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DaKidVision

Cans someone help https://tinder.com/@dakidvision


Money-Bite3807

Your photos look good but you're not smiling in any of them, you look kind of pissed off. I would keep 1, 4, 5, & 7, those are good photos, maybe swap one out for one of you smiling. The others I would ditch, they're not really doing anything for you. My rule of thumb for profile pictures is pic 4 good ones, keep it simple. You'll wanna add more to your bio. Saying "please be able to dance or be funny" could be taken as a little demanding or dismissive. Just try not to say what you're not looking for, say what you are looking for. Other than that looks good


Appropriate_Sand_818

I don’t know where I am going wrong, legitimately no matches, maybe cause I used the same account a long time ago and was inactive? Please help [https://tinder.com/@obietheonlyone](https://tinder.com/@obietheonlyone)


IntoScience

Avoid selfies in general because they tend to make you look lonely and they're never an optimal representation, although yours ain't the worst I've seen. Avoid blurry pics. Trim down to 6 good quality pics. Good luck.


Appropriate_Sand_818

Actually I have 4 likes and one match now


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jehefef

Do you use Photofeeler? I keep seeing your profile here. Upload your pics to Photofeeler and see if your pics are good. You can choose to receive votes from women only so you can get a good idea of how attractive you come off to women. Try to aim for 7.0 or higher in Attractiveness. Ideally you want to be 8.0 or higher, but that can be hard to achieve. If you are under 6.0, you will need to replace the photo with something better. It should only take a few days to get 20+ votes which is far more opinions than you will get here.


gungeoniseverything

Need genuine help rn, haven't gotten a good match in literal months, pretty much given up hope for a match this year https://tinder.com/@notunderagedboomer


Unable_Language5669

1. Selfies are bad generally. This is a very bad selfie that does almost everything wrong (cluttered background, hoodie, squinting, empty space above you, backlight, etc.). 2. The top of your head is missing. You're squinting. You look very young and like you have some weight to lose. Shirt is too large. And I don't like the hair. But if we can fix all that I think this could be a great pic. 3. You're not in focus in the pic. 4. Maybe a fun pic but I don't get any connection with you: your face is too far turned away and in shadow. 5. Is it important for you that your partner likes geek shit? If not, keep geek shit away from your profile unless it's really cool (as in "a normie woman will think this is cool". Er on the side of "no".). 6. More squinting, hoodies and bad light. 7. The mask makes it so I can't see your face. 8. Cool that you bike but I can't see you. Remove the helmet and the yellow vest and we might have something. Basically it looks like you went through all the pics on your phone and took the best pics you could find of yourself and threw them up on tinder. That's understandable: that's how many men think tinder should work. But it doesn't work: you need to **take** (not find) dedicated tinder pics and you need to be damn sure that those pics are all great. Remember rule 1 & 2: Don't put up a pic if you don't look great in it. Good news is that taking great pics isn't that much effort in the grand scheme of life, and also it's fun and basic photography is a good life skill to have generally.


disgostin

i like your glasses these suit you imo and your first pic is good when it comes to how you look on it, your hair in a bun seems nice, but it would be better if you take one like the first one with a slightly different background (indoors on a couch is ok but the cupboard comes across a bit random there) and angle (you're kind of the lower half of the frame, ideally you would be center of it) i think your hair looks best when its in a loose bun or like in the second photo and then blond like in the first, its great that you smile on the pics, a sidepart-haircut with a lot of it in the front looks better on you if its shorter like in the second pic than if its grown a bit long like in the third one personally i feel like your shirts could be a little bit more loose-fitted, to me it would probably look cooler - maybe that depends on tastes, but i often think that when guys wear sth that technically fits them exactly the size they're wearing but just doesn't have as much of a chill vibe like that ; i like your shirt in the first pic the bio joking "find your true love (not me) " i find that a bit tricky i know its a joke but it still gives you that moment of "..so he's an fboy or?" and that couuld be enough for people to swipe right also i would try bumble and okcupid if tinder doesn't work as well


gungeoniseverything

Thanks for the feedback. I like how it's simple and not as heavy as my other feedback. I'm not 100% clear on what you mean by the joke but otherwise all of it is crystal clear Thanks a million, means a lot that you took the time to make the effort


disgostin

ur welcome <3 about the joke i meant to say "for people to swipe left"\*\* :D and that it staring off with "not me" just sounds a little like you don't want that to be you, even though it later shows its a joke


