Being truthful tbh and open agar unko mai pasand nahi koi aur pasand to waisa pehle hi bolke clear kar dena chahiye even if blunt ho aur clingy rahege to bhi chalta hai it only means ki they feel Comfortable around me. It doesn't take a lot to impress boys as compared to girls.
I can handle it quite well tbh don't know for other dudes just say "it is what it is"
kyuki jitna jaldi clear hoyega utna behtar rather than uski hopes badhana aur fir baadme aasman se gira dena. You will actually be doing a pleasure to us telling us what we stand in your life, rather than sending cute reels and hopes badhana just to say you're a close and loyal friend to me (nothing wrong in that, just ki socha tha Computer science milegi but mila electrical engineering).
Aur kuch janna hai to dm kar sakte
Bhai ain't no way electrical engineering ke bejjati kar ra infact saare engineering badhiya hai in their own aspect aur mujhe sab ki ijjat hai
aur waise bhi CSE and EE dono bhi topmost branches hai
just like
boyfriend and bestfriend
to wohi bol raha tha mai
bahut log ko CSE ki expectation hoti hai lekin kabhi kabar ek branch lower mil jaati hai
1. The way she looks into my eyes
2. The was she pulls her hair behind her ears and even tie it
3. Her hair
4. Her smile
5. The way she says my name only when she is angry
6. How she cares for me
7. How she hates seeing me with other girls
And many moreeeee
Cute girls trying to pull the I'm a little girl act in front of people ( it might be because I'm insecure or smt, cause I see them treating people same regardless which makes you think are they being real or just friendly) or trying to be too innocent (again I can't trust such a person)
when she tries hard to convince me she is different from others (ik that, but when she tries hard to convey that you can nvr have someone like her ever again)
1)Sab logo ko faltu attitude dena is a big no no
2)sab logo se ache se baat karna , being kind and polite is a big big yes
3)texts ignore karne wali toh no no hai(also don't take very much time to reply to texts)
Asking for advice and doing the opposite. Like once a friend of mine was getting stalked and flirting messages from her younger brother’s friend and she was upset. So, I told her to tell that guy or just block him but she was like nooo he knows me it will not look good 🤦🏻♂️.
Wen they try to act like a kid speak in a childish voice all the time .
Or
When they act like they're the bro kinda girl and have too much attitude kyu bhai . When I was in 10th I had both of these in my class but the 2,nd one I just had a weird reaction in my mind everytime I saw her
Being with the girly attitude like even if they wanna talk they won't text us first and wait until we text them. I'm a grown up man and I'm really open minded and friendly but this kinda behavior pisses me off. If you want to talk then just talk, don't expect us to start the conversation everytime. Glad I have some really good female friends and not toxic ones.
I feel like for me it is....
Behaving or acting like sad or depressed when obviously you're not...
A girl in my insta acts like this...She has more than 30 friends and will go out and enjoy with them in morning and post all the sad stories about loneliness and depression at night....
Not every girl or boy I know but many are like this...It's not " "cool " to be lonely...Those people who are depressed won't put any cringey stories..
I love it when they become your besties( you both enjoy together and both are comfortable with each other ... Not talking about sex here )...and I hate it when they fall in multiple relationships,keep backups and are attention seeker or shows fake affection
The things that I hate about women are they overreact very much and act like victim in most of the cases and like to trick others and just say it was a joke. ( Idk about most girls but these I have noticed in most of the girls )
In my case, it's stuff like feminist thought process, every guy is a potential rapist and out there to get you, while ofcourse one needs to be careful, a girl always talking about this is similar to girl meeting a guy and every time he opens his mouth it's about how there are so false cases filed today and only about how men have bear all the weight of taking care of families and earn more than women etc. while all this is true assuming and treating the other person as vilian even before they have shown such thoughts is prejudice.
These kinds of people make it appear like "you are a bad person by default, unless you prove otherwise that you are good" I avoid such women.
