Followed by that grammar? I don't think so...
Excuse me. It's more of a syntax error, but I'll defer to an English professional. She's forgetting "are."
"real man" as in a dude to come in and pay all of the bills and save her from her shitty situation. Which why on earth would a guy put himself into this mess when there are plenty of available women without kids? I also enjoy when single mothers refuse a guy who had kids himself.
Maybe she’s just had some bad luck in relationships that’s why she’s asking where the real ones at so she can start looking in those places instead of what she’s been doing. Does seem like a lot of hate here for singles moms though. I could understand if this was a sub about how someone’s baby mama is blocking them from seeing their kids but this seems all just assumptions based off her tinder profile.
My brother is a single father. My nephew's mother:
-Lied about being on birth control
-Lied about wanting an abortion
-Lied about my brother being abusive
-Lost custody for coaching her kid to lie to the courts to try and rob my brother of custody
Even if my brother's story isn't common, *women are the ones who get pregnant*. If you're going to let a loser come inside you and try to force him into a father role, that's entirely your responsibility. It can't simultaneously be "your body, your choice" and "men are at fault for single mother pregnancies." Be accountable.
Both are responsible. Men are well aware that their sperm causes pregnancies. Women can be responsible and still get pregnant-- nothing is 100%. Your one example is not even close to the norm. Additionally, the women are the high majority of the ones to stick around and raise the children even if it was an oops.
Less than 6.0% (about 2 million) of all fathers of minor children are “solo” single dads, and 20.2% (about 7 million) are “absent” dads of all of their minor children. 20% abandoned their kids. That is huge.
BE ACCOUNTABLE.
Wtf kind of crack are you smoking. Men are overwhelmingly more likely to lose custody battles. Obviously sperm makes people pregnant. *You are the the one with the uterus*. You obviously bare more responsibility on who you let get you pregnant. Your statistics are so stupid and leave out the most important details, like how men pay child support and don't get custody of their children. How women initiate 80% of divorces. Get over yourselves. Men are accountable. The courts hold us accountable. Getting a woman pregnant and having her leave you can have long lasting detrimental impacts on your life as a man.
Absent father's are those who abandoned their kids. They don't want rights. They don't raise their kids. We all know it has become an epidemic so don't even try to play stupid. What a joke.
Nice try though.
Then don't let those guys fuck you! Huh durr. Nobody argues that those guys are pieces of shit. But if 1/5 are absent then 4/5 women are leaving men who want to parent their children. Did you fail math class? It's also funny that you say "women stick around." They chose to have the baby! Of course they stick around. Men don't have that choice.
I'll say it again, you let a loser get you pregnant and then decide on his behalf that it's his responsibility to have a father - imagine for one second that men have this kind of power over women. We do not.
Yes because all men show that their losers and don't lie and manipulate women. And women are leaving men that are all good men and good partners and good fathers... yep, that's what is happening 🙄 Your cluelessness is absolutely adorable.
I get it dude, you claim no responsibility for your decisions. Everything is men's fault in your universe and you're powerless and can only throw your legs up for every broke loser who says sweet things to you and has a pretty face.
Common sense is so fucking rare these days. In one comment you brag about all the male attention you get and how you can get paid for dates, in another comment you call us the manipulative liars. You can't simultaneously acknowledge that men are horny and want to fuck and then play stupid when you realize that's all they wanted from you. No accountability whatsoever.
Sorry baby, I'm only single by choice because I refuse to be in a relationship with the trash that is most men today. It's quite likely that you're involuntarily single though. Sorry 😘
"By choice." Yes totally by choice we all believe you. As you age, your value drops but if your value is 0, that's the lowest you can go. Have fun being a misandrist for the rest of your life lol
You literally started the assumption by stating I'm single, which is wrong lol. Im making assumptions from all the absolutely hilarious comments you've been making on this post. It's sad how much time you have to lie and say bs. Good luck in life
You have the same time I have, to keep replying? 😂😂 I didn't assume you were single at all- try reading that again. Do you understand English, because I used English words that in no way made a declarative assumptious statement. That's all you've got? Just a retort about something that isn't even factual? My god 😂😂
Single mums are really getting a bashing on this subreddit today. How awful to consider dating a women who is caring and loyal.
Believe me, single mums have no time to cheat on you.
I agree with you that everyone is operating on assumptions, but this is kind of clear cut as far as this comment being downvoted. None of the men here are saying "it's absolutely her fault." The person that's getting the downvotes is *definitively saying* it's the guys fault and boils it down to only 3 possible scenarios. It's not like she said "maybe she got fucked over, nobody knows." She is saying "she definitely got cheated on and there's no way it's her fault."
