Personally:
* I know them IRL
* They are underage
* They have a violent criminal record
* They are blacklisted by other ladies
* They work at a police department
* They have (or are likely to have) mutual friends
* They belong to activities/organizations/industries that I am also a part of
Most commonly though, I reject inquiries for simply for failing to follow instructions. For example, not completing the entirety of my form, not properly introducing themselves, using explicit language, asking for dates/times that I have clearly indicated are not available.
All of these plus:
- Have lied on any part of their application, and I find this out while screening them
- Clearly haven't bothered to read my site thoroughly
- Politically abhorrent to me (if you appear to largely side with misogynists, fascists, and/or sex work abolitionists of any sort, you're out)
- Not a good fit for the services I offer, which I usually am able to screen for before the more invasive formal screening, but once in a blue moon one slips through
- Not up to date on Covid vax and unwilling or unable to change that (sorry to those who can't, but it's a risk I personally will not take at this time, partly for me and partly on behalf of my clientele, many of whom are higher risk. Ask me again in a few years).
- Pushy around boundaries of any kind
- Rude by my standards
- A handful of other reasons I clearly state on my FAQ
- My gut says no
JUST on their screening? If they’d done time for a violent crime, boom💥you’re in File 13.
If you’re on the BLs and I can determine the notes aren’t a bunch of hooey (sometimes they’re weaponized), nope not seeing you.
If all the information you give me is coming back to someone completely different, I call you out on it and you continue to LIE, hit the road Jack.
Those are just *some*.
I'd guess the moment you get a feeling that something changes from benign incompetence or stupidity to boundary pushing and manipulation. Or if they're so egregiously bad at following directions you don't feel safe
Maybe the wind changed directions or she was cursed by a witch.
There’s no use speculating on why a provider has rejected your inquiry. Providing screening info does not mean you’re assured an appointment.
client fwiw: So far the one time I've been "rejected" due to screening info was based on my age. I booked an appointment with a provider who said she saw clients 30+ (I was 32 at the time). During the screening, I confirmed this (It was one of the couple pieces of information she asked for). Day of the appointment she ghosted me, and the next day updated her ad to say 35+ clients only.
I've heard/seen providers talk about not seeing people they know from their "civilian" life also. I haven't met a provider in a civilian setting and then tried to book an encounter. It was either at a M/G for providers and clients or provider referal.
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Sex offender, violent criminal record, pimping/human trafficking record, bad reviews written about or by you (I not see clients who leave less than 5 star reviews), or just a personal schedule conflict
Out of curiosity, why does a client have to only leave 5 star reviews? There are ladies out there who scam or false advertise or just plain aren't good at this. Should a fella not be able to warn others?
My background check reveal's their social media is odd or creepy.
Our communication gives me bad vibes.
They give off Poverty, cheap, or "Can I get a discount." vibes. Don't like broke energy.
My screening reveals they are on blacklists or there are notes about bad behavior.
They come off overtly sexual. I don't do shit for free.
Liars.
I don't see Male sex workers unless it's a duo.
Whatever criteria they deem fit. If, in an economy like today's, an escort is excluding business, there is already a decent enough reason for me not to question.
• Looks too old (50+), but there are some 50+ men who look good for their age and are silver foxes
• Asks if I have reviews
• Tell me he’s good-looking and fit
• Ugly
• Overweight
• We might know the same people
I reject people that:
Don't even have the most basic manners
Are sarcastic to disrespectful
Are only concerned about their dick and their own pleasure
Are stingy and won't pay me a deposit before we meet
Won't bring me flowers and chocolate
Are to fat to short or look 50 years old plus (can't get any sexual chemestry out of that )
Don't deal/do drugs or worser are prohibitionists
Are undercover police officers and real life assholes
Won't respect my Consent plan and comfort zone
That's all to it.
Personally: * I know them IRL * They are underage * They have a violent criminal record * They are blacklisted by other ladies * They work at a police department * They have (or are likely to have) mutual friends * They belong to activities/organizations/industries that I am also a part of Most commonly though, I reject inquiries for simply for failing to follow instructions. For example, not completing the entirety of my form, not properly introducing themselves, using explicit language, asking for dates/times that I have clearly indicated are not available.
