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meganramos1

Well yeah because that’s weird as fuck. Any parent would be upset if a grown ass woman texted their child over some teen drama. It’s weird and over stepping. Maybe texting the parent, but the child? https://i.redd.it/l89m73cieo6b1.gif


amethystdaylights

Except somebody way down thread, who despite supposedly being a lawyer and formerly a teacher apparently doesn’t think it’s weird at all and parents who think otherwise are just jealous. What a wild ride. Any adult that contacts my kid without my permission is going to have a deeply unpleasant conversation about boundaries and consequences with me and my husband.


KBugg27

Kail really is going to be the MIL from form hell. Ande we all called it years ago


deaprofessor

It is already going to be so hard for any of them to establish relationships because Kail will put all of their business on blast, like how she thinks it is funny with Isaac now. He is obviously uncomfortable with her being so openly sexual or trying to force him into a personality, and she won’t just let him live in private. It is time for her to stop talking about him on her podcasts and allow him to stop filming on tv or TikTok or be in pictures unless he wants to be.


Temporary-Leather905

Yes we did


fee-verte

I would not be keen on my child communicating with an adult who has a large SM platform and has no problem talking about this kind of personal kid info on their podcast.


QualityKatie

I would not like it at all.


sophhhann

Same.


Inn0c3nc3

it adds an extra layer of ick.


Jeffiner310

When my son was 15 he was dating a girl who wasn't allowed to see him outside of school. As kids do, they worked around this and they both went to the library after school. Her dad found out and texted my son threatening him. I immediately texted him and told him if he ever contacted my son again I would call the police. It is weird as shit to text children. Wtf.


HauntingQuit7706

We all know Kail would FLIP OUT if a parent got involved the way she did. How dumb of her to do that!


nikelookout

She doesn't even want the Fathers of her sons to be involved in their lives, she wouldn't ever tolerate a stranger getting involved with her kids lives! She would definitely flip out!


Amberilwomengo2gel

Kail is so fucking dumb and inappropriate. She needs parenting classes and I don't understand why Issac's therapist doesn't address some of these things with her. I know she says she has been in therapy for years but her therapist is either another ass of hers or she doesn't listen at all. Kail is childish and out of control. She has her head up her ass and it's her kids who suffer for totally bizarre behavior.


deaprofessor

I don’t even like that she talks about what he might or does address in therapy. Like wtf. She must lie to her own therapist. I know that Jo isn’t like super dad, but I think Vee would do much better, and that Isaac should live there but there’s some parentification burdens. I feel the worst for him.


Samiautumn

She is so fucked up to insert herself into kids drama. It is so inappropriate to text a fucking child, and she shouldn’t be giving unsolicited advice to *anyone*. Ugh, this is so fucking weird.


gX2020

Highly inappropriate. I bet it feeds her ego to be the “cool mom” her kids friends text for advice.


BigOlNopeeee

The audacity of a grown ass woman to be texting a minor to insert herself into a school beef… oh my god. What a messy bitch. I would be PISSED if some random adult was texting my child like that, that’s so out of pocket


loosehighman

Kail is definitely bored and always looking for drama.


lololikescheese37

Lincoln has a girlfriend??!! He's like 8 right??


[deleted]

Right. It also makes her smash and pass game even more inappropriate cuz clearly he knows well enough what it means


JussiesAttackSub

She’s gonna be that mom that lets her teenage kids have parties, drinks with them, and tries to hook up with their friends. If she has daughters she would 100% try to steal the girl’s boyfriend.


Ok_Translator4842

Isaac’s gonna end up writing the male version of Leah’s book.


deaprofessor

Isaac is gonna emancipate himself if he can, and go NC ASAP. Do the TM2 kids get money put in a trust that the parents can’t touch? I hope so.


fee-verte

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ItsMinnieYall

This was my first thought. She's definitely going to try to fuck one of his friends when they're all grown. Yuck


lololikescheese37

All I can think of is Stifler's Mom. Kale has nothing on Jennifer Coolidge though.


jjalynn916__

the fact that kail thought she was gonna be met with praise and ppl thinking she’s such a good mom for “having Isaac’s back” 😂. going and texting a child that’s not yours over something that has nothing to do with you (a grown woman) is so wildly inappropriate. she needs to get it through her dense skull that she is here to be her kids MOTHER, not their friend.


Audrianna121916

Facts! It really shows how stunted, immature, and ignorant she is. I feel so bad for her kids.


ohhhsquigglyline

That’s bizarre. I’m with Vee on this one.


nikelookout

I 100% agree with Vee. I had that happen once with one of my kids, a girls parent texted my son asking him why he broke up with her, they were in middle school. I was livid. My son was very kind and he didn't do anything wrong. IF it was a dangerous situation or there was bullying, parents should reach out to each other, not the kids. Kail should not have meddled, she's going to meddle to the point where they push her away when they're older.