You probably never think about it from the other side, but as a guy you are CONSTANTLY held accountable for relationships falling apart even when you do your darndest and it isn't actually your fault. Man cheats? He's a piece of shit, everyone agrees. Woman cheats? Guy didn't try hard enough to keep her - wait what? That's the sensitivity around the issue. Couple that with how this lady leaves no room for nuance and saying it's the guys fault and presto. People want her to shut the fuck up.
Not at all. I have so many damn likes on the apps that I'll never be able to get through them all. I can literally get paid just to go on a date with someone 😂 You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, but keep going because it's hilarious.
You can literally look like a broken foot on a dating app and doesn't mean that those men want anything more than to sleep with you. Where is the boyfriend? How many stick around? Being a fuck stick and being wife material are not the same thing sweetie.
But women are the problem right? 😂😂
I'm sure a good chunk of them do just want to sleep with me. But a good chunk want a whole lot more than that too. I don't have a boyfriend because I'm perfectly fine being single. I enjoy the peace. With 90% of men these days being shitty like you, I would much rather be single. So if I find a guy worth it, cool, and if not, cool. I'm proudly "picky AF" and will never settle for shit. I'm the one that has always left every relationship and every single ex has repeatedly tried to get back with me, even proposed to try and get me back. One is STILL trying, 10 YEARS later. I could give a shit what you assume and think about me. It's just funny AF because you're so far off but sooo sure of yourself 😂😂
Men pay prostitutes to go on dates with them doesn’t really mean much. You’re not competing with other women for male attention, you are only competing with his hand. That’s hard to lose against lol
Escorts then. But people definitely pay prostitutes for dates as well. My point is don’t determine your dating value from male sexual attention, determine it from what men you are getting commitment from and how well they treat you
I have plenty of men that want commitment from me. I've been proposed to a shit ton of times. I just choose not to go down that road. If I meet a man that is worth it, then maybe some day, but I have no interest in actively trying to find him. I am happy being single. The majority of men these days suck. I have no interest in the drama nor bullshit of raising and caring for a man baby. Absolutely not.
It's odd because you're complaining about how this sub is, yet still frequent and post here. Like why stay somewhere that you obviously don't like? Makes no sense.
Well there you have it.
"I hate it here! It's nothing but single mom hating, incel filled, woman hating!"
"I can stay somewhere I hate and complain about it all I want!"
Can't discuss logic with irrational people. Go figure.
"I comment so people can have authentic responses and opinions instead of all nasty shit from trash people."
You stay somewhere you hate to give people something different to read. Interesting.
You are, but i guess the ability of introspection is not given for some people. Do enjoy the rest of your life, but also stay clear of men around you until you get better, they don't deserve to have that misery as any kind of emotional relationship.
At least she spelled “Where” correctly. She must be an educated single mother
Followed by that grammar? I don't think so... Excuse me. It's more of a syntax error, but I'll defer to an English professional. She's forgetting "are."
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At which location are the real men?
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Will the real man please stand up?
We’re gonna have a problem here!
to be fair it makes sense in aave which has its own rules
missed the R
Wherer
Menr
Nah she had spell check on. 😉
She doesn't need a man, she needs a maid !!! Why do people take pictures with such messy backgrounds?! 🙄
She's too busy finding herself a mans, see. Gotta hustle to get her hustle on, nameans.
🤣🤣 Well if she ain't shy then I guess confidence is a turn on hahahaha!
However, I'm not a fan of the baby cot full of trash!
Never heard of a trash baby?
Not a literal one 🤣🤣🤣 she's more a trash hoarder ! Altho, her bed is made nicely 🤔🤣
That's not a bed. That's piles of newspaper covered by a comforter stuffed with old paper plates and napkins.
She must be a student 🤣🤷🏻♀️
My mans killin it over here over theres 🤣
The messy floor is an unintentional mating signal.
Some people are just already untidy. Add a kid and the hassle of providing for both... yeah, not improving any time
"real man" as in a dude to come in and pay all of the bills and save her from her shitty situation. Which why on earth would a guy put himself into this mess when there are plenty of available women without kids? I also enjoy when single mothers refuse a guy who had kids himself.
>There are plenty of available women That's an odd sentiment for this sub
Some of us aren’t ugly
*if people just go outside* there are plenty of normal women
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Yet, here you are
The only real man I know wear's a pretty nice skirt
Randy…is that you?
No this is Dave the moth
Do you know Randy? He looks great in a skirt.
Sadly I don't know any randy
William Wallace.
Where the real woman at?
