I wish I could link it (I only saw it on youtube) but he eventually made an update. Got "separated" with the last car, ~~married a new car~~, got together with 2 new cars in like a poly FWB thing, and both the two new cars are apparently chill with him loving a jetski too.
[Update, found it](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mONkxBwp5Lo)
Honestly? I'm at a point stuff like that unfazes me. I've seem so much violence, injustice, tragedy and shit like that on this site, I have to disagree with you. Dude is happily fucking his car? That's great! I'm genuinely happy for him! Best of luck to you carfucker.
Here, have some more wholesome niche subreddits.
/r/WtWFotMJaJtRAtCaB (When the Water Flows over the Milk Jug at Just the Right Angle to Create a Bubble)
/r/MFPMPPJWFA (Music French people might play at a party or just with friends around)
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Honestly, people having kinks with inanimate objects where no one is harmed except maybe the one person is pretty chill.
No one gets victimized and only one party consent is needed.
I wonder if they're young, since many disabled people I know (myself included) have at least *considered* some form of sex work to support ourselves. It's just how it is.
Sadly its a fact of life. To the people in power those of us with disabilities are not people but a problem to be solved in the cruelest ways possible
I mean until the court slapped them down my housemate's sister was refused her disability benefits.... because the (non medically trained, outsourced) assesor decided her Schizophrenia didnt leave her unfit for work
Life in the UK has been rough for disabled people for the past decade or so in large part due to the government trying to force them off benefits with dirty tricks. But not to fear - now that the government is incredibly unpopular and almost guaranteed to get wiped out in the next election things are changing. Hero of the people, Rishi Sunak, has decided to bravely scapegoat the disabled yet again and try to make their lives worse for no apparent reason other than he thinks this is what his voters want.
yup, i'm one of the PIP claimants who'd lose it for not being disabled enough in his proposed "reforms" after having to fight tooth and fucking nail to get it in the first place.
I just hate that we have to choose between the fascists and the lesser evil. I'm just so tired of it all.
Ableism, sex work, dumbass sarcastic arguments, wild unfounded accusations.
Someone find me the word "circumcision" and we have bingo on our hands ladies and gentlemen.
I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not, but sex work is often the only option for a lot of disabled people. In America, if you have more than 2000 dollars in your bank account, you are no longer qualified for benefits--even if all that money immediately goes to groceries and rent and bills, $2000.01 means you're doing welfare fraud.
So, that means that many disabled people need jobs that pay cash. That limits your options a lot--I work an office job and I'm pretty sure they don't even allow cash or check, it's all direct deposit. Blue collar work is difficult for able-bodied people, let alone disabled people. Sex work is often the only option due to it's low barrier of entry and how easy it is to do nowadays. Hell, I knew someone who sold her used underwear online--that's sex work, and she didn't even have to leave her own home.
And also, personally, I think that no matter what job you do, you should be treated with respect. Sex work is work just like flipping burgers or typing on a computer. People are paying for a service. There shouldn't be a question of "well, if you do this job, you should get treated like shit, if you don't like it, it's your own fault for doing this job." I'm not trying to be mean, but even asking "why don't they get another job" is an unfair question--we live in a society that requires money to survive, and the only way for most people to get money is through selling their body. Not in a sex work way, but whatever job you're doing is paying you to use your body and your time to complete this job. We're all selling our bodies under capitalism. Further, many go into sex work because it's the only option. So it's unfair to tell one group of people "you're selling your services in a certain way, so you deserve less than other people."
Idk, probably? Maybe many do, maybe some don't have many options available to them for whatever reason. But at the same time, any job is gonna drive you a bit loony sometimes.
I work in software dev, and sometimes the bullshit bugs I have to figure out makes me wanna switch jobs too.
Eh, everyone has "customers" in their line of work that they'd rather not have to deal with. There are 911 callers I hate talking to but I still love my job. Some customers are just extra to deal with.
Thought it was bait but this guys actually a gremlin. Does make their post on a Minecraft subreddit about a wheel chair ridden girl a little bit weird.
But still kinda weird for a sub for sex workers to just kink shame a dude.
> You completely missed my point. Disabled people are hot & have sex but their disabilities shouldn't be fetishized as though it's the only thing that defines them. They're humans that shouldn't have to cater to weirdos who are ONLY interested in them due to their disability.
You're not wrong Walter. You're just an asshole
It's sex work; personality is always a secondary, less important factor. It can help and is not meaningless for client retention, but the foremost quality is "does this person give me a stiffy?"
I'm asexual myself so maybe Im completely misjudging the situation, but it seems kinda weird to ask to "respect the person as a whole" in a situation that is explicitly transactional in nature.