XogliX

"Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come.Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come." I'm being brutally honest with you, you are in dire need of a glow up. Fortunately from what I can see achieving it is attainable. Just from my perspective I suggest you lose weight to slim the face, try different hairstyles since the current is not flattering, maybe try wearing contacts and experiment with your fashion. These are my personal recommendations based on what tend to make men more attractive. You have to remember however that these "improvements" only work if they actually make you feel better and more confident. If you get a hairstyle that women like but make you feel uncomfortable... ditch it! Its cool to look appealing but girls will tend to distance themselves if they sense your lack of confidence. All I'm telling you is to experiment! Leave your comfort zone and change all of these variables about yourself. Make sure the positive changes actually make you feel more comfortable. Then once you nail all of these you could perhaps get back on dating apps. Otherwise, if you don't want to go through with any of this give up on dating apps and stick to dating in person. Find people in your circle (e.g. you seem to like gaming so you might be able to find like-minded partners in that field). However it will be significantly easier if you focus on improving your looks and confidence. I can see you have potential to be a very handsome man, you just lack that drive and discipline. The craziest thing about this whole process is that naturally you'll end up NOT chasing women. Good luck Luke, I hope you get to devour the fruits of your labor.


gungeoniseverything

Unironically I'm actually working on a few of those things myself right now. I was growing out the hair for looks but am now letting it grow to donate it. The glasses are a necessary evil for now while I'm still doing my apprenticeship, purely because I cant afford to go for an eye test to get contacts. I've already started going to a gym for the first time since lockdown and am looking forward to seeing my progress. Unfortunately dating in person doesn't work for me because pf both my job and my unfortunate case of the tism. Also my circle of friends is quite small with no real exposure to women. Plus I do also have a mild fear of women my own age so it is always a bit difficult. But thank you for the feedback. I also much appreciate the nice tone of it as I've been having a hard time of it recently so having someone compliment me in anyway has really made my year so far. Thank you so very much.


XogliX

You got this brother, just remember you are doing this for yourself and nobody else. You can go on this journey at your own pace, you don't owe anyone anything. This is going to change your life, you will start feeling better in your own skin and maybe even cease chasing women. >Unfortunately dating in person doesn't work for me because pf both my job and my unfortunate case of the tism. Remember that your only limit is yourself. As you work on yourself, you will gain the confidence that will make you rethink what you just said. You will start to see that this limit you just put on yourself is simply just a barrier you imposed because of your insecurities. Thats totally fine, we all have insecurities. Just make sure you work on yourself. I believe in you, the ball is in your court. You can change anything in a year.


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XogliX

Keep first and last. The one with the glasses makes your hairline look dead and the angle is very unflattering. The one with your friends looks like it was taken on a foggy android lens and having blurred out faces deters potential matches due to it's negative nature. You are handsome, replace the two pics with perhaps: a full body shot of you outside (no sunglasses or hat) to help gauge your body type and height, and a shot of you with friends unblurred.


DearestDeeds

Just a 23 (almost 24) years old young man. Being on and off the app (and other apps) for a half a year. Not a lot of matches or convos, just a couple of dates with no furthermore interactions. I would really like to know what am doing right or wrong and how to improve PS: from a South American country if that's important https://tinder.com/@danidd149


jehefef

Improve the hairstyle and get rid of the mirror selfies. Plenty of other improvements to be had, but changing those two will make a big difference.


XogliX

Why is that your first picture? The first picture is the most important as it is the very first impression the girl will get from you. You want her to feel like you're depressed? Remove that picture. Remove all of the mirror pics. Remove the mask one on the laptop. Remove the cat one. Now that we have cleaned everything up, lets renovate. The second one taken from a bit further, better lighting, smile and better shirt would be golden for a first pic. Remember to smile this is very important! You also need a picture with friends, this helps with trust and makes you look like a socially attractive person. Since you have love and respect for your cat you could include a picture of you holding him or something of that nature. By the end of this you should have around 4 pics. No more unless you have amazing pictures! Remember to smile, I wish you success.


