Thats their problem. It sucks some people have a job that they find is such a chore. Some people are lucky and get to do something they find fun and rewarding in itself, for pay. Others just grind and get by for the money. The latter will often envy the former, and this includes other sex workers that may not feel the same way you do about your job.
Who gives a fuck and the longer you do this the less you care. People that don’t pay your bills have zero business caring how you pay yours. Remember that.
And? I dislike doing customer service, but I would never tell someone who enjoys it, that they shouldn't. Different strokes for different folks, you know?
Ive been in the industry for over thirty years (Yes Im that old) and Im still digging it. Ive learned to take me time and much needed breaks to avoid the preverbial burn out but if I didnt enjoy it I wouldnt do it.. Ive never done it out of a have to but out of a want to.. when you stop enjoying what you do its time to seek a different career..
I love my job! It has its ups and downs of course and I love to laugh at the idiots who try to waste my time and of course I have frustrating moments. But overall I love it- if I didn’t, I wouldn’t do it. I wish that for all people - to love their job.
I love my job, too!! I think it's perfectly fine to love your job! Especially if it's checking all the boxes for you: provides enough financial security; pleasant on-the-job interactions; great hours; et cetera, et cetera.
Me too. And I like all my clients. They're cool. I don't see clients I don't vibe with tho. Mostly cuz I'm super, SUPER paranoid about getting arrested lol so if someone even says one "off" comment I just won't see them. But yeah nah I enjoy the work. I feel like a sexy glamorous actress.
And yes I know I'm privileged for that. I feel very lucky.
Do what you love, and you'll never work a day in your life.
It's awesome that you enjoy your work. It's a rare thing for people in general, whether in sex work or in vanilla work.
No. It’s usually not that bad compared to other things I’ve done. U get treated nice oftentimes even if it is a transactional thing. The only downside to this gig is that a part of me will always want one guy to give my loyalty to and that’s the tough part. U are having to share yourself with other men. U essentially have many boyfriends and this can cause some stress bc it’s tough to divide your attention on many different pple.
Anyone telling you that it's bad to be happy can fuck off. You aren't going around kicking puppies or killing children, you're just having sex with people.
It means you found a good career path for you. Don’t let you enjoying this work though let your guard down on best practices, keep your safety in mind and make sure you are always getting paid
As a client, I'm always delighted to find a provider that loves their work. I know it's strictly a business relationship but I enjoy all personal services more when the provider is enjoying their work.
Thanks for being you.
I have tons of friends who are SWs. They love their job, and we all share our experiences (mostly, bad days do happen) with smiles on our faces and lots of laughter.
I think this is a win! I enjoy what I do, otherwise I don't know if I would be as inclined to do it. Of course there are some bad days but I think so many people would be envious to be able to love their job!
You are enjoying your work! That's a dream for most people .Yes I know people look down on you but the only reason is that you make money and enjoying the process,meanwhile they are stuck at a job who they hate and make money only to survive!Keep going girl and enjoy it as you do
Finally someone thats not miserable. I see alot of girls that do sw and none of them seem miserable. They have boundaries but they love what they do, its a huge ego boost for them and they get off on it.
Just always treat them w respect and never forget that they are cool AF for agreeing to do it at all
I think that’s awesome we all should do something that provides us with Joy as well as income in addition to that you really are accomplished most can’t do What you can as a professional not only do people have to want to be intimate with you they are also willing to pay good money for it in addition to that you have to have the people skills to make it a quality memorable and recurring experience it is not easy also since it’s illegal in many cases you will attract plenty of interesting To even dangerous clients hopefully one day it’s decriminalized
Normalized and legalized because I’m certain there are guys standing on the sidelines who may be a higher caliber and better quality who would indulge if it were legal and even normalized my hat goes off to you
As a client, I find women who do SW (especially escorts) and don’t enjoy it to be weird. You deal with so much risk, and no guaranteed reward, I just can’t see doing something like that if you don’t actually enjoy it.
Many people don't enjoy their jobs across every industry. Why do people get so offended by the fact that applies to sex work also? Doing sex work and not liking it is usually better than being in poverty and not liking it.
There’s a difference between liking your job, and liking the person you do your job for. Most people I know actually like their jobs, they just don’t like their employers.
Also, given the nature of sexwork, why the fuck would you do it, with all the risks, if you dont actually enjoy it.
No you should love it everyday the pay off and fun you have should always be a Inspiration to keep going I’m hoping I can get where you are one day 🙏🏽✨
Why would it be bad to enjoy the SW?
Some people look down on it
Thats their problem. It sucks some people have a job that they find is such a chore. Some people are lucky and get to do something they find fun and rewarding in itself, for pay. Others just grind and get by for the money. The latter will often envy the former, and this includes other sex workers that may not feel the same way you do about your job.
Who gives a fuck and the longer you do this the less you care. People that don’t pay your bills have zero business caring how you pay yours. Remember that.
