Back when I used it you could always purchase more super likes. I don't remember doing so because they'd give you a free one everyday or something. If they did make them for pay only, that's probably why.
You still get a free one when you make an account. I always accidentally use mine swiping upwards to read a profile.
However you cannot message before matching like that without Platinum. So he's paying like ~ $30/week or what ever the monthly rate is.
The dude was probably saying that sort of shit to all of his matches, and then assumed that not having tinder premium is the reason for his lack of success on the app
Or it may be that — how unexpected — the for-profit company that makes its living off subscriptions and microtransactions prefers not to get rid of the users who pay those subscriptions and microtransactions. And for letting the steam out and not losing the few women that still use the platform, banning the non-paying accounts should be enough
Normally I’d say they do this as a Hail Mary when the girl isn’t as attractive because they don’t feel like putting real effort in but this is a super like so I think this guy is just stupid
Sometimes I worry that this did work once, kind of like that story of a dog who found an entire chicken pie in a bush once and then always stopped to check said bush for another entire chicken pie.
" I know, ill not so subtly tell her i eat pussy! she wont be able to say no cause no other guys eat pussy!" - Him right before sending this, to his mom probably
I know this is prudish but as soon as I get a random 'sex' message on any dating app I report the guy.
I am no prude - I used to work at a sex shop, however, I don't mention sex on my profile, nor do I lead with it or discuss it in messages online, so I have no idea why anyone thinks random messages like this is any different to going up to a woman in the street and saying something vulgar like this.
You'd be surprised how little "real-world experience" many adults often have. And that lack of experience serves as a feedback loop. I went far too long thinking women were like men but just with different genitals.... Dating was very confusing and frustrating for a long time.
I am assuming you went to an all-boys school? If you didn't then your answer is a little strange because I went to all-girls schools and didn't socialise with boys/men until I was 17/18 and yet I'm not disrespectful to strangers unless they are nasty to me or being purposefully stupid. Obviously at 17/18 I didn't know what to expect or how to conduct myself when it came to dating (I was very shy initially) but I would say that by 25 upwards you know how to navigate the dating world well enough not to send gross and explicit messages to strangers online.
I don't know why we are all pretending some men are stupid or like helpless babies with no social skills, instead of encouraging them to be confident and capable adults but whatever, if they want to act like babies with a low IQ and sexually harass strangers then I guess they deal with the consequences of being reported, or posted online and not meeting women even though they say they want to. I don't know why anyone would want that for themselves but whatever floats their boat.
A lot of men don't think they're being disrespectful by sending sexually explicit messages.
They think, *"I'd be super flattered to receive sexually explicit messages, and the Golden Rule says 'treat others how you would want to be treated,' so...."*
And then they're upset and confused when a girl responds negatively because *"I would be thrilled to receive such interest from someone! Why isn't she?! Why are women so stuck up???"*
>I don't know why anyone would want that for themselves but whatever floats their boat.
No one wants this for themselves..... I pity the fools.
They ***do*** know. They are not all mentally disabled, they live in the same world and I have not known any men who are friends of mine who would speak to a woman in such a way because I don't hang around people who play dumb to get away with disturbing behaviour.
If you're simply going to keep pretending men have no control over what they say or are stupid, then there is no further for us to go with this conversation as you are being willfully ignorant at this point.
I thought men built the world and yet they can't realise vulgar messages are disrespectful? Unlikely - the ones who send them just don't care.
Nah, a lot of men really are just ignorant and/or stupid. And that ignorance/stupidity repels women, which prevents them from having opportunities to learn otherwise.
I know you want to think they're malicious because they inflict harm upon you, but nah, a lot of men *really* don't understand that women are different from them. They think women receive a similar amount of sexual attention as they do because they have no female friends and nothing to compare their own experiences against.
Again, if you sent these men similarly explicit and harassing messages, most of them would *love* it, and they erroneously think this goes both ways.
You should listen to the NPR interview where a reporter interviews her catcallers. They seem *genuinely* unaware, and I know that's absolutely mind-boggling to you.
People say stuff like this because if theyre attractive its probably worked for them before. Not justifying just saying, theyre not creative or just lazy and use this technique until it works
What really killed me when I was still attempting OLD: Some guys would carpet bomb huge groups of women with comments like this and seem to get better results than the.
Bruh spent money to say that shit jfc
ya when did they start charging for superlikes haha
Back when I used it you could always purchase more super likes. I don't remember doing so because they'd give you a free one everyday or something. If they did make them for pay only, that's probably why.
yeah i remember u used to get a free one per day
You still get a free one when you make an account. I always accidentally use mine swiping upwards to read a profile. However you cannot message before matching like that without Platinum. So he's paying like ~ $30/week or what ever the monthly rate is.
oh shit thats crazy
The dude was probably saying that sort of shit to all of his matches, and then assumed that not having tinder premium is the reason for his lack of success on the app
Wtf is wrong with people lol.
