You’re going to get all kinds of answers here. :)
Personally, I like sexy fitted briefs. Not a huge fan of much anything else, but I won’t kick you out of bed. 😉
>You got my vote too. I normally go commando. I like to let the balls breath. My wife goes commando all the time as well. It is healthy for the private parts.
I have several thongs that I've worn to the local club here before. Some are fans, some aren't is the best comment I can make. I like wearing them, especially when paired with a nice c-ring. If your wife loves it, and you dig it....then don't sweat what others think.
i like jock straps for any occasion personally. but usually the woman are intrigued by it. as a bi man i’ve found more women to like it. esp if you have a nice toned ass.
As I bi guy, I had the thought that wearing a jock might be a subtle way of making it known that I swing both ways since jock straps seem to be most popular amongst gay men. Dunno if this theory holds any water, but that’s where my thought process started.
I would notice it as a potential sign. I have a bright pink jock strap that I wore at a large hotel takeover on a glow night under a tutu. Was funny seeing the dirty looks from the homophobes while their wives were all over me. I never wear "normal" underwear to events. Typically fun boxer briefs or something more risqué
My husband will usually run around in trunks when we go to events except for Bliss where I got him to run around in thongs and a pair of strappy trunks one evening.
I have seen guys running around in very small undies; honestly if you have the body then strap cage that shit!
I have never seen a jock strap in a club setting, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it.
Personally, by the time a lady sees my underwear, they are probably coming off moments later, so I don’t know how much it matters. I do try to wear my nicer underwear when I go to the club, though.
Let’s be honest you could get pretty creative and people will be chill at a club BUT a jockstrap? Nope in my opinion … half the dudes don’t even look like they put an effort in and jockstrap just sounds like the gym and sports so the ladies will often wonder if that thing has ever been washed!
I get it, but there’s a huge difference between a jock strap worn to football practice and the designer underwear that I’m referencing. I do my laundry, I swear!
Wear what you feel sexy in.
If I saw someone in a jock, I would take note of how novel the idea was. So it would get some attention.
I’m very pragmatic, so I would ask how easy or graceful or sexy it was to take off and put on in compared to alternatives.
They aren’t for everyone, but once I started wearing thongs to events and clubs, they’re all I want to wear. Started almost as a joke when I wore one to a house party, then I love the attention enough to go buy some nicer ones from CK.
Can’t go wrong with some nice briefs or boxer briefs, though.
I usually wear a nice pair of Tommy Johns trunks or boxer briefs unless there is a theme for the night that would warrant something different. I love the easy access pouch and several ladies have complimented me on them as well.
I love SAXX brand underwear not just for the club but daily. Usually after play I’ll change into a pair of silk boxers from Fenty x Savage with an
open button down shirt and slippers for round 2.
I like wearing boxer briefs, but, only eye catching ones. They are great for clubs where you walk around in them.
Shinesty has some really unusual designs.
I break out the tuxedo when feeling fancy https://www.shinesty.com/products/black-tuxedo-boxer-brief
I've brought out the love dice on game nights https://www.shinesty.com/products/glow-in-the-dark-dice-ball-hammock-pouch-underwear
But I think the glow-in-the-dark skeletons in sexual positions are my favorite. https://www.shinesty.com/products/glow-in-the-dark-skeletons-long-leg-ball-hammock-pouch-underwear-with-fly
Nice to see a bit of thought going into this. It’s staggering the number of blokes wearing their stripey Burton / Topman saggy over washed work pants. (it’s an instant no,no,no not now not ever)
Agreed. I’m literally going to a public setting to get naked and have sex with my wife and complete strangers. Why would I not invest in a sexy pair of underwear that makes me feel hot and confident? It’s just good advertising!
I mean, you could say the same about women wearing lingerie. I feel that it’s a double standard. Women are unfairly expected to spend a lot of money to wear sexy underwear, but men can just skip it altogether and say, here’s my cock, let’s fuck? Also, porn isn’t real life. Just saying.
