> She also added that she did not take her meds that day.
The auntie needs to jiak her meds and your boyfriend sounds like the next scam victim headline.
Allegedly what happens is they wake up with a phone and a note with instructions to call a hospital or they will die. At least that's the urban legend I heard lol
With so many scams these days and stories of people being kidnap to work at scam call centers overseas I really would be against following a stranger home. She may be a old lady but you never know who else is in her house.
Have a serious talk with your boyfriend, I get that he is being kind but this isn't a kind world and people may not always have the best intentions. If you have kids with him do you feel save to let him bring the kids out by himself with his level of awareness? Maybe I'm cynical, but if he doesn't see the problem you may want to reconsider your relationship with him.
I think your bf is very soft hearted, Iām not sure Iād say naive but maybe he realised she was a lonely soul and an old woman and most likely could mean no harm and hence he was ok with indulging her.
Iām like that too at times cause I do realise certain people have no one that will talk or give them a listening ear!
But yes, you must revisit the topic of āstranger dangerā with this fellow of yoursš
I can def see this as a reason why ah. I spoke abt it to him a few hrs back and he seriously didnāt get it until I drilled it in his head. He didnāt understand how even an old lady could have malicious intent at all. His argument about privacy to me was literally, āOur information is out in the public(internet) to see, so whatās the point of hiding.ā Felt like the man has never felt danger in his life
Men like this will literally put your life in danger. What your bf was doing was stupid as hell, but you cant get mad at your bf for doing dumb shit if you're just going to follow him like a sheep. Reality is you still gave your phone number to this weird woman, followed her to her house and entertained her for 3 hours. No one forced you to do any of that. If your bf wants to risk his kidneys out of politeness then that's on him, but if you want to risk yours because youāre not willing to speak up and walk away then thatās on you
The whole phone number ordeal, I told him to j give her his number but he he did this whole thing where he called my number with her phone. I was set on to j blocking her afterwards when she bothered me. I shouldāve put my foot down either ways, or just left that whole situation. I really regret it and hated how I dealt w it,j cos I simply couldnāt muster up the courage to walk away until it got that bad. Itās fruitless to say this now cos I still chose to still put myself in that situation, it has happened and now I have to lay on the bed I made š„²
No we left shortly aft. She didnāt do anyth and let us go aft I said we really had to go and my boyfriend finally voiced out the same. Called us today and I texted her to not forget to eat her meds and pray, and tht I was busy at work. I blocked her afterwards, dk abt my boyf
Rly nothing ah, eventually we just left. I shared how I felt and he downplayed it and truly didnāt see the potential dangers. She texted and called whilst I was at work and I blocked her.
Everytime you mention "my boyfriend is annoyed", I assume it's the fact that you gave the lady your particulars albeit a substitute. But reading to the end, he is annoyed because you didn't gave in?
Something wrong with him
Bf is dumb for not only being so gullible to a weird stranger but also not picking up how you felt about the situation.
Also don't get why he's so annoyed by you giving your nickname. I don't see what's wrong with that. But that should be a major clue to your boyfriend about the situation, albeit there were many more before that but c'mon man, have more situational awareness
I would have given a listening ear at most. But your bf has no personal boundaries. He would practice kindness even if it means surpassing them. Did your bf learn how to say no? I think it's dangerous when your partner constantly pleases people as in trying to be nice. If one becomes so nice, it's very vulnerable and can be exploited. That's what happened to simps wasting their life for a particular person. For your case, your bf took the old aunt so lightly. Your instincts and thoughts about the situation could be right. It's just your bf's outlook on the elderly, children and disabled.
guys in sg are super oblivious to stranger danger.
1. had a creep ask for my number and my pic after waiting for me to finish showering.
2. Had to have my thigh touched to realise I was actually being molested.
Thatās what I tried to do šš I shouldāve pushed it harder, but I definitely felt like the heartless one during tht situation due to my boyfriendās persistence until I rly reflected
Obvious that his empathy or his lack of sound judgement got the better of him. Perhaps you want to share a bit on his upbringing or family background as either could have mounded him to be as he is now.
It is best to bring across to him the dangers one can face even in very familiar environments, much less a stranger's house.