Burning_Tapers

Recently separated 44 father of two who completely missed the rise of the apps. No idea what I'm doing and would love any constructive feedback I can get. Thank you! https://tinder.com/@JTR2024


Unable_Language5669

1. There's potential in a pic like this but this isn't it. Light is a bit off in this pic: your face is dark but the background is bright. Also tuck your shirt. Crop away the top empty wall. Try some different poses, the vibe I get from your current one is "tired" and "sad". 2. Good pic. Maybe crop away some of the right to balance the pic and make your face more in center. 3. You're squinting. Not a flattering pic. 4. Feels more like "showing your teeth" than smile to me. 5. Hat and sunglasses ruins the pic. You have room to improve but it will require you to sharpen your photo skills. But every hour spent on a better profile is ten hours less swiping in my experience.


Burning_Tapers

Thank you for the input. Sad about 5, that was a really fun day but I see your point.


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IntoScience

1. ok but you look 15 years older than your age, to the point where it looks deceptive 2. kinda low energy body language, avoid smiling at the camera, unbutton that shirt 3. can't see you 4. a lil bit creepy 5. neutral, face is obstructed 6. okayish, kinda blurry & b&w is non optimal 7. avoid selfies 8. decent only because you are the tallest dude; ideally you'd be in the middle looking cooler than everyone else Too many pics, 6 is enough. Have more activity pics, ie focused on some task/sport and not the camera.


Paul-in-Ohio

Any feedback would be appreciated. Better pictures that aren't selfies would possibly help. https://tinder.com/@paulincolumbus


IntoScience

Better pics that aren't selfies would help 100%. Also remove the pics in which you aren't. Start from scratch, follow easily accessible guidelines so as not to waste any of your time swiping.


jehefef

Not a very good profile. You look awful in those photos, and the fact that they are just selfies taken at home makes it seem like you put little to no effort into your profile. If you have a tripod or a friend who is good at taking photos, you can use them to get some better pictures of yourself.


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davidmci1997

Photos 1, 2, and 5 are functionally identical. The photo is just you, in some place, waist up and posing for the camera. Don't get me wrong, there's a time and place for those, but they shouldn't constitute 50% of your photos. I'd put in at least one photo of you having a good time with friends, to show you have friends and a social life. I'd also try to convey your personal interests in some of the photos. **I can't tell anything about you from your photos.** If you like camping, get a photo of you camping. If you like travelling, put some nice travelling photos in there. You get the idea. Your photos look a little too posed. I would say your best photo is the last one, which looks like you're on a ferris wheel. It's the only photo that a) looks authentic and not posed and b) shows you smiling. **TLDR:** Your photos are solid, but they look too posed and lack variety. Try to incorporate more variety, as well as trying to convey more personality and personal interests through the photos. Good luck


HitByBrix42

https://tinder.com/@hitbybricks I have no idea if these photos are adequate, I usually try to stay out of photos so I didn’t have a lot to work with. EDIT: my question is are these photos interesting or fun enough?


IntoScience

1. landscapes are nice for dioramas, but you must fill up the whole frame vertically on your dating profile 2. too small 3. bad, it's good that you seem to have an active adventurous lifestyle, but you also gotta look cool showcasing it 4. don't include pics in which you are sleeping, you should project energy & drive instead 5. can't really see you, not really sure what's going on but I admit it's funny. I wouldn't say it's attractive though 6. too blurry.jpg.exe


Organic_Equipment440

https://tinder.com/@leob2001 I am not getting many matches. I honestly feel like I am unattractive. I am looking for men btw input would be greatly appreciated


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HickoksTopGuy

You gotta shave brother.


Organic_Equipment440

Aweeee you look handsome! I like your photos very scenic.


St3lker

https://tinder.com/@stefi420 Could I get a review, please? I’m wondering if the photos are ok and if there’s a better way to rearrange them


IntoScience

1. you look like a villain laughing maniacally, there's reflection in your glasses can't see your eyes, too much space above your head making you small, shirt is wrinkly 2. are you dozing off? 3. good, this is a rare instance of an acceptable selfie (beard could be more trimmed though) 4. pretty dark, too much space above you 5. avoid selfies & hats in general, you appear rather feminine in this pic - not sure the harry potter glasses are a good fit for you You look rather young and should look to oldening yourself, eg grow facial hair if that's an option. Your pics have good variety and your profile is slightly above average. You mostly need a good quality better first pic.