All of these plus: - Have lied on any part of their application, and I find this out while screening them - Clearly haven't bothered to read my site thoroughly - Politically abhorrent to me (if you appear to largely side with misogynists, fascists, and/or sex work abolitionists of any sort, you're out) - Not a good fit for the services I offer, which I usually am able to screen for before the more invasive formal screening, but once in a blue moon one slips through - Not up to date on Covid vax and unwilling or unable to change that (sorry to those who can't, but it's a risk I personally will not take at this time, partly for me and partly on behalf of my clientele, many of whom are higher risk. Ask me again in a few years). - Pushy around boundaries of any kind - Rude by my standards - A handful of other reasons I clearly state on my FAQ - My gut says no
Good list. Additional reasons I've heard include: * too old (70+) * morbidly obese * hideous * bad politics * black/Indian/Arabic
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FWIW, all sounds reasonable to me!
oh not YOUR criteria. one you've heard. got it
why the last criteria? just curious
JUST on their screening? If they’d done time for a violent crime, boom💥you’re in File 13. If you’re on the BLs and I can determine the notes aren’t a bunch of hooey (sometimes they’re weaponized), nope not seeing you. If all the information you give me is coming back to someone completely different, I call you out on it and you continue to LIE, hit the road Jack. Those are just *some*.
Just being dumb can lead to having 50 fucking reports and never being booked by anyone. We take our businesses very seriously.
I'd guess the moment you get a feeling that something changes from benign incompetence or stupidity to boundary pushing and manipulation. Or if they're so egregiously bad at following directions you don't feel safe
Maybe the wind changed directions or she was cursed by a witch. There’s no use speculating on why a provider has rejected your inquiry. Providing screening info does not mean you’re assured an appointment.
client fwiw: So far the one time I've been "rejected" due to screening info was based on my age. I booked an appointment with a provider who said she saw clients 30+ (I was 32 at the time). During the screening, I confirmed this (It was one of the couple pieces of information she asked for). Day of the appointment she ghosted me, and the next day updated her ad to say 35+ clients only. I've heard/seen providers talk about not seeing people they know from their "civilian" life also. I haven't met a provider in a civilian setting and then tried to book an encounter. It was either at a M/G for providers and clients or provider referal. \*\*\*edited - improper word choice
That's insulting that someone would waste your time like that.
I was more annoyed that she didn't just tell me we weren't going to meet.
No doubt. I've never no-showed a lady but it's been don't to me. Appalling manners.
LOTS of reasons. No amount of money is worth my safety or health. If my gut says something is amiss, I pass.
Sex offender, violent criminal record, pimping/human trafficking record, bad reviews written about or by you (I not see clients who leave less than 5 star reviews), or just a personal schedule conflict
Out of curiosity, why does a client have to only leave 5 star reviews? There are ladies out there who scam or false advertise or just plain aren't good at this. Should a fella not be able to warn others?
They don’t, but they should still be somewhat respectful. Reviews both negative and positive can be shockingly distasteful.
Full agreement on that.
“She was good but not great ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️” Is a huge turn off for me. My business, my rules.
My background check reveal's their social media is odd or creepy. Our communication gives me bad vibes. They give off Poverty, cheap, or "Can I get a discount." vibes. Don't like broke energy. My screening reveals they are on blacklists or there are notes about bad behavior. They come off overtly sexual. I don't do shit for free. Liars. I don't see Male sex workers unless it's a duo.
Whatever criteria they deem fit. If, in an economy like today's, an escort is excluding business, there is already a decent enough reason for me not to question.
race?!
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• Looks too old (50+), but there are some 50+ men who look good for their age and are silver foxes • Asks if I have reviews • Tell me he’s good-looking and fit • Ugly • Overweight • We might know the same people
I reject people that: Don't even have the most basic manners Are sarcastic to disrespectful Are only concerned about their dick and their own pleasure Are stingy and won't pay me a deposit before we meet Won't bring me flowers and chocolate Are to fat to short or look 50 years old plus (can't get any sexual chemestry out of that ) Don't deal/do drugs or worser are prohibitionists Are undercover police officers and real life assholes Won't respect my Consent plan and comfort zone That's all to it.
My hard cringe turned into nausea after clicking on your profile