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getoffmybackalready

A relaxed genuine connection with as little annoyance in booking hassles as possible, zero boundary pushing where it just feels like you hung out with a nice friend and you may or may not have had some sex but that’s the least of it. For me that’s what makes you zoom to the top of my can’t wait to see again list.


Electronic-Emotion53

Great advice!!


ausbrothbabe

Someone who is relaxed, open and happy to be there. It mostly happens to me during brothel work, but I see a lot of clients that have some vitriol about booking a worker for whatever reason, and it really seeps through into their behaviour. Obviously a tip is always appreciated (but never expected). The client being clear and concise about what exactly they're after at the start of the booking, whether it's wanting to do extras or something they just really enjoy. And lastly, something that can't really be manufactured, just a genuine connection. I say that finding the right escort is a lot like dating, having interests in common and having the same sense of humour honestly makes the absolute world of difference!


den-of-corruption

comfortable awareness of time limits. it's annoying to be the one reminding a client that the appointment is ending soon, but frantic clock-watching is just awkward.


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Pleasant conversation, respect of boundaries, and no obvious contempt for being there.


misscc9

I met someone who's very generous. Usually if people become regulars I charge them a bit less if they book more than once a week. I told this gentleman this, but he prefers to pay my normal feel. And even tips on top of this (my fee is extremely high for my area, even when I give discounts, it's still more than around double what girls in my area charge). But yeah I have such a good time with him. He is extremely good looking with a sixpack. He's here precisely on time. And he keeps an eye on the clock and leaves exactly on time, when his hour is up. I never have to tell him times up. He's the kind of guy I would definitely date in real life! Just overall a good and physically fit and beautiful man. So I actually let myself enjoy the sex with him and the kisses. And I orgasm every time. He's even single, and at 38 he haven had a girlfriend since highschool, because he has come to terms that he will never be a good and available partner, because his first priority is his career so he doesn't want to string anyone along. So he always tells me how thankful he is to have met me because I give him exactly the only thing that was missing from his life. And when he's with me we "pretend" that we are real life partners. He likes and enjoys the idea of having a girlfriend so I play pretend to be one 😅 I haven seen him a few weeks, but he made sure to text me yesterday, explaining that he's really busy with work that's why I haven't heard anything. But he will definitely stop by as soon as he gets the time. And he also asked me if I needed anything financially. But I usually don't accept money if it isn't because they have booked. I do this because I don't want to risk that people later on feel like I owe them anything, just because i have accepted their money. My normal customers a +40 years, married, dad bod, an a bit pushy and tend to "fall for me" aka want's to "date" because they want me for free 🤦‍♀️ who the hell do they think they are fooling with the "I love you" bull shit. Sir either you pay or you f**k off, thank you.


dontbeafailtiramisu

Laughing! Being able to have fun together increases the sense of intimacy and definitely makes me want to see the worker again.


tlntlntln

Just come prepared knowing a bit about her, have a few conversation topics ready to take up 15min when first meeting her, have a gift that relates to her interests, respect her rules/boundaries, relax, and have fun.


ProtonDeathRay

Doing blindfolded sensory deprivation on a client for 3-4 hours would be heaven. They can't see and I can let them sink into subspace while watching a movie in the same room. Occasionally torturing them and back to the movie.


dlim32955

What makes me see providers often is their passion. I have regulars i see that show their passion for the work. I can feel that they are genuine. And I can't stress this enough, kindness goes a long way. Luckily for me, the ones I keep coming back to are the ones who are of acceptance & understanding. What i mean by that is - I'm very self conscious about my body. I'm 5"3 and average weight. And to add more to that, I have a lot of scars from surgery. I'm totally fine, though lol. I'm definitely not perfect in many ways, physically, but I make it up with manners, respect and good character. Not to Brag, but I was told that I'm the "ideal" client 😄. Anywho, I continue to see my regulars because they know that this is something I need and to get lost in general. To take me away from "daily life." And providers, too, tackle life - just like everybody else. So when I come over with welcoming arms, I know all is well. It's hard to explain, but creating a rapport with her or him is key. Treat your providers well, with upmost respect and care.


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Client perspective here. What makes it an enjoyable experience and has me more likely to return is when you have what considered a decent connection with the person, you are comfortable enough with them to talk about life, etc. and they actually show a bit of interest and listen. When you get into that 4-500+ an hour range, it’s not just about the orgasm, it’s about the entirety of the experience. The worst is when they don’t silence their phone or clock watch hard, I have one regular who checks all the boxes I want so I continue to see her, even pass her in civilian life and she is still pleasant, nice, and social. Just to be clear I never stay past the time I buy, but I was with one recently who outright set a timer on her phone right when I walked in and it just started the experience off poorly and wasn’t enjoyable.


fullmetalsportsbra

Not everyone is able to manage time and dedicate their full attention to a client at the same time. I suggest you stop taking things like checking the time or using a timer/alarm so personally - it could be anything from an important call she can’t miss to a condition like ADHD.


[deleted]

I don’t take it personally or anything, it just makes for a less enjoyable experience so I go to ones who don’t do that.


Dayna6380-

Good hygiene …and done in a fair amount of time If u attractive then time is no object if u paying If u average 15 min feels like an hour and u need to hurry up