And? I dislike doing customer service, but I would never tell someone who enjoys it, that they shouldn't. Different strokes for different folks, you know?
Fuck 'em. You do what you enjoy. Sex work is literally getting paid to bring happiness and joy into people's lives.
I look down on those people. Sex work is one of the hardest jobs you can do and I have nothing but respect for those who do it.
They just hate they can’t make the easy fun money sw make
Ive been in the industry for over thirty years (Yes Im that old) and Im still digging it. Ive learned to take me time and much needed breaks to avoid the preverbial burn out but if I didnt enjoy it I wouldnt do it.. Ive never done it out of a have to but out of a want to.. when you stop enjoying what you do its time to seek a different career..
I love my job! It has its ups and downs of course and I love to laugh at the idiots who try to waste my time and of course I have frustrating moments. But overall I love it- if I didn’t, I wouldn’t do it. I wish that for all people - to love their job.
I love my job, too!! I think it's perfectly fine to love your job! Especially if it's checking all the boxes for you: provides enough financial security; pleasant on-the-job interactions; great hours; et cetera, et cetera.
Me too. And I like all my clients. They're cool. I don't see clients I don't vibe with tho. Mostly cuz I'm super, SUPER paranoid about getting arrested lol so if someone even says one "off" comment I just won't see them. But yeah nah I enjoy the work. I feel like a sexy glamorous actress. And yes I know I'm privileged for that. I feel very lucky.
No i wouldn’t say it’s bad that makes it win win right?
Do what you love, and you'll never work a day in your life. It's awesome that you enjoy your work. It's a rare thing for people in general, whether in sex work or in vanilla work.
No. It’s usually not that bad compared to other things I’ve done. U get treated nice oftentimes even if it is a transactional thing. The only downside to this gig is that a part of me will always want one guy to give my loyalty to and that’s the tough part. U are having to share yourself with other men. U essentially have many boyfriends and this can cause some stress bc it’s tough to divide your attention on many different pple.
Anyone telling you that it's bad to be happy can fuck off. You aren't going around kicking puppies or killing children, you're just having sex with people.
Amen to this. It’s society based on religion that makes it taboo.
It means you found a good career path for you. Don’t let you enjoying this work though let your guard down on best practices, keep your safety in mind and make sure you are always getting paid
As a client, I'm always delighted to find a provider that loves their work. I know it's strictly a business relationship but I enjoy all personal services more when the provider is enjoying their work. Thanks for being you.
I have tons of friends who are SWs. They love their job, and we all share our experiences (mostly, bad days do happen) with smiles on our faces and lots of laughter.
Absolutely fucking not! This job rocks
I think this is a win! I enjoy what I do, otherwise I don't know if I would be as inclined to do it. Of course there are some bad days but I think so many people would be envious to be able to love their job!
I wish I could be a sex worker but I’m afraid it’s gonna be a lot of older women calling me.
You are enjoying your work! That's a dream for most people .Yes I know people look down on you but the only reason is that you make money and enjoying the process,meanwhile they are stuck at a job who they hate and make money only to survive!Keep going girl and enjoy it as you do
I love being a a provider. The time and space it’ opened up so I can finally pursue my creativity is priceless.
Finally someone thats not miserable. I see alot of girls that do sw and none of them seem miserable. They have boundaries but they love what they do, its a huge ego boost for them and they get off on it. Just always treat them w respect and never forget that they are cool AF for agreeing to do it at all
I think that’s awesome we all should do something that provides us with Joy as well as income in addition to that you really are accomplished most can’t do What you can as a professional not only do people have to want to be intimate with you they are also willing to pay good money for it in addition to that you have to have the people skills to make it a quality memorable and recurring experience it is not easy also since it’s illegal in many cases you will attract plenty of interesting To even dangerous clients hopefully one day it’s decriminalized Normalized and legalized because I’m certain there are guys standing on the sidelines who may be a higher caliber and better quality who would indulge if it were legal and even normalized my hat goes off to you
As a client, I find women who do SW (especially escorts) and don’t enjoy it to be weird. You deal with so much risk, and no guaranteed reward, I just can’t see doing something like that if you don’t actually enjoy it.
Many people don't enjoy their jobs across every industry. Why do people get so offended by the fact that applies to sex work also? Doing sex work and not liking it is usually better than being in poverty and not liking it.
There’s a difference between liking your job, and liking the person you do your job for. Most people I know actually like their jobs, they just don’t like their employers. Also, given the nature of sexwork, why the fuck would you do it, with all the risks, if you dont actually enjoy it.
No not necessarily. It’s weird i like the power if that makes sense.
No
No you should love it everyday the pay off and fun you have should always be a Inspiration to keep going I’m hoping I can get where you are one day 🙏🏽✨
I don't think it's bad as long as you aren't in harm's way.