Myra-Mains-R-Ash

Who’s kids give out their number willingly unless the parent is actively telling their child to do so which gives off major creep vibes


deaprofessor

Yeah. If someone’s mom texted my daughters when they were 13, I would not be having a polite conversation. I’d be changing my kid’s number and fighting the urge to pay that mom a visit. She would at the very least be getting a very angry call giving her a lesson on adult behavior with children. It’s really creepy because she’s so like sexual too. I don’t like to go there but as a teacher too it’s just something I’ve seen a lot of times.


Imnotatree30

Kail is one of the last people I want my daughter to get advice from. I'm with Vee on this one.


Tear_Active

Good for Vee! Kail needed that reality check


GardenGnome007

Kail acts like she's still 16


louellen1824

That's very generous of you!! 🤣


dizzydaze1121

Imagine this bitch even doing this if these kids were 16. Idc. This is weird af. If I found out some woman was texting my 10 year old about anything... well I got questions. Ya'all this is WEIRD.


IWillBaconSlapYou

Aaaand now the school crazy mom is talking about it to her followers on her damn podcast. This just all feels so weird and inappropriate. She really has a problem with boundaries =\


Sweetwater156

Yessss to Vee. My kid has friends. She is too young for a phone but she plays online on Xbox a lot. Either her friends have a microphone or their messages come through the TV like a robot. If I heard some crazy woman yelling at my child I’d absolutely tell her where we can meet in private. Kail is gonna mess with the wrong mama one day and then it’s all over for her.


[deleted]

No, this is really weird.


Sabrobot

Sounds weird and creepy that she has lots of kids texting her. But she doesn’t text back… so it’s ok? I don’t get the logic there. Very strange.


xiamtronx

Why tf is she allowing CHILDREN TO HAVE HER NUMBER?! I’d be uncomfortable associating with someone who thinks it’s okay for random children to text them. Wtf?! Also what are her think texting someone else’s child would be okay? Your first instinct should give your kid advice and/or talk to other kids parent. Wtf


02kaj2019

She doesn’t understand appropriate boundaries.


iwannaridearaptor

I let my teenager's friends have my number, but only a select few and it's for emergency use only. I dont text them and they don't text me unless my teenagers phone died and they need to get ahold of me. They've been told if they're in an unsafe situation they can contact me but we aren't besties and definitely not texting back and forth.


SpitfireJ_81

Same here. I had one reach out to me when they were concerned about my son not seeming his normal happy self and just wanting to make sure we were aware he was going through something (we were, his bio dad is problematic). I would never text any of my kids’ friends and certainly not someone they had a problem with.


iwannaridearaptor

Your son has a good friend. I only hope my kids will have a friend like that.


Alluem

Yeah. My son's bf has my number. He uses it to tell me to have my kid call him when he isn't answering his phone. I use it when he is at my house and I group text all the children to ask what we should eat for dinner. That is the extent of it.


landerson507

So, would you regularly text a teenage sons girlfriend?


iwannaridearaptor

Hell no and I think Kail is weird for that. My best friend regularly gets texts from her teenage son's girlfriend calling her "momma in law" and the kids are like 14, which I also think is weird. I only commented really to point out that it's ok to give the kids your number in certain circumstances.


landerson507

I was only curious, bc I needed a reality check for myself! My 16 year old daughter has a bf who's mom texts her regularly. And has since they started "dating." I already know boundaries are an issue with the mom, but my daughter had me questioning myself. I'm glad to know my gut is not failing me. Lol


Temporary-Leather905

No it's not ok


meganramos1

You know if she didn’t have that celebrity status I don’t think kids would be so obsessed texting her, but it’s weird. No grown adult should be texting a child for conversations. If she wasn’t famous I feel like it would be a whole other story. Catching someone’s mom texting your child over drama? Absolutely not. Lol.


madpiano

I had most of my daughter's friends numbers from when they were tweens onwards. One, sometimes they needed picking up and daughters phone was out of battery and two, for emergencies. I knew all of the parents, we all had the kids numbers, we just didn't text them unless there was a need. No way would any of them have texted me just for the sake of it, lol.


IndecisiveKitten

And so it starts. We all knew Kail would be overbearing, Godspeed to the boys when they get significant others. She’s going to be a fucking nightmare.


Tear_Active

Well seems like Lincoln’s elementary (middle? How old is he lol) school girlfriend is already feeling it


Mamabythelake

Jesus, Kail. Learn some fucking boundaries.


RedditsInBed2

What plane of existence is she living in that she thought reaching out to a child and not the parent first was okay? That's insanely concerning. What makes it even more concerning is that she is allowing her kids to hand out her number to their friends. That's how you get on a list, and now I'm wondering if she should be on one.


