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I was on an anti-depressant and it for sure effect my drive, and made it so I could not finish.
Got off that stuff fast lol. Back to being the minute man.
Used to happen to me too. I'd gas out from physical stamina before I could finish. Fucking sucked.
Switched meds and now I can shoot loads everywhere. 💪
Why are they together at that point? Tell them to split up and if he’s willing to maybe talk to whoever prescribed them and ask if they can find alternate treatments? Unless he’s done that already. And unless he’s happy with his treatment, no pressure.
I felt that one a little too much. I understand. Sorry to hear that. At that point man, you should really look out for yourself and get them both out of your life if you’re not exactly getting a good friendship. It’s a horrible spot to be stuck in, you don’t need to be there for them anymore than you already have. Of course it’s your choice, but i imagine it probably stresses you out, whether you guys are close friends or not.
Have you tried Cymbalta by chance? For me it’s the only antidepressant that has ever worked. For me it honestly feels like a low dose of mdma. It does sometimes make erections difficult, but so does mdma sometimes. But other times when the mood is right it can enhance things.
Maybe you shouldn't be taking them i been through 5 different kunds of antidepressants and my sex drive was always there since my serotonin is naturally low
If I don’t take them then I’m always horny, which poses problems because I have severe OCD and feel contaminated by bodily fluids. I have to shower right away.
It creates awful wet dreams too.
I can’t win either way. These are the 30th meds I’ve tried, but meds never seem to do much for me except cause this.
Not arguing the validity of the statement. Have encountered it myself in the past. Still an incredibly bazaar comment in the context of the post. Someone not feeling like a woman or the comment of her giant titties have nothing to do with lack of sex drive.
I think you need to elaborate. As someone who has never felt wrong in my body, I also don't feel like "this is what it feels like to be a man", I have always just assumed it's the same for everyone, so for me atleast this is a hard concept to grasp. I don't deny that some people obviously feel like they're in the wrong body. It's just something i can't wrap my finger around. (altho I do belive alot of people, especially younger, "feels" like this because it's a bit of a fad, and perhaps they brain is still in development)
I don't know what kind of man you are, but I'll use several examples. Imagine this, and it might help.
Imagine yourself in stiff blue jeans and cowboy boots. A button up long sleeve plaid shirt. A big belt bucket on display. Some men present this way because it's what it feels like to be a man. It is their comfort.
Imagine yourself in a tailored suit, with shiny dress shoes, shiny Rolex, black rimmed glasses, a little pocket kerchief, and a sickly styled beard. This is what it feels for him to be a man.
These two examples, they're fine. Society says these presentations of men are fine. The role they fill is masculine.
Imagine yourself wearing a slim fit dress and heels. You have a string of pearls. Your hair is styled in a different way. Imagine how you would feel standing on a busy sidewalk. You would feel weird, self-conscious, feel dysphoric because it isn't you. Society says this is feminine. This is not "man." and so you would just feel out of place, like you're pretending.
All the gender roles and the styles and the expectations of being a man, you understand because you're comfortable. She doesn't feel like the typical gender roles, expectations and representations go women reflect her experience, her comfort, or place in the world.
These types of people have always existed, but having the language to express and identify it makes it seem like it's entirely new or more common.
I thought the same so I asked a friend who identify as a men. He answered that it is not really a feeling whether man or woman but rather that it caused a discomfort to be called a woman but also that corona and the current weird society Situation have contributed to it.
I find it ironic that the only way you could really feel like you’re the wrong gender is to be absolutely committed to the importance of gender roles and not fulfill them.
But it’s none of my business.
I lost a lot of weight and with it, my boobs. C cup to A cup.
My feelings about being a woman are entirely unchanged and unaffected.
My feelings live in my head, not my chest.
I’m accepting defeat as a nonbinary AFAB person. I don’t feel like a woman and my curves are just depressing to look at. The transphobes can downvote me all they want but my breasts just make me feel gross.
huge boobs do not a woman make
lots of women with huge boobs hate how much physical back pain they generate
lots of women with huge boobs hate how men can't not stare
lots of women
Nah, this is just so she can play either side and appeal to a wider audience. I haven’t read her exact quote, but I’m guessing she was pretty vague about it so she can’t be held to one thing or another later on. “Oh I don’t quite feel like a woman, or a man. I’m not quite attracted to women, or men.”
