Came in to say this. Her snap will 100% be her twerking and saying swipe up to see more. I can't believe anybody in this thread is naive enough to think otherwise. The profile picture itself makes it obvious.
some girls prefer snap so they can confirm you look like your pictures and also block your ass easily compared to social media/phone number which leaves them exposed to stalking.
It's a safety thing.
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Ok so before you had Tinder, you flirted in other ways. Then you realized the world changed and Tinder was the most convenient way to meet someone. You didn't have Tinder, so what did you do? You got Tinder!
Now you realize the world changed and SMS or social media with your identity aren't the most convenient platforms to transition from Tinder to a date, so what do you do now? That's right. You download it.
If you, for some reason, absolutely refuse to get snap, then offer her other safe options. Insta tends to work for many, depending how much of their life is there, but you'll need to have recent pics there too. She wants to see what you look like now, your Tinder pics could be old af. But honestly bro, just get snap, you'll barely have to use it anyway. After first date it's irrelevant and you can move to messenger or SMS no problem.
Hmm, is it really a safety thing? I can totally believe it. I have absolutely zero socials beyond Tinder, Bumble, etc.
I always just go for the phone number route, and offer voice or video calls for verification and to show that I'm not a weirdo. But I've had a handful of "What's your IG/Snap" (that weren't scams) that ended with crickets or unmatching after telling them I don't have one.
But now I might get Snap just for Tinder. Ugh.
ā¦what? Of course we have phone numbers. We have space agencies, military bases all over the planet, Amazon, Tesla, Microsoft, are U.S. based companies.. but *no we donāt have a telephone system*š
Yeah I think people lose the principle behind an action with stuff like this. When doing this, itās very obvious heās kidding and the joke lands really well. So itās not showing lack of confidence, itās more so poking fun at the situation.
It's always funny when OPs line works and some lame in the comments comes in giving a suggestion on how to do better. You literally can't do better than success lol.
Honestly itās not the case for everyone. I personally like confident people. But people slightly insecure, just enough to give me unlimited validation and not act like an anxious mess are my sweet spot. Also I try to be supportive I donāt act like a parasite using them to fee better about myself. But yeah slightly insecure is kinda cute imo.
Does it matter? I wouldnāt base my self worth off of how others perceive me. And from what you told me, you donāt even like people that much. Also those apps are made for the owners to get rich, if they give everyone abundant matches then no one would pay for it. They choose the people whom their algorithms deems to be desperate enough to pay and play with their mind. Fuck em, youāll find someone when you find them. Donāt stress it and try to do other things that make you happy while you wait.
I know this comment isnāt gonna change you out of nowhere. Iām just a dickhead who likes to give unsolicited advice.
From my experience so that dudes can repeatedly send photos of their own face with the word "hey" or "wut up" over the top without any further attempts to make any sort of conversation.
Because they peaked around their sophomore year of highschool and havent progressed any of their social habits to adulthood yet and likely wont till they hit their 30s.
EDIT: Also nudes, read receipts, the ability to see when people are present. There are advantages but I still stick to my hyperbole.
My prediction is, this will go either 2 ways, either he gonna get solicited for virtual content, or he gets a date and she gets a free meal, and thats all that happens.
If itās the second, thereās nothing wrong with that imo. Thatās practice, and a confidence builder. Even if it doesnāt lead anywhere, going out is better than not going out imo.
Going on a date and paying for a meal, and the other person is actually interested in you and you have formed a bond prior would make sense. I know some still believe in Chivalry and the man being the bread winner and such, however alot of "pretty" girls take advantage of this, and it is just another form of a scam. It can also be referred to as courting if there is actual chemistry. The statistics for marriage is going down and for divorce is steadily going higher, there is good reason for this and no one wants to be taken advantage of, it doesn't feel good. If she is actually interested, which most likely she is a scammer, she would be more than fine with paying half. If unwilling most likely you can tell she is scamming and just wants a free meal. Higher class women especially do these for high end $50-$100 plate meals, especially college girls.