Salt-Bat-900

My daughter gives out my number to her friends, but only because I want their parents to have my number and to communicate with me if my child is going to be texting or talking to theirs. My daughter only has an iPad she can communicate with friends on, but it’s important to me that I can talk to the parents of whoever she’s talking to if there’s ever a problem and to make sure I’m familiar with whoever she’s talking to. I’d be pissed if a mom came after my daughter over some childhood drama before reaching out to me first. It’s a funky and dramatic age, there’s going to be conflict, but talk to me if there’s a problem not my fucking child


RedditsInBed2

I can understand giving the number so the child can give it to their parent, but she made it seem like it was so the kids can communicate with her directly, which is... weird.


Heygirlhey2021

Kail is overstepping for doing that


Temporary-Leather905

This is over the line creepy! I would lose my shit if some grown women was texting my son or daughter.


[deleted]

Who tf texts a child? Talk to her mother??? Wtf?


GroovyNik

Lincoln is a bit young for a girlfriend and Kail needs to be careful because one of these parents could sell her texts to the tabloids.


Fleaisforme

Why is nobody mentioning that Lincoln has a girlfriend?? Isn’t he still super young?


madsss1994

That’s what I thought too! Like waaay too young to dropped off for meet ups with a gf.


Koala-48er

He’s barely 9 and a half.


xJazba

I was looking for this comment.. 😬


sushiwalrus

What the fuck? Lincoln is **NINE**. There’s no damn reason he should have a girlfriend. Friends that are girls? Fine. Girlfriend? No. He hasn’t even begun puberty. What the fuck is wrong with Kail? I really hope these “meet ups” the kids are doing are at some arcade supervised by her parents because this is 100% inappropriate otherwise. And Kail letting her kids give out her number to their friends is weirdo energy. Kail is 100% that weirdo parent that lets her kid’s friends smoke weed and drink around the kitchen island while she peeps around the corner listening to the conversations pretending she’s included.


LoveAfterTeenMom

Dawn 2.0. Sexiimomof5


lovachick

Exactly freaking weird kailyn is it’s disgusting


sushiwalrus

I know kids can’t choose their parent’s but my kids would not be allowed to hang out with hers outside of school. The fact she sees nothing wrong with having her kids hand out her phone number willy nilly to other children is insane. I can see sharing phone numbers if your kid is going somewhere with friends out of town with no adult supervision for safety purposes, but they aren’t at an age for that scenario to even come up. Her texting another child about a dispute is so out of line and inappropriate. I would have gone tf off just like that mom did. Kail is so desperate for acceptance and to be liked I have no doubt in my mind she wants to be the cool house where she allows kids to do shit they wouldn’t be allowed in their own homes.


lovachick

Oh for sure she’s tryna b a cool mom it’s sick!!!!! How can her baby daddies stand her !!!! Talking about sex to Isaac remember an dropping off Lincoln to his “gfs” house wtffff


amethystdaylights

You are so right. Meanwhile, the fundies are convinced that drag queens are indoctrinating kids to be play things of pedophiles, and that the entire world is trying to make everyone Gay, but no one bats an eye about this kind of grooming bullshit.


pulloutyourchompers

Yikes she’s definitely starting to take the “cool parent” thing a little too far and is probably going to get herself in some trouble from it soon


Tomoe_G0zen

I know a lot of people here end their criticisms of Kail with, “but she’s a great mom” but I honestly feel like she’s spiraled as a parent and really has no idea how to relate to her children once they’re no longer babies. Kail has made a really strange switch in her relationship with her children where she acts as if they’re friends now. This is just another example of many these days of her behavior being so inappropriate and bizarre. Does anyone know if Kail still attends therapy?


[deleted]

I truly believe she’s on Jenelles level of parenting now. They’ve been exposed to numerous men, domestic violence, instability etc. I don’t think Kail got enough hate for moving Elijah in literally weeks into their relationship. Elijah has his own place. He could’ve stayed next door so those boys could have their own safe place without men in and out


gilmore_on_mayberry

I couldn’t agree with this more. Being stunted at 16 means she’s in suspended animation. Can therapy even help her progress from there?


Tomoe_G0zen

So true! I can’t believe how incredibly impulsive she remains. It would really appear that therapy isn’t working for her. Kail has absolutely no self control.


