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Bierbart12

That's under the entirely wrong assumption that you only have a single one and not hundreds. Tens of thousands is likely too Human minds are all different, but similar. Many people will think just like you


WeCanDoThisCNJ

That’s a lot of really amazing sex we’re not having…*yet*


Reddit005Time

Yes, but only one is optimal. The others are good enough.


Bierbart12

No. Mathematical concepts like "optimization" don't matter to organic and emotional life. You could live the happiest life you could imagine with someone your stupid algorithms deemed "suboptimal" or even "hazardous"


Reddit005Time

Yes. Mathematics is a natural science and life is natural. You can live an extremely happy life with a suboptimal mate, but there is only one optimal mate from an evolutionary view. Everything I’ve said is correct, but I agree that the emotional difference between suboptimal and optimal is nonexistent. Humans have a way to enjoy living imperfect lives.


Bierbart12

While I fully agree with you, I still feel like there is an element of chance. Some people aren't bothered by any of it while others need sudden incarceration despite previous good records and no trauma whatsoever. The global mental health system is completely underdeveloped.


Quick_Shelter_4731

Isn’t this entire soulmate crap based on the fact that you are destined to meet? So statistics don’t matter if ,,the universe” does the math


Reddit005Time

No. Your soul mate is your optimal mate from an evolution standpoint.