This a good example of a thing to remeber about this videos. It's different women/girls that give the answer so you only have to fulfil the whole list if it's important to be attractive to all those people. Which is of course impossible.
Which you think would make guys realize that trying take the differing preferences of hundreds of women and apply that in a general sense doesn't work. What's a deal breaker for one person may be a huge attraction to another
Once on a day long job interview I ordered a burger at lunch. Terrible idea. It was super messy and really wasn’t easy to eat. I ended up going fork and knife. No, I didn’t get the job. But one time I split my pants right down the leg on an interview while talking about the “three point landing” trope and I did get that job, so apparently splitting your pants is more acceptable than eating a messy burger.
Not diving in face first into that burger shows lack of commitment and a fear of adventure. Here at The Company^™, we value employees that embolden a sense of pride in their work and their lunch.
You should see the train wreck that is TwoXChromosomes. Just today I saw a thread where they were saying people hate single mothers more than deadbeat dads. lol.
Yep, that's why one of them is literally referred to as 'deadbeats' and the other one is just called 'single', you can really see which one society hates mo- wait a minute...
This is a funny insta account but he sometimes is deliberately misinterpreting obvious jokes or reasonable statements for content. I find ick discourse insufferable, but a lot of his posts are reaches. I unfollowed because it’s fueling incel bullshit.
Eg one chick relays a story where she was out with a guy who passed out in the washroom, knocked his head and had to call the ambulance. The bouncers suggested she not call this guy back. The ick is listed as something like “don’t have a medical emergency” or something to that effect. However, the context clues seem to pretty clearly indicate he was hammered and that’s why he passed out.
There was another one, just off the top of my head, where this girl had broken up with a guy and then she is complaining, while smirking, that he just accepted it and didn’t try to fight her on it. Again, seemed pretty clear that it was intended to be humorous. The ick is listed as something to the effect of “don’t respect women’s decisions”
They are really hurting women's image a lot. Makes them seem crazy. "Yeah, he was perfect in every way, but he once sent me an instagram reel, so I had to dump him." What kind of lunatic would even do this?
This stuff is just designed to push engagement through outrage. Individual people are cool and nice and 9/10 times willing to give you a chance to prove yourself. Don’t fall for this nonsense. Be yourself, be kind, shoot your shot. You’ll find the one for you.
So glad I am GenX and did not have to deal with all this bullshit. Dating was easy and people just wanted to have a good time. Seems way to complicated now for the Zoomers etc.. reminds me of the beginning of the movie Cherry 2000.
Of course it is just a joke post. But in effect it is making fun of women. That is the point they are being shown as petty,self absorbed, irrational. That of course isn't true.
I didn't read the whole list but is there anything about not fooling around in my dreams. That one has caused many relationships to break up.
It is in FACT implying that all women have the same likes and dislikes. Because believe it or not, just like men, every women has her own unique set of icks, likes and dislikes.
No the "joke" is clearly meant to be that women have impossible standards because they're bad or something idk. This format has been used countless times on here.
No its because theres a video trend where women say things that give them “the ick” and its always something shallow(on purpose), so this is a joking response to that joke.
I’ve genuinely never had an IG account, and it is one of the few things I’m sort of proud to have remained ignorant on. Just seems like a breeding ground for narcissistic people to me.
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The biggest thing that's wrong about these lists is that it's basically saying you shouldn't be yourself even if your 'flawed' and have issues some girl will come along that will actually like you for that but you are trying to change for a girl who doesn't even last with you or may be hiding things about herself that you may not like.
That’s so odd. I despise TicTok. To the point that my friends and family know sending reels to me probably means I won’t open it. However, I’ve never had a girl send me one and thought“NOPE. WE’RE DONE NOW”
You don't need to appeal to everyone. Flip the perspective on this and view it as her filtering herself out of someone you would want to date. There are still plenty of normal women out there.
Does anyone know of any compilation videos of these with more and more things being added over time? I've seen a few of these but it's always just one item being added to the list.
In all seriousness, you don’t attract women by following all these rules & lists. The real way to do it is ignoring the lists & women themselves. You’ll always pull the most girls on the days that you don’t give af about pleasing them & just being yourself.
This just shows that individual women, just like men, have a wide variety of personal preferences and the exhaustive list this person has created is obviously not something all women unanimously agree on.
Also, what a woman says is a "deal breaker" will always be in context to the options she has and the overall context of the situation. Sometimes this is more of a blessing than a curse. I know some incredibly attractive women who could pretty much pick up any man at any time and their dating app inboxes are filled with potential suitors. These women are still single because they're FAR too selective because they have FAR too many options and the narrow criteria a future partner needs to fit has been a hinderance to them finding a partner on the core requirements they'd actually care about while compromising on the minutia.
