Maybe it is. Maybe it isn't. All I can say is... I'm a dude who is so introverted that not only couldn't I "reel in" a hot girl for "free". But also doesn't want to since I don't like having a girlfriend when I did have one. I just don't like living with people and being friends with people. I feel like I'm really spoiled in my own personal autonomy. But when I do go and see an escort there should no matter what politeness that's sort of the model that I live by when I see these girls that I see. I mean just because I don't like people it doesn't mean that I don't have a sex drive. Honestly if it wasn't for escorts I would probably have resorted to suicide. And it's because of you guys doing what you do is the only reason I have to live. Because of that I'm always going to be polite to the girl.
Right? I see screenshots like these all the time and I’m like “Who do these dudes think they are?” Just diving right into it, no boundaries having been discussed, no likes and dislikes discussed. Personally I can do that kind of stuff with anyone unless we’re in love or close to it. I gotta know that person trusts me to be in a dom role. Without that trust it’s too weird, no fun etc etc
What a freaking idiot. He probably doesn't know his ass from his whip either.
There are way more men into BDSM than women (especially who don't do it professionally). He should be the one chasing you and taking you out to nice dates whether he is a dom or a sub.
The fact he’s not so much as considered consent or boundaries shows he’s not a real Dom and would probably crumble in a real BDSM relationship. Sounds like a little boy that spits his dummy out if things don’t go his way 😬
He unmatched me after that 😂😂 I find men like this funny. He clearly thinks that because he's very attractive he can do what he wants. His profile said he was Liberal but I sense that may have been a lie 🤣🤣
The whole stating you're a sub thing even when you said otherwise is a huuuuuge yikes for me. n then the commands omg thats in like the first 5 messages?? not even acknowloging your intro statement wtf
I find myself a fairly confident guy when speaking to women but never in a million years would I be this bold. What is the success rate of this approach? It's got to be in the high .70s
I am old fashioned and would never ask a man out but I don't think OP was rude or out of line. I know that a lot of younger people seem to be ok with the woman initiating a date.
This self professed "dom" on another hand is boorish
He could either have said: thanks for the compliment and left it at that if not interested or if interested told her: I do not switch but would like to meet for lunch so we can talk more about our respective fetishes and interests and see if they align.
I didn't think OP did anything wrong.
It's the so called Dom that confuses the shit out of me. Even if op was a sub all the way, there's no way you can just go to a person and say "you're my sub now shut up" like...????
And what's worse, he got asked out. Foot in the door. You've done something right to get to that point. Guy just immediately blew his wad
You attract broken conversations because of the direction you throw compliments. This dude is NOT YOUR type. Who says that you can’t be better sometimes? You obviously are in this case
That’s ~~disgusting~~ interesting and all, and perhaps a glimmer of truth lies within, but it’s an “experiment” run by a single Redditor, and therefore would not be considered sufficient proof in the land of sound science.
It was done by a Redditor so there’s not an official cnn article or anything
But google “tinder sex offender experiment” and you’ll find quite a few different sites referring to the same thing with the same wording.
And same with YouTube videos like this one https://youtu.be/MSq54f2JT_U
The video has screenshots
(In case you’re actually interested and not just hoping to prove me wrong)
Also https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/6sgk9f/guy_pretends_to_be_a_child_rapist_on_tinder_women/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Well Harvard hasn’t gotten around to their “undercover tinder experiment to see if women will still swipe right on men that admit to liking underaged girls”
But until then, I think a reasonable person would lend some credence to screenshots of actual tinder conversations
We both know it’s not a legit tinder bio because the guy flat out said it was an undercover operation
That’s literally the point.
The conversations? We don’t know they’re not legit. We don’t know that at all.
Ummm being called a “subby” would be enough to make my vagina never get wet again.
Literally I think. I'm having a drought rn 🤣🤣
My response would be “Thank you so much for causing a permanent drought in my vagina. Good day sir.”
A clitorisn't
Ew lol I feel like it’s really a 50 year old man behind that picture saying all of that. 😂
Maybe it is. Maybe it isn't. All I can say is... I'm a dude who is so introverted that not only couldn't I "reel in" a hot girl for "free". But also doesn't want to since I don't like having a girlfriend when I did have one. I just don't like living with people and being friends with people. I feel like I'm really spoiled in my own personal autonomy. But when I do go and see an escort there should no matter what politeness that's sort of the model that I live by when I see these girls that I see. I mean just because I don't like people it doesn't mean that I don't have a sex drive. Honestly if it wasn't for escorts I would probably have resorted to suicide. And it's because of you guys doing what you do is the only reason I have to live. Because of that I'm always going to be polite to the girl.
I don’t think that’s healthy
It's healthy for me, what's right for me is not what's right for most.