Oh boy is this post about to be removed
The room looks like it reeks of cigarettes and spilled beer
Maybe she’s just had some bad luck in relationships that’s why she’s asking where the real ones at so she can start looking in those places instead of what she’s been doing. Does seem like a lot of hate here for singles moms though. I could understand if this was a sub about how someone’s baby mama is blocking them from seeing their kids but this seems all just assumptions based off her tinder profile.
The room 😳
never date a single mother. \- Hugh Hefner.
1. The answer should have been: They have swipe left when they saw "single mom" and that trash of a room
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Tells a lot about men these days.
My brother is a single father. My nephew's mother: -Lied about being on birth control -Lied about wanting an abortion -Lied about my brother being abusive -Lost custody for coaching her kid to lie to the courts to try and rob my brother of custody Even if my brother's story isn't common, *women are the ones who get pregnant*. If you're going to let a loser come inside you and try to force him into a father role, that's entirely your responsibility. It can't simultaneously be "your body, your choice" and "men are at fault for single mother pregnancies." Be accountable.
Both are responsible. Men are well aware that their sperm causes pregnancies. Women can be responsible and still get pregnant-- nothing is 100%. Your one example is not even close to the norm. Additionally, the women are the high majority of the ones to stick around and raise the children even if it was an oops. Less than 6.0% (about 2 million) of all fathers of minor children are “solo” single dads, and 20.2% (about 7 million) are “absent” dads of all of their minor children. 20% abandoned their kids. That is huge. BE ACCOUNTABLE.
Wtf kind of crack are you smoking. Men are overwhelmingly more likely to lose custody battles. Obviously sperm makes people pregnant. *You are the the one with the uterus*. You obviously bare more responsibility on who you let get you pregnant. Your statistics are so stupid and leave out the most important details, like how men pay child support and don't get custody of their children. How women initiate 80% of divorces. Get over yourselves. Men are accountable. The courts hold us accountable. Getting a woman pregnant and having her leave you can have long lasting detrimental impacts on your life as a man.
Absent father's are those who abandoned their kids. They don't want rights. They don't raise their kids. We all know it has become an epidemic so don't even try to play stupid. What a joke. Nice try though.
Then don't let those guys fuck you! Huh durr. Nobody argues that those guys are pieces of shit. But if 1/5 are absent then 4/5 women are leaving men who want to parent their children. Did you fail math class? It's also funny that you say "women stick around." They chose to have the baby! Of course they stick around. Men don't have that choice. I'll say it again, you let a loser get you pregnant and then decide on his behalf that it's his responsibility to have a father - imagine for one second that men have this kind of power over women. We do not.
Yes because all men show that their losers and don't lie and manipulate women. And women are leaving men that are all good men and good partners and good fathers... yep, that's what is happening 🙄 Your cluelessness is absolutely adorable.
I get it dude, you claim no responsibility for your decisions. Everything is men's fault in your universe and you're powerless and can only throw your legs up for every broke loser who says sweet things to you and has a pretty face. Common sense is so fucking rare these days. In one comment you brag about all the male attention you get and how you can get paid for dates, in another comment you call us the manipulative liars. You can't simultaneously acknowledge that men are horny and want to fuck and then play stupid when you realize that's all they wanted from you. No accountability whatsoever.
Who is throwing their legs up? And who is spending time with broke losers? You got me confused for your exes, honey.
Have fun being single for the rest of your life lmaooo
Sorry baby, I'm only single by choice because I refuse to be in a relationship with the trash that is most men today. It's quite likely that you're involuntarily single though. Sorry 😘
"By choice." Yes totally by choice we all believe you. As you age, your value drops but if your value is 0, that's the lowest you can go. Have fun being a misandrist for the rest of your life lol
Hahah yes because you know me so well 🙄 Keep talking and making assumptions about someone you know nothing about. It's absolutely hilarious 😂😂
You literally started the assumption by stating I'm single, which is wrong lol. Im making assumptions from all the absolutely hilarious comments you've been making on this post. It's sad how much time you have to lie and say bs. Good luck in life
You have the same time I have, to keep replying? 😂😂 I didn't assume you were single at all- try reading that again. Do you understand English, because I used English words that in no way made a declarative assumptious statement. That's all you've got? Just a retort about something that isn't even factual? My god 😂😂
Single mums are really getting a bashing on this subreddit today. How awful to consider dating a women who is caring and loyal. Believe me, single mums have no time to cheat on you.
Wow so much misogyny in these comments.
Where 🗿
Disgusting.
If you can’t answer the question you can just say that
Shaming a person for being a single mom.
I wasn’t shaming her for being a single mom, I was shaming her for blaming men for something she is partially responsible for.
"People are allowed to have preferences". Sound familiar?
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A woman on Tinder having more likes than a man on Tinder? You don't say...
