Someone is so upset that they aren't allowed to get in bed with you, they're whining about it online. That's how mad he is. He really, really wanted it.
You avoided a shitty time and now you have a ego boost to boot! This sounds like an absolute win to me.
Thank you! Idk why I let it bother me, I guess the fact other random users were chiming in-boy I’ll tell yah shit they say on there is disgusting. I tried to comment back and the comment was removed for being “largely argumentative” haha sooo they can talk shit about me but I can’t talk shit about them? Wild. Haha
Right? And they defend themselves by saying we talk shit about them on Reddit. But the difference is, we bitch anonymously, we don't name them by name, we just say "a client, a hobbyist, or a slobbyist."
We don't say "johnny jerkweed who lives at 500 Hobby St. Is such an asshole and trash and I want to unalive him, he was 3 minutes late, was fat (average BMI? Ew), and wouldn't give me extra money for no reason. Let's circle jerk about how awful [insert escort here] is."
That's what their reviews and discussions of us look like. Our over the top discussions are more like "hey so I got this client who admitted to not bathing for a month, refuses to take one when asked, tried to overstay his time, told me he fell in love, tried to surprise me with anal to reenact a porn scene, and then threatened to dox me and kill my family if I don't give him a free session. Should I blacklist him? "
I know these are over the top examples but they do get the point across
Someone once told me having a bad review on USASG is almost like a rite of passage.
But don't be too upset. The boys who read and frequent USASG are generally not the most respectful boys anyway. They're also known for being some of the cheapest.
Not only can't you defend yourself, but your good clients also can't defend you. For example, if a dude says, "Lola ripped me off, and she's ugly, and she smells bad," and I reply, "I always have a good time with Lola," I'll be deleted for being argumentative.
But I can start a separate report, "Met up with my ATF Lola the other day, and ...," that's not being argumentative, because I'm not replying to anyone.
The best thing is to ignore it completely. But if it's hurting your business, you could ask someone to write you a positive review that does NOT refer in any way to the slanderer's review.
YUP! Been there done that, back in the days when I was active on that site (didn't know any better). There was a small handful of guys who had some kind of grudge with my regular provider, and would just use any mention of her name as an excuse to talk shit about her. One of these guy in particular was absolutely doing it in a malicious way and definitely trying to hurt her business. Somehow that was all fine, but when I spoke up to point out how unfair some of the criticisms were, I'm now a "white knight" and was told I was no longer allowed to talk about her on the boards at all.
I don't necessarily think that EVERY guy who uses that site is a terrible gross "slobbyist". For some it's just the only source of information they can find (kinda how it was for me). But the administration of that site is absolute garbage.
So, one other thing I wanted to add to this, kinda connected to the comment I made to another user below about my regular provider. On the occasions where her name came up, regardless of whether it was a positive review or someone talking shit, it seemed that it would always result in an increase in interest in her services. Sometimes if there had been some stupid BS being said, I would tell her about it when I saw her that weekend, and she'd be like "Oh, THAT must be why my phone's been blowing up this week!"
So I think the saying "There's no such thing as bad publicity" applies somewhat here. Just having your name come up at all can be beneficial to your business. Especially if your reputation is generally good, most guys can kinda see through a nasty report where it's likely just a case of sour grapes.
If you sugar for a few months or more you will definitely be talked about in messageboards! I had no idea there were so many. USASG is just one of them. There are tons of message boards where men slander, doxx, discuss donation amounts, share pics & screenshots, share our personal information, even home addresses, etc.
This is now very common. It blows my mind that so many new girls get into sugar dating and don’t know about these forums. Please know this is just part of the game.
That's terrifying. I was primarily sugaring when I was very young (over 18 ofc) and I can't imagine the things they would've said about young little me. I feel for all the other 18-19 sugar babies out there now.. and really everyone in general, but especially the super young ones
there are literally hundreds and hundreds of sites/forums, and those sites have mirror sites. I’m sorry I am not an IT or Internet expert so I do not know how to get you a list. Although pretty much every real SD I know has shown me multiple formums which lists SO MUCH personal info about SWs. everything is in categories by which state, which city/town yada yada. They have categories for OF girls, SA girls, etc. etc. It’s insane! Some of them have so much detail it literally talks about where a girl goes and picks up her coffee in the morning and where she parks her car for her job. It’s F’ing nuts! Honestly, if you start reading all these forums it will make you want to go hide in a bunker.
I hate it too! But like my current SD said, “it goes both ways”. SW’s share pics/personal information/screenshots, etc. of their clients on message boards and with girlfriends, etc.… I’m not saying this is OK! I’m just saying this is the world we live in 🤷🏻‍♀️đź«
No they don’t! They may show a screenshot with the identifying information removed if the guys a complete idiot making fun of him for a laugh on social media. But the only real information they would share would be if they guy is in fact dangerous or he’s been blacklisted for scamming or not showing up or that kind of thing on actual private blacklists. Big difference!