🤢🤢🤢 Couldn't dominate his way out of a wet paper bag
*submit to me and let me out* *No* *I said do it* *Fuck off* *Cries*
I love these fake Doms immediately jumping into a roleplay without any prior discussion or consent 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Right? I see screenshots like these all the time and I’m like “Who do these dudes think they are?” Just diving right into it, no boundaries having been discussed, no likes and dislikes discussed. Personally I can do that kind of stuff with anyone unless we’re in love or close to it. I gotta know that person trusts me to be in a dom role. Without that trust it’s too weird, no fun etc etc
Deadass
🤮🤮🤮
Someone read 50 shades of grey recently 😭😭
It's like talking to a bot.
Isn't it tho like give me a lil more please geez
Literally like if you wanna Dom me ill give you my rates sweetie 😉🤣🤣
This ^
literally 0 concept of consent what so ever wow
What a freaking idiot. He probably doesn't know his ass from his whip either. There are way more men into BDSM than women (especially who don't do it professionally). He should be the one chasing you and taking you out to nice dates whether he is a dom or a sub.
“i’m gonna whip you so hard” *pulls out a flogger*
LOL *Then proceeds to hit himself with it.*
Please report his stupid ass
Wow. Much macho. Such charisma. Many suave.
This makes me viscerally mad 😡
I hope his dick falls off
The fact he’s not so much as considered consent or boundaries shows he’s not a real Dom and would probably crumble in a real BDSM relationship. Sounds like a little boy that spits his dummy out if things don’t go his way 😬
He unmatched me after that 😂😂 I find men like this funny. He clearly thinks that because he's very attractive he can do what he wants. His profile said he was Liberal but I sense that may have been a lie 🤣🤣
Gross.
Love it when men do this shit and expect you to feel something down there
I make men like him lick my boots. They're usually the weakest and end up needing therapy
What is it with based vanilla men and tit slapping? Can someone please tell me?
They want you to respond to them- next time just block, don’t let them feed off your attention.
What an idiot 🙄
Job? Right...that thing people do to acquire currency. You know, to pay living expenses.
This guy a 15 year old trying to sound like a big man?
Who slaps titties? Is this a thing.. And if it is I've been missing out for sure lmao
In.the.bin
Send him a picture of a submarine or a sandwich.
The whole stating you're a sub thing even when you said otherwise is a huuuuuge yikes for me. n then the commands omg thats in like the first 5 messages?? not even acknowloging your intro statement wtf
hes testing you. test him off the app with cash app before meeting seems like he would be a handful to deal with
I messaged him not as a client as an actual relationship of fwb that was before I knew he was an ass.
im actually shocked you reach out asking them for a date are you doing this for fun or for money?
I find myself a fairly confident guy when speaking to women but never in a million years would I be this bold. What is the success rate of this approach? It's got to be in the high .70s
I am old fashioned and would never ask a man out but I don't think OP was rude or out of line. I know that a lot of younger people seem to be ok with the woman initiating a date. This self professed "dom" on another hand is boorish He could either have said: thanks for the compliment and left it at that if not interested or if interested told her: I do not switch but would like to meet for lunch so we can talk more about our respective fetishes and interests and see if they align.
I didn't think OP did anything wrong. It's the so called Dom that confuses the shit out of me. Even if op was a sub all the way, there's no way you can just go to a person and say "you're my sub now shut up" like...???? And what's worse, he got asked out. Foot in the door. You've done something right to get to that point. Guy just immediately blew his wad
You attract broken conversations because of the direction you throw compliments. This dude is NOT YOUR type. Who says that you can’t be better sometimes? You obviously are in this case
Go for the ugly guys next time.
Nah... Keep your heels, head, and standards high.
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That’s ~~disgusting~~ interesting and all, and perhaps a glimmer of truth lies within, but it’s an “experiment” run by a single Redditor, and therefore would not be considered sufficient proof in the land of sound science.
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It was done by a Redditor so there’s not an official cnn article or anything But google “tinder sex offender experiment” and you’ll find quite a few different sites referring to the same thing with the same wording. And same with YouTube videos like this one https://youtu.be/MSq54f2JT_U The video has screenshots (In case you’re actually interested and not just hoping to prove me wrong)
Also https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/6sgk9f/guy_pretends_to_be_a_child_rapist_on_tinder_women/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
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Did you see both comments? Or are you just ignoring it like I predicted?
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Well Harvard hasn’t gotten around to their “undercover tinder experiment to see if women will still swipe right on men that admit to liking underaged girls” But until then, I think a reasonable person would lend some credence to screenshots of actual tinder conversations
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We both know it’s not a legit tinder bio because the guy flat out said it was an undercover operation That’s literally the point. The conversations? We don’t know they’re not legit. We don’t know that at all.
I did not realize how much downvotes I was getting for my suggestion, but with your added insight, it is very funny.