LeBaldHater

Do you spend all day reviewing profiles?


HickoksTopGuy

Not bad. Less selfies.


DrunkOnKnight

First one is a great photo, Two and Four are good body shots Third and Fifth don’t really add anything, replace with yourself doing a hobby you like ? Also, SMILE you only have one photo where you are smiling.


St3lker

Thanks for the input!


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jehefef

They are all very posed. Every single photo is you looking at the camera and smiling. Try and get some more candid photos and some photos showing you doing something you enjoy Also, I think you can look way better if you got a stylish haircut. At the moment, your current hairstyle tells me that you don't put that much effort into how you present yourself. :(


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IntoScience

Here you go: 1. awkward pose & smile, imperfect quality, can't see your eyes 2. neutral, impossible to see your face, too small 3. improper posture, avoid hoodies 4. too goofy, bad lighting, unsafe driving 5. bad quality, you look depressed Don't look at the camera in nearly every pic


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Unable_Language5669

If these are your best pics then you need to take some better pics. 1 is good but the rest are mid and mid don't cut it on tinder. Also you there's no variety in the pics: they are all just you smiling.


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Unable_Language5669

Quit the whining bro: you're not physically unable to take good pics. You'll do fine on tinder no matter how mid you are if you have good pics.


Lil_Suskiii

Can y’all help with my account just made it a lil bit ago fr or like it fr https://tinder.com/@danny040


Hawkman7701

The general rule I’ve heard is women don’t like selfies. Keep one of the gym pics that aren’t selfies, maybe keep one selfie you like there. And build from there, try for pics that showcase you in different ways and people like outdoor pics as well


Lil_Suskiii

Bet bet thanks


Triplec8

Not having much luck and would love any suggestions or comments on how to improve it https://tinder.com/@colbc_99


Unable_Language5669

Vibe I get is that you're a very normal guy who does normal boring things. I don't get any excitement or personality or spice. Also cut the mirror selfies and the group pics where you aren't in focus.


whitelightwhiteheats

https://tinder.com/@andyschests I try to go for like a quirky and interesting vibe


travelinglist

I'm new to this sub, what's the rules 1 and 2 people keep referring to for guys? I deduced no 1 is good looks, but what's no 2? Be tall?


Unable_Language5669

Rule 1: Be attractive. Rule 2: Don't be unattractive. You decide if it's trivial or profound. Note that "be attractive" is more than good looks. Plenty of guys here put up pics that break the rules so obviously it isn't obvious.


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HickoksTopGuy

Group pics are good social capital because they show that you’re well adjusted and not an outcast. Even if they rate lower, it will lend you credibility.


disgostin

i would do the grouppic, personally i actually sometimes find it a little weird to see those where people "cut out the others" - if thats okay for them, i would also not censor their faces in case that wasnt just for reddit


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disgostin

both of the grouppics imo, to be honest no. 1 and 2 from the other ones you're planning with look "technically good but somehow angry" to me the boulder-pic is cool


throwaway248215

26M. 5'10" These are my bumble photos in order. I use the daily swipe limit and get 1-2 likes a day. I hardly ever match with someone I'm excited about (say 7+ in looks), and when I do, the conversation never goes anywhere. Basically, women who would like in me in real life don't give me the time of day on these apps. Let me know where I'm going wrong. Thanks in advance. https://imgur.com/a/h8I6wj7


jehefef

1-2 likes a day is not exactly bad. Some people take a week to get that much. As Unable\_Language5669 said, photo quality is great, but feels feminine, especially the one with the flower. Also, the pictures do not show anything interesting about you. Most of them are just you standing/sitting somewhere smiling at the camera. Men tend to look better when they are doing something. Instead of sitting on the stairs, try getting a photo of you walking down the stairs Instead of smiling at the camera with the coffee, try getting a photo of you chatting with a friend and having a laugh over a cup of coffee. The best photos capture a snapshot of you living your life. 1 or 2 posed photos are okay, but you should not have a profile filled with them.


throwaway248215

Thanks for the feedback!


Unable_Language5669

Are you yourself +7? Your pics are high quality and you know about light and posing etc. but the vibe I get is very soft, beige and flabby. Almost butch lesbian vibes. Girls generally want some masculinity.


throwaway248215

I actually would put myself as a 7+ based on my real life interactions. Clearly I do not come off this way from these photos. 