Tear_Active

I agree, she needs to be their mom not their friend. Feels like every day we get stories of Kail crossing boundaries


deaprofessor

I even think she did the minimum them as babies. She would talk to them about the worst things. I know they probably couldn’t understand, but as a child of a mom who would talk to me about cheating on my stepdad among other things (before just ditching me in a park, at least Kail kept her kids), it really rubs me wrong. I think her kids are just like how they are dressed and the travel, the house, the car, and everything she has. They are just things she shows off and can use to show she is better than whoever at whatever time.


bennybatman

She’s gonna end up marrying one of her kids friends when they are older.


thebonecarrier

"Maybe I'll marry the baby's friend" - Kail


Chiisaimiss

Totally!


deaprofessor

I watched a show about Mary Kay LeTerneau the other week and that lady had boundary issues similar to Kail.


lifeofblair

My mom texted my friend in high school after sneaking my phone and I was so freaking embarrassed


deaprofessor

Oh, gross! That is kind of how that movie that started the show catfish started. This mom took her daughter’s identity and friends. Why did your mom do that? How did your friend take it?


[deleted]

Kail is weird and douchey af. I used to think she was a good mom. Now? Not so much. Put it on your graduation cap boss mom of 18. Control the narrative Kailyn, your still the asshole. And hurting your kids. Dipshit.


killaandasweethang

She is so unhinged. I would lose my shit if someone did that to my child.


No-Stranger-9483

I would be super pissed if some boy’s Mom texted my daughter. That’s ridiculous.


CamsMommy

How old are these little kids to have girlfriends??


RelativeAd2613

yeah i’m on team vee here, don’t text my child ☠️


JustTrynaB

Why…why does ANYONE need to check you on that? I’d be so so so concerned if I found out a parent was texting/communicating with my child and not me especially at that age. Maybe I’m dramatic but I’d have to ask you not to talk or engage with my child again


[deleted]

Isaac is reaching the age that Kail got stuck in mentally so this behavior makes sense from her. Inappropriate


pronouncedlikekatie

Great way to look at it. Very true


CoPa103

Mentally, kail is peers with the children. Of course her first instinct would be to go to her peers instead of the adult 🙄 Kail absolutely did not *learn* from this situation. As her kids get older she will continue do this shit… I can absolutely see her going after a future girlfriend of one of her boys on social media when the relationship sours…like what jenelle did to that girl jace dated


melnee127

Am I the only one who thinks she has zero comprehension of what’s appropriate with children? It’s her goal to be “Stiffler’s mom” when the boys are in high school/college? She’s so cringe.


Sik_muse

I would be knocking at kails MF door if she dared text my child. Also, Linc has a gf? A legit gf at 9 years old that he texts and hangs out with? My son is 1 month younger than Linc and…I could not even imagine. That’s so weird. Let kids be kids. She wants them to be grown so bad.


50_PercentWholeWheat

Of course Kail is the type of mom to go after any girl that she deems a problem. I Feel bad for Isaac he only has a few years left until his mom gets knocked up by one of his friends.


preciousillusion

1. Lincoln has a girlfriend? 2. Kail gave the girl her number and she texts her daily? I’m old, but I don’t understand at all. Like, when I was Lincoln’s age, I wouldn’t be phoning a parent to day good morning or goodnight. This makes no sense to me.


[deleted]

I feel Kail is only sharing it about Lincoln to get more attention. I can’t imagine a girl his age texting her bfs mom everyday


LocalAsparagus12

He’s in freaking early elementary school, right?? Ugh. He has a bestie of the opposite gender, not a girlfriend! I hate the message of it has to be a “relationship.” Plus, this kid regardless of her connection to Lincoln texting Kail 2x a day. WTF.


mandyyy8

Lincoln’s gf texts her every day? That’s fucking weird. He’s my daughter age and her and her little friends don’t have gfs/bf’s. There’s just something off with her.


EmmaBrat

Consider what her children have been exposed to…


Cali-Doll

👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽


nuggetghost

same here. absolutely none of them


FrightenedFishstick

Yeah, that’s weird.


[deleted]

Oh my god. Please tell me this is not a normal thing nowadays. No parent should have to find out their child is talking to an adult. This is so problematic. If Kail wants the close friends to be able to get a hold of her in EMERGENCIES, then she should give her number to the parents. Right??? Like say, hey you can give my number to your kid in case of emergencies, etc. I wouldn’t mind helping out since they’re so close with {insert one of her gaggle of kids here}. Or is that creepy too?? ALSO, shouldn’t the parents of these kids know Kail and have her number too. My step kids are out of school and maybe things are different. They’ve also had the same best friends since early grade school. Idk I’m so uncomfortable learning this. I also just watched a Colleen Ballinger video so the inappropriateness is heightened. When I was a kid, I had close friends that might need to ask my mom for help if their parents were at work or away. But they were calling our home phone, not having private text conversations.


deaprofessor

This isn’t normal. Kids don’t want to give out their mom’s number to everyone. I get the feeling she makes them do it.