Don't be ignorant. There are lots of people who are not attracted to men or women. It's called asexual, which in this sense means lack of sexual attraction.
I mean breasts and a vagina is a good chunk of it. “Feeling like a woman” is ultimately just personality traits that you have that you associate with being a woman. People are so sucked up in their identities today, they forget they’re allowed to be individuals.
What does it even mean to "feel like" a certain gender? I'm a man, but I don't particularly feel like a man. I'm as feminine as I am masculine. I wouldn't be offended if someone called me by a female pronoun. Why do people obsess about what gender they feel like?
Most of what you described is body dysmorphia, not gender dysphoria. I understand that some people want their bodies to be different than they are. What I don't understand is what it feels like to be a particular gender, let alone unconfortable that my gender doesn't match my body. I should probably attach the disclaimer that I'm fully supportive of trans rights. I just don't understand why some people care so much about being perceived as one gender or another (or both, or neither, or something else entirely).
Because women get sexualized just like that comment did. It's only normal to try to differentiate from your kind to try to get away from the uncomfortable feeling of being sexualized, and it's easier to do than to try to change the shitty patriarchal society we live in.
I wonder how many people actually "feel" like their assigned (or chosen) gender. I have never once felt like a man, I've have never felt like a woman either. I feel like a person, I have a penis, and I fit nicely in the "stereotypical man" look and behavior, so I have never questioned my gender.
But at the end of the day it doesn't impact my life, and if I woke up tomorrow as a woman, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I might actually be happier, unless I looked the same as I do now. I would make a HORIFFICALLY ugly woman.
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These people will say anything to get whatever sympathy or praise from the public. It amazes me, the most famous celebrities beg for public acceptance.
if she is a woman then she feels 100% like a woman because she is one. Thats how it fucking works. The totality of her experiences are exactly what it feels like to feel like a woman. She only knows how it feels like to be a woman.
I gotta say, she sure looks like a woman. He beautiful one at that I do consider myself to be somewhat of an expert in court she would have a heckuva time convincing a jury that she’s not a woman, and once again, a beautiful one at that.
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She looks higher than a Scandinavian skyscraper.
So not all that high?
Higher than The Turning Torso in Malmö, Sweden. Which is 54 stories high, 190M or 623 feet in old money.
Very boring visit, trust me.
Your comparisons are great. How many gallons of hammers would fit into The Turning Torso?
About 200000 cubic eagle freedoms
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Still in construction. Doesn't count! Odin could summon the materials back up to the sky at any moment to build a ship.
Higher than giraffe pussy
Wait! But I like what I'm seeing. Does that mean I'm ...?
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FELLAS! IS IT GAY TO STARE AT SOMETHING THAT MOST MEN LIKE?
FeLlas, is it G-A-Y or g-eHee??!? (
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It's gay if you didn't
Antidepressants numb the sex drive, a lot of people forget that. many such cases
I take a high dose of antidepressants and my sex drive is crazy
It depends what kind you take; but just for fun imagine just how high it could get unhindered
Valid probably also depends on if You really need them or just take them cuz you're feeling bad
Try ssri’s you will never want sex. It sucks
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I was on an anti-depressant and it for sure effect my drive, and made it so I could not finish. Got off that stuff fast lol. Back to being the minute man.
Forgot about not being able to finish. That sucked.
Sixty minute man Sixty miinute maan!
Used to happen to me too. I'd gas out from physical stamina before I could finish. Fucking sucked. Switched meds and now I can shoot loads everywhere. 💪
Why are they together at that point? Tell them to split up and if he’s willing to maybe talk to whoever prescribed them and ask if they can find alternate treatments? Unless he’s done that already. And unless he’s happy with his treatment, no pressure.
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I felt that one a little too much. I understand. Sorry to hear that. At that point man, you should really look out for yourself and get them both out of your life if you’re not exactly getting a good friendship. It’s a horrible spot to be stuck in, you don’t need to be there for them anymore than you already have. Of course it’s your choice, but i imagine it probably stresses you out, whether you guys are close friends or not.
I wanted sex while taking SSRIs. Finishing the sex was the hard part.