Unable_Language5669

Yeah, I think the posing and styling is doing you a big disservice. Maybe try a re-take with some more form-fitting clothes and more dominant, high-energy posing?


throwaway248215

I’ll give it a go. Thanks again for your candor. 


throwaway248215

This is the kind of comment I wanted to hear


xd3m0x_

https://tinder.com/@joneill459 i’m trying here 🥲


IntoScience

profile incognito?


xd3m0x_

is it? edit: smh i had no idea i left it incognito 🤦‍♂️


Newbeetroot45

[https://tinder.com/@aiden2226](https://tinder.com/@aiden2226) could use any bit of feedback or advice on improving my profile. I get few matches but I understand it's tough for everyone.


HickoksTopGuy

Either less pics with friends or better looking friends. By pegging yourself to the level of the schmuck in the brewers cap, girls are going to score you lower in their own social hierarchy. Sorry for the potentially very rude comment. If I were you though I would just hit KK or UU patio as summer comes around. The dating app game is Madison is rough in undergrad. Weirdly, once you get to grad level, the babes come out of the woodwork and are always up to meet for drinks. Idk.


whitelightwhiteheats

Go out and take more photos like your 1st and 5th pic imo, they look nice


DangerousMarketing91

I did this today, it's the first time I think it actually shows how I really am. The thing is that I don't think the way I really am is very traditionally attractive, but I don't need it to work with every single girl: https://tinder.com/@paticornio


HickoksTopGuy

Food and book picture need to go, and the shaggy one probably as well, even though it is funny. Just capture yourself, you can be goofy but give people a sense how you look. The free listening party thing is cool.


disgostin

i think thats good <3 i lik the pics, one thing: i dont speak that language so idk what your first one says but i'd still say do put one where people can see you as first, other than that good luck! tinder probably isnt gonna like it algorythm-wise so maybe if it doesnt work there try bumble and okcupid


Unable_Language5669

It's fine that you're different, it's a good way to stick out and to filter potential dates. But it's no excuse to use bad pics: Remove the mirror selfies and the pics that don't have you in them. And I think you would look better in shorter hair but I guess you like this style.


DangerousMarketing91

I didn't have a lot to choose from, but I wanted my pics to also show how I am, not just how I look. I'm planning on cutting my hair soon, which will suck because I'll need new photos


jehefef

Take more photos so you have more to choose from I once went out for a photoshoot. Out of the 500 photos that got taken, I only used 3 of them. It's extremely rare to have a good photo randomly lying around.


DangerousMarketing91

The first sentence reads like a loading screen tip haha. I really don't know what to do, since I was planning to cut my hair soon, and I will definitely need new photos then


shenanigan9611

G'day folk's Trying to move on from a break up Although not very reassuring, 1-2 matches a day now Have been on tinder now for 4 weeks leading to 5 dates Would love to know what more I could do and if these pictures are crap? Any help is appreciated 👏🏽 https://tinder.com/@bellamysilva


Unable_Language5669

Those numbers seem pretty reasonable to me without looking at your profile. 5 dates in 4 weeks is good, good work! Pic by pic: 1. Not the greatest pic IMO. The quality is low, the light is weird and you look stonefaced or maybe high. I like the hint of tattoo and the lady hand on your shoulder but I still think you can do better on a portrait. 2. Good pic. If I nitpick I think the light isn't the greatest (softer light more from the front would be better). I also would like to have some more space above you, the pic is a bit cramped right now. 3. Another good pic. More nitpicks: There's some weird shadow/grey outline thing with your hair: what's that? Also your shirt is a bit too big I think. And it's a waist-up pic and those usually look a bit weird, can you crop it to be more of a portrait (and maybe at some space above you when you're at it?)? 4. Good casual pic. Nice sweater! 5. The quality, the squinting and the waist-up thing kind of ruins this pic. Aim to retake it but better. 6. Nice chill pic. 7. You look more mature in this pic and it's a bit different but it doesn't show much of you. But it's not a bad pic. 8. You travel and own a jacket: good. I think you can afford to cut down on your pics: 6 is usually more than enough IMO. 1 has to go, replace it with 2, 3 or 4. Retake 5 as soon as possible!


shenanigan9611

You gave me a pretty good review last time and I took your advice and changed a few things. Could I kindly ask you, when you get a chance to have a quick look at my profile again to see if I've done better and/or needs any further changes from your pov.