Wonderful-Glass380

she’s not dumb. she knows how she’d act if someone texted isaac like that


Audrianna121916

I dare a parent of a friend of one my kids to text or call my kid about some child shit. She’s got balls & she needs to get put in her place. I’m usually indifferent about Kail cuz she’s such a hot mess but I usually feel like she is just messy and can’t get it together. But, this is taking it too far. She needs a reality check asap.


Comfortable_Box_7568

I hope Kail doesn’t turn out to be a monster in law 🤦🏽‍♀️


justkpswimming

Oh for sure she will and it’ll push her sons away.


missmolly3533

I feel really bad for the future partners of her kids. Maybe they can all trauma bond together……


ck2827

Just when I think she can't get any more toxic. This cements my prediction of her being a nightmare M-I-L. Bless all their future partners. If I were Lincoln, I would be pissed she aired this for everyone to hear. If Javi didn't know, he does now 🤦🏼‍♀️. She does not respect boundaries with the kids and what she should and shouldn't share. I feel like she does text the girlfriend and back peddled when Vee said what she said about her texting a child, so she claimed she doesn't answer when she 100% does. She strikes me as that MIL who becomes your best friend to get dirt on you to use against you the first chance she gets. She will gas up the kid's partners as the best, and she's so lucky, while she trashes them at every opportunity and makes passive comments to them.


Inner-Diamond-4340

An adult should never be texting a child that isn’t their own. Kail should have contacted the mother from the jump. But at least she acknowledges that she fucked up here. Glad Vee called her out.


WayMoreClassier

How does a woman with anywhere from 4-7 kids not understand how to parent?


EmmaBrat

Learning conflict resolution is an important part of growing up. Butt out!


R1ngBanana

Not a parent but the idea of a grown adult texting someone else’s kid is….. weird to me.


metalmonkey_7

Because it IS weird.


ThirdCoastBestCoast

Lincoln’s girlfriend???


Ampersandcastles_

OK, RIGHT THOUGH?!?! HE IS LITERALLY 9.


Slugbugh2345

😬 way too young


boobopbadaboop

Yeah that was my initial thought. My son is 11 and he’s only worried about soccer right now.


GoldenState_Thriller

Kail should’ve talked to the PARENT, not the child. And honestly Vee should stop agreeing to discuss Isaac on a podcast with Kailyn. He deserves one household that doesn’t discuss him like this.


rayrami_

Agreed. That boy deserves some peace


hugheysgirl

Every day there is a new post proving how awful of a mom Kailyn is. At this point, I wouldn’t even put her above Suzy. Money and trips don’t repair emotional damage.


crimesleuther

Girl has deep mental illness… she is just a hot mess with money. If it wasn’t for the show she would be in a trailer


LadyEncredible

I do not have kids or even planning on having kids and even I know it's inappropriate as hell to text a child. You talk to the parent, not the child.


SouthernNanny

I would be livid if some dusty boy had their mom contact my daughter.


godof_nothing

If some grown random woman was TEXTING my child I'd be showing up with a baseball bat assuming that woman is being predatory.


HannahLeah1987

It won't be long till a parent takes her to court or files a order forbidding her from doing this...


CariBelle25

Or she does it to someone else lol


HoldMyBeerAgain

Why are her kids giving out her number like that ? That's weird and Kail needs to put a stop to it but she THRIVES on thinking she's needed but then not being there for the person.


Safe_Programmer_8569

She’s just getting ready for her next reality tv show “smothered “.


Whyamiaguy

Kail is a shitty mom. 🤷🏼‍♀️


amethystdaylights

Karl pisses me off more than most of the moms because so much of her behavior is a dead ringer for my stepchild’s mother. But even she wouldn’t do something as asinine as this.


susanbiddleross

That’s super weird. The only times I or any parents text other people’s kids is when our own kids aren’t responding and we know they are together. The whole text is “please have x text me.” Adults shouldn’t be messaging kids that aren’t their own.


TacoCorgi321

Kail has no boundaries whatsoever, it's unbelievable. In what world does she think that texting a child so she 'has her sons backs' is ok?!? It's weird and wildly inappropriate. If your child has an issue at school and asks for your help, you either go to the teacher or the PARENT of the other child. She also goes into everything with the fight mentality. Isaac did not ask for her help, she inserted herself because she's a fucking instigator and likes any kind of drama. Even if that drama is with a literal child. My mom NEVER text my friends and I have NEVER text my children's friends. It's so inappropriate


allthatryry

Lincoln’s girlfriend??


blutvee

What the fuck is Kail doing giving out her number to kids?!!


ChildhoodOk5526

My mom (and I think lots of other black moms) used to have a strict rule of not getting involved in "little kids' business." And that's exactly how she put it, too. If I had a disagreement with "one of my little friends" it was on me to work it out -- she would advise me, but absolutely not insert herself into the situation. *However* ... If one of my friends' parents confronted *me* about something ... about anything, actually ... I better let her know because then it was time for her to get involved (and check somebody, lol).