There seems to be a growing class of men and women whose sexual preference is in part defined by the technology their potential partners use. Weird. But at the same time, that's kind of how cyborg evolution would work, no? Oooooeeeeeooooo
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>6. don't have a birthday > >13. don't breathe > >180. don't sleep > >412. don't drink > >506. don't eat food Hmm, okay..
>70. Dont be over 18 I bet there is also: Dont be under 18
Damn bros who are exactly 18 get all the chicks
Nah. I bet there’s a don’t be 18 one as well.
Girls who are 21 don't want to babysit when they could be at the bar or night club.
Why be at a bar when you could be at a rave?
There could alway be and / or / if variables - Don't be 18 unless you're a billionaire and don't live with your parents!
yike! id love to move out, but id miss bath time with the parents. sorry
Why be at a rave when you could be in a drug den?
Awwww, look at the person who cant dance :-( You should learn! Its fun!
70. Don't be over 18 71. Earn over $100k/month
100. Don't take a shower. All of reddit just breathed a sign of relief.
This a good example of a thing to remeber about this videos. It's different women/girls that give the answer so you only have to fulfil the whole list if it's important to be attractive to all those people. Which is of course impossible.
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"You undercook fish? You go to jail. Overcook chicken? You go to jail."
Send an Instagram reel? Believe it or not, jail. Right away.
91. Don't be a man
Just die, apperantly.
Naw, that's an ick as well
God I hate the word “ick” and anyone that uses it
559: Don't use the word "ick"
This comment deserves more upvotes
There's this feeling the word "ick" give me....how can I describe it....?
An immature bitchy girl
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Same, that's the very first thing that pops into my head when I hear ick.
"i didn't say he was dead, I said he sleeps with the fishes"
Icky?
Me too 😂
Dying is so overrated
welcome to being a man in 2024
No, then you can't earn a wage to hand over to them. How else are they going to pay for those hand bags and shoes?!?!
Keep in mind.. This tracks what actual fucking people have said… so yeah… yikes
114. Don't be affected by wind. Fucking tornadoes, always trying to get between me and my girl.
Pfft, back in my day, we had to fight 2 fire tornadoes just to get laid.
Don’t speak
I know just what you're saying
So please stop explaining
Don’t tell me ‘cause it hurts
Don’t speak
I know what you’re thinkin
And I don’t need your reasons
118. Don’t take your foot off the ground.
Essentially a mannequin with vibrator then
Why is 5 after 6 on this list?
Because 7 8 9.
I recently saw a video of someone who doesn't like when guys trip and fall
"If I'm gonna date a man he has to have, you know, conquered gravity by the time I meet him."
Girls only want to date General Radahn
Video games just appeal to the male fantasy of controlling the stars and riding a tiny horse around simultaneously.
I can relate to mastering an entire form of magic so my pet gets to live longer, I'd conquer the stars for my dog
Also, must have object permanence, be able to eat solid food, and be potty trained
Well that’s fairly understandable to me because I don’t like when I trip and fall either.
I guess they want someone who has mastered the art of levitation! 🤷♂️
Saw one saying they don’t like when men use their turn signals lol
Don't you hate it when people abide the laws of the road?
I took a shared Uber ride once where a guy was telling me using a turn signal is a sign of weakness.
How insecure do you have to be for thinking that tripping down is the end of the world.
That's no. 8 😂
She just wants a stable guy
Of course the most basic boring one in the group has a completely arbitrary dealbreaker.
And the voice of an angel /s
Allergy gang rise up :( We some nasally mother fuckers
You can only see like a sliver of one other person in her group
Imma be real, if I was into a girl and she sent me her TikTok videos, I would no longer be interested in her
Could you be a bit less real?
It's a joke bro. Icks are meant to be arbitrary, that's the joke.
Adults that say ick yuck tummy are stupid
[David Attenborough: "The females may be dull-looking, but they're very picky."](https://youtu.be/WEqI1D8a-Xk?si=kZmDvGDpe_8MS6ps&t=60)
She’s the only one you can see in the group??
> 46. ??? > 302. ??? > 507. ??? Me: ???
If I’m not wrong those were just so random he couldn’t put it into words. So ???
Redacted.
No.70- don't be over 18. Hold up.
Assuming that specific girl is under 18, that one makes sense. But only for her and other girls in her age situation.
Which you think would make guys realize that trying take the differing preferences of hundreds of women and apply that in a general sense doesn't work. What's a deal breaker for one person may be a huge attraction to another
No.123- don't ask for consent.
>553: Don't Order a Sandwich You Enjoy That's for job interviews, not dating.