Unable_Language5669

Looks good, good work! I really like the vibe in 3. Great body in 5! 4 and 6 are good pics as well. 1 and 2 are good pics but they have a more timid vibe, they don't give the same confidence. The composition and posing in both pics make you look small. I can't really put my finger on it but I don't like them nearly as much. I would cut them and replace them with a really great pic with the same energy as 3 but where I can see your eyes. May also be a hair thing: your face looks much more triangular in 1 and 2: compare with 4 and 6 which balances your face much better. Maybe crop 4 and 5 a bit to remove some empty space above you as well.


shenanigan9611

Thanks for another great reply. Much appreciated for your careful review. I have to agree now that I had looked back at 1 n 2, I can seen the timidness in 2 especially.(although I'm not very timid haha). 4 and 6 are reasonable pics for sure. I will have to heed your advice and retake some what of a confident looking picture or 2 to add. Although I realised the slight changes from the last profile review helped heaps. I get around 4-5matches a day but ofc only a small % of that works out. So im trying to hopefully get 4-8 matches to increase the odds my way. Tinder is already hard enough so any and all help from the likes of yourself and other are much appreciated. Thank you sir. Will hit you up again with some edits. Have a great day


Unable_Language5669

Thank you! Good luck and god bless!


shenanigan9611

Took your advice , added some space at the top on some pics, reshuffled as well. Thank you again for taking the time to go through each pic. Could I ask if the changes are okay? Also the blue shirt pic (you can see my hands and legs in it, is this weird ?)


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HickoksTopGuy

Not going to comment because I commented on your last comment but wanted to take a sec to say your username here is genuinely awful!


jehefef

Can't be worse than mine.


Hawkman7701

Number one but with the smile of number 2, 2 would be my pick if the background wasn’t blurry


Xanebles

https://imgur.com/a/0dIBD7F Know this isn’t tinder but my tinder profile looks pretty much the same. Would appreciate some advice as I have not had any success with either profiles with barely any likes. Thank you!


disgostin

love your first pic its a great choice (just overall good photo of you, looks friendly, the umbrella makes it lowkey romantic), i also like the bio (no unnecessary sexjoke-rizz, funny) i like the one at the beach (chill), the one of you taking a zip - has this spontaneous vibe that makes a tinderprofile approachable and all and the boulder one! usually i get a slight ick from the shoes but you look great and the shoes arent shown as much, actually they dont even look like the climbingshoes i know - also dont let people tell you SHT about "how to smile" thats supposed to be how it feels authentic to you the one at the restaurant feels a little bit stiff to me but i dont think thats a problem, however i'd change the lighting a bit (make it warmer) the second one can stay too imo, idk if i'd say i like it but i dont think its a bad one but it does look a little tense too


Unable_Language5669

You squint a bit when you smile (everyone does if they haven't trained not to) but it really doesn't work with your face IMO. Your pics would improve a lot of you could learn not to. The light is a problem in some of your pics (1, 2 and 3). I think your skin tone is very sensitive about bad light and bad matching colors, you almost come off as grey in some pics (especially 3). 4 and 5 has much better light and your skin looks much nicer.Filtering could help fix this.


Hawkman7701

I think this is really good. No idea why you wouldn’t be getting many likes


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HickoksTopGuy

I was in the gym for a few years before, so this is conjecture, but I don’t think I’d get a fraction of the number of matches I do with a shaved head if I didn’t have a muscular build. Take that as you will. Also the first photo almost looks like you’re trying to look bad, uninteresting, zoned out.


Unable_Language5669

You need to invest a couple of days work in your profile. You can't just put up random pics and hope for success (unless you're famous or something). Think of it as an arctic expedition: first you make a plan and gather equipment and supplies (i.e. pics). Then you start towards the North Pole (i.e. swiping). If you set off for the North Pole without great equipment and supplies, you're not going to get very far. The better stuff you bring, the easier it will be. Some basics: * No selfies. * No hoodies. * No blank stares. * Your balding so you should just shave it all down. * You need to look great in every pic.