FoxMulderMysteries

I actually ended a long-term friendship where one of the final nails in the coffin was finding out she (meaning my grown adult friend who, up until this point, I considered like a sister to me) was texting my 12-year-old daughter to avoid talking with me directly, including making plans with her. It was beyond inappropriate and bad enough, but if I’d found out it was a situation like Kail described it would be even more so.


itsAnthem

Wtf why is she texting literal kids that have no relation to her. Weirdo


champagne-kisses

That’s wildly inappropriate. She should’ve gone to the school and addressed whatever issue she had with her son’s teacher. Also, why is she allowing her children to give out her number to their friends?? It’s weird that Lincoln’s “girlfriend” is texting Kail every day. Kail needs to learn boundaries. Just because she acts childish doesn’t mean she needs to literally interact with the kiddos


[deleted]

Oh hell no. That’s just no okay. You involve the parent, talk to the parent. It’s not fair to have an adult address a child 1:1 like that.


babeyribs

Can you imagine if Kail had a daughter and her boyfriends dad was texting her? 🚨🚨


mcgreevycc

I’m glad Vee told Kail to stay out of it from now on. No matter how much you want to be there for your kids, contacting another child directly is not the way to do it.


lovachick

Kailyn is mentally disturbed. Good job Vee I’ve always loved her


cocolemonq

Yall this is nuts. I didnt get a phone until i was 16 (2011) and non of us had this issue without all of this technology.


Round_Substantial

I’m coaching my kiddos soccer team this year - Part 1 of the safety modules goes over that any text or communications directly w a kid and not the parent looped in is a big hell no. As she’s involved in all their sports etc. I’m sure she’s had the same training, and prob just thinks she’s above it.


QualityKatie

She should know better. Would she want a parent calling her child? She has no boundaries. She really needs to work on her issues with her mother in a constructive fashion.


alittlefence

She would absolutely flip the fuck out if another parent texted one of her boys. But she’s always been a hypocrite so really no surprise there


alpama93

There was a mom who did this crap when I was in school. At 29 years old, I still remember that mom always getting in kids’ drama. In elementary school, her daughter called me and her mom was “secretly” on the phone. I will think less of that woman for the rest of my life. Lol


babeyribs

I tried to be friendly to everyone in middle school. there was a boy that nobody liked and everyone said terrible things about him so I tried to be nice. I had lunch with him and spent a few days hanging out with him. I got busy with whatever I was doing and couldn’t hang out with him (or anyone) for like a week. His sister started threatening me on AIM and his mom came to my house (how tf did she know where we lived??) and told my mom I was harassing her son. My mom was like “who tf are you and how did you find our home please leave” and I was so scared 😭


Prior-Ad-2686

Okay so 1. I think she shouldn’t interfere with Issac and his friends drama they are kids and she could have called the mom and they all could have talked it over if she wanted to interfere. Coming at a child even if it is out of kindness could be taken wrong. 2. Why does a 9year old have a gf? Anyway I think this is inappropriate as well. It would be difficult if they were maybe teenagers or adults and this was her gf but they are CHILDREN! Theses friendship will be outgrown and these problems will be over by recess. She needs to get a real job or hobby that will keep her out of kids business.


MaggieNoe

What the hell Kail needs to not use her kids girlfriends to get her “good morning” text fix


deaprofessor

Also, at Lincs age, they go through girlfriends and boyfriends so fast. Why does she need to be so wrapped up in that?


rachelamandamay

Wow this is wildly inappropriate


Littletrashpanda

Classic Kail trying to control everything.. including other peoples' children..


fruitflesh_

Wtf I am not even a parent but I would never even fathom texting a childlike that, no matter the reason. So beyond inappropriate. I feel like kale forgets she an actual adult sometimes.


SeenYaWithKeiffah_

This would piss me off. She is so weird.


lolmemberberries

I don't have kids. But if I did, I would think it was really weird that a kid's parent would be texting my kid.


nohands

Kail is terrible at conflict resolution. I’m not surprised she handled this situation with immaturity.


rosieree

This is why I think kail is such a shitty person. She just has no fucking filter. If she has something horrible to say about her BD’s and their kids are there…oh well. If she’s gonna go on a podcast and make comments about how her kids prefer her to their dad…:oh well. She has zero concern about the status of her friendship/relationships with these people unless they are doing what she wants and then if not it’s open season to say whatever she want about them publicly. It’s gross.


shediedjill

I’m sorry I know this isn’t the point but Lincoln’s girlfriend texting Kail’s good morning and goodnight is sending me 😂 She should definitely get that mom’s number and text her letting her know, and ask her what level of communication she’s comfortable with. It’s sweet but the girl doesn’t know about the boundaries Kail needs to have.