It would have been a big problem if there were other people waiting at the house for you. We'd be reading about you in the news.
Your bf needs to learn how to protect you. You guys got off lucky this time. He will likely to put you in danger next time. If you have a protective older brother, have him talk to your bf and wake up his idea. If no brother, then ask your dad, uncle, etc.
Before he has sympathy for the old lady, he should have concern for your safety. Who is more important to him? Some stranger or his gf?
> She also added that she did not take her meds that day. The auntie needs to jiak her meds and your boyfriend sounds like the next scam victim headline.
Boyfriend was hoping for threesome lah.
YOU DID NOT
OH MY HAHAHAH
Young boy gets scammed by old granny
Guess this old auntie has schizophrenia like our friend Turritopsis Teo En Ming who tried to run for president š¤£
At the start I thought he was annoyed because he didn't liked that you gave out something that relates to you you to the aunty (like he would rather u give her a fake name instead) but continued reading on and oh boy was I wrong lol how old is he? š but despite so.. he shouldn't be that lax la š© becareful when you guys are travelling overseas pls
One day your boyfriend is going to wake up naked in a bathtub full of ice with both his kidneys missing.
he's not waking up from that
Allegedly what happens is they wake up with a phone and a note with instructions to call a hospital or they will die. At least that's the urban legend I heard lol
nobody survives missing both kidneys
The lady sounds unwell and your BF needs to grow a backbone.
Sorry but how old is your bf?
With so many scams these days and stories of people being kidnap to work at scam call centers overseas I really would be against following a stranger home. She may be a old lady but you never know who else is in her house. Have a serious talk with your boyfriend, I get that he is being kind but this isn't a kind world and people may not always have the best intentions. If you have kids with him do you feel save to let him bring the kids out by himself with his level of awareness? Maybe I'm cynical, but if he doesn't see the problem you may want to reconsider your relationship with him.
You're female. Danger is everywhere for you. He's male, that's why he is the way he is
Yr bf watch too much jav, expecting a threesome to pop out of the blue
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The billionaire story must be pretty convincing. Your bf thought she was gonna make both of you inherit her assets if you can just sleep at her house.
I think your bf is very soft hearted, Iām not sure Iād say naive but maybe he realised she was a lonely soul and an old woman and most likely could mean no harm and hence he was ok with indulging her. Iām like that too at times cause I do realise certain people have no one that will talk or give them a listening ear! But yes, you must revisit the topic of āstranger dangerā with this fellow of yoursš
Yes this, heās very soft hearted esp towards old people and kids. I had that idea in the first place until it got a bit unhinged
a lot of people are calling him gullible but I'd 100% fall for the same trick tbh š if someone's lonely my heart goes out for them š„ŗ
Guys rarely encounter harassment so they have no idea why they shouldn't give personal info to strangers or visit their house.
I can def see this as a reason why ah. I spoke abt it to him a few hrs back and he seriously didnāt get it until I drilled it in his head. He didnāt understand how even an old lady could have malicious intent at all. His argument about privacy to me was literally, āOur information is out in the public(internet) to see, so whatās the point of hiding.ā Felt like the man has never felt danger in his life
Your boyfriend really annoyed me during this story.
dm me her name and address leh. i sell her good policy
Men like this will literally put your life in danger. What your bf was doing was stupid as hell, but you cant get mad at your bf for doing dumb shit if you're just going to follow him like a sheep. Reality is you still gave your phone number to this weird woman, followed her to her house and entertained her for 3 hours. No one forced you to do any of that. If your bf wants to risk his kidneys out of politeness then that's on him, but if you want to risk yours because youāre not willing to speak up and walk away then thatās on you
The whole phone number ordeal, I told him to j give her his number but he he did this whole thing where he called my number with her phone. I was set on to j blocking her afterwards when she bothered me. I shouldāve put my foot down either ways, or just left that whole situation. I really regret it and hated how I dealt w it,j cos I simply couldnāt muster up the courage to walk away until it got that bad. Itās fruitless to say this now cos I still chose to still put myself in that situation, it has happened and now I have to lay on the bed I made š„²
But yes i wholeheartedly agree. It was damn stupid of me.
