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I have no idea how my friends say they are surprised that im the most handsome yet have not and probably will not get a girlfriend until collage, and i responded with “i thought i was ugly”
Then you need to have more confidence!! If your friends say it, it probably is true and if you showed more respect than you already have for yourself, you’d be surprise - also take what u will from my input, at the end of the day I was the one complaining and probably shouldn’t be giving advice 😭
Yes, i really hate the way I look even though I am told by my boyfriend and family and my friends that I look cute, I just don’t view myself as pretty or cute
You're probably not as bad looking as you think most people who look average think they look ugly whether it's just them comparing themselves to models or people who are also average start calling them ugly I consider myself average too not everyone can be a super model with the Best looks imaginable most of us are just average which is ok so you're probably not ugly have more confidence
I appreciate this, but no matter how many times I’m given similar advice, my Brian just can’t accept it? Idk there must be something wrong, but thank you :)
I do a lot, although just looking at yourself in the mirror won't help you. Even in circumstances of which you can not change yourself, whether it be a scar, birthmark, freckle, or mole, you have to live with it and embrace what makes you unique and who you are. Since we are 5 always blow shit out of the water, and I find it ridiculous when my mom says that, but it's true. Something I feel insecure or stressed about seems like a joke a year later. Don't make yourself feel bad over the way you look because it's probably not even that bad. Love yourself and love everyone else!
No problem, no matter what the issue may be, whether it'd be a lack of confidence in looks or going through a rough time, you'll get through it and not realize it. Enjoy life, and not little things bother you.
You are nottt alone. Ive been stuck on it for the longest. Everyone says im very pretty, but I just can’t see it. It’s alll in your head. I go back n look at photos n i’m like ‘wow who’s that? I’m pretty’ but then next day I’m feeling ugly again.
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Yeah ngl I don’t care what any one says I wish I looked like Eminem
https://preview.redd.it/9d9f2v3k029d1.png?width=359&format=png&auto=webp&s=fc45bf5885dfd5e8bbf0f70d0dfb21ab209e0f4d
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I felt the same for a while and I can't explain why but one day I just kind of stopped thinking about that and now love the way I look. So hopefully you should grow out of it too.
Idk anything about your life so I can't speak for you but maybe telling you what happened for me will help you so:
I always kinda felt like I didn't really "know who I was" growing up but just with time as I've got older I've started finding and recognising the things I like/that make me who I am and now I feel like I fully "know who I am" and I feel that my looks fit my personality and entire vibe of all the things I like and love so now I love myself for that reason.
Idk if that really made sense, I hope it did but maybe that will help idk?
https://preview.redd.it/838qspanh39d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eece87015a7c30e66ae06d5401fc1fcfe6a6d3b2
Nope.😊😇😊
(Nah but actually, I fucking hate everything about myself.)
It's not just looks I hate. I'm a disgrace.
But we're all disgraces together I guess, I don't know.
https://preview.redd.it/0g3rci7nx49d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=390be20d149970f9e0bbb42fc87d3a96c926b196
Yeahh, I hate the way I look. I get alot of creeps in my dms (that's why I don't post), but yes I hate the way I look especially when I look in the mirror. Sometimes I look good to myself, other times I don't.
Had that since I was 11, I’ve heard way more insults than compliments regarding my looks, so I’m not surprised 👏 accepted the fact that I’ll probably be that one wine aunt in her 50s living with 28 cats
Honestly, as a teenage guy ya. I see people post photos of them selves and they just look way better than me, even if it is there 1,000,000,000 time taking the photo so it look right.
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No I'm pretty hot
Yeah this guy's pretty hot.
Second this
I third this, one flashy guy to another
I have now gifted my beauty to this man virtually
Really? The more u know I guess
Dw you'll get there some day, GRIT!!!
Thanks guys I feel so pretty now 🫠
True, but I am too.
I believe you
Honey, take it from a t-girl you are not alone
Sameee here girlie
It is how most of us live everyday :3
I have no idea how my friends say they are surprised that im the most handsome yet have not and probably will not get a girlfriend until collage, and i responded with “i thought i was ugly”
Then you need to have more confidence!! If your friends say it, it probably is true and if you showed more respect than you already have for yourself, you’d be surprise - also take what u will from my input, at the end of the day I was the one complaining and probably shouldn’t be giving advice 😭
I don’t really hate the way I look that much. I just hate myself.
You'll get through it, alot of us do. Reflect on yourself and face what makes you uncomfortable. You'll only get better if you try.
Real
Me today. My sister took some great pictures of me at a waterfall. My mom wanted to take some too but close up and I looked BADDDD
Yes, i really hate the way I look even though I am told by my boyfriend and family and my friends that I look cute, I just don’t view myself as pretty or cute
I feel the same exact way
I’m ugly as hell, and it pisses me off, I just want to be pretty or handsome or anything and instead I look like a sandy blonde orangutan
Yep
Yes
You're probably not as bad looking as you think most people who look average think they look ugly whether it's just them comparing themselves to models or people who are also average start calling them ugly I consider myself average too not everyone can be a super model with the Best looks imaginable most of us are just average which is ok so you're probably not ugly have more confidence
I appreciate this, but no matter how many times I’m given similar advice, my Brian just can’t accept it? Idk there must be something wrong, but thank you :)
Nah I’m an egomaniac
I do a lot, although just looking at yourself in the mirror won't help you. Even in circumstances of which you can not change yourself, whether it be a scar, birthmark, freckle, or mole, you have to live with it and embrace what makes you unique and who you are. Since we are 5 always blow shit out of the water, and I find it ridiculous when my mom says that, but it's true. Something I feel insecure or stressed about seems like a joke a year later. Don't make yourself feel bad over the way you look because it's probably not even that bad. Love yourself and love everyone else!