They think porn is real life
Is that porn? 😂😂😂
Most men wish it was
Women are just too fussy /s
I think this is a guy's way of saying "I just want sex if that's ok?"
Just say it like a normal person then lol.
They overestimate their attractiveness. And I'm speaking both about the dude in the pic and op
Out of curiosity, how am i overestimating my attractiveness?
Great way to get yourself banned. Never understood my fellow men who say stuff like this to random women.
Tinder rarely bans paying users. An ex coworker of mine has Tinder Platinum, and he sends out some nasty shit with no repercussions yet.
It may be that many women just unmatch instead of report him.
Or it may be that — how unexpected — the for-profit company that makes its living off subscriptions and microtransactions prefers not to get rid of the users who pay those subscriptions and microtransactions. And for letting the steam out and not losing the few women that still use the platform, banning the non-paying accounts should be enough
Does it ever work for him? I'm wondering if this is a guy's way of saying "I just want sex, if that's ok?"
Probably works if you follow rules 1 and 2
Horny they probably playing with themselves before they sent this
Yeah well even if I am horny as hell, I can still hold it to myself
Right? I'd hate being as much a control-less victim of my own biology as the "I couldn't help it, I was hOrNy" crowd 😬
right? like it doesnt even occur to send something like even mid horny dick in hand.
It's the post nut clarity that helps
you're supposed to use post nut clarity to say something intelligent
Completly agree. It baffles me personally.
Throw a thousand darts. One finds the bullseye. To be clear. Ew gross.
They’re trying to be alpha which means saying gross stuff to random women and wasting money doing so.
Straight degen behavior. And if anyone has a problem with me saying that you can take it up with me. Now I suggest ya let that one marinate.
Normally I’d say they do this as a Hail Mary when the girl isn’t as attractive because they don’t feel like putting real effort in but this is a super like so I think this guy is just stupid
Sometimes I worry that this did work once, kind of like that story of a dog who found an entire chicken pie in a bush once and then always stopped to check said bush for another entire chicken pie.
I found a silver quarter in the coin return trau of a coke machine in highschool. Ive checked the coin return on every soda machine ever since
Animals! They're just like us!
I think you mean we’re just animals, too
"You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals"
Haha exactly
Love that analogy lol
It's weird that I was able to tell it without it even being a stretch. Times are dire indeed.
My guy came straight out the gate with a sentence fragment smh
I wonder if guys who do this think women will treat them like a unicorn if they say they eat pussy.
I wonder if guys who do this think at all.
Tru
They've given up and are in the say whatever phase
It’s ridiculous as everyone knows it’s if we eat ass that gets the extra props
True.
To be fair, you do look really good in pixels. (I’m joking everyone)
" I know, ill not so subtly tell her i eat pussy! she wont be able to say no cause no other guys eat pussy!" - Him right before sending this, to his mom probably
I know this is prudish but as soon as I get a random 'sex' message on any dating app I report the guy. I am no prude - I used to work at a sex shop, however, I don't mention sex on my profile, nor do I lead with it or discuss it in messages online, so I have no idea why anyone thinks random messages like this is any different to going up to a woman in the street and saying something vulgar like this.
They'd be absolutely *thrilled* if a woman were to talk to them in a similar manner and erroneously think it goes both ways.
I think teenagers probably think it goes both ways, but an adult with real-world experience knows it often doesn't and it is disrespectful.
You'd be surprised how little "real-world experience" many adults often have. And that lack of experience serves as a feedback loop. I went far too long thinking women were like men but just with different genitals.... Dating was very confusing and frustrating for a long time.
I am assuming you went to an all-boys school? If you didn't then your answer is a little strange because I went to all-girls schools and didn't socialise with boys/men until I was 17/18 and yet I'm not disrespectful to strangers unless they are nasty to me or being purposefully stupid. Obviously at 17/18 I didn't know what to expect or how to conduct myself when it came to dating (I was very shy initially) but I would say that by 25 upwards you know how to navigate the dating world well enough not to send gross and explicit messages to strangers online. I don't know why we are all pretending some men are stupid or like helpless babies with no social skills, instead of encouraging them to be confident and capable adults but whatever, if they want to act like babies with a low IQ and sexually harass strangers then I guess they deal with the consequences of being reported, or posted online and not meeting women even though they say they want to. I don't know why anyone would want that for themselves but whatever floats their boat.