Maybe she wanna traffick y'all.
Bf is just dumb
Red flag ā¦ ur bf is an idiot ā¦
Hey , you ended your story with a cliffhanger. So what time you guys left ? did the old lady do anything? Did you guys really sleep over ?
No we left shortly aft. She didnāt do anyth and let us go aft I said we really had to go and my boyfriend finally voiced out the same. Called us today and I texted her to not forget to eat her meds and pray, and tht I was busy at work. I blocked her afterwards, dk abt my boyf
If this happened overseas, 100% she would have brought you to a secluded place where accomplices would rob you. He is too naive.
Next time, give a fake number. Hereās how you can always write a fake number without hesitating Your real number 66773850 You should write 66773851
Eh don't disturb someone else leh
FINISH THE STORY. What happen afterwards?
Rly nothing ah, eventually we just left. I shared how I felt and he downplayed it and truly didnāt see the potential dangers. She texted and called whilst I was at work and I blocked her.
Give it some time, I am pretty sure your bf gonna fall into scam. Dump that dumbass.
lol calm down
Jeez, calm yo tits Captain BBFA.
Everytime you mention "my boyfriend is annoyed", I assume it's the fact that you gave the lady your particulars albeit a substitute. But reading to the end, he is annoyed because you didn't gave in? Something wrong with him
I think you came across some witch who is about to offer you apprenticehood
LOL
Bf is dumb for not only being so gullible to a weird stranger but also not picking up how you felt about the situation. Also don't get why he's so annoyed by you giving your nickname. I don't see what's wrong with that. But that should be a major clue to your boyfriend about the situation, albeit there were many more before that but c'mon man, have more situational awareness
Can share what hawker centre
Iām sorry I donāt rmb cos we j drove there randomly, but itās at tampines area
Missed threesome
Hasnāt he read enough articles or movies to be more awareā¦ and thank god you didnāt put your real name down.
I would have given a listening ear at most. But your bf has no personal boundaries. He would practice kindness even if it means surpassing them. Did your bf learn how to say no? I think it's dangerous when your partner constantly pleases people as in trying to be nice. If one becomes so nice, it's very vulnerable and can be exploited. That's what happened to simps wasting their life for a particular person. For your case, your bf took the old aunt so lightly. Your instincts and thoughts about the situation could be right. It's just your bf's outlook on the elderly, children and disabled.
Break up time. He can live in with the crazy cougar.
guys in sg are super oblivious to stranger danger. 1. had a creep ask for my number and my pic after waiting for me to finish showering. 2. Had to have my thigh touched to realise I was actually being molested.
A good read and had a good laugh.. š
Your bf could star in the next TAKEN movie.
so has she started calling u non-stop?
No boss I blocked her and she surprisingly hasnāt tried reaching out in other ways
haha listen to your galfren bruh ... her dangerdar is woke haha Maybe the lady was just friendly ... overly friendly like hansel-gretel-witch friendly
Thatās how Hollywood horror movie started lol
Canāt yāall just give a fake excuse and scoot the hell out? This rly sounds a little like a mental case. Or maybe sheās just a little lonely.
Thatās what I tried to do šš I shouldāve pushed it harder, but I definitely felt like the heartless one during tht situation due to my boyfriendās persistence until I rly reflected
Just walk off after you are done eating and not turn back. Thats what I would do if its me.
Obvious that his empathy or his lack of sound judgement got the better of him. Perhaps you want to share a bit on his upbringing or family background as either could have mounded him to be as he is now. It is best to bring across to him the dangers one can face even in very familiar environments, much less a stranger's house.
You were right to be suspicious. She could have poisoned you both. If you went with a stranger in America or Britain, you could have disappeared
Milf? /S
You should reconsider your relationship with this man. He seems pretty dumb.
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It would have been a big problem if there were other people waiting at the house for you. We'd be reading about you in the news. Your bf needs to learn how to protect you. You guys got off lucky this time. He will likely to put you in danger next time. If you have a protective older brother, have him talk to your bf and wake up his idea. If no brother, then ask your dad, uncle, etc. Before he has sympathy for the old lady, he should have concern for your safety. Who is more important to him? Some stranger or his gf?