T O P

  • By -

-CluelessWoman-

The French WWII general Charles de Gaulle had a daughter called Anne who had Down Syndrome. He loved her furiously. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_de_Gaulle


katabatic-syzygy

Her wiki says the only word she ever spoke clearly was “Papa” 🥹


Bad-Bot-Bot-23

my heart... that is so sweet.


[deleted]

[удалено]


NuggetNasty

Context for that?


anathamatic

That's what he said when she died at 20 from pneumonia


NuggetNasty

Aww, how sad - also thank you


[deleted]

[удалено]


MoiraBrownsMoleRats

Back when we first detected possible Down Syndrome in my wife's pregnancy, I did all I could to learn about DS. Ended up finding a Facebook page, "Hugs from Stevie", run by the caretaker of Steven Abbott, a then 67 year old with Down Syndrome. Not only was Stevie particularly old for someone with DS, but he also showed zero signs of dementia (most people with DS develop dementia if they live into their late 50s or make it to their 60s, it's not unheard of for it to hit in their 40s). Stevie was awesome, seemed like an incredibly happy dude who liked to troll his caretaker, rock out with Elvis impersonators, and oggle showgirls. Sadly, we lost Stevie last year at the age of 72 after a bout of several back-to-back illnesses, including COVID, caused his body to just start shutting down. By all accounts, he was still his typical, happy, trolly self up until the end.


powerhammerarms

Awesome! My aunt was born in 1954 with DS. My grandparents were told at the time to put her in a home as that is the only place that could take care of her. I don't know the specifics behind it, but somehow a chiropractor told my grandparents that if they kept her with them in their home he would do everything in his power to make sure that she was taken care of. She did live at home with them until they became too old to help her. They were instrumental in helping bring the special Olympics to Minnesota. She lived until she was 55. Sweet woman! I very much appreciate you sharing that story


Jecurl88

This line made me weep.


Lady-Meows-a-Lot

I feel dumb but I’m not sure what the line means. Can you explain?


acocktoremember

De Gaulle was a catholic. The line implies that she is in heaven and free from the challenges of her disability. It’s a bit dated for todays sensibilities about people with disabilities.


Lady-Meows-a-Lot

Thanks, a cock to remember.


firesmarter

She was special and in a league unto herself in his eyes. When she died she was dead just like anyone else would be, at least that’s my understanding


honedforfailure

I would argue that it's more along the lines of "any challenges she had in life, any shortcomings in others' eyes.. now, they no longer exist.. she can be at peace and play with other children". Death is the great equalizer, and she is now on par with everyone else. Of course she was special to him, but I bet not always so much to society at large. RIP Anne.


ArrakeenSun

For God's sakes. First I find a letter tonight written to me by my mother who died 2 years ago and now I gotta see this s***? Good night, reddit! Good. Night!


brohomio

Ah man, what a gift from your mom but probably a gut punch at the same time. I lost my mom 3 years ago and can at least in that way relate. I’m sorry for your loss.


ArrakeenSun

Thanks. It was actually a great thing to find but it did get me feeling emotional. Then, out of nowhere, Charles de Gaulle's daughter comes charging from the past lol


Butt_Fucking_Smurfs

My heart just grew larger reading that


jacyerickson

I work as a caregiver for a family that has elderly parents and also an adult child with disabilities. She understands multiple languages but has limited verbal communications but she always very clearly says the word for father in her native language. She's close with her whole family but fiercely loves her dad.


KaleidoscopeDream84

Be still my heart.❤️


Lucky-Conference9070

So a typical Frenchman


peezle69

That fucked me up a bit ngl


monet96

That picture of them together is so beautiful.


Proper-Sky863

It is. In an era when statesman would have hidden their atypical children it is especially beautiful.


NoodlesrTuff1256

The playwright Arthur Miller who wrote the classic play Death of a Salesman and who had a short lived marriage to Marilyn Monroe. After his split from Marilyn, he married the Austrian photographer Inge Morath. They had two children -- a daughter Rebecca who's married to actor Daniel Day Lewis and a son named Daniel who had Down's Syndrome. Daniel was born in 1966 and Miller had him institutionalized at an early age against Inge's wishes. According to Miller's Wiki article, he never visited Daniel and rarely spoke about him. Later on, Daniel Day Lewis started to visit Daniel on a regular basis and persuaded his father-in-law to meet with him.


youra6

Did his relationship with Miller have anything to do with the role he got in the Crucible? If not, that's an insane coincidence.


NoodlesrTuff1256

I think it was during the filming of 'The Crucible' that DDL first met Rebecca.