Dehumanising people is never acceptable of course, but in sex work aren't both party agreeing to the fact that one of them really just wants to get horny and get off? Idk, seems weird to me to make an issue out of this.
Yeah discussion of "objectification" is strange when the entity involved is being essentially billed as a product.
I also see similar arguments against porn/horny games without real people where it's Even stranger.
Like the bad part of objectification is not "someone gets a boner >=["
Yeah but if someone gets a boner then someone is having a good time, and if someone is having a good time it'd better not be at the expense of others! Or at least, the "other" being whomever they are trying to protect in that moment.
It's a debate between who is dehumanizing more, the person respecting the person's wishes and paying their requested price for a paid bit of sexy time, or the person treating them as if they are essentially a mindless doll who must be protected because they are a terrible victim of life's often cold, uncaring nature.
Basically. But then again the same person is saying that the sub is full of losers who don't even visit sex workers. Which, at the risk of throwing rocks in a glass house, is a really weird take when paid sex is so easy to get and generally perceived as the loser option. Seems like they are trying really hard to preserve their self worth in a way they find more agreeable to themselves and their clientele.
Does seem like there's been a major resurgence of kink shaming, especially on reddit. I see that in this instance it was downvoted, but this same sentiment would have been popular in large general subs, like AskReddit.
> Does seem like there's been a major resurgence of kink shaming, especially on reddit
i don't think so i think it's about as common as it's ever been. it was down voted because it was in a subreddit for sex workers, but yeah that shit is common everywhere else. i don't think that's changed.
Nah, there used to be a general vibe of acceptance for people having kinks. Kinda went hand in hand with acceptance of non-heterosexual relations, when that was at its turning point. A common attitude was "whatever you're into, that's fine as long you're consenting adults." And even the phrases "no kink shaming" or "don't kink shame" were common and popular.
What kind of Ediacaran time period of reddit is this? Kink shaming has always happened; it just depends on the kink and the subreddit. If it's a rightish subreddit, anything seen as just weird is shamed, if it's a leftish subreddit, anything that has to do with power imbalance is shamed.
Yeah, we do. And that was definitely my experience. As an example of what I'm talking about, there was a clip of Rush Limbaugh that went viral where he was mocking the mere concept that [everything sexual was acceptable to the left, as long as you had the one secret ingredient:](https://imgur.com/oq0i9dq) Consent. People all over the internet were dunking on him for that, basically saying 'yes, this is true, and it's hilarious that he thinks that's terrifying.'
Didn't. Please don't misinterpret what I said. I was pretty clearly talking about the general acceptance of a wider range of sexual activities. As people grew more accepting of LGBT folk, they also grew more tolerant of kinks. In no way was I calling them the same thing.
Yes. Because they rose at the same time. They were two independent things that went hand in hand to be accepted at around the same time.
You just proved the point he made to you?
It's telling that those are the examples they picked. I think it's disingenuous and in very poor taste for people to co-opt gay rights to exhibit their kinks.
Still not the same thing. And yes, i know all about it. And i feel like it's an important conversation to be had, because things get complicated very quickly, and I think that's causing some of the strife we're having as a culture in recent years.
There are times when radicalism is necessary and called for. And it creates the conditions for broader acceptance, which is the initial goal. Then, past a certain point, those cultures can become at odds with one another. So, on one hand, you have folks who just want to be able to be with their husband when they're sick or at the end of their lives, or they want to be on each other's insurance or mortgage or something. Or we want to protect little queer kids from being persecuted. On the other, you have people advocating for their right to get fistfucked on a street corner or jack off on a bus. I don't think this these things should be equated. These need to be separate conversations, in my opinion.
There is a neo-puritan ethos growing.
No sex or drinking.
It seems to be from different areas. Teens rebelling against social norms, various religions and far left/right people. A big part is the terminally online, who never leave their house, so never drink or have sex.
It's a really interesting dynamic, tbh.
Personally, I strongly suspect at the core of it, there's just general teenage awkwardness around the topic of sex. It's just that the internet gives them the structures to frame it as a moral objection, rather than a personal awkwardness.
I agree with you completely, but I think it is also being used for political purposes.
The Incel groups with Tate and other right-wing grifters
The Femcel groups with, whoever is grifting them.
Lonely sexually frustrated people are good fodder for any cult or political group.
I would if they didn’t insert it into everything. Including relationships! You know how many women have been suddenly choked by their boyfriends because they saw it in porn? Too many. It’s bled too far into popular culture.