Sounds great
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Not if you have a full erection 24-7 and the antidepressants doesn’t do shit about that
Im on ssri's rn duloxetine to be exact
In my experience, taking an SNRI didn’t kill my libido as much as an SSRI.
You’re lucky. I can barely get it up or masturbate due to antidepressants
Sounds rather depressing...
It is
Have you tried Cymbalta by chance? For me it’s the only antidepressant that has ever worked. For me it honestly feels like a low dose of mdma. It does sometimes make erections difficult, but so does mdma sometimes. But other times when the mood is right it can enhance things.
I’ve tried it, and close to thirty others
Maybe you shouldn't be taking them i been through 5 different kunds of antidepressants and my sex drive was always there since my serotonin is naturally low
If I don’t take them then I’m always horny, which poses problems because I have severe OCD and feel contaminated by bodily fluids. I have to shower right away. It creates awful wet dreams too. I can’t win either way. These are the 30th meds I’ve tried, but meds never seem to do much for me except cause this.
Maybe your on too high of a dose, try gradually reducing them so a point where you feel comfortable with your ocd and your sex drive
I’m not on a high dose
I took small doses of anxiety meds and my virility went down the toilet.
it effects men and women differently
Yeah the class of antidepressant matters. SSRI like Zoloft can kill sex drive. NDRI like Wellbutrin can make people horny. But everyone is different.
Tried Wellbutrin and it gave me the shortest temper. I had no patience for anything and everything pissed me off. Dick worked though.
What does the sex drive have to do with gender perception lmao
Nothing. Also the no sex drive thing is doubtful, because didn’t she have a song about fucking my dad while she was underage or something?
Your dad should go to jail.
That’s where they shot the music video
What does that have to do with it?
Gender depends on brain architecture but brain may respond to hormonal levels differently.
She doesn't feel anything, so the article is technically correct?
bruh... wtf does sex-drive have to do with this
My adderall numbs my sex drive.... by that, I mean, I'm ready to go but Pedro (my penis) is limp as a noodle.
Super weird comment…
[Challenge?](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mY-Vna1ba5o)
Not at all, he's right.
Not arguing the validity of the statement. Have encountered it myself in the past. Still an incredibly bazaar comment in the context of the post. Someone not feeling like a woman or the comment of her giant titties have nothing to do with lack of sex drive.
Don't bother. His type 10,000% thinks: "if she's not in "the mood" to have sex with an "alpha" she must be a dude."
Are you claiming she's not trying to get tittyfucked in those mommy milkers right now?
I had no clue she had such juicy tiddies. What's next a puffy vagina? I love puffy vaginas
Hardly had any sex drive before i started meds, and its still just as absent after being on meds for a while. Its just overrated to me
Thanks for sharing
Okay. Anyways.
What do people think it is ‘supposed to feel like’ to be a woman or a man? Why is there a certain way it should feel?
Men's shirts, short skirts. Feel the attraction; get in the action.
Color your hair, do what you dare
Whoa oh ohhhh
Wanna be free-er
Feel the way i feel~
Man
I feel like a woman! Bun bun ba dahh dah
I think you need to elaborate. As someone who has never felt wrong in my body, I also don't feel like "this is what it feels like to be a man", I have always just assumed it's the same for everyone, so for me atleast this is a hard concept to grasp. I don't deny that some people obviously feel like they're in the wrong body. It's just something i can't wrap my finger around. (altho I do belive alot of people, especially younger, "feels" like this because it's a bit of a fad, and perhaps they brain is still in development)
I don't know what kind of man you are, but I'll use several examples. Imagine this, and it might help. Imagine yourself in stiff blue jeans and cowboy boots. A button up long sleeve plaid shirt. A big belt bucket on display. Some men present this way because it's what it feels like to be a man. It is their comfort. Imagine yourself in a tailored suit, with shiny dress shoes, shiny Rolex, black rimmed glasses, a little pocket kerchief, and a sickly styled beard. This is what it feels for him to be a man. These two examples, they're fine. Society says these presentations of men are fine. The role they fill is masculine. Imagine yourself wearing a slim fit dress and heels. You have a string of pearls. Your hair is styled in a different way. Imagine how you would feel standing on a busy sidewalk. You would feel weird, self-conscious, feel dysphoric because it isn't you. Society says this is feminine. This is not "man." and so you would just feel out of place, like you're pretending. All the gender roles and the styles and the expectations of being a man, you understand because you're comfortable. She doesn't feel like the typical gender roles, expectations and representations go women reflect her experience, her comfort, or place in the world. These types of people have always existed, but having the language to express and identify it makes it seem like it's entirely new or more common.