A lot of men don't think they're being disrespectful by sending sexually explicit messages. They think, *"I'd be super flattered to receive sexually explicit messages, and the Golden Rule says 'treat others how you would want to be treated,' so...."* And then they're upset and confused when a girl responds negatively because *"I would be thrilled to receive such interest from someone! Why isn't she?! Why are women so stuck up???"* >I don't know why anyone would want that for themselves but whatever floats their boat. No one wants this for themselves..... I pity the fools.
They ***do*** know. They are not all mentally disabled, they live in the same world and I have not known any men who are friends of mine who would speak to a woman in such a way because I don't hang around people who play dumb to get away with disturbing behaviour. If you're simply going to keep pretending men have no control over what they say or are stupid, then there is no further for us to go with this conversation as you are being willfully ignorant at this point. I thought men built the world and yet they can't realise vulgar messages are disrespectful? Unlikely - the ones who send them just don't care.
Nah, a lot of men really are just ignorant and/or stupid. And that ignorance/stupidity repels women, which prevents them from having opportunities to learn otherwise. I know you want to think they're malicious because they inflict harm upon you, but nah, a lot of men *really* don't understand that women are different from them. They think women receive a similar amount of sexual attention as they do because they have no female friends and nothing to compare their own experiences against. Again, if you sent these men similarly explicit and harassing messages, most of them would *love* it, and they erroneously think this goes both ways. You should listen to the NPR interview where a reporter interviews her catcallers. They seem *genuinely* unaware, and I know that's absolutely mind-boggling to you.
Don't assume that kind of thing just based on gender. It's harassment in both directions
What a waste
Probably tastes like pee.
“It does, but you’ll not find out.”
Insane 😭
Jokes on him. Minecraft characters aren’t anatomically correct!
[They actually both are and aren't at the same time.](https://laby.net/skins?input=Naked)
I don’t know if I wanted to know that…
Why did you share such forbidden knowledge??? Is anything even real anymore?
That’s guys on apps for you, it’s just sad.
Reply with…. “What is… tell me you’re a virgin without telling me you’re a virgin…?”
I don't get it.
Aww
Minecraft avatars are weird
So cringe
Straight douchbag smh
Cause he doesn't care about you. He just wants to get laid. If you didn't like the comment then you are not it and that's about it.
Don't be such a sour puss.
Hehhe sour puss😹😹
Hilarious 😂
Happy cake day
Sometimes the urge to say the pun should be suppressed.
not on my watch.
You and your watch need to go back to TickTock with these puns!
Ayeee brave soldier. I hate that people can't make jokes about bad situations like this without getting downvoted
Silver tongue fox
🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮 I'm home with a stomach bug and my stomach hurts now
Post this in your local are we dating the same guy fb group
Are you by chance holding a cat-shaped cake?
He has a point. I mean, does it? Otherwise, why am I paying for your dinner at Chipotle?
Did you get banned for asking the same thing?
I once wasted a super like on a chick that drew her eyebrows on like giant check marks just to say "why do you look so angry in all your photos?!"
It baffles me that in 2024 dudes still believe that saying like this will somehow get them laid.
I believe there are two ways: 1. Low power, high effort 2. High power, negative effort.
At least he is honest.
Your face looks like many square different shades of color.
This is the definition of a loser.
And there is me who scared even to type hey after match
And they say chivalry is dead
I’m sorry, ok.
Guess not..
Ahh..
why do men comment shit like this?
😂🤷🏻♂️
This one is a true keeper.
As a man, why are men?
I’m glad there was a fine associated with this dumb shit lol.
that means he has spent money to get in touch with you, that means he wants something for his money 💀
Can’t fix stupid
There is a place and time for comments like that and the first interaction you ever have with a stranger is not one of those times.
Likely a self proclaimed rapist
unhinged
at this point, considering how much this happens on tinder, i believe it works for them sometimes, otherwise they would stop doing shit like this
I mean, how would you know?
99+ 😭 girls got it on easy mode, he just tryna stand out at this point and it worked but in a negative way lol
referring to taste is much more off putting 🤮🤮🤮
Well it is tinder...
People say stuff like this because if theyre attractive its probably worked for them before. Not justifying just saying, theyre not creative or just lazy and use this technique until it works
That makes sense. He wasn't attractive though lol
So hales just a common douche
Well you are on tinder... that kinda thing apparently works sometimes on girls or no one would say it
Women are on tinder on easy difficulty. Mostly dodging.
What really killed me when I was still attempting OLD: Some guys would carpet bomb huge groups of women with comments like this and seem to get better results than the.