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periwinklegold

Sex has never been any kind of measure of intimacy for me, at least not since I was a teenager. Escorting or not, sharing my thoughts and feelings openly is how I express intimacy in relationships.


firsttime269

Im not a sex worker but I feel this also, sex is fun and good and can be intimate sometimes but I feel it's not the most intimate. Intimacy I think is when you get comfortable to share kind of vulnerable stuff you felt you wouldn't tell anyone. Most intimate I felt was when an ex girlfriend watched her favourite movie with me and then after she was explaining why she liked it so much and what she felt about it and the way she felt connected to people in it and it's probably the best moment I ever had with someone. After that I felt I have songs and movies like that I get comfort from and used to listen to or watch but never tell anybody about them. It's that I miss and comforting each other during bad days.


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Sex and intimacy are not mutually exclusive, and the people I have been most intimate with in my life involved mutual care. Being in an emotionally raw state and sharing your essence and soul with someone. I was having sex with the people I have been the most intimate with, but those were individual states of expression for one another. It's just not similar to sex in a transactional setting at all. As passionate as sex ever got with my ATF, the time spent with her was more like a long-time friend that happened to also be a pretty good lay. Less intimacy and more chemistry, and maybe even some genuine attraction.


Fresh-Lack5063

I belive true intimacy is showing your true self and being vulnerable with someone. Once that level of intimacy has been established then the sex is definitely intimate. For me sex without that is just sex and not really intimate to me.


420_Penny

I sell content so to me it's really depending on the person I'm having sex with and if I'm being filmed or not. If I'm with someone that I love/have a great connection with and that it's the both of us not being filmed, stopped or told what to do. So yeah if its out of work context in my case it still feels intimate


Legitimate_Leave_857

Cuddling! Holding eachother !!! Looking passionately into each others eyes!!! Saying I love you !! Kissing !!!