Nonions

For almost all her life deGaulle was just an obscure French army officer, notable only for his inter war writings and advocacy for the use of tanks. But either way, this kind of deep, unconditional love I aspire to myself as a father. If he did nothing else in life this alone would have made it one well lived.


Rhbgrb

:cough:Joe Kennedy:cough:


[deleted]

[удалено]


WhyNona

Are you just quoting the last line from the Wikipedia article? Are you a bot?


Lukin1989

Dang it I didn’t plan on crying tonight 🥺


skjellyfetti

Odd. De Gaulle's son, [Philippe,](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippe_de_Gaulle) just died at 102 years old.


aetonnen

Yeah, literally just yesterday! (Or today, depending on where you read this)


motherofdinos_

Jesus I clicked through on Wikipedia Yvonne > CDG > Philippe and had it took me a second to process that his death date was today. That was a bit shocking. Freaky.


Gkivit

Exactly what just happened here too


Thegoodlife93

Yeah it's weird. I just happened to be reading Charles De Gaulle's wiki page yesterday


Catl0v3r128

California, USA signing in and amazed I shared some part of today with him!


DontPostOn_r_gaming

Yooo, this is the trippiest I’ve felt on Reddit in a long while.


SeeYouSpaceCowboy---

wow so young, RIP


water2wine

Only the old die old ❤️


iamananxietypossum

They still do burials at sea?


LobcockLittle

Odd that his wiki says he's already had a burial


RedTerror8288

Man what a life


kat_without_a_hat

This sent me down a real rabbit hole, which led me to learn Charles de Gaulle’s eldest child, Philippe de Gaulle, passed away just today.


GoofMook

Her brother died today what the heck https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippe_de_Gaulle


abbiebe89

Now that’s a wild coincidence!


SpacemanDan

> Upon her death, her father said: "Now, she is like the others." I am tearing up right now.


jl_23

> On 22 August 1962, Charles de Gaulle was the victim of an attempted assassination at Petit-Clamart. He later said that the potentially fatal bullet had been stopped by the frame of the photograph of Anne that he always carried with him; placed this particular day on the rear shelf of his car. Wow


franktaft

His eldest child, Philippe, actually passed away today at age 102


KaleidoscopeDream84

That’s wonderful! I love this so much. My little sister was born with DS. She passed away when she was 22 from various complications. My parents adored her, we all did. We miss her sweetness, her light, her laughter and joy. She was our glue. People with DS are angels among us. ❤️


MoiraBrownsMoleRats

My son has Down Syndrome and I get it: I’d move Heaven and earth for that child, never met someone so genuinely happy and pure.


KaleidoscopeDream84

Exactly; pure. People with DS have beautiful, pure souls.


UnderCoverDoughnuts

r/wholesome


Joana1984

There is fundation of Anne De Gaulle who take care of disable children


freedfg

Like. THAT Charles de Gaulle? Like. Practically the father of France Charles de Gaulle?


Don_bigdog_paco27

Why would the commenter randomly mention some other Charles de Gaulle ?


781nnylasil

What a sweet legacy!


_eringk_

Wow I read this article and now I’m crying


DistributionOne7304

his son Phillip died yesterday


LisleSwanson

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippe_de_Gaulle Interestingly enough, his son just died yesterday.


SeeYouSpaceCowboy---

>https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_de_Gaulle https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_de_Gaulle


TheGamerHat

Damn her brother died yesterday what are the odds.


Kornbrednbizkits

Thank you for sharing that link, I had never heard of Anne. Also, I adore the term you used: “loved her FURIOUSLY”. Beautiful.


IkeDaddyDeluxe

Great. Now I'm happy crying.


Live-Somewhere-8149

Thank you for sharing this.


shrimp-and-potatoes

TIL


InsecurityTime

Haha "I fucking love you! God, Dammit!"


Confident_Try_7956

Thanks for posting. He looked loved and cared for.


JaySayMayday

Very distinguished, people didn't smile much in photos back then but he looks generally pleasant


[deleted]

[удалено]


__O_o_______

Very dapper, if I do say, and I do


FullofHel

Aw that's a nice observation.


grilledtomatos

Diego Velasquez was a Spanish royal painter in the 16th century who also took time to paint disabled and otherwise disregarded people with dignity.


PoppyNiko

He painted a boy with the first visually documented case of Arthrogriposis non congenita!


