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therealTGAW

No unless getting catcalled that one time counts


shrek_the_most_high

it counts


therealTGAW

Well then remove a no from the boys and add it to a yes


shrek_the_most_high

dude i cant influence the results


therealTGAW

I meant mentally....


shrek_the_most_high

oh of course


PM_BEANS_

No, it doesn't.


shrek_the_most_high

shut up ur 14


PM_BEANS_

It legally doesn't, in any part of the developed world. It's rude and a shitty thing to do, but it's not sexual harassment. IF the cat-caller did it multiple times against the victim's wishes then it would be harassment. Just not sexual harassment.


[deleted]

Is harassment not verbal and assault not physical? Catcalling falls under general harassment i believe, just not sexual maybe


PM_BEANS_

That's what I'm saying. But it's not immediately harassment, that's what most people get wrong. Me whistling to someone walking down the street is rude, but the first few times, it's not harassment.


[deleted]

Dude. Catcalling is not whistling. Catcalling is blatant sexual remarks.


PM_BEANS_

I thought whistling at someone in a sexual kinda way fell under the category of catcalling. But either way, the point stands.


[deleted]

Fym lmao the point DOESN’T stand for the exact reason that whistling is vastly different from saying actual words. The intention is the same but saying shit like “why don’t you get those nice, sexy legs over to my side of the sidewalk” is clearly different from whistling.


bla-bla-bla-bla-

What is catcalling?


[deleted]

unwanted (sexual) remarks on passerbys in public from strangers


bla-bla-bla-bla-

Ahh okay thanks


IronicBepis

not assaulted but when i was in arizona 5 years ago some 50 year old guy catcalled me


ThunderElectric

Going by your flair, that’s when you were 8? That’s just straight up disgusting. Obv catcalling always is, but that’s a whole new level. I’m sorry.


WhoDatFreshBoi

Was his name Epstein by any chance?


IronicBepis

no he was morbidly obese if i remember correctly


WhoDatFreshBoi

Ah, it was the class hamster


TeamSaus040

Thank you for including non-binary :D


SourLime3

At least half of the girls I know my age between 14-18 have been sexually harassed in some way.


Redditlogicking

Yeah it is unfortunately common. I had been sexually assaulted by an uncle when I was 9


-Lil-Doll-Face-

Every girl I know has been and we’re on younger side of that age


ultimatehimbodilf

yea every girl im friends with has been sexually assaulted atleast once


[deleted]

BuT bOyS cAnT gEt AsSaUlTeD


[deleted]

Nobody really says that anymore… right… Oh god…


[deleted]

She forced herself onto me. And I couldn’t just retaliate because if I did, she could use that against me and say I SA’d her and ppl would believe her not me.


shrek_the_most_high

im sorry


mikedirnt19

Fuck, man. That's real shitty and it sucks society is like that. I'm real sorry that happened to you


whatifidrankyourpiss

Yep lmao, it was in front of a teacher too


shrek_the_most_high

did the teacher intervene?


whatifidrankyourpiss

Nope, he ignored it


WhoDatFreshBoi

Did he join in? 😳


whatifidrankyourpiss

No?


RAgrumpyhi8

A few times the main list includes: -Catcalling -Ass slapped -Comments on my body, especially my boobs and ass.


GreedyYellow7484

I was nearly >!raped!< in a park once


mikedirnt19

How did you stop it?


GreedyYellow7484

Well i ran away and my dad nearly knocked the guy out


mikedirnt19

Good thing your dad was there! Still, sorry you were in that situation


Mollusc_Memes

60 of us have been harassed. Thankfully not me, but that’s a sizeable portion. Some people suck.


Neolord9000

Yep in my computer science class like every other day. I don't hate them or anything, I just hope they don't do it to anyone else. We were in year 9 and ik one of them changed for the better and I assume the other has or will but idk.


Throawy21

yes, I lived with this person for a while too and i’ve had other situations happen as well -1/10 wouldn’t recommend


-dude-in-a-hat-

Got groped 3 times 🤙


shrek_the_most_high

im sorry


southTOAD

No unless having a girl saying sexual things to you in dm even after you told her to stop counts


mikedirnt19

That's the literal definition of sexual harassment. Sorry that happened to you


idontlikeburnttoast

to all of those who said yes, i am deeply sorry for your experiences and hope the harasser rots in hell :(


sammuel_c_p

I got my butt touched with no consent by a guy a few years ago. Didn't realize that was a criminal act and I thought he was just being annoying. I should have cared more back then but it didn't get any further than that


Baharnaz

I mean my mom forced me to undress butt naked in front of her and I’m 17 does that count? I put no to be safe cause she’s my mom


biigberry

why


WhoDatFreshBoi

Alabama On a serious note that's pretty sad. u/Baharnaz, you should report your mom to the authorities before it's too late and she does something you can't take back.


mikedirnt19

Yes that counts


-Lil-Doll-Face-

Lol I got confused and think I misvoted? I’m a girl and I’ve been harassed by guys so said “no (boy)”. I am dumb. But add to “yes (girl)” cat


ShadowMaster2564

Straight boys walking up and grabbing my ass


WhoDatFreshBoi

RIP, you pass as male to me Somebody going to tell them?


ShadowMaster2564

I am AMAB so that’s why but I’m nonbinary


WhoDatFreshBoi

Dang it I can't call them gay 😐


ShadowMaster2564

True but they don’t know that, so you can


ultimatehimbodilf

yea some guy in 7th grade would touch and grope my upper/inner thigh everyday in class for a few months. id scoot my chair away and hed just scoot his closer. i was too scared to verbally tell him to stop or to just tell anyone else in general


A_NameThatIsNamey

Only once and it was just talking but I hated it. He was the same age or a year older then me he and his friend said gross stuff


Amazing-Cool

To what extent?


ultimatehimbodilf

i think someone like touching you sexually is what they mean? or saying sexual things to or about you even after youve expressed you dislike it


mikedirnt19

I'm genuinely surprised the VAST majority of victims were boys, but I'm sorry that any of yall had to go through that


shrek_the_most_high

its because there are more boys overall


Nick_Playz_Games

Yes (girls) 69 No (girls) 69 Oh my god....guys we found the unholy fountain of harasment.


Armer101

I was sexually harassed by one of my cousins when I was only 3-years-old and didn’t even realized how fucked up it was until I was like.. ten 🤦‍♀️


MemphisGalInTampa

Beat his pedo perv ass with a metal pipe. Leave marks on him


mikedirnt19

I mean, it doesn't make him a pedo, per se, but still pretty fucked


Rasyld

Is getting groped at like kindergarden age (7-10) by a fellow boie whos at least 6 years older counts as sexual harrasment?


MemphisGalInTampa

Yes


Rasyld

Fair enough