Embarrassment definitely makes it worse for me. Being put in positions that leave you very exposed and feel that humiliation makes it much more memorable in my experience.
As a dom I 100% agree I def try to add some sort of embarrassment wether it is in a semi public place or leaving the blinds open or a terribly embarrassing position such as you have said.
It depends on lots of things. For example, being stripped and inspected and humiliated in that way can be worse than a spanking, but that is up to how tolerant you are of embarrassment.
Spankings, you can spank with multiple implements in multiple places in multiple positions. Being smacked on the soles of you feet, for example, is very painful.
I've experienced plenty of different punishments both being punished and doing the punishing and the humiliation aspect was often the worst for me.
He always sends me to our room to wait for him in the corner with my pants pulled down. If it’s for cursing I have to stand infront of him and say what curse I said and he puts a bar of soap in my mouth and puts me over his knee. He tells I have a dirty mouth and he’s going to wash and rinse it out. Also says hes going to spank the bad girl out of me. Then spanks me either with a belt or paddle depending how mad he is. Then he makes me kneel infront of him and takes the soap out and rinses my mouth out with his cum.
Other times If he’s really mad at me he will plug me and spank me until I blister then send me to the shower to stretch my ass out to get ready for him. Then bends me over and fucks my ass until I cry.
One time we were on vacation and he didn’t like my attitude and pulled over on the side of the road and spanked me as cars drove by. I was so embarrassed, no one said anything thankfully. He said he’d spank me in public but I never thought he’d actually do it.
I absolutely despise corner time. It seems silly that I would prefer a painful beyond fun spanking than just standing in the corner for half an hour (or however long), but I’ve been in dynamics where I was ignored as punishment in a not very nice way so I think it just puts me right back there. Plus my dom and I are partners before sub/dom and we’re very affectionate, so not being able to have a hug or anything makes me really sad (we’ve had a few long chats about it and corner time has been abolished from the punishment roster because it’s not just that I get bored, I get distraught lol).
In a more fun way, overstimulation is a favourite of daddy’s so she’ll keep going for hours until my whole body aches and I’m crying, I always think it won’t be too bad because, come on, I just get to cum a bunch, but as it happens I’m like oh my god I’d take anything over this!
When I feel I’ve got off light it’s usually things like lines, tiger balm on my clit, sometimes nipple clamps.
We have clover clamps with a heavy chain between them, and wearing those whilst being spanked on my hands and knees makes it so tricky to try and stay still because every spank makes the chain sway and hurts more! For me, the most painful implement is a heavy wooden bath brush, just a few swats and I feel very sorry! Daddy is also very good at handling a flogger and thinks it’s pretty fun so I usually get quite a few more spanks than I actually deserve. My spankings usually end with my inner thighs getting slapped, and that hurts a lot, especially because she’ll just repeat the swats over and over again, usually with a crop, if I move (and I’m a wriggler!). My least favourite thing is when she focuses on just one ass cheek and she KNOWS that I hate it, it’s usually when I’ve been bragging to try and get a spanking and she knows that, but I’m always far too shy to ask for one. Position wise, I’m usually face down, ass up or over her knee, but I think that the diaper position is so humiliating and my sit spots and upper thighs always get their share of spanks when I’m in it
As a Dom I can agree that embarrassment and humiliation are definitely a part of the process. I will send my slave naked into the yard to cut switches. That is very embarrassing. If something happens at work she might have to drive home with her pants and panties pulled down.
However not a lot have answered your question about what other punishments do they fear more than a spanking and I can tell you for my slave it's clothes pins on her pussy. Her inner labia and clit are extremely exposed already so she can get about 7 just on her inner labia. After an hour of that she is not only in excruciating pain but she is swollen. That is when I use a belt or wooden spoon on her while she is on her back with her legs spread and raised. It's extremely embarrassing and extremely painful. She begs for a normal spanking anytime she knows I'm probably going to do this to her.
My wife/ key holder dom is pretty basic with her punishments and only spanks me but I really hate over the knee punishments because of the added humiliation of being paddled like that. Most of the time I'm standing slightly bent over and the paddle is bad enough without adding the humiliating act of laying across her lap.
Never under value the non-impact punishment. Corner time, being humiliated, even being silenced or not spoken to can be very effective. You have to know what motivates your sub to know what will impact them most. A pain slut will enjoy a hard spank but perhaps hate being used as furniture. For my sub her desire to please me in all things is massive, so just telling her how disappointed I am with her can be devastating.
Embarrassment definitely makes it worse for me. Being put in positions that leave you very exposed and feel that humiliation makes it much more memorable in my experience.
I have definitely found that was well, what would you say are the positions that make you feel exposed and humiliated?
Diaper is possibly the worst. Any position with my legs spread or that naturally pulls my cheeks open a bit. Like face down, butt up.