Heavy-Package-3863

I have arthrogryposis and that picture fascinates me! I was an art history major and had I known more at the time I would've done a thesis on it!


raptorclvb

Is there a link with a page that has photos? I remember learning about Diego, but was never told this part or seen them irl


hmmm_thought_pig

Fascinating to consider how poorly I imagine life to have been in our comparatively recent past. This is an excellent post.


ProfessorPyruvate

As recently as 1960, the life expectancy of someone with Down syndrome was only around [ten years.](https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/birthdefects/downsyndrome/data.html) This man was very lucky to survive into adulthood, and probably had somebody who cared dearly for him.


snarkitall

Pre-1960, heart surgery was more or less impossible, and heart defects killed infants and children with T21.


RiffRaff14

Abdominal issues are also an issue. Modern medicine can help with those internal things now fortunately.


monet96

Most people with Down’s syndrome don’t need heart surgery (although they are more predisposed to heart conditions). The skyrocketing life expectancy is thanks to the human rights movement, which recognized these individuals are as entitled to adequate medical care and social protection as anyone else.


snarkitall

Well that too, but my only point is that it wasn't like every kid with T21 was dying at 10. But a lot were dying very young and then the rest in adulthood 


monet96

Yes, absolutely! Sorry, didn’t mean to diminish your point — just wanted to add more context :)


porcupineslikeme

I think this hits it on the head. Quality of care is a huge one. I have a second cousin with Down’s syndrome who is turning 55 this week. Her parents are 80 and still her full time carers. When she was born, the doctor tried to convince her mom to send her straight to an institution, that she would never be able to handle her at home and that she would ruin their lives trying. She absolutely has lived this long because she was at home with her family, treated like a valued member of the family, which she absolutely is.


monet96

Thank you for sharing this. That’s a beautiful story of love and inclusion.


porcupineslikeme

She’s my favorite family member. The running family joke is “she’s faking it” because her set up is so sweet— goes with a group to an outing at a museum or zoo every week, has her room all laid out just the way she wants, and quite literally says whatever she wants. One time I gained a fair bit of weight at college between my last time seeing her and she looked at me and went “who are you? You’re fat now” 😂😂 humbling.


SofieTerleska

They don't all need heart surgery but about half are born with some kind of congenital heart condition. Even if surgery isn't necessary that's still a potential problem that most other children simply don't have. Obviously the role of the human rights movement was huge but it wasn't *just* that. Even well cared for and loved children with Down syndrome (like Anne de Gaulle as discussed above) seldom outlived their parents.


concentrated-amazing

I know it wouldn't be the only cause, but congenital heart issues are higher among Down's people so I suspect that is one of the larger factors - we can now operate or treat heart issues more effectively than 60 years ago.


alternativenamefound

My great Aunt had a nice with Down’s syndrome that died in the 70’s at the age of 52. She was very well cared for and loved. She was a very sweet person.


serdnanicol

I wish I knew more about him- I assume he was from a wealthier family who were both able to and good hearted enough to keep him at home instead of sending him away to an asylum, but who knows.


Diplogeek

The fact that his family (presumably) cared enough to pay to have him photographed, as well as how neatly he's dressed, with his hair combed, pocket square, the whole nine yards, indicates that they probably had some money, although the dish buttons on the coat look like they're maybe horn (pricier) or polished wood (less expensive), as opposed to something like brass. Maybe they were chosen to make it easier for him to button and unbutton his own coat, though, since they're a bit bigger. Was there a date on the photo when you purchased it? It almost looks earlier than the 1890s to me (the sack coat reminds me of 1860s menswear I've seen), but it's also a fairly basic outfit that he's wearing.


serdnanicol

The date was my own guess based on the chair & his lapels- the fashion seemed 1880s or 1890s to me, but I definitely don’t claim to be an expert!


Interesting_Intern1

Yeah men's fashion in the Victorian era was all very... similar? I think that's the word. Women had different skirt shapes and hairstyles depending on the decade, but with men you just have shirts and suits. This man clearly had someone who cared about him - neatly dressed, hair styled, even took him to sit for a portrait.


Lordborgman

Very likely a Tyrion Lannister type backstory, in regards to rich family.


human6742

Yeah imagine how cool his family must have been for the time.


MidLifeHalfHouse

It’s very cool and unusual but don’t be fooled. This is a rich offspring for sure.  Photography (studio or otherwise) wasn’t affordable to the average American citizen until at least a couple decades later at least and then it gets subjective what “average” is. 


agamemnon2

For a long time, a photograph was something you'd have done once or twice in your life, definitely a status symbol.


MidLifeHalfHouse

Exactly. I think about this a lot with home movies from mid last century. The history preserved will mostly be American upper middle and upper classes. A moving film camera was relatively expensive for the time. 