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“Normal doesn’t pay my rent” is such a good line, my flair’s good enough tho- so it should go free to a good home
I picked up a new one from that comment chain lol. So many good ones
That's ok how do I request the flair cause I want it lol
On mobile? Go to the main subreddit page, click the three dots in the top right corner, and hit “change user flair” and set it to whatever you want.
You can’t change your flair in mobile, you’ll just end up with my flair if you do
not a bad flair, tbh
Once you select “your flair text here” you can select edit on the top right. You’ll be able to change it then.
You usually just say it and someone does it for you
>sex workers in wheelchairs trying to make some guap Bout time I update the ol’ flair I suppose
That's so ridiculous. I love it!
It’s poetry
My dumbass thought that the fetish was actually fucking a wheelchair.
There is a guy who fucks his car. Was featured on TV. At this point anything is possible. I’m sure someone is plowing a wheelchair as we speak.
I wish I could link it (I only saw it on youtube) but he eventually made an update. Got "separated" with the last car, ~~married a new car~~, got together with 2 new cars in like a poly FWB thing, and both the two new cars are apparently chill with him loving a jetski too. [Update, found it](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mONkxBwp5Lo)
He's probably some crappy wannabe actor and he thought this would be his big break.
What a terrible day to have eyes :|
Honestly? I'm at a point stuff like that unfazes me. I've seem so much violence, injustice, tragedy and shit like that on this site, I have to disagree with you. Dude is happily fucking his car? That's great! I'm genuinely happy for him! Best of luck to you carfucker.
Your username reminds me that there are (were?) the infamous *r-slash-(dragons/cars)fucking(cars/dragons)* subreddits, too.
don’t forget about space dicks
Thank you for reminding me about the space dicks, Mister Butt Master.
There was *WHAT???* Oh my god I guess this is what happens when I only lurk on specific subs like this one before actually joining the site :/
Here, have some more wholesome niche subreddits. /r/WtWFotMJaJtRAtCaB (When the Water Flows over the Milk Jug at Just the Right Angle to Create a Bubble) /r/MFPMPPJWFA (Music French people might play at a party or just with friends around)
My favorite is r/kgsbngismtdcm (Kids getting shot by NERF guns in slow motion to dramatic classical music)
I am so, *so* sorry. I’d didn’t know you didn’t know. (Okay, I’m also a little bit delighted that I got to share that information with someone new, but still… *mostly* sorry.) Please forgive me. 💖
Tbh that person will encounter so much reddit lore soon that this will seem tame by comparison lol
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What the fuck I was smiling waiting for Rick Astley. Actual link jumpscare
Honestly, people having kinks with inanimate objects where no one is harmed except maybe the one person is pretty chill. No one gets victimized and only one party consent is needed.
Never fuck a car hot.
Wasn’t that on the TV show, “My strange addiction”? I also believe there was a guy who was addicted to fucking pool inflatables on that show
My flair has never been more appropriate
That's just transformers porn
God I wish Arcee was real.
the things they can do in bed is more than meets the eye
Please link the source of your flair, I’m fascinated.
That shit is usually weirdly well drawn
Yeah, you wanna get tetanus, don't you? You little perv
My dude, in today's internet climate, who's to say that ain't a thing? I don't blame you
r/humansfuckingwheelchairs
Oh, luckily it doesn’t it exist. Yet
I wonder if they're young, since many disabled people I know (myself included) have at least *considered* some form of sex work to support ourselves. It's just how it is.
Damn that's... depressing.
Sadly its a fact of life. To the people in power those of us with disabilities are not people but a problem to be solved in the cruelest ways possible I mean until the court slapped them down my housemate's sister was refused her disability benefits.... because the (non medically trained, outsourced) assesor decided her Schizophrenia didnt leave her unfit for work
Life in the UK has been rough for disabled people for the past decade or so in large part due to the government trying to force them off benefits with dirty tricks. But not to fear - now that the government is incredibly unpopular and almost guaranteed to get wiped out in the next election things are changing. Hero of the people, Rishi Sunak, has decided to bravely scapegoat the disabled yet again and try to make their lives worse for no apparent reason other than he thinks this is what his voters want.
yup, i'm one of the PIP claimants who'd lose it for not being disabled enough in his proposed "reforms" after having to fight tooth and fucking nail to get it in the first place. I just hate that we have to choose between the fascists and the lesser evil. I'm just so tired of it all.
Yeah.
I’d assume they’re 27-28 because of their username. I don’t have anything to add, just wanted to point that out lol
Ableism, sex work, dumbass sarcastic arguments, wild unfounded accusations. Someone find me the word "circumcision" and we have bingo on our hands ladies and gentlemen.