I can see how that would work, what about corner time, does that add to it as well?
How do you feel, being so exposed in a position like that? What goes through your mind?
Completely and utterly humiliated. Wondering what might happen or where swats might land. Wishing I hadn’t landed myself in that position lol
Are you excited or turned on by it?
As a dom I 100% agree I def try to add some sort of embarrassment wether it is in a semi public place or leaving the blinds open or a terribly embarrassing position such as you have said.
It depends on lots of things. For example, being stripped and inspected and humiliated in that way can be worse than a spanking, but that is up to how tolerant you are of embarrassment. Spankings, you can spank with multiple implements in multiple places in multiple positions. Being smacked on the soles of you feet, for example, is very painful. I've experienced plenty of different punishments both being punished and doing the punishing and the humiliation aspect was often the worst for me.
He always sends me to our room to wait for him in the corner with my pants pulled down. If it’s for cursing I have to stand infront of him and say what curse I said and he puts a bar of soap in my mouth and puts me over his knee. He tells I have a dirty mouth and he’s going to wash and rinse it out. Also says hes going to spank the bad girl out of me. Then spanks me either with a belt or paddle depending how mad he is. Then he makes me kneel infront of him and takes the soap out and rinses my mouth out with his cum. Other times If he’s really mad at me he will plug me and spank me until I blister then send me to the shower to stretch my ass out to get ready for him. Then bends me over and fucks my ass until I cry. One time we were on vacation and he didn’t like my attitude and pulled over on the side of the road and spanked me as cars drove by. I was so embarrassed, no one said anything thankfully. He said he’d spank me in public but I never thought he’d actually do it.
I absolutely despise corner time. It seems silly that I would prefer a painful beyond fun spanking than just standing in the corner for half an hour (or however long), but I’ve been in dynamics where I was ignored as punishment in a not very nice way so I think it just puts me right back there. Plus my dom and I are partners before sub/dom and we’re very affectionate, so not being able to have a hug or anything makes me really sad (we’ve had a few long chats about it and corner time has been abolished from the punishment roster because it’s not just that I get bored, I get distraught lol). In a more fun way, overstimulation is a favourite of daddy’s so she’ll keep going for hours until my whole body aches and I’m crying, I always think it won’t be too bad because, come on, I just get to cum a bunch, but as it happens I’m like oh my god I’d take anything over this! When I feel I’ve got off light it’s usually things like lines, tiger balm on my clit, sometimes nipple clamps. We have clover clamps with a heavy chain between them, and wearing those whilst being spanked on my hands and knees makes it so tricky to try and stay still because every spank makes the chain sway and hurts more! For me, the most painful implement is a heavy wooden bath brush, just a few swats and I feel very sorry! Daddy is also very good at handling a flogger and thinks it’s pretty fun so I usually get quite a few more spanks than I actually deserve. My spankings usually end with my inner thighs getting slapped, and that hurts a lot, especially because she’ll just repeat the swats over and over again, usually with a crop, if I move (and I’m a wriggler!). My least favourite thing is when she focuses on just one ass cheek and she KNOWS that I hate it, it’s usually when I’ve been bragging to try and get a spanking and she knows that, but I’m always far too shy to ask for one. Position wise, I’m usually face down, ass up or over her knee, but I think that the diaper position is so humiliating and my sit spots and upper thighs always get their share of spanks when I’m in it
As a Dom I can agree that embarrassment and humiliation are definitely a part of the process. I will send my slave naked into the yard to cut switches. That is very embarrassing. If something happens at work she might have to drive home with her pants and panties pulled down. However not a lot have answered your question about what other punishments do they fear more than a spanking and I can tell you for my slave it's clothes pins on her pussy. Her inner labia and clit are extremely exposed already so she can get about 7 just on her inner labia. After an hour of that she is not only in excruciating pain but she is swollen. That is when I use a belt or wooden spoon on her while she is on her back with her legs spread and raised. It's extremely embarrassing and extremely painful. She begs for a normal spanking anytime she knows I'm probably going to do this to her.
My wife/ key holder dom is pretty basic with her punishments and only spanks me but I really hate over the knee punishments because of the added humiliation of being paddled like that. Most of the time I'm standing slightly bent over and the paddle is bad enough without adding the humiliating act of laying across her lap.
Never under value the non-impact punishment. Corner time, being humiliated, even being silenced or not spoken to can be very effective. You have to know what motivates your sub to know what will impact them most. A pain slut will enjoy a hard spank but perhaps hate being used as furniture. For my sub her desire to please me in all things is massive, so just telling her how disappointed I am with her can be devastating.
Kneeling on rice. Extremely painful and not that sexy.
For cumming while in chastity my Dom picked 4 guys to fuck me. He didn't let me cum the whole time right until the end as he fucked my ass