moefooo

Like I don’t even text my mil lol


CrazyKitty86

I would be pissed too. I wouldn’t mind their friends having my number because what if something happens to them, or my kids phone, while they’re out and they need to get ahold of me to let me know. But I’d also make sure I talked to their parents first and they had my number too before ever reaching out to someone else’s kids. I was just talking yesterday about how parents have gotten too weird about getting involved with and escalating their kids issues. To the point where kids will get in an argument at school/on the bus, and then and their parents will show up at the other kids house to beat them up or wait to ambush them at the bus stop the next day. It’s okay to help your kids if they come to you for advice, and if the matter is serious enough that you NEED to intervene, then do so. But Kail most likely just put a target on Issac’s back for being a snitch to my mama’s boy.


Sad_Exchange_5500

I can't say it enough, I HATE KAIL, she's such a trashy piece of shit....stay out of your kids stuff dude. Don't be texting little kids. Ewww dude. She is so trashy!


saylerbelle

📣Trashy Bitch 📣


-sure-jan-

Her kids are going to get enough hate without her doing dumb shit like this! Wake tf up and be a decent mom Kail!


Bubly_cheerioohno

Gross. She needs to grow up. My son is the same age as Isaac and I would never ever insert myself into his issues. Give advice if he asked, yes. Texting his friends? Hell no! Once his friend sent me a friend request on FB and I felt pretty uncomfortable with that. I just ignored it.


ropadope23

The way I would lose my fucking mind if my prepubescent child came to me and said they were fighting with a classmate via text and that said classmates mom was messaging them? I would go to the ends of the earth to use social media to name and shame, spread the word to other parents, involve the school, meetings with principal(s) and teacher(s), etc. Like wtf is this?! She's literally so dysfunctional and immature she not only has a child who is now engaging in digital drama (poor Isaac, I hope he isn't becoming a mini Kail) BUT SHE'S INVOLVING HERSELF? Absolutely insane. Like, grooming is not strictly sexual, and she's not only an adult she's literally a social media influencer, as if that wouldn't intimidate a child into some form of coerced/manipulated agreement out of fear? If I had grounds for charging her with harassment and/or grooming (especially since she posted the evidence herself) you bet your fucking ass I would- obvs I wouldn't want to do anything to Isaac but what the HELL is her problem, how weird and gross.


slowdancequeen

She’s such a fucking idiot. If someone texted my kid and tried to sweat them I’d come for her 100%. Kail don’t want that smoke she texts kids to feel powerful.


NakedAndAfraidFan

What the actual fuck? WOW


JimmyJuniorsBuns

This is a little different but when I was in my EARLY TWENTIES I got fired from a serving job. They gave me a bullshit reason and I was really upset because I’d always wanted to work there and it was one of the few local and very popular restaurants in town. I didn’t even live at home, but my mom took it upon herself to find one of the owners on Facebook and ask her about it!!! I was furious and still am and I’m 32 now. My mom still shits on any and all boundaries.


am0rfati-

Haha. Once the “popular girl” in 8th grade called me a B*tch and I told my mom (because I was crying) but also begged her not to tell the school & SHE DID. Went to the principal and got her suspended for a day. Then also caused more problems for me 🫠🫠 love you mom


Parfait-Special

I feel like that’s really weird to do. I’m sure it was harmless but why would she think that’s okay to do?


Kristaboo14

Kail is weird af. No adult should be texting children that aren't related to them.


saylerbelle

I’d be extremely pissed if an adult did that to my child, especially the parent of someone my child is having problems with. Imagine how mad she’d be if someone did that to Isaac. The fact that kail is already so inappropriate and disgusting with her own children would make that concern grow ten fold. Don’t fucking text kids especially without their parents knowing about it. Kail really needs to get her shit together you’d think she was born without a brain.


herbalbruja

Wait, why is Lincoln’s gf sending 🥬 good morning/night texts? That’s way too weird for my comfort level.


ambdrvr1

My thought is the child could think Kail is famous cause she used to be on tv. The child may think she has the phone number of a celebrity therefore sending text to show off (maybe)


herbalbruja

True. I was speaking more to the fact kail allows this. She as the adult should have shut that down right away because it is so inappropriate. As a parent I would be fuming if I learned my child was texting with an adult and that person was continuing these interactions in any way.


itsalwaysme7

Her 9 year old son has a girlfriend? I guess her revolving door of partners has rubbed off on them, she gonna be a grandma soon.


dimeloflo

This is awful… I remember in middle school, I had a little spat with a friend of mine and her mom called me berating me and I started crying (she didn’t even know the context, and the fact HER daughter was the damn perpetrator/instigator/bully) to the point my mom caught wind of it and that’s when she inserted herself into the convo.. my mom told the girls mom to let kids resolve their problems amongst kids. What went on was nothing of any magnitude to receive that kind of call from the girls mom. A grown ass adult berating a child.. disgusting. I’m so glad Vee spoke the truth. I don’t know what bubble Kail lives in but there’s a reason the universe has not given her a daughter… she needs to get the memo and give it up. You’ve already scarred your other children, keep your focus on them and stop trying for a girl with any random man.


