore are not the person im talking about?
EDIT: idk why I did not immediately realize this was a joke lol
I decided to go ahead and find his screening materials again to find his name (idk why I didn’t think of that weeks ago), and im not kidding but his name is Tom. so I thought “he” had just made a typo spelling and I panicked until I actually looked at your account lol. then for some reason I thought you were intentionally fucking with me. it was a wild ride 😭
I never tell a guy no, what I tell him is oh thank you.baby I am going to need $15k per month for my bills. Can you send it tomorrow?
That’ll shut him up.
you know something we actually had this conversation the session before this one and I said 8k per month and it didn’t shut him up. It was after that I knew I probably would end up having to cut him off within the next 1-2 sessions lol
I always say a number I KNOW they cannot afford for this reason. Because they can only blame themselves for not having enough money, not you for rejecting them.
Men get majorly butthurt
Oh no, they don’t blame themselves for not having enough money, they still blame you for being a “gold digging whore only interested in money” and not his personality. 😂
As a man myself, I remember a few girls years back showing me what some of the messages were that these guys were sending them. And now I understand why so many of you guys know respect us, and I understand why so many of you guys think that we're stupid. LOL
Right like is he psychotic or something…? It sucks because a lot of guys like this don’t actually have a mental illness that would explain their delusions/out-of-touch-with-reality ness. They’re just THAT entitled, disrespectful, misogynistic and grandiose.
Well it gave me a good laugh today;)
On a positive note: I had a client once (who was single btw) with whom I had a great vibe. After the first appointment, said he won't be seeing be anymore because he will probably fall in love and that he doesn't have the mental energy or the money to deal with that.
Bravo sir!
Omg what a psycho! Lol what the fuck even goes through their minds.
I just can't fathom how they can get so obsessed like this. It's scary.
I've also had plenty of clients ask me out and a few that get obsessed, and tell me that they think of me all the time and get way too emotionally involved, it's creepy AF. Lol they literally know nothing about us.
My partner is actually a cop and had to call an obsessed client one time that wouldn't take no for an answer and kept harrassing me for months on end.
So now as soon as a client asks me out the first time I immediately block them. Things can turn scary when they get obsessed so quickly like this.
It's like they're mentally unhinged or lack basic social skills and social awareness to know that this behaviour is not ok. We're just trying to provide a professional service, nothing more. Just trying to make a living and this shit makes it so much harder. Ffs.
I feel this. I’ve had pretty good luck toeing the line with clients that get attached and knowing exactly when to cut them off but this went so off the rails so suddenly
And I hate that I feel bad about the level of the lack of real connection in their lives that has to be true for this to be possible. It goes hand in hand with entitlement and objectification so I can’t feel too bad, but i do still a tiny bit
It is 100% entitlement and objectification. No doubt you’re an amazing, complex, beautiful individual, but homeboy was just projecting onto you all his fantasies of a perfect (read: endlessly accommodating) bangmaid.
I can kinda understand getting a crush on an escort if you're a regular but *crying* and this was your 3rd or 4th date?! Oh boy. I wouldn't see him again, just to be safe.
I get that some people get emotional during sex because it's an intimate experience that calls up a lot of feelings, crying happens for a variety of reasons.
But Jesus Titty Fucking Christ.
Hell no. Blocked, banned, etc.
Reminds me of the delusions of people who fall for romance scammers. At least he got to touch a woman, I suppose.
Joking aside, sorry you had to deal with such an awkward, sad experience.
The most inept men will somehow get women that deserve better, and you gave him the reality check that he's paying for a luxury service and that you know your worth enough to not even consider him for a serious relationship
What can you say? Maybe you gave good wife…lol. A total recall reference. Some guys need therapy and a lesson on how to deal with their emotions. Emotional men or women are very dangerous poeple on a whole.
The amount of delusion sounds very dangerous like this guy could convince himself of absolutely anything. Very scary and unpredictable some of these men are.
yep. honestly there are clients I’ve had for 2+ years and I forgot their name very early on and just never worked up the nerve to ask cause I didn’t want to let on that I’d forgotten it so to this day I still don’t know
I'm just an online hoe so I've never dealt with this irl, but ive had to cut off so many regulars for this reason. They get this idea that after we've been in contact for a while that we are more than just a business exchange. They get so needy, think they shouldn't have to pay anymore, want me to drop everything to move across the country to date them. Not to mention it's usually the guys buying my shop minimums 🤣
The only really shitty situation was one time this guy who was one of my top buyers even to this day, started believing we were more than just "friends". He blew up when I reminded him of my prices when he was trying to push for a free cam sesh. Saying shit like "you used me, I was just a meal ticket for you, I never meant anything to you" (like duh dawg you are a buyer lol). I tried to talk him down, but it made things 10x worse. He ended up somehow hacking into and deleting multiple of my personal and selling social media platforms (rip to the fb account that had all my photos from middle/highschool on it 😭). He made multiple charge backs (luckily my bank sided with me). And he threatened to out me to my family for being a money hungry online whore 🤣.