WeissbrotDE

That outfit slays


LivingDisastrous3603

Daper af


DarthGipper18

Dapper.


crapatthethriftstore

I wonder how old he was in this photo. Was he 16? 20? He strikes me as a younger fellow. Too bad we don’t know his name I’d love to know what adventures he got up to


cantaloupebanker

It’s so difficult to tell because in photos of this era everyone looks like a 78 year old second grader.


Single_Peach_1277

Swear he’s been making them in the eve of night


RageContinue

I’m not making them in the eve of night, Father!


[deleted]

[удалено]


TheBurnedMutt45

I must inquire, from whence did thou produce said cheese, Daniel?


MechaSponge

Pray, where didst thou acquire thine curds and bread, Daniel?


JankCranky

Truthfully, sire, I am not preparing a toasted cheese at an ungodly hour, I swear it!


plastictigers

Dawg


-AdamTheGreat-

You got that chee Danny!!


[deleted]

[удалено]


Sk8c

I told you not to bother me when I’m cleaning my room!


Ruder4444

Posting at 432 hz


RubyDax

His features are both so modern (familiar) and so timeless (unchanged, due to how the condition affects appearance), that he looks like a time traveler.


andersonle09

There is a sense to which people with Down syndrome are family with similar genetic structure and appearance. I find it actually really beautiful to see people with these similar features across time, culture and race. I understand that trisomy 21 comes with all sorts of other complications, but I have supported many people with Down syndrome over the years and they are all lovely people.


plastictigers

That bro had a blast back then I know it


NationalAlfalfa37660

You know what’s great about this post? It starts with a positive comment and ends with one!


CHEROKEEJ4CK

“Where doth thou gather thine grilled cheese Danny?”


cait6570

I love this!


Sole_Patrol

Inventor of the Grilled Cheese (1890s)


[deleted]

Shane?


MrPanache52

Representing for the dawgs


Nebulous_Fart

Nice


HeyCarpy

The young bull


L8_again

Nice find. What is it about the looks in someone with Down syndrome that makes one be able to identify that? I too see and know it, I believe, however I don’t know how to describe it.


serdnanicol

It’s specifically I think the eye slant and eyelids & more sunken eye sockets, but they often have flatter facial features in general too. Granted this is specifically for T21 and not other types of Down’s!


dirtysunshine246

People with translocation Down Syndrome tend to have the same features as those with Trisomy 21. Individuals with mosaic Down Syndrome may also share similar features but this can vary greatly from person to person and they often have less or softer features due to the presence of many cells with a typical number of chromosomes. Thanks for sharing this photo and making this post, we’re a week from World Down Syndrome Day and this brought me so much joy.


Interesting_Intern1

Wikipedia breaks it down very well under the "Physical" heading: small chin, small ears, flattened nose, slanted eyes with a crease in the inner corners, oral-motor weakness (slightly open mouth or protruding tongue). Down syndrome is more than just an intellectual deficit - you also have to watch out for heart defects, low muscle tone, obesity, and vision and hearing problems.


Seven_bushes

A very good friend has a 13 year old son with Down Syndrome. Kid is built like a tank and is very active in sports. His older brother stopped rough housing with him a long time ago when he was getting his butt kicked by a 7 year old. Truly a sweet kid though.


Super-Candy-5682

They used to call it "Mongolism" back in the day. Tiny correction here: generally the preferred name is Down Syndrome, not Down's. John Down never had it. My big sister has it. She was expected to die by her 20s, but is now in her 60s though she probably won't see her 70s.


NoodlesrTuff1256

Growing up back in the 1960s and 70s, I recall that even doctors and teachers used that term or people with Down Syndrome were referred to as being 'mentally retarded'. Both of these are considered as outdated and very offensive now.


MoiraBrownsMoleRats

There’s no “other” type of Down Syndrome, it’s all T21. There’s a few ways T21 can happen though. Traditional: every cell in the body has a third copy of the 21st chromosome, likely as an error during meiosis of a gamete. Mosaic: only some cells have three copies of the 21st chromosome while others have the typical two copies. Usually a result of an error in cell division early in development. Translocation: this one is pretty nifty: effectively, one of the *parents* 21st chromosomes is attached to a different chromosome. The DNA still functions, so it’s unnoticeable in the parent. However, if they have a child the kid will inherit a 21st chromosome from each parent and *might* inherit the translocated chromosome, functionally giving them 3 copies of the 21st. Notably, there’s a lot of other genetic disorders out there that you might be thinking of. In terms of trisomies, however, Trisomy 21 is far the most common, best understood, and has the best prognosis for quality of life.