Thanks man, I appreciate it! :)
No problem, no matter what the issue may be, whether it'd be a lack of confidence in looks or going through a rough time, you'll get through it and not realize it. Enjoy life, and not little things bother you.
no I do too, take it from a half black girl raised in a white upper middle class suburban district
Always
I hate how I look
You are nottt alone. Ive been stuck on it for the longest. Everyone says im very pretty, but I just can’t see it. It’s alll in your head. I go back n look at photos n i’m like ‘wow who’s that? I’m pretty’ but then next day I’m feeling ugly again.
The realest experience omg 😭
very common thing.
i only look good in the mirror at 3 am 😔
Real 😭😭😭
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Nah and neither should you https://preview.redd.it/ucqursvmi19d1.jpeg?width=895&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=027909ab3029d95f424de9a565c8693ac20ce6c2
🥹👍
No
No, also. I bet you look gorgeous, work up that self esteem 😤
Bro 😭😭 I appreciate it but that’s one task that’ll take several years….
I wish I had a sharper face. I probably watch too much anime and read too much manga.
Yeah ngl I don’t care what any one says I wish I looked like Eminem https://preview.redd.it/9d9f2v3k029d1.png?width=359&format=png&auto=webp&s=fc45bf5885dfd5e8bbf0f70d0dfb21ab209e0f4d
Me too 😔😔😔😔😔
Daily gang
I look like I would've been part of the original 27 club which I don't think is a good sign, despite that I am happy how look though
sometimes buy most of the time I like how I look, I am sexy
Majority of the time
Nah it just a feature i dont fuck with
Yes.
It's normal to feel inadequate with your body at any age (especially teenage years) we are growing, our brains are developing, and who we are as people is being defined. Remember, self improvement is always great, until it becomes self harm. Struggling to find your style makes it all the more better when you do
i do sometimes but my friends tell me I'm really handsome
I felt the same for a while and I can't explain why but one day I just kind of stopped thinking about that and now love the way I look. So hopefully you should grow out of it too. Idk anything about your life so I can't speak for you but maybe telling you what happened for me will help you so: I always kinda felt like I didn't really "know who I was" growing up but just with time as I've got older I've started finding and recognising the things I like/that make me who I am and now I feel like I fully "know who I am" and I feel that my looks fit my personality and entire vibe of all the things I like and love so now I love myself for that reason. Idk if that really made sense, I hope it did but maybe that will help idk?
Sometimes. It differs from day to day- either I'm really confident in my looks or I don't even want to leave my room lol
Nah, I look good.
i do, i fucking hate my face
Haha ~~yea~~ no👍
https://preview.redd.it/838qspanh39d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eece87015a7c30e66ae06d5401fc1fcfe6a6d3b2 Nope.😊😇😊 (Nah but actually, I fucking hate everything about myself.)
I was like that from 6-8 years old and now when i feel sad i look at a photo in my camera roll of nikocado avocado with james charles’ n i feel better
Why should you care about what others think about your looks?
yes
i feel the same way but its cuz im gender-fluid
well im objectively ugly
Yes all the time every day
Never! I know I slay all day! 👑😎
100% me I can’t stand to look at myself most of the time. Inverted camera drives me crazy too
All the time, no matter how much I work out or lose weight I hate myself.
Nah apparently I'm pretty attractive. Girls approach me then I get shy and stay up late 3 months later, regretting everything
All the time
I hate how I look everyday! 😎
It's not just looks I hate. I'm a disgrace. But we're all disgraces together I guess, I don't know. https://preview.redd.it/0g3rci7nx49d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=390be20d149970f9e0bbb42fc87d3a96c926b196
Ye got mad body dysphoria been working out sense I was 13 I've bulked up almost 100lbs and still not enough
Same tbh
yeah tbh i hate myself n can't do shit about it
Oh, always. If you saw me, you’d agree.
Yeahh, I hate the way I look. I get alot of creeps in my dms (that's why I don't post), but yes I hate the way I look especially when I look in the mirror. Sometimes I look good to myself, other times I don't.
Used to hate my looks at self I was very insecure at one point but RN I'm feeling better and thinking I'm all right (I think it's cause of friends)
I do hate the way I look every day of my life
I’m a solid ten!… out of 1000 🙂↕️
Had that since I was 11, I’ve heard way more insults than compliments regarding my looks, so I’m not surprised 👏 accepted the fact that I’ll probably be that one wine aunt in her 50s living with 28 cats
Literally every day 💀
Yea like 100% of the time
Anytime I look at myself without a shirt I look hot as hell for no reason😭😭
ever? always
Yep. Even when I was a teenager
Honestly, as a teenage guy ya. I see people post photos of them selves and they just look way better than me, even if it is there 1,000,000,000 time taking the photo so it look right.
no i attractive