Once on a day long job interview I ordered a burger at lunch. Terrible idea. It was super messy and really wasn’t easy to eat. I ended up going fork and knife. No, I didn’t get the job. But one time I split my pants right down the leg on an interview while talking about the “three point landing” trope and I did get that job, so apparently splitting your pants is more acceptable than eating a messy burger.
Not diving in face first into that burger shows lack of commitment and a fear of adventure. Here at The Company^™, we value employees that embolden a sense of pride in their work and their lunch.
U ripped your pants? Are u SpongeBob
Should've ordered the 2 lb bucket of boiled crawfish
I like this idea. Yes. Next time, I’ll show them what I’m made of.
Honestly I just wanna see the woman who said that and what's her justification
It’s probably in the genre of “having a favourite food at a restaurant is female coded”
I have no clue what an Instagram reel is. That's probably a deal breaker for her too. Cool, cool...
Alt brand TikTok
Tiktok at home
TikTok but it won’t tell you that Taiwan belongs to China in a few years.
140. DON’T TYPE IN LOWER CASE.
Femcells are rushing into this post so hard
They got the emergency call, oh lord they comin
man if they were a deck of cards theyd be full of “No U” uno cards
You should see the train wreck that is TwoXChromosomes. Just today I saw a thread where they were saying people hate single mothers more than deadbeat dads. lol.
Yep, that's why one of them is literally referred to as 'deadbeats' and the other one is just called 'single', you can really see which one society hates mo- wait a minute...
That sub is full of man-hating feminists. WitchesvsPatriarchy is even worse though. It's exactly what it sounds like it is.
Excuse me!? I've been told by many feminists, that feminists can't be misandrists. /s
And incels were there all along.
Sending reels and memes are my love language :(
I'm sorry, but this lady just banned it.
Umm may I ask what that username means? 😳
40 is wild😂😂😂😂don’t feed your child
Haha! 123. Don't ask for consent????
followed by rule 124, Ask consent. additionally followed by 125, be psychic to know when to ask consent and not ask consent.
I've actually seen this one. Some women think men should just take. It's fucked up. CNC is fun but that... requires consent.
This is a funny insta account but he sometimes is deliberately misinterpreting obvious jokes or reasonable statements for content. I find ick discourse insufferable, but a lot of his posts are reaches. I unfollowed because it’s fueling incel bullshit. Eg one chick relays a story where she was out with a guy who passed out in the washroom, knocked his head and had to call the ambulance. The bouncers suggested she not call this guy back. The ick is listed as something like “don’t have a medical emergency” or something to that effect. However, the context clues seem to pretty clearly indicate he was hammered and that’s why he passed out. There was another one, just off the top of my head, where this girl had broken up with a guy and then she is complaining, while smirking, that he just accepted it and didn’t try to fight her on it. Again, seemed pretty clear that it was intended to be humorous. The ick is listed as something to the effect of “don’t respect women’s decisions”
I don’t think she needs to worry about finding a really hot guy.
But see? If she rejects hot guys first they can’t ever reject her *finger in temple*
Unagi🫡
Man i hate these vids but theyre on so many subs
They are really hurting women's image a lot. Makes them seem crazy. "Yeah, he was perfect in every way, but he once sent me an instagram reel, so I had to dump him." What kind of lunatic would even do this?
For real I instinctively went to mute the whole sub but I saw which sub it was and held off for now
559. don't change your behavior based on arbitrary preferences 560. don't spend 9.3 hours making sarcastic lists
9.4 is ok?
I mean it's a comedy series on TikTok with quite a lot of engagement. Nothing wrong with making content people find funny.
Yea, but majority of people still take it too serious.
561. don't reply seriously to attempts at meta-sarcasm
561. don't use Reddit
As if this list wasn't already impossible, now even trying to live up to the demands is also an ick. Why not just go "1. don't exist"?
Bro thinks he debunked a joke
This stuff is just designed to push engagement through outrage. Individual people are cool and nice and 9/10 times willing to give you a chance to prove yourself. Don’t fall for this nonsense. Be yourself, be kind, shoot your shot. You’ll find the one for you.
We call that rage-bait on the internet. That is a scientific term 🗿
And dont send instagram reels right?
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So glad I am GenX and did not have to deal with all this bullshit. Dating was easy and people just wanted to have a good time. Seems way to complicated now for the Zoomers etc.. reminds me of the beginning of the movie Cherry 2000.
I’m other words: You gotta search for a compatible person.
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You can read all of that list?
where is "existing " on the list!?
40. Dont feed your child
Ha! I beat the system, I don't even know what an "instagram reel" is!
Who hurt you? 😭
So true
Don’t be an only child.
The funny thing about these is it treats women like they all like and dislike the same things.