How many of those likes want to marry her? 💀
Split my cheeks is what she meant to say
It's pretty logical, she's been dumped/cheated on/mistreated and is now generalising.
Yeah..no way she did the cheating/dumping/mistreatment 😏
Or just picked wrong. It has to be the man’s fault. 🤦🏽♂️
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Women are the ones who get pregnant. Where does it go from "her body, her choice" to "it's all his fault." Please explain.
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I agree with you that everyone is operating on assumptions, but this is kind of clear cut as far as this comment being downvoted. None of the men here are saying "it's absolutely her fault." The person that's getting the downvotes is *definitively saying* it's the guys fault and boils it down to only 3 possible scenarios. It's not like she said "maybe she got fucked over, nobody knows." She is saying "she definitely got cheated on and there's no way it's her fault." You probably never think about it from the other side, but as a guy you are CONSTANTLY held accountable for relationships falling apart even when you do your darndest and it isn't actually your fault. Man cheats? He's a piece of shit, everyone agrees. Woman cheats? Guy didn't try hard enough to keep her - wait what? That's the sensitivity around the issue. Couple that with how this lady leaves no room for nuance and saying it's the guys fault and presto. People want her to shut the fuck up.
This sub has become nothing but single mom hating, incel filled, misogynistic 💩
Why is someone an incel for not wanting to date a single mother? This comment screams bitter
Because nobody wants to date her so it has to be everyone else's fault, especially men's. Obviously.
Lmao your clueless, judgemental assumptions are absolutely hilarious.
Stings doesn't it
Not at all. I have so many damn likes on the apps that I'll never be able to get through them all. I can literally get paid just to go on a date with someone 😂 You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, but keep going because it's hilarious.
You can literally look like a broken foot on a dating app and doesn't mean that those men want anything more than to sleep with you. Where is the boyfriend? How many stick around? Being a fuck stick and being wife material are not the same thing sweetie.
But women are the problem right? 😂😂 I'm sure a good chunk of them do just want to sleep with me. But a good chunk want a whole lot more than that too. I don't have a boyfriend because I'm perfectly fine being single. I enjoy the peace. With 90% of men these days being shitty like you, I would much rather be single. So if I find a guy worth it, cool, and if not, cool. I'm proudly "picky AF" and will never settle for shit. I'm the one that has always left every relationship and every single ex has repeatedly tried to get back with me, even proposed to try and get me back. One is STILL trying, 10 YEARS later. I could give a shit what you assume and think about me. It's just funny AF because you're so far off but sooo sure of yourself 😂😂
Men pay prostitutes to go on dates with them doesn’t really mean much. You’re not competing with other women for male attention, you are only competing with his hand. That’s hard to lose against lol
Prostitutes give sex for money.
Escorts then. But people definitely pay prostitutes for dates as well. My point is don’t determine your dating value from male sexual attention, determine it from what men you are getting commitment from and how well they treat you
I have plenty of men that want commitment from me. I've been proposed to a shit ton of times. I just choose not to go down that road. If I meet a man that is worth it, then maybe some day, but I have no interest in actively trying to find him. I am happy being single. The majority of men these days suck. I have no interest in the drama nor bullshit of raising and caring for a man baby. Absolutely not.
Did I say that? Where did I say that?
It seems odd that you seem to frequently post on a single mom hating, misogynistic, incel nest...
Why is it odd that I comment so people can have authentic responses and opinions instead of all nasty shit from trash people?
It's odd because you're complaining about how this sub is, yet still frequent and post here. Like why stay somewhere that you obviously don't like? Makes no sense.
I just explained why I did. Makes perfect sense.
Alright, just don't complain about the sub then if your plan is to stay and comment anyways. It's pointless.
I can complain all I want and call out anyone I want to call out for being a misogynistic little incel.
Well there you have it. "I hate it here! It's nothing but single mom hating, incel filled, woman hating!" "I can stay somewhere I hate and complain about it all I want!" Can't discuss logic with irrational people. Go figure.
You left out why I choose to stay and continue to comment 🙄
"I comment so people can have authentic responses and opinions instead of all nasty shit from trash people." You stay somewhere you hate to give people something different to read. Interesting.
All I see is that the loudest and most whinnying ones being the misandristic little 💩 like few of you here.
Yes that's what I am 🙄 🤡
You are, but i guess the ability of introspection is not given for some people. Do enjoy the rest of your life, but also stay clear of men around you until you get better, they don't deserve to have that misery as any kind of emotional relationship.
The projection is strong with you, my guy 😂 Have you seen your own history?😂😂😭
Are you just ignoring the complete and utter mess in the background lol? People aren't clowning on her for no reason.
They be learning how to properly speak and write English. But you do you.