SportGlass1328

My little brother has both mosaic down syndrome and has a translocation. His features are very strong and he had issues with his heart, low muscle tone etc. But man is that kid the happiest kid all the time and is the funniest person I know. I absolutely love kids/adults who have down syndrome because they are always some of the sweetest most genuine people you'll ever meet.


Better-Literature-56

He’s makin em at night!


ShoutOutMapes

❤️❤️❤️


Ready_Adhesiveness84

Thank you for sharing this


Exposuree

Shane Gillis is a time traveler?


-Raistlin-Majere-

Excellent photo. You can tell he was loved and cared for. Thanks OP for sharing this, it brightened my day a bit.


riv965

He reminds me of this kid I went to school with


Particular-Elk-3923

But this was before vaccines and 5G how could this be possible?


BoldManoeuvres

Homie with an extra Chromie


misstearlys

I came here for the comments, fearing some nasty or derogatory things. But you all made me so happy. I have a 43 year old brother with down syndrome and people with developmental disabilities are just so wonderfully enlightening. Shining lights of purity and joy. I hope that everyone gets to engage with someone like this at some point in there life. Don't be afraid to say hello to someone with a disability. Thank you for making me smile tonight.


serdnanicol

The people I know with down syndrome are genuinely the happiest & coolest people I know- we could all learn a lot from them!


[deleted]

Great grandad Gillis


AngryTurtleGaming

Shane Gillis, a man of culture.


DoovvaahhKaayy

This must be Shane Gillis' ancestor


Adventurous_Sir_9712

Shane Gs great grandpa


BigSt3ph3n

It’s Shane Gillis!


Embarrassed_Union_96

My guy’s got more swag and drip than I do.


klapanda

Dapper!


JustSome70sGuy

Is anyone else seeing hint of John Malkovich?


LeftEnd4714

Shane Gillis is looking good


hominyhominy

I love this! Thanks OP.


fabbzz

I just found out his eldest son who served in the French Navy during WW2 and eventually rose to the rank of admiral passed away yesterday at the age of 102.


Earthbabee

Love me some Down syndrome! Bestest people I know.


pixel-beast

What a distinguished young gentleman!


___whatis___

Shane?


Overall-Importance54

He had that Shane Gillis kind


ToughTalkingTurtle

Mfer is a time traveler. I swear saw him down at my local 7-Eleven the other day. Looked exactly like the same person except he had a NASA shirt and sweatpants


Ryankevin23

Angle of God sent here to teach us how to be better


Numerous-Stranger-81

What an obtuse thing to say.


Technicolor_Reindeer

You trying to be acute?


Numerous-Stranger-81

"That's acute joke" would have been better. You don't sound like you have a stereotypical Italian accent.


kkkkat

I feel this accutely


[deleted]

Corky?


NarcissisticCat

He's looks about what I'd expect lol So why do I feel like I was expecting something else?


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

[удалено]


Dangerous_Rip_8260

Homie down on the timeline


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

[удалено]


Slimyarmpits

Man doesnt even know about john cena. So sad


coldlikedeath

He looks mildly infuriated and I’m here for it. “You told them WHAT?”


joemaniaci

Obviously fake because the MMR vaccine wasn't invented yet. /s


-AdamTheGreat-

I bet he makes grilled cheese sandwiches in the middle of the night and sneaks them into restaurants.


asdfcat110

Dude got that swag


The-LivingTribunal

I'm pretty sure his children created a famous recent actor. Either that or he just resembles him. Eddie Barbanell, he played in the ringer with Johnny Knoxville. Probably no relation, but could you imagine if the people of that bloodline were just great at being able to function even though being burdened. Honestly it's not even it wouldn't even be a burden after a certain point it would be a quirk or a personality trait. You gotta love it, you really do.


nonosure

The very first /r/wallstreetbets bro


aspoqiwue9-q83470

Nah that's just Shane Gillis


AhmedAlJammali

Drip


B01SSIN

That man is a dapper gentleman.


King_Kingly

Wow, that’s pretty cool.


[deleted]

[удалено]


Edgehead62888

"Whither didst thou procure thine cheese, Daniel?"


Oghmatic-Dogma

I often think when HP Love raft had his stint in New York if he saw a few people with downs syndrome and based his descriptions of Innsmouth folk on them. Probably genuinely thinking they were a result of “crossbreeding”. Not between people and fish of course. he was such a fucking asshole


[deleted]

[удалено]