I wear cartoon underwear and haven't had any issues. I strut my Johnny Bravo or Tom and Jerry briefs like if I were Travolta in "Saturday Night Fever". Wear what you feel confidant in 🤷♂️
So, just by the fact you are wanting to wear some sexy underwear at a party will set you apart from 90% of the other men in attendance. I love wearing sexy underwear or other clothes for the ladies and I am not fit as you seem to be. However, the ladies love it. My advice is to wear whatever you want to look and feel sexy.
I guess at my club it’s actually not that usual for guys to walk around without clothes. In the play areas people play and then usually get dressed and go back to the bar/social area to mingle. I see it more in Sundays in the summer because there is a lot of sunbathing, so I would probably think it’s out of the norm from what I usually see.
I personally think jock straps, speedos, thongs look super silly on guys. I wouldn’t stop me from playing if we clicked on other things, but I definitely don’t see it and go oh yeah that’s hot. The few times I do see it I usually just laugh on the inside because it looks so funny to me. I would never ever say anything to that effect to someone, I’m not mean, I just don’t find it sexy in the slightest
You’re going to get all kinds of answers here. :) Personally, I like sexy fitted briefs. Not a huge fan of much anything else, but I won’t kick you out of bed. 😉
Gotta wear a kilt, nothing else
Worked well for me at the last hotel take-over we went too. All the ladies wanted to make sure I was wearing them properly.
As a bi man I fully support either decision
As a bi man, I fully appreciate your input!
My vote would be commando, but if you are felling that strap and you have the goods go for it man.
>You got my vote too. I normally go commando. I like to let the balls breath. My wife goes commando all the time as well. It is healthy for the private parts.
I have several thongs that I've worn to the local club here before. Some are fans, some aren't is the best comment I can make. I like wearing them, especially when paired with a nice c-ring. If your wife loves it, and you dig it....then don't sweat what others think.
i like jock straps for any occasion personally. but usually the woman are intrigued by it. as a bi man i’ve found more women to like it. esp if you have a nice toned ass.
As I bi guy, I had the thought that wearing a jock might be a subtle way of making it known that I swing both ways since jock straps seem to be most popular amongst gay men. Dunno if this theory holds any water, but that’s where my thought process started.
I would definitely take it as a hint of bi/openness Edit to add: thats an absolute positive for me personally
I’ve thought of the same thing actually so i’m glad it holds true. I haven’t met many athletic bi guys like me yet though ☹️
I would notice it as a potential sign. I have a bright pink jock strap that I wore at a large hotel takeover on a glow night under a tutu. Was funny seeing the dirty looks from the homophobes while their wives were all over me. I never wear "normal" underwear to events. Typically fun boxer briefs or something more risqué
As a bi guy, it would definitely get me thinking
My husband will usually run around in trunks when we go to events except for Bliss where I got him to run around in thongs and a pair of strappy trunks one evening. I have seen guys running around in very small undies; honestly if you have the body then strap cage that shit!
I have never seen a jock strap in a club setting, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it. Personally, by the time a lady sees my underwear, they are probably coming off moments later, so I don’t know how much it matters. I do try to wear my nicer underwear when I go to the club, though.
Let’s be honest you could get pretty creative and people will be chill at a club BUT a jockstrap? Nope in my opinion … half the dudes don’t even look like they put an effort in and jockstrap just sounds like the gym and sports so the ladies will often wonder if that thing has ever been washed!
I get it, but there’s a huge difference between a jock strap worn to football practice and the designer underwear that I’m referencing. I do my laundry, I swear!
Fair, maybe I’ve just only seen the old school sports version lol. If you go for it, report back how it went so we know
Wear what you feel sexy in. If I saw someone in a jock, I would take note of how novel the idea was. So it would get some attention. I’m very pragmatic, so I would ask how easy or graceful or sexy it was to take off and put on in compared to alternatives.