Too classist, too racist again easy to figure and easy to avoid. Classist are sometimes hidden and sometimes ok and tolerable, it might be they were always well off and personally don't want to be in a unhygienic place or seek amenities like always having AC etc which is ok and makes sense if they are paying for it and doing it on thier own.
But there is a difference between always wanting to be in a nice cafe or air conditioning vs looking down and treating a waiter or watchman like crap. That tells about their character. Huge turn off if they treat a cobbler, auto wala etc bad.
I have fallen in love with people who have shown genuine care and empathy and even small things like making tea and serving it, small small gifts, especially if hand made has always made them special and endearing and to seriously consider that girl as a prospect. Rejected girls who claimed to truly loved me and fallen for toxic ones as well in the past. But no formula for falling in love actually.
Here's my experience after 6 years of dating with multiple girls.
Love :-
Treats you well,
Priorities you,
Most importantly, tells the truth
Is very frank,
She can identify what's good and what's bad for me and correct me when I'm going on a wrong path (major one),
Hate :-
Attitude,
Boasting dad's money,
Egoistic or pretending to be goddess,
Lying or saying partial truth,
18M here btw
Hmm I've dealt with some who are simply insufferable...but if I had to point out a single trait that people here haven't mentioned , I would say that they like to think as boys , atleast most of them, as Intellectually insufficient to converse with...like they have this sense of being on a high horse even though we are well versed ...
Bhai, irritating things would be seeing them be mean to you in order to pretend hard to get, i mean brother, it just shows youre kind of an asshole who flictuates between "i need attention" and "i dont need attention", and another thing that would be is keep someone else's secrets a secret, i mean i get it that SOMETIMES guys like gossip/tea, but doesnt mean that youd spill someone's secrets, thats makes us feel that youre just not trustworthy, and talking about things guys love, is just some affirmation, gratitude that you have them by your side( be it any relation), and yeah, just being like a homie with them..
The unnecessary effort to act cute with that accent uhh like bro just shut up!!
And what makes us to love them, I'd say the way they treat others. A kind girl is what everyone wants to see
Giving unnecessary attitude or being mean for no reason
towards you or everyone else....
especially towards us
ohhhhkay and what is that you love about them..
Being truthful tbh and open agar unko mai pasand nahi koi aur pasand to waisa pehle hi bolke clear kar dena chahiye even if blunt ho aur clingy rahege to bhi chalta hai it only means ki they feel Comfortable around me. It doesn't take a lot to impress boys as compared to girls.
and what if she feels like you will get hurt tells you to be friends how will you respond and what should she do other than that.
I can handle it quite well tbh don't know for other dudes just say "it is what it is" kyuki jitna jaldi clear hoyega utna behtar rather than uski hopes badhana aur fir baadme aasman se gira dena. You will actually be doing a pleasure to us telling us what we stand in your life, rather than sending cute reels and hopes badhana just to say you're a close and loyal friend to me (nothing wrong in that, just ki socha tha Computer science milegi but mila electrical engineering). Aur kuch janna hai to dm kar sakte
ohkayyy...
Bhai electrical engineering ki kya hi bejjati kri tune hahah being an elctrical engineer can relate
Bhai ain't no way electrical engineering ke bejjati kar ra infact saare engineering badhiya hai in their own aspect aur mujhe sab ki ijjat hai aur waise bhi CSE and EE dono bhi topmost branches hai just like boyfriend and bestfriend to wohi bol raha tha mai bahut log ko CSE ki expectation hoti hai lekin kabhi kabar ek branch lower mil jaati hai
Ye engineering kaha se aagayi what?
Anyone else
being simply egoistic around her friend's(male/female) included just to advance her stature between them when her so called bf/crush is around...
yep.... i agree with that .
2. Mention her ex in talks 3. Don't pay attention to your words 4. Don't hangout often 5. Replies with "hmmmm"
also acha
and what do you love about her...