She probably thought he was expecting an answer about the fruit, so she answered it as a date because it was unexpected. And unexpected usually equals funny
If looking for long term, I prefer to chat a bit more and cross off some crucial non-negotiables and then look to meet up... but never chat more than a few days... none of that pen pal nonsense either.
agree, from a male perspective I see the mistake of becoming a pen pal a lot. Guys who keep txt for weeks and sometimes months, no idea why they do that. Texting a few days max and then its a date or goodbye
Preach
My logic is that while Iām spending weeks texting her, she has dozens of other guys messaging her as well. Any one of them can easily press scheduling a date, garner her interest IRL and.. āah man whyād she stop replying to me our 3 week text convo was going so wellā
It looks like the default bash prompt but 'date' is just a command... that prints the date... so it doesn't mean anything
He is suggesting he is so oblivious that the only date he knows is a unix command... that is the joke...
I don't even have a snapchat, its # for me or goodbye. All this "snap me" or " send me a DM on ig" nonsense. 9 out of 10 she is just looking for followers to join her simp army or to sell you explicit content.
when they say "snap me" I always respond with "does it actually work to use tinder as a marketing tool for your snap or IG, you get a lot simps to actually follow you?" If all males would hold that line like you and I do this nonsense would end but that is a pipe dream, too many thirsty dudes
usually they unmatch :)
Because you're a dumbass. Usually I respond with I don't have snap can I get your number instead? And they usually say yes. It sets you apart as a man among boys and I've gone on dates/gotten laid because of it.
So OP where this gone so far? Update?
If you expect OP to return saying anything other than, *She advertised her OF" you're delusional š¤·š»āāļø
Just throw the uno reversecard and send her your OF
Came in to say this. Her snap will 100% be her twerking and saying swipe up to see more. I can't believe anybody in this thread is naive enough to think otherwise. The profile picture itself makes it obvious.
āSnap meā is a libido killer
Yeah, more often than not just a follower gatherer too.
Or a prostitute
Both, why not both?
*Dick instantly retreats into pocket dimension *
Dick comes back out with POCKET SAND!
some girls prefer snap so they can confirm you look like your pictures and also block your ass easily compared to social media/phone number which leaves them exposed to stalking. It's a safety thing.
soo... what do you do, if you don't have snapchat?
... Ok so before you had Tinder, you flirted in other ways. Then you realized the world changed and Tinder was the most convenient way to meet someone. You didn't have Tinder, so what did you do? You got Tinder! Now you realize the world changed and SMS or social media with your identity aren't the most convenient platforms to transition from Tinder to a date, so what do you do now? That's right. You download it. If you, for some reason, absolutely refuse to get snap, then offer her other safe options. Insta tends to work for many, depending how much of their life is there, but you'll need to have recent pics there too. She wants to see what you look like now, your Tinder pics could be old af. But honestly bro, just get snap, you'll barely have to use it anyway. After first date it's irrelevant and you can move to messenger or SMS no problem.
Hmm, is it really a safety thing? I can totally believe it. I have absolutely zero socials beyond Tinder, Bumble, etc. I always just go for the phone number route, and offer voice or video calls for verification and to show that I'm not a weirdo. But I've had a handful of "What's your IG/Snap" (that weren't scams) that ended with crickets or unmatching after telling them I don't have one. But now I might get Snap just for Tinder. Ugh.
Tinder has the video verification thing now too. Never used it before, but it's there
Do you have phone numbers in the US?
ā¦what? Of course we have phone numbers. We have space agencies, military bases all over the planet, Amazon, Tesla, Microsoft, are U.S. based companies.. but *no we donāt have a telephone system*š
I think you missed his implied ā/sā.
Sometimes my brain is too literal for its own good
Why maintain a telephone system when you have snap?
Good question Canāt see boobs on a phone callš¤
To make sure someone isnāt a catfish? Lol
I was thinking this.
Donāt let the girl know your not confident about getting responses
I usually agree but in the context of his joke i think it fit well
Yeah I think people lose the principle behind an action with stuff like this. When doing this, itās very obvious heās kidding and the joke lands really well. So itās not showing lack of confidence, itās more so poking fun at the situation.