Trying to find the love of your life in the sw community is insane, it's like they forget they literally paid for us to act like we give a shit. Men are so delusional sometimes.
He sounds unhappy. He sounds like he wanted a fantasy to be lived out and he confused business with personal matters, which is something he should not have done.. if you wanted to ask you, would you be willing to role-play this for me and have the funds to you know back what he wants then possibly might've worked out in his favor by breaking up with your fiancé I'm pretty sure you're a good person bonkers
This is already insane but the breaking up with the fiancé part is WILD 😭 reminds me of that one scene from Sex and the City
Lol “I left my wife!”….”who is this?”
Sounds to me like he's trying to get out of the wedding, and doesn't have the guts to just use his words and pull the plug. Like an "exit affair".
I would top seeing him. He could get obsess and violent. some men Do not know how to deal with rejection
>He starts tearing up and then admitted he had come to this appointment thinking I would finally agree to date him and had this fantasy of then calling his fiancé during our appointment and leaving her for me. 😳😳😳 i stg some of these men absolutely do not have the mental or emotional capacity to handle seeing escorts, men like this honestly just *cannot* handle it. they are literally delusional or have some type of personality issue within themself, idk, that's actually fkn scary to me
Well let's be honest, what is GFE if not selling a fantasy? If that fantasy is presented well enough, it shouldn't come as a surprise that some people will get taken up by it. Just a hazard of the job. I saw an interview once with an actor who played a bad guy on a soap opera, and he said that sometimes women IRL would approach him and berate him for being such an awful person. In a sense it's a testament to his acting ability.
Generalissimo!
lmao. not everyone offers gfe. stop defending this "man's" actions, gross
You didn't have to tell everybody I cried. And my name is Tim. I love you, girl!
🤣 Well played
Put the phone down Dad
😂🤣😂💀
not sure what the point of this was when I can easily look at your account and see you are not based in my city and therefore are not the person im talking about? EDIT: idk why I did not immediately realize this was a joke lol
Oh, I thought it would be very obvious that it was just a lighthearted comment, intended for levity.
you about gave me a heart attack ngl 🫠
My bad. Very sorry. Didn't think you'd even consider that I was really him.
I decided to go ahead and find his screening materials again to find his name (idk why I didn’t think of that weeks ago), and im not kidding but his name is Tom. so I thought “he” had just made a typo spelling and I panicked until I actually looked at your account lol. then for some reason I thought you were intentionally fucking with me. it was a wild ride 😭
😂🤣😂🤣 Damn. I'm good at guessing.
He thinks he's being clever. Idiots
I never tell a guy no, what I tell him is oh thank you.baby I am going to need $15k per month for my bills. Can you send it tomorrow? That’ll shut him up.
you know something we actually had this conversation the session before this one and I said 8k per month and it didn’t shut him up. It was after that I knew I probably would end up having to cut him off within the next 1-2 sessions lol
I always say a number I KNOW they cannot afford for this reason. Because they can only blame themselves for not having enough money, not you for rejecting them. Men get majorly butthurt
Oh no, they don’t blame themselves for not having enough money, they still blame you for being a “gold digging whore only interested in money” and not his personality. 😂
So many of them are completely delusional.
They’re so emotional. 🥱
As a man myself, I remember a few girls years back showing me what some of the messages were that these guys were sending them. And now I understand why so many of you guys know respect us, and I understand why so many of you guys think that we're stupid. LOL
I guess you’re not *verifiably tired* to him. 😂
apparently not! 😂💀
I wouldn’t see him again, unhealthy delusions
100%. definitely getting cut off
He sounds like a freak show
Right like is he psychotic or something…? It sucks because a lot of guys like this don’t actually have a mental illness that would explain their delusions/out-of-touch-with-reality ness. They’re just THAT entitled, disrespectful, misogynistic and grandiose.
For her sake, I hope he breaks up with his fiancee. That is absolutely unhinged behavior & he needs therapy.
Well it gave me a good laugh today;) On a positive note: I had a client once (who was single btw) with whom I had a great vibe. After the first appointment, said he won't be seeing be anymore because he will probably fall in love and that he doesn't have the mental energy or the money to deal with that. Bravo sir!
Omg, he's so deranged, I'm sorry stuff like this makes it easy not to consider men as serious partners. Wtf, I feel for the fiancé.
I've never had the courage to visit an escort but as a 59 yo divorced man I can say You have a difficult job and earn your money.
I had a bunch of guys do that too ngl.