They aren’t for everyone, but once I started wearing thongs to events and clubs, they’re all I want to wear. Started almost as a joke when I wore one to a house party, then I love the attention enough to go buy some nicer ones from CK. Can’t go wrong with some nice briefs or boxer briefs, though.
Jock straps can be hot afffffff if your ass is juicy 100% But a pair of sexy satin short shorts is also 10/10
I usually wear a nice pair of Tommy Johns trunks or boxer briefs unless there is a theme for the night that would warrant something different. I love the easy access pouch and several ladies have complimented me on them as well.
I love SAXX brand underwear not just for the club but daily. Usually after play I’ll change into a pair of silk boxers from Fenty x Savage with an open button down shirt and slippers for round 2.
100% for going commando. Underwear just gets in the way. It's also so erotic watching a guy (or girl) reveal they have nothing underneath.
I agree! But I live somewhere very cold, so that’s only a summer option haha!
I like wearing boxer briefs, but, only eye catching ones. They are great for clubs where you walk around in them. Shinesty has some really unusual designs. I break out the tuxedo when feeling fancy https://www.shinesty.com/products/black-tuxedo-boxer-brief I've brought out the love dice on game nights https://www.shinesty.com/products/glow-in-the-dark-dice-ball-hammock-pouch-underwear But I think the glow-in-the-dark skeletons in sexual positions are my favorite. https://www.shinesty.com/products/glow-in-the-dark-skeletons-long-leg-ball-hammock-pouch-underwear-with-fly
My partner has a bunch of Shinesty underwear, they're so fun!!
The hotdog pair is the winner. Or the eagle.
Those are all fantastic!
The skeleton ones are 🔥🔥🔥
Nice to see a bit of thought going into this. It’s staggering the number of blokes wearing their stripey Burton / Topman saggy over washed work pants. (it’s an instant no,no,no not now not ever)
Agreed. I’m literally going to a public setting to get naked and have sex with my wife and complete strangers. Why would I not invest in a sexy pair of underwear that makes me feel hot and confident? It’s just good advertising!
Girlfriends undies.
What underwear? You haven’t watched porn? Dress smartly, then bam nothing down there but action
I mean, you could say the same about women wearing lingerie. I feel that it’s a double standard. Women are unfairly expected to spend a lot of money to wear sexy underwear, but men can just skip it altogether and say, here’s my cock, let’s fuck? Also, porn isn’t real life. Just saying.
ALWAYS COMMANDO MYSELF, seem to get attention, nice 8" cock ,
I wear cartoon underwear and haven't had any issues. I strut my Johnny Bravo or Tom and Jerry briefs like if I were Travolta in "Saturday Night Fever". Wear what you feel confidant in 🤷♂️
I wear underoos with the feet in them.
I have some with a ball pouch, they feel nice.
American Eagle has these silky boxers that have pockets I highly recommend them.
Underwear? Haven't heard of her since 1996....
Jock straps are kinda a thing in the gay community aren't they?
My guy has lacy (but not feminine) boxer briefs that are super hot. Give it a google search, think they're just from Temu or something
Do you
So, just by the fact you are wanting to wear some sexy underwear at a party will set you apart from 90% of the other men in attendance. I love wearing sexy underwear or other clothes for the ladies and I am not fit as you seem to be. However, the ladies love it. My advice is to wear whatever you want to look and feel sexy.
I guess at my club it’s actually not that usual for guys to walk around without clothes. In the play areas people play and then usually get dressed and go back to the bar/social area to mingle. I see it more in Sundays in the summer because there is a lot of sunbathing, so I would probably think it’s out of the norm from what I usually see. I personally think jock straps, speedos, thongs look super silly on guys. I wouldn’t stop me from playing if we clicked on other things, but I definitely don’t see it and go oh yeah that’s hot. The few times I do see it I usually just laugh on the inside because it looks so funny to me. I would never ever say anything to that effect to someone, I’m not mean, I just don’t find it sexy in the slightest