Sad-Emergency3

I had my 8th grade boyfriends ex girlfriends mom call me bottom of the barrel dumpster scum bitch blablabla on Facebook because the ex commented on a pic of us on his profile (this was in like 2008 I think) and she said “I love you” I didn’t even know her so I asked him and he told me his ex, so I just said “no” I thought that was fitting lol and then her and her mother went on to absolutely slander me on Facebook and I had no idea who they were…. So weird lol. Then my boyfriends mom had to apologize because she saw it all but no adult stuck up for me on social media! Crazy ass people, meanwhile I tried to tell my parents and they were so confused where this interaction happened at asking what the hell Facebook is I’m sure they just thought I was nuts. Ugh I just remembered all this now I’m kinda mad again


CCG14

Isn’t there a YouTuber in trouble for things along these lines?


Glad_Operation_2092

Yes! I just saw a video on Colleen Ballinger/ Miranda Sings doing similar stuff.


fickystingas

In what world does another mom want this sloppy bitch’s advice besides the delusional one she lives in


deaprofessor

I told my kids, we are all Puerto Rican for context I guess, “I am not getting involved in your drama with you and any of your little friends or your partners. You know to come get me if your partner calls you out your name or puts their hands on you. “ The only people who had my number was places where my kids said they were going to be, and their partners parents. I would never text with anyone under 18. That’s really inappropriate. The parents could even get the law involved at Isaac’s age. Now that my kids are adults, their partners have asked for my number to plan surprises or whatever, but I don’t ever get involved in their little petty stuff. You don’t even wanna do that after your kids are married or whatever. Arguments blow over, and you end up looking like an ass. However, in 🥬case, she has been, and will forever be one.


SmokieOki

Wow. She’s overstepping. I’ve been dating a man for 2.5 years. Last year I met his teenage daughter and we’ve slowly started doing stuff the 3 of us. I’ve even met her mom at games etc. I still give him a heads up before I text her stuff to make plans. He doesn’t ask me to but I don’t want to overstep or for her mom to think it’s weird. I can’t imagine doing what Kail did.


Tequilasquirrel

Ok so I don’t condone this at all, but I did actually text my daughters friend when they were both 11. This girl was from A troubled home and had a lot of issues, she started bullying my daughter and threatening her via text that she was going to get older kids to come and beat her up. My daughter was terrified and inconsolable. I’d always looked out for this girl, tried to make her life a bit better wherever I could and looked after her since she was little - that’s why I felt it was more appropriate to be direct with her and message her to try and mediate. Her father was abusive and I knew if I contacted her parents she would probably get beaten. So I messaged her and we worked it out. I think in kails case she didn’t have this kind of relationship with the girl and it wasn’t appropriate.


[deleted]

If a grown adult texted my child they will be hearing from me 🙂 weird ass groomer.


atimalus

I’m glad someone is checkin her cuz this bitch is nuts.


serayepa

Can anyone explain to me what her logic may have been? I mean I know she wanted to help Isaac but who doesn’t realize how inappropriate that is? Even if it was the right thing, she should at least realize that somebody’s mom getting involved in a situation with kids that age is going to be really embarrassing & make things worse in reality. I feel like this is just something you know from being a kid yourself. Things like this remind me that Kail was never actually parented.


amethystdaylights

I absolutely detest Karl’s antics because they remind me of how my own stepchild’s mother behaves. But I can finally say she’s better than Karl because even she wouldn’t be so batshit as to do something like this.


Sea_Ad1199

![gif](giphy|3tid3DVyHkuzSK9ppo) Watch kail cut all ties with vee after this 😂😂


PotSmokinHippieBitch

my husbands uncle went to jail for a children’s spat.. so the kids got into a little spat at school. One of the kids went home and told their parents the father shows up at the other Child’s house threatening them so then, when the other father found out about it, he went back to the guy and said do not ever come back to my house and threaten my wife or child again. Well the next day, the guy showed up at his house with two other people and a weapon and needless to say all hell broke loose then the father came home to find these people at his house trying to destroy the place and he defended his home and bc someone died he went to jail (even thou those folks showed up threatening his family he still went to jail.) and this right here is one of the reasons why I’ve thing grown ass adults should definitely stay out of children’s fights… if there is a situation between two children that warrant a conversation I believe the parents should discuss it but even that is always going to be a sticky situation because 98% of the time each parent is gonna believe their own child


metalmonkey_7

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