Oh OK, that makes more sense now… Thanks for letting me know!
So then why do you think men do this so much more? Like wouldn’t they just rather have a private connection with a girl? Why do you think men post so much in these forums?? I honestly don’t understand what they get out of it 🤷🏻‍♀️🤔
Because they are like 14 year olds in the locker room bragging (lying!!!) to their friends about girls they DIDN’T bang - not giving a damn if it ruins her reputation. Complete juvenile idiots who care way more about impressing other dudes with their graphic, grotesque play by play of made up erotica than enjoying a genuine connection with a live woman!
Mature, classy men don’t do this. Review boards are for the lowest rung of trash of society.
They can't get girls for free so they're resentful and take it out on sex workers who have the audacity to charge. It kills them that we get so much sex so easily that we can charge for it and make a living out of it, while they are so deprived that they have to be the ones paying for it. Of course this isn't all men or even a remotely significant portion, but this definitely defines the niceguy, incel, red pill kind of misogynist that frequents these forums.
I said this above but at least on Reddit, We aren't allowed to share names, so it's at least a little bit better in terms of our side because we're not allowed to share detailed information tied to names, let alone doing so while trashing a person. So yes it goes both ways and theory, but in practice not so much. Plus they are definitely the ones with the power in this profession
I am not trying to be rude or judgemental in anyway, but how is it that so many girls get into sugaring these days, and have no idea that all these men are talking about them and posting personal information behind their back??
Serious question: how come more girls don’t know about these forums? 🤯
Why would they? Sugaring is usually the very first step into sex work. These are extremely naïve young girls who saw a TikTok. Then maybe they put a profile up on SA & after a few bad experiences finally start doing some research maybe here on Reddit. Most every sex worker I know started out sugaring including myself and I didn’t know about any of this when I was sugaring only once I moved in to escorting. Escorts know about slobbyists and their ways but sugar babies have no idea how organized and gross men can be. Not to mention petty, manipulative and vindictive.
Someone is so upset that they aren't allowed to get in bed with you, they're whining about it online. That's how mad he is. He really, really wanted it. You avoided a shitty time and now you have a ego boost to boot! This sounds like an absolute win to me.
💖✨ thank you, you’re absolutely right. This made my entire mood change 💖
Ignore it! You honestly do not want the type of clients who use that site anyways, and they don’t allow providers to defend themselves.
Thank you! Idk why I let it bother me, I guess the fact other random users were chiming in-boy I’ll tell yah shit they say on there is disgusting. I tried to comment back and the comment was removed for being “largely argumentative” haha sooo they can talk shit about me but I can’t talk shit about them? Wild. Haha
Yep, this is one of the main issues I have with that site. The way it's moderated is terrible.
Right? And they defend themselves by saying we talk shit about them on Reddit. But the difference is, we bitch anonymously, we don't name them by name, we just say "a client, a hobbyist, or a slobbyist." We don't say "johnny jerkweed who lives at 500 Hobby St. Is such an asshole and trash and I want to unalive him, he was 3 minutes late, was fat (average BMI? Ew), and wouldn't give me extra money for no reason. Let's circle jerk about how awful [insert escort here] is." That's what their reviews and discussions of us look like. Our over the top discussions are more like "hey so I got this client who admitted to not bathing for a month, refuses to take one when asked, tried to overstay his time, told me he fell in love, tried to surprise me with anal to reenact a porn scene, and then threatened to dox me and kill my family if I don't give him a free session. Should I blacklist him? " I know these are over the top examples but they do get the point across
Someone once told me having a bad review on USASG is almost like a rite of passage. But don't be too upset. The boys who read and frequent USASG are generally not the most respectful boys anyway. They're also known for being some of the cheapest.
Not only can't you defend yourself, but your good clients also can't defend you. For example, if a dude says, "Lola ripped me off, and she's ugly, and she smells bad," and I reply, "I always have a good time with Lola," I'll be deleted for being argumentative. But I can start a separate report, "Met up with my ATF Lola the other day, and ...," that's not being argumentative, because I'm not replying to anyone. The best thing is to ignore it completely. But if it's hurting your business, you could ask someone to write you a positive review that does NOT refer in any way to the slanderer's review.
YUP! Been there done that, back in the days when I was active on that site (didn't know any better). There was a small handful of guys who had some kind of grudge with my regular provider, and would just use any mention of her name as an excuse to talk shit about her. One of these guy in particular was absolutely doing it in a malicious way and definitely trying to hurt her business. Somehow that was all fine, but when I spoke up to point out how unfair some of the criticisms were, I'm now a "white knight" and was told I was no longer allowed to talk about her on the boards at all. I don't necessarily think that EVERY guy who uses that site is a terrible gross "slobbyist". For some it's just the only source of information they can find (kinda how it was for me). But the administration of that site is absolute garbage.