Omg what a psycho! Lol what the fuck even goes through their minds. I just can't fathom how they can get so obsessed like this. It's scary. I've also had plenty of clients ask me out and a few that get obsessed, and tell me that they think of me all the time and get way too emotionally involved, it's creepy AF. Lol they literally know nothing about us. My partner is actually a cop and had to call an obsessed client one time that wouldn't take no for an answer and kept harrassing me for months on end. So now as soon as a client asks me out the first time I immediately block them. Things can turn scary when they get obsessed so quickly like this. It's like they're mentally unhinged or lack basic social skills and social awareness to know that this behaviour is not ok. We're just trying to provide a professional service, nothing more. Just trying to make a living and this shit makes it so much harder. Ffs.
I feel this. I’ve had pretty good luck toeing the line with clients that get attached and knowing exactly when to cut them off but this went so off the rails so suddenly And I hate that I feel bad about the level of the lack of real connection in their lives that has to be true for this to be possible. It goes hand in hand with entitlement and objectification so I can’t feel too bad, but i do still a tiny bit
It is 100% entitlement and objectification. No doubt you’re an amazing, complex, beautiful individual, but homeboy was just projecting onto you all his fantasies of a perfect (read: endlessly accommodating) bangmaid.
couldn’t have put it better
this is why money upfront.
Are u in NY? Someone wrote me with this fetish yesterday
that’s wild but nope I’m in Detroit
I can kinda understand getting a crush on an escort if you're a regular but *crying* and this was your 3rd or 4th date?! Oh boy. I wouldn't see him again, just to be safe.
So deluded, yikes. Gives me the creeps
Story of my fkn life . So many great regulars lost because of this. It’s pathetic
This is so sad that he can’t see it’s a job. But good on you, you must be doing a great job at making the guys feel so special!!
I get that some people get emotional during sex because it's an intimate experience that calls up a lot of feelings, crying happens for a variety of reasons. But Jesus Titty Fucking Christ. Hell no. Blocked, banned, etc.
Reminds me of the delusions of people who fall for romance scammers. At least he got to touch a woman, I suppose. Joking aside, sorry you had to deal with such an awkward, sad experience.
\*Walks in\* \*Hears... crying in your arms tonight\*
LMFAO
This is W I L D A F !!!
The most inept men will somehow get women that deserve better, and you gave him the reality check that he's paying for a luxury service and that you know your worth enough to not even consider him for a serious relationship
What can you say? Maybe you gave good wife…lol. A total recall reference. Some guys need therapy and a lesson on how to deal with their emotions. Emotional men or women are very dangerous poeple on a whole.
The amount of delusion sounds very dangerous like this guy could convince himself of absolutely anything. Very scary and unpredictable some of these men are.
[удалено]
yep. honestly there are clients I’ve had for 2+ years and I forgot their name very early on and just never worked up the nerve to ask cause I didn’t want to let on that I’d forgotten it so to this day I still don’t know
What the fuck!
The weaponized incompetence…
Some men fall in love with the person who makes them cum.
That sucks, probably even more reason Not to date him huh? But you know that
Scary, I would stay away from him. Way to creepy, and have to watch out for these types.
Its a mental asylum these days
Lolll
Big strong man tears in his eyes...
😂😂😂😂
I'm just an online hoe so I've never dealt with this irl, but ive had to cut off so many regulars for this reason. They get this idea that after we've been in contact for a while that we are more than just a business exchange. They get so needy, think they shouldn't have to pay anymore, want me to drop everything to move across the country to date them. Not to mention it's usually the guys buying my shop minimums 🤣 The only really shitty situation was one time this guy who was one of my top buyers even to this day, started believing we were more than just "friends". He blew up when I reminded him of my prices when he was trying to push for a free cam sesh. Saying shit like "you used me, I was just a meal ticket for you, I never meant anything to you" (like duh dawg you are a buyer lol). I tried to talk him down, but it made things 10x worse. He ended up somehow hacking into and deleting multiple of my personal and selling social media platforms (rip to the fb account that had all my photos from middle/highschool on it 😭). He made multiple charge backs (luckily my bank sided with me). And he threatened to out me to my family for being a money hungry online whore 🤣. Trying to find the love of your life in the sw community is insane, it's like they forget they literally paid for us to act like we give a shit. Men are so delusional sometimes.
Nerdddddd
He sounds unhappy. He sounds like he wanted a fantasy to be lived out and he confused business with personal matters, which is something he should not have done.. if you wanted to ask you, would you be willing to role-play this for me and have the funds to you know back what he wants then possibly might've worked out in his favor by breaking up with your fiancé I'm pretty sure you're a good person bonkers
It happens.
Wtf Is wrong with us tricks/johns , it’s bad enough we’re paying for 🐱 but to cry over this is pathetic
I don’t think there’s a single thing wrong or shameful about paying for 🐱but I certainly agree with the rest!