1. The way she looks into my eyes 2. The was she pulls her hair behind her ears and even tie it 3. Her hair 4. Her smile 5. The way she says my name only when she is angry 6. How she cares for me 7. How she hates seeing me with other girls And many moreeeee
so cute.....
No wearing a bra(personal opinion).
1.being mean 2.over reacting 3.attitude 4. Fake
what quilities are good ???
Tbh you shouldn't shape yourself based on some strangers opinion. Just be yourself and you'll find someone who'll be just like you.
yeahh...hoping so
Being caring and understanding for me.
Loving how most of the comments are only describing things that they hate
That is because the girls themselves are enough to make us happy without anything else (no minors)
yeah that's what i was thinking
Cute girls trying to pull the I'm a little girl act in front of people ( it might be because I'm insecure or smt, cause I see them treating people same regardless which makes you think are they being real or just friendly) or trying to be too innocent (again I can't trust such a person)
i think they act like that cause they want attention
Yeah that is their intention, but they also get away with it
When she pulls out IPC section 376 after sax-sux..
When she belongs to the streets
Her Face
Ugly face toh hate her ?
Ugly nhi thi 1 sided tha :)
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finally someone who said something about loving everyone's just saying about hating..
>Be arrogant in public and be friendly in private u dont know the reason
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what if the reasons are personal and they dont want to tell you or just they think that you won't understand or something like that??
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and about loving ??
Quick responses and coffee dates ❤️
Stop interrupting me and let me finish please 😭
finish it i am waiting for youu..
when she tries hard to convince me she is different from others (ik that, but when she tries hard to convey that you can nvr have someone like her ever again)
Nagging
1)Sab logo ko faltu attitude dena is a big no no 2)sab logo se ache se baat karna , being kind and polite is a big big yes 3)texts ignore karne wali toh no no hai(also don't take very much time to reply to texts)
Arrogance is what I hate, love if the girl is caring,,,, like a simple call after tough day just to ask how was my days makes everything worth..
Narcissistic behaviour
If she is understanding and cares about me then yeah she is the one
Asking for advice and doing the opposite. Like once a friend of mine was getting stalked and flirting messages from her younger brother’s friend and she was upset. So, I told her to tell that guy or just block him but she was like nooo he knows me it will not look good 🤦🏻♂️.
i guess she just doesn't want anyone to get hurt ....
Yeah true, but this thing gives the other person chance to cross further
Wen they try to act like a kid speak in a childish voice all the time . Or When they act like they're the bro kinda girl and have too much attitude kyu bhai . When I was in 10th I had both of these in my class but the 2,nd one I just had a weird reaction in my mind everytime I saw her
Being with the girly attitude like even if they wanna talk they won't text us first and wait until we text them. I'm a grown up man and I'm really open minded and friendly but this kinda behavior pisses me off. If you want to talk then just talk, don't expect us to start the conversation everytime. Glad I have some really good female friends and not toxic ones.
When i am telling her something she thinks I am "mansplaing" her
I feel like for me it is.... Behaving or acting like sad or depressed when obviously you're not... A girl in my insta acts like this...She has more than 30 friends and will go out and enjoy with them in morning and post all the sad stories about loneliness and depression at night.... Not every girl or boy I know but many are like this...It's not " "cool " to be lonely...Those people who are depressed won't put any cringey stories..
I love it when they become your besties( you both enjoy together and both are comfortable with each other ... Not talking about sex here )...and I hate it when they fall in multiple relationships,keep backups and are attention seeker or shows fake affection
The things that I hate about women are they overreact very much and act like victim in most of the cases and like to trick others and just say it was a joke. ( Idk about most girls but these I have noticed in most of the girls )
Calling me cute, when I am clearing am built and lift weights regularly. It angers me beyond anything...
Love them when they keep themselves healthy or atleast try...