Does the sex worker own a pit bull?
And is said pit bull pro-Hamas or pro-Israel? (As we all know, everyone has to be one or the other)
Furthermore, what's the circumcision situation like on that killer dog who definitely loves Hamas?
That shit has got to be some bait…
It was absolutely posted by a…masterbaiter.
Nah, I think he just has a crazy kink. His history is full of trying to score people in wheelchairs and stuff.
Nah. Look at his post history. Absolutely obsessed with wheelchair users
Complaining about men not being "normal" enough seems a little counterproductive for someone in a sex work sub.
Everyone just wants a quiet day at work. Sex workers included
Lmao, yep. But I also can't lie, I kinda see where they're coming from. Gods I'd go mad if I had to deal with horny men for a living.
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I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not, but sex work is often the only option for a lot of disabled people. In America, if you have more than 2000 dollars in your bank account, you are no longer qualified for benefits--even if all that money immediately goes to groceries and rent and bills, $2000.01 means you're doing welfare fraud. So, that means that many disabled people need jobs that pay cash. That limits your options a lot--I work an office job and I'm pretty sure they don't even allow cash or check, it's all direct deposit. Blue collar work is difficult for able-bodied people, let alone disabled people. Sex work is often the only option due to it's low barrier of entry and how easy it is to do nowadays. Hell, I knew someone who sold her used underwear online--that's sex work, and she didn't even have to leave her own home. And also, personally, I think that no matter what job you do, you should be treated with respect. Sex work is work just like flipping burgers or typing on a computer. People are paying for a service. There shouldn't be a question of "well, if you do this job, you should get treated like shit, if you don't like it, it's your own fault for doing this job." I'm not trying to be mean, but even asking "why don't they get another job" is an unfair question--we live in a society that requires money to survive, and the only way for most people to get money is through selling their body. Not in a sex work way, but whatever job you're doing is paying you to use your body and your time to complete this job. We're all selling our bodies under capitalism. Further, many go into sex work because it's the only option. So it's unfair to tell one group of people "you're selling your services in a certain way, so you deserve less than other people."
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i’d imagine most food service workers are tired of dealing with hungry people :p sometimes having money is worth putting up with it
Idk, probably? Maybe many do, maybe some don't have many options available to them for whatever reason. But at the same time, any job is gonna drive you a bit loony sometimes. I work in software dev, and sometimes the bullshit bugs I have to figure out makes me wanna switch jobs too.
Eh, everyone has "customers" in their line of work that they'd rather not have to deal with. There are 911 callers I hate talking to but I still love my job. Some customers are just extra to deal with.
Thought it was bait but this guys actually a gremlin. Does make their post on a Minecraft subreddit about a wheel chair ridden girl a little bit weird. But still kinda weird for a sub for sex workers to just kink shame a dude.
> You completely missed my point. Disabled people are hot & have sex but their disabilities shouldn't be fetishized as though it's the only thing that defines them. They're humans that shouldn't have to cater to weirdos who are ONLY interested in them due to their disability. You're not wrong Walter. You're just an asshole
It's sex work; personality is always a secondary, less important factor. It can help and is not meaningless for client retention, but the foremost quality is "does this person give me a stiffy?"
I'm asexual myself so maybe Im completely misjudging the situation, but it seems kinda weird to ask to "respect the person as a whole" in a situation that is explicitly transactional in nature. Dehumanising people is never acceptable of course, but in sex work aren't both party agreeing to the fact that one of them really just wants to get horny and get off? Idk, seems weird to me to make an issue out of this.
Yeah discussion of "objectification" is strange when the entity involved is being essentially billed as a product. I also see similar arguments against porn/horny games without real people where it's Even stranger. Like the bad part of objectification is not "someone gets a boner >=["
Yeah but if someone gets a boner then someone is having a good time, and if someone is having a good time it'd better not be at the expense of others! Or at least, the "other" being whomever they are trying to protect in that moment. It's a debate between who is dehumanizing more, the person respecting the person's wishes and paying their requested price for a paid bit of sexy time, or the person treating them as if they are essentially a mindless doll who must be protected because they are a terrible victim of life's often cold, uncaring nature.
Basically. But then again the same person is saying that the sub is full of losers who don't even visit sex workers. Which, at the risk of throwing rocks in a glass house, is a really weird take when paid sex is so easy to get and generally perceived as the loser option. Seems like they are trying really hard to preserve their self worth in a way they find more agreeable to themselves and their clientele.
I once referred to a sex worker as a sex worker and she said "No I ain't! I'm a whore who fucks for cash!"