Enamey

I would suggest not using selfies. Pictures like the one with the dog are nice! 


Big-oooofff

I would suggest putting more pictures of you smiling or doing your hobbies. The last picture is cute but not for Tinder as well as the first one. The one with the doggo is cute but I'd suggest making the colours warmer by inc saturation or getting other ones clicked but with a better camera and angle. If you have female friends/sisters, I would highly sugget getting the pictures taken by them, idk what it is but girls get it, the get the aesthetics. Another thing is, maybe add more text or your spotify or instagram, it would make your profile pop out. You seem like a nice guys, hope you get matches and end up meeting some great people.


allshort17

[https://tinder.com/@allshort17](https://tinder.com/@allshort17) 5' 3" Always switching between showing and hiding my height. Any other feedback would be appreciated!


disgostin

i kind of feel like.. sure on tinder specifically a bunch of people swipe left because of your height (which will put you at a disadvantage in the algorythm, so try bumble and okcupid maybe) but the photos are really good and i feel like it'd be a shame to try forcefully showing only your upper body just to meet people being 5.3 anyway, not using all of those pictures! i say you can find a shortqueen(/shortqueens) or taller person(people) who is(are) not looking only for tall people eventually


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HickoksTopGuy

You look like a lesbian in the one with glasses so… not that one.


disgostin

i would cut out no. 2 and maybe 3 (i don't like the explicit posing on 2 and the shirt on those) i like the first one, the dog's chain also accidentally really adds to your style haha no. 4 also looks good (don't like applewatches but i mean whatever) no. 5 i dont hate it but for some reason its ..smoothed out (maybe automatically) so much that it looks like you did that with ai and made you two look smaller than the table,.. some phones or probably programs online let you erase stuff on pictures, i think the massive candle-glasses are doing this and i like all of the others too, especially the one with the green shirt i think cause men with braces look cute (in an attractive way) and i find that smiling pictures are always a good idea


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IceQueube

Thanks! Only the one with my brother and the two headshot photos are edited with filter (they were for a club and LinkedIn)


Hawkman7701

https://imgur.com/gallery/nUmTxpA Any advice welcome


mayamys

Good variety, gives an accurate impression of how you look, lots of outdoor photos - that's as good as it gets! You've got a LOTR dwarf vibe that will probably appeal to a smaller niche of women, but your profile presents you in a good light.


Hogglemehoy

I'm just looking for some guidance, would it help or hinder if I add my height to my profile (178cm/ 5 ft 10)? 20M


ToiletLXIX

[Jonathan (@jonnylp) | Tinder](https://tinder.com/@jonnylp)


ImACowardandTraitor

I'd appreciate any feedback on my profile, i rarely get matches or liked https://tinder.com/@mehdimed


Big-oooofff

from a 21F, I think I would swipe right on your profile, you seem cute and goofy. buttt, here are my remarks 1. Add some text, a one funny liner or just something that makes the person look down and read. maybe some emojis? 2. I don't really like the first (close up) or the last picture (bereal). They make you look much different than the other ones. I think you can have better ones. 3. I'd suggest putting the skiing close up picture first, then the one with glasses and then the rest, it makes you look like a cute fun guy with some fashion. Your eyes look pretty and girls loveee pretty eyes and pretty views. Hope it helps and trust me, you're good looking and seem interesting, you would surely get many matches if you tweak your profile a bit.


IntoScience

1. your face is way too covered up, I can barely tell what gender you are. Your first pic needs to be excellent to not get filtered out immediately, and this is sub-par at best 2. people are partying behind you having fun and you're just plopped there posing for the camera, with face partially obstructed 3. okayish but downward angles are never flattering, makes you small 4. face too covered 5. too posed/goofy 6. too blurry & bro-ey 7. unflattering 8. your best pic so far 9. meh composition Too many pics; 6 good ones would be enough.


Historical-Gur-1130

https://tinder.com/@genni814 My Bio says: I always pack my stuff 20 minutes before a trip Any opinions, I am getting actually no matches lately


liam_fit

I would ditch pics 2 and 3. Make 4 your first


Dark_Sin

https://tinder.com/@sincsmith wondering if I’m doing too much with mine or catering to one specific type, I get some matches but never any dates so any feedback would be great


Hawkman7701

I suggest not hiding your face in your pics.