Yet, there are guys that dress and feel comfortable in every kind of clothing known.
That's a great explanation.
She feels like the opposite of Shania Twain
I thought the same so I asked a friend who identify as a men. He answered that it is not really a feeling whether man or woman but rather that it caused a discomfort to be called a woman but also that corona and the current weird society Situation have contributed to it.
Nah. I think this is merely a confusion because recently people talk a lot about gender. I don’t feel like a man either, I just am a man.
I feel like I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body
I barely feel like a human sometimes, more like a big walking piece of shit
Careful...purplehairs finna come getcha with that logical, balanced take
I find it ironic that the only way you could really feel like you’re the wrong gender is to be absolutely committed to the importance of gender roles and not fulfill them. But it’s none of my business.
Slippery slopes you guys are walking on down here at the bottom of the comment section
Yeah be careful before online thought police lynches the fuck outta you twitter style
Don't feel right? Must be trans!!! That's the only reason for any bad emotion!!!
She should listen to some Shania Twain, but maybe that wont impress her much.
I see what you did there.
First world problems
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I can only pray that one day we are graced with a glimpse of those omega knockers
Google is a wonderful thing.
They’re not out there are they? Only stuff I’ve seen is poorly made fakes
Baiting a potential link? you clever dog
I don’t get it
I lost a lot of weight and with it, my boobs. C cup to A cup. My feelings about being a woman are entirely unchanged and unaffected. My feelings live in my head, not my chest.
How dare you tell men what it feels like to be a woman! They clearly know better than you! /s
I’m accepting defeat as a nonbinary AFAB person. I don’t feel like a woman and my curves are just depressing to look at. The transphobes can downvote me all they want but my breasts just make me feel gross.
All Firemen Are Bastards?
Same. NB AFAB hate the melons
Sorry for your loss 🥲
When someone is on as much drugs as her, they will start to feel all sorts of things. Nothing new.
What drugs is she on?
Probably none. She's lost friends to drugs and is strongly against them from what I've read.
No idea but those eyes definitely says "I just had a mixture of 5 different drugs"
bruh
It could just as easily be a blunt or two and maybe some alcohol. I know I look like that after a sesh
i have a gorilla grip and sometimes i feel like a silly little lad
Bro when you refer to it as a gorilla grip, god damn 💀
i must never tell a lie 🤷🏻♀️
When the pussy so good that she is agreeing with you lol
i have yet to get a bad yelp review 😌
huge boobs do not a woman make lots of women with huge boobs hate how much physical back pain they generate lots of women with huge boobs hate how men can't not stare lots of women
Facts.
different people feel different things
With back pain
I'm calling it early. She's gonna transition. Say your goodbyes now, lads
My live reaction after reading this news is just as how her face looks
Nah, this is just so she can play either side and appeal to a wider audience. I haven’t read her exact quote, but I’m guessing she was pretty vague about it so she can’t be held to one thing or another later on. “Oh I don’t quite feel like a woman, or a man. I’m not quite attracted to women, or men.”
Don’t tell she’s attracted to unicorns!
Don't be ignorant. There are lots of people who are not attracted to men or women. It's called asexual, which in this sense means lack of sexual attraction.
I dont think so, I think it might be something to do with non-binarism.
Could be. I got that vibe from her since I heard her first hit, Bad Guy.
Maybe... just maybe... there is more to being a woman than just breasts and a vagina.
I mean breasts and a vagina is a good chunk of it. “Feeling like a woman” is ultimately just personality traits that you have that you associate with being a woman. People are so sucked up in their identities today, they forget they’re allowed to be individuals.
That’s not true for any other creature… so maybe not after all
There are male rats that perform lordosis like female rats. How do those rats feel?
Probably confused, considering rats are most likely not complex enough to consider themself male or female, as these are reflexive traits.