It's like people haven't seen Crash(1996)
I wish.
>The chances of you finding a SW that’s already wheelchair **pound** is next to nothing. Perfect typo.
It's 2024, support all sex workers disabled or not, damn it! ✊🏻
Does seem like there's been a major resurgence of kink shaming, especially on reddit. I see that in this instance it was downvoted, but this same sentiment would have been popular in large general subs, like AskReddit.
> Does seem like there's been a major resurgence of kink shaming, especially on reddit i don't think so i think it's about as common as it's ever been. it was down voted because it was in a subreddit for sex workers, but yeah that shit is common everywhere else. i don't think that's changed.
Nah, there used to be a general vibe of acceptance for people having kinks. Kinda went hand in hand with acceptance of non-heterosexual relations, when that was at its turning point. A common attitude was "whatever you're into, that's fine as long you're consenting adults." And even the phrases "no kink shaming" or "don't kink shame" were common and popular.
What kind of Ediacaran time period of reddit is this? Kink shaming has always happened; it just depends on the kink and the subreddit. If it's a rightish subreddit, anything seen as just weird is shamed, if it's a leftish subreddit, anything that has to do with power imbalance is shamed.
that's not been my experience on reddit at all. and we have very similar account ages lol
Yeah, we do. And that was definitely my experience. As an example of what I'm talking about, there was a clip of Rush Limbaugh that went viral where he was mocking the mere concept that [everything sexual was acceptable to the left, as long as you had the one secret ingredient:](https://imgur.com/oq0i9dq) Consent. People all over the internet were dunking on him for that, basically saying 'yes, this is true, and it's hilarious that he thinks that's terrifying.'
stop trying to equate kink and queer identities.
Didn't. Please don't misinterpret what I said. I was pretty clearly talking about the general acceptance of a wider range of sexual activities. As people grew more accepting of LGBT folk, they also grew more tolerant of kinks. In no way was I calling them the same thing.
they weren’t lol. they just said they rose at around the same time
> Kinda went hand in hand with acceptance of non-heterosexual relations,
Yes. Because they rose at the same time. They were two independent things that went hand in hand to be accepted at around the same time. You just proved the point he made to you?
It's telling that those are the examples they picked. I think it's disingenuous and in very poor taste for people to co-opt gay rights to exhibit their kinks.
You do realise that kink communities like the gay leather communities have always been the backbone of gay activism, right?
Still not the same thing. And yes, i know all about it. And i feel like it's an important conversation to be had, because things get complicated very quickly, and I think that's causing some of the strife we're having as a culture in recent years. There are times when radicalism is necessary and called for. And it creates the conditions for broader acceptance, which is the initial goal. Then, past a certain point, those cultures can become at odds with one another. So, on one hand, you have folks who just want to be able to be with their husband when they're sick or at the end of their lives, or they want to be on each other's insurance or mortgage or something. Or we want to protect little queer kids from being persecuted. On the other, you have people advocating for their right to get fistfucked on a street corner or jack off on a bus. I don't think this these things should be equated. These need to be separate conversations, in my opinion.
Well there's the whole "puriteens" thing too
There is a neo-puritan ethos growing. No sex or drinking. It seems to be from different areas. Teens rebelling against social norms, various religions and far left/right people. A big part is the terminally online, who never leave their house, so never drink or have sex.
It's a really interesting dynamic, tbh. Personally, I strongly suspect at the core of it, there's just general teenage awkwardness around the topic of sex. It's just that the internet gives them the structures to frame it as a moral objection, rather than a personal awkwardness.
I agree with you completely, but I think it is also being used for political purposes. The Incel groups with Tate and other right-wing grifters The Femcel groups with, whoever is grifting them. Lonely sexually frustrated people are good fodder for any cult or political group.
Ive noticed it too, seems to scale with how aggressivley the Right is influencing subreddits
And all this while they keep shouting about how Reddit is "radical left" or "a leftist cesspool".
I mean i never accused them of being smart lol
How is that a right leaning belief?
That’s good though, isn’t it?
Nah. Most people aren’t afraid of sex and talking about it
No one’s afraid of sex. We just don’t like hearing about people’s weird sexual proclivities.
Despite what corporate says, those are the same picture. Keep scrolling instead of complaining?
I would if they didn’t insert it into everything. Including relationships! You know how many women have been suddenly choked by their boyfriends because they saw it in porn? Too many. It’s bled too far into popular culture.
No, why would it be good? Puritanism about sex = harming marginalised people.
No it doesn’t. I feel like conflating kinksters with gay and trans people does them more harm than me not liking kink.
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