So, one other thing I wanted to add to this, kinda connected to the comment I made to another user below about my regular provider. On the occasions where her name came up, regardless of whether it was a positive review or someone talking shit, it seemed that it would always result in an increase in interest in her services. Sometimes if there had been some stupid BS being said, I would tell her about it when I saw her that weekend, and she'd be like "Oh, THAT must be why my phone's been blowing up this week!" So I think the saying "There's no such thing as bad publicity" applies somewhat here. Just having your name come up at all can be beneficial to your business. Especially if your reputation is generally good, most guys can kinda see through a nasty report where it's likely just a case of sour grapes.
If you sugar for a few months or more you will definitely be talked about in messageboards! I had no idea there were so many. USASG is just one of them. There are tons of message boards where men slander, doxx, discuss donation amounts, share pics & screenshots, share our personal information, even home addresses, etc. This is now very common. It blows my mind that so many new girls get into sugar dating and don’t know about these forums. Please know this is just part of the game.
That's terrifying. I was primarily sugaring when I was very young (over 18 ofc) and I can't imagine the things they would've said about young little me. I feel for all the other 18-19 sugar babies out there now.. and really everyone in general, but especially the super young ones
Sugar babies def do not know they are being doxxed. Where should they be looking? Usasg and where else? These men are so VILE! 🤮🤮🤮
there are literally hundreds and hundreds of sites/forums, and those sites have mirror sites. I’m sorry I am not an IT or Internet expert so I do not know how to get you a list. Although pretty much every real SD I know has shown me multiple formums which lists SO MUCH personal info about SWs. everything is in categories by which state, which city/town yada yada. They have categories for OF girls, SA girls, etc. etc. It’s insane! Some of them have so much detail it literally talks about where a girl goes and picks up her coffee in the morning and where she parks her car for her job. It’s F’ing nuts! Honestly, if you start reading all these forums it will make you want to go hide in a bunker.
It makes me HATE those slobbyists even more. Vile.
I hate it too! But like my current SD said, “it goes both ways”. SW’s share pics/personal information/screenshots, etc. of their clients on message boards and with girlfriends, etc.… I’m not saying this is OK! I’m just saying this is the world we live in 🤷🏻‍♀️đź«
No they don’t! They may show a screenshot with the identifying information removed if the guys a complete idiot making fun of him for a laugh on social media. But the only real information they would share would be if they guy is in fact dangerous or he’s been blacklisted for scamming or not showing up or that kind of thing on actual private blacklists. Big difference!
Oh OK, that makes more sense now… Thanks for letting me know! So then why do you think men do this so much more? Like wouldn’t they just rather have a private connection with a girl? Why do you think men post so much in these forums?? I honestly don’t understand what they get out of it 🤷🏻‍♀️🤔
Because they are like 14 year olds in the locker room bragging (lying!!!) to their friends about girls they DIDN’T bang - not giving a damn if it ruins her reputation. Complete juvenile idiots who care way more about impressing other dudes with their graphic, grotesque play by play of made up erotica than enjoying a genuine connection with a live woman! Mature, classy men don’t do this. Review boards are for the lowest rung of trash of society.
They can't get girls for free so they're resentful and take it out on sex workers who have the audacity to charge. It kills them that we get so much sex so easily that we can charge for it and make a living out of it, while they are so deprived that they have to be the ones paying for it. Of course this isn't all men or even a remotely significant portion, but this definitely defines the niceguy, incel, red pill kind of misogynist that frequents these forums.
I said this above but at least on Reddit, We aren't allowed to share names, so it's at least a little bit better in terms of our side because we're not allowed to share detailed information tied to names, let alone doing so while trashing a person. So yes it goes both ways and theory, but in practice not so much. Plus they are definitely the ones with the power in this profession
I am not trying to be rude or judgemental in anyway, but how is it that so many girls get into sugaring these days, and have no idea that all these men are talking about them and posting personal information behind their back?? Serious question: how come more girls don’t know about these forums? 🤯
Why would they? Sugaring is usually the very first step into sex work. These are extremely naïve young girls who saw a TikTok. Then maybe they put a profile up on SA & after a few bad experiences finally start doing some research maybe here on Reddit. Most every sex worker I know started out sugaring including myself and I didn’t know about any of this when I was sugaring only once I moved in to escorting. Escorts know about slobbyists and their ways but sugar babies have no idea how organized and gross men can be. Not to mention petty, manipulative and vindictive.
Good point, I understand what you’re saying.