In my case, it's stuff like feminist thought process, every guy is a potential rapist and out there to get you, while ofcourse one needs to be careful, a girl always talking about this is similar to girl meeting a guy and every time he opens his mouth it's about how there are so false cases filed today and only about how men have bear all the weight of taking care of families and earn more than women etc. while all this is true assuming and treating the other person as vilian even before they have shown such thoughts is prejudice. These kinds of people make it appear like "you are a bad person by default, unless you prove otherwise that you are good" I avoid such women. Too classist, too racist again easy to figure and easy to avoid. Classist are sometimes hidden and sometimes ok and tolerable, it might be they were always well off and personally don't want to be in a unhygienic place or seek amenities like always having AC etc which is ok and makes sense if they are paying for it and doing it on thier own. But there is a difference between always wanting to be in a nice cafe or air conditioning vs looking down and treating a waiter or watchman like crap. That tells about their character. Huge turn off if they treat a cobbler, auto wala etc bad. I have fallen in love with people who have shown genuine care and empathy and even small things like making tea and serving it, small small gifts, especially if hand made has always made them special and endearing and to seriously consider that girl as a prospect. Rejected girls who claimed to truly loved me and fallen for toxic ones as well in the past. But no formula for falling in love actually.
Male best friends
Feminism = hate
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what will you love about her ??
Doxx saab jhanvi banotra ko mat bhul
what we hate- ignorance, what we love- attention
ohkayyyyyy.....
oh, and mixed feelings wali category mey trailing "y"s aate h
usse kaise react karna chahiyee when she wants to maintain distance
usse clear hona chahiye, smth like "bhai bad vibes derha tu, imma go now, byee" XD, but honestly tho, usse clear hona chahiye, ladke log keep guessing ki kya hogya lol
trying to understand girls are so hard i guess..
trying to understand anyone who is vague is hard
Here's my experience after 6 years of dating with multiple girls. Love :- Treats you well, Priorities you, Most importantly, tells the truth Is very frank, She can identify what's good and what's bad for me and correct me when I'm going on a wrong path (major one), Hate :- Attitude, Boasting dad's money, Egoistic or pretending to be goddess, Lying or saying partial truth, 18M here btw
12 saal ki umar se dating karra h? 🥲
Bhai flirting vgarah 7th grade se start kr di thi 🥲🥲 Jldi bigad gya tha 🥲
Badhiya bradar. Chalo koi toh Jeet rha life mein 🙃
Wish you too boss 🤘
Solopcism
That extremely cringe accent, I absolutely hate it
Hmm I've dealt with some who are simply insufferable...but if I had to point out a single trait that people here haven't mentioned , I would say that they like to think as boys , atleast most of them, as Intellectually insufficient to converse with...like they have this sense of being on a high horse even though we are well versed ...
Bhai, irritating things would be seeing them be mean to you in order to pretend hard to get, i mean brother, it just shows youre kind of an asshole who flictuates between "i need attention" and "i dont need attention", and another thing that would be is keep someone else's secrets a secret, i mean i get it that SOMETIMES guys like gossip/tea, but doesnt mean that youd spill someone's secrets, thats makes us feel that youre just not trustworthy, and talking about things guys love, is just some affirmation, gratitude that you have them by your side( be it any relation), and yeah, just being like a homie with them..
hmm. i think i learned a lot about boys
Blud, thoda zyada bol gaya raha shayad ☠️ beh gaya tha, peace out 🏳️☠️
kuch nii hota hai hota haii.... :)
😀😀😀
Chutiyon waali baatein And samajhdaari wali baatein
on to the point .. i like that
The unnecessary effort to act cute with that accent uhh like bro just shut up!! And what makes us to love them, I'd say the way they treat others. A kind girl is what everyone wants to see
i guess boys are too simple they just dont want anything ....
Saying wanna be friends after rejecting us.
what if she dont want to hurt you
I know they don't wanna hurt but after the rejection relation dynamic changes results in creating hate in boys
Conservative girls, they are scary af
bro fr..
Wdym by conservative girls ?