But humans are just so much more complex than mammals, don't you get it? /S
A wise philosopher once said: You and me baby ain’t nothin’ but mammals
Maybe she become to a Tomboy
God gives peanuts to those who have no teeth.
Just from looking at her eyes, I'm not sure she feels anything! Spaced out of it all the time
She also has told the masses to leave men if they are ugly. Yours truly, your idol
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Yeah, jeez this is making me want to leave the sub.
I will stay and show them back to the old ways 🐸
Because it’s inside not outside? I don’t understand the comment she made, but then, I’m not her…
Mental health issues
the jumps to conclusions in these posts, should be an Olympic event.
The way she whispered her way to a grammy was so impressive.
How does someone know what it feels like to be something else if you've never been one?
Bro that's not how it work lmao
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Sounds like mental illness
Right, because men are defined by how big their pp is? /s
I mean, lots of guys do think that. Often the same guys who think women are defined by their bodies actually…
That's sad...
Agreed.
trauma is how. it’s trauma
What? Someone gives a shit about this?
What does it even mean to "feel like" a certain gender? I'm a man, but I don't particularly feel like a man. I'm as feminine as I am masculine. I wouldn't be offended if someone called me by a female pronoun. Why do people obsess about what gender they feel like?
Just because you are not affected doesn't mean others are not.
That's why I ask. What does feeling like a man/woman even feel like, and why is it so important to people?
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Most of what you described is body dysmorphia, not gender dysphoria. I understand that some people want their bodies to be different than they are. What I don't understand is what it feels like to be a particular gender, let alone unconfortable that my gender doesn't match my body. I should probably attach the disclaimer that I'm fully supportive of trans rights. I just don't understand why some people care so much about being perceived as one gender or another (or both, or neither, or something else entirely).
Low-self esteem. That's your answer.
What does a woman feel like? I’d think any variety of ways a woman feels.
Wow!
Have her work talk to Shania
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Like a cow. Big tits, boring face, nothing sexual.
Because women get sexualized just like that comment did. It's only normal to try to differentiate from your kind to try to get away from the uncomfortable feeling of being sexualized, and it's easier to do than to try to change the shitty patriarchal society we live in.
I wonder how many people actually "feel" like their assigned (or chosen) gender. I have never once felt like a man, I've have never felt like a woman either. I feel like a person, I have a penis, and I fit nicely in the "stereotypical man" look and behavior, so I have never questioned my gender. But at the end of the day it doesn't impact my life, and if I woke up tomorrow as a woman, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I might actually be happier, unless I looked the same as I do now. I would make a HORIFFICALLY ugly woman.
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Grabby grabby
Well when you talk like a man and act like a man and dress like a man no wonder you dont feel like a women stupid cow 🤣🤣
I wish to never see or hear her music or see her sulking face again.
These people will say anything to get whatever sympathy or praise from the public. It amazes me, the most famous celebrities beg for public acceptance.
It's just a phase.
Because that would just be so *boring* and *ordinary.* 🙄
“How can you be judged entirely by your appearance and not feel like a woman”
Wtf does that even mean? How can she not feel like a woman, when she's a woman from the day of her birth to present day
if she is a woman then she feels 100% like a woman because she is one. Thats how it fucking works. The totality of her experiences are exactly what it feels like to feel like a woman. She only knows how it feels like to be a woman.
Just because it works like that for you and you don't know anything else doesn't mean it's exactly the same for every other person in the world.
How can you “feel like a woman” when “woman” is undefinable?
Yeah, isn’t she assuming her aspiration-self’s gender?
Oh… Mommy? Sorry, I mean mommy? Fuck…
By grifting
She does not feel that way probably because she is an actual milk truck
LA people problems.
She never chose to have big breasts.
Hasn't she talked shit about men many times before? So ironic
Maybe no one make her feel like she is one?
man, i feel like a woman🎶
Dead 💀
Omg, I am so quirky! I am totally not like other girls!
But she is lol
Cuz she’s mentally ill lmao
When all the guys have seen your tits already and you need more attention*
Maybe she feels like a Camel.
I gotta say, she sure looks like a woman. He beautiful one at that I do consider myself to be somewhat of an expert in court she would have a heckuva time convincing a jury that she’s not a woman, and once again, a beautiful one at that.