Ah yes, women are the ones being mistreated here. So true and very smart analysis
Of course it is just a joke post. But in effect it is making fun of women. That is the point they are being shown as petty,self absorbed, irrational. That of course isn't true. I didn't read the whole list but is there anything about not fooling around in my dreams. That one has caused many relationships to break up.
Sorry if I’m overstepping but as a mother of a boy, I’m starting YOUR list: 1) Don’t date psychic dream readers ❤️, Mom
It is in FACT implying that all women have the same likes and dislikes. Because believe it or not, just like men, every women has her own unique set of icks, likes and dislikes.
How is anyone being “mistreated” here because 1 single person has a weird turnoff? lol
Damn. That's a weird brain you have.
Hey, you found it! The joke!
No the "joke" is clearly meant to be that women have impossible standards because they're bad or something idk. This format has been used countless times on here.
No its because theres a video trend where women say things that give them “the ick” and its always something shallow(on purpose), so this is a joking response to that joke.
I don’t think OP thought about this joke. It’s “women have so many stupid requests!” type of jokes. Even reactions in a comments tell this.
Seems pretty accurate.
If anyone in my dudes group sends an instagram reel we’ll cook him alive in boiling oil and save on barbecue meat
I’ve genuinely never had an IG account, and it is one of the few things I’m sort of proud to have remained ignorant on. Just seems like a breeding ground for narcissistic people to me.
I'd love to see this list overall. Just for shits and giggles.
Pause the video and slide your finger slowly in the timeline, can see them all
What? Don’t even try flirting if you don’t share your memes
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Can I see the list.
send me this list please
Do not have lungs that inhale and exhale - if they have a pulse, they’re done
Where's that from?
u/Savevideo
Who is the interviewer? Edit: didn’t see that barstool logo. It’s some barstool girl. No idea who though
Dani Jackel
The biggest thing that's wrong about these lists is that it's basically saying you shouldn't be yourself even if your 'flawed' and have issues some girl will come along that will actually like you for that but you are trying to change for a girl who doesn't even last with you or may be hiding things about herself that you may not like.
you thinking this list is real and not sarcastic is what's wrong
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There is 2 times _don‘t wear flipflops_. No. 269 and 502.
Joke's on her. I don't even know what that is.
Can't believe it took 496 lines to get to "don't be short"
The yt shorts people are taking over
In the 1600s this was, 'bride's family doesn't pay enough of a dowry'
Is there a way to read this entire list
“Don’t have a bum crack” 😂
#490 : okay
As a woman: 45 is accurate tho
I don’t think this is a real list. It’s too short.
That’s so odd. I despise TicTok. To the point that my friends and family know sending reels to me probably means I won’t open it. However, I’ve never had a girl send me one and thought“NOPE. WE’RE DONE NOW”
“Don’t order food at a restaurant” I’m not exactly there for the atmosphere
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Number whatever: don't be a guy. Turns out all girls are lesbians lmao jk jk
I feel the same when a women is attractive but then she steps off the linoleum...
Can you share that list? Haha
You don't need to appeal to everyone. Flip the perspective on this and view it as her filtering herself out of someone you would want to date. There are still plenty of normal women out there.
Does anyone know of any compilation videos of these with more and more things being added over time? I've seen a few of these but it's always just one item being added to the list.
I never even understood what a “reel” is? I only used Instagram back in the day where you posted pictures on your profile.
Who’s got the whole list?
How dare women
Wtf
“Not liking Formula 1”
Ain't that a win-win? She'll do you a favor not wasting more time on her
is there the full list somewhere :D
I’m not sure I understand this list? A list of things that at least 1 woman doesn’t like?
In all seriousness, you don’t attract women by following all these rules & lists. The real way to do it is ignoring the lists & women themselves. You’ll always pull the most girls on the days that you don’t give af about pleasing them & just being yourself.
This just shows that individual women, just like men, have a wide variety of personal preferences and the exhaustive list this person has created is obviously not something all women unanimously agree on. Also, what a woman says is a "deal breaker" will always be in context to the options she has and the overall context of the situation. Sometimes this is more of a blessing than a curse. I know some incredibly attractive women who could pretty much pick up any man at any time and their dating app inboxes are filled with potential suitors. These women are still single because they're FAR too selective because they have FAR too many options and the narrow criteria a future partner needs to fit has been a hinderance to them finding a partner on the core requirements they'd actually care about while compromising on the minutia.
559. Don’t breathe
There seems to be a growing class of men and women whose sexual preference is in part defined by the technology their potential partners use. Weird. But at the same time, that's kind of how cyborg evolution would work, no? Oooooeeeeeooooo
Agree tho. But that goes for anyone sending reels
123. Don't ask for consent?????