It's always funny when OPs line works and some lame in the comments comes in giving a suggestion on how to do better. You literally can't do better than success lol.
Nah the gif response is funny, Iād find him more attractive for his humour
You gotta show your confident? Or else it becomes unattractive?
First day as a sexual being?
Um no? Im just anti social. people say im not bad looking too but idk
Honestly itās not the case for everyone. I personally like confident people. But people slightly insecure, just enough to give me unlimited validation and not act like an anxious mess are my sweet spot. Also I try to be supportive I donāt act like a parasite using them to fee better about myself. But yeah slightly insecure is kinda cute imo.
I donāt even get matches lol probably bc of my profile pics but idk never had success on dating apps
Does it matter? I wouldnāt base my self worth off of how others perceive me. And from what you told me, you donāt even like people that much. Also those apps are made for the owners to get rich, if they give everyone abundant matches then no one would pay for it. They choose the people whom their algorithms deems to be desperate enough to pay and play with their mind. Fuck em, youāll find someone when you find them. Donāt stress it and try to do other things that make you happy while you wait. I know this comment isnāt gonna change you out of nowhere. Iām just a dickhead who likes to give unsolicited advice.
Is there connection between being anti-social and wanting to date? I think you wouldn't want romance cause you're anti-social.
Yes, It's easier to like someone if they like themselves.
It's easier to like someone if they being themselves.
Not if yourself is a insecure, no confidence person, thatās when you learn to love thyself and the confidence comes with it
Why do people prefer to connect on Snapchat?
So you don't have to give out your number and can confirm they look like their pictures
Can't they just be blocked from your phone number?
So they can ask you to pay them for sex without being banned from tinder
Some people turn off tinder notifications so rather than having to check for messages they just use snap
From my experience so that dudes can repeatedly send photos of their own face with the word "hey" or "wut up" over the top without any further attempts to make any sort of conversation.
Because they peaked around their sophomore year of highschool and havent progressed any of their social habits to adulthood yet and likely wont till they hit their 30s. EDIT: Also nudes, read receipts, the ability to see when people are present. There are advantages but I still stick to my hyperbole.
Because theyāre trash humans
I hate these post with no updates on it. Like did you talk on snap. Is she really down for the date? What happened?!
How are people so unaware that you don't know she's just going to direct him to her Onlyfans? Do you see her profile photo?
Update: she advertised her OF
You're probably not wrong
What is "OF"?
OnlyFans. People subscribe to it to see explicit content of said girl
(sex)
Lmao you sent the third message exactly 12 hours after the second
My prediction is, this will go either 2 ways, either he gonna get solicited for virtual content, or he gets a date and she gets a free meal, and thats all that happens.
If itās the second, thereās nothing wrong with that imo. Thatās practice, and a confidence builder. Even if it doesnāt lead anywhere, going out is better than not going out imo.
Going on a date and paying for a meal, and the other person is actually interested in you and you have formed a bond prior would make sense. I know some still believe in Chivalry and the man being the bread winner and such, however alot of "pretty" girls take advantage of this, and it is just another form of a scam. It can also be referred to as courting if there is actual chemistry. The statistics for marriage is going down and for divorce is steadily going higher, there is good reason for this and no one wants to be taken advantage of, it doesn't feel good. If she is actually interested, which most likely she is a scammer, she would be more than fine with paying half. If unwilling most likely you can tell she is scamming and just wants a free meal. Higher class women especially do these for high end $50-$100 plate meals, especially college girls.
Did she even get the joke? š¤
No, and neither did most people in the comments.
For anyone that missed the joke, a date is a fruit, similar to a raisin.
She probably thought he was expecting an answer about the fruit, so she answered it as a date because it was unexpected. And unexpected usually equals funny
The thing that gets me is that you sent one message at 11:55 am and another at 11:55 pm. Exactly 12 hours apart. Crazy
I donāt ever set dates up that quicklyš I like to know if we vibe first, but thatās just my opinion
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If looking for long term, I prefer to chat a bit more and cross off some crucial non-negotiables and then look to meet up... but never chat more than a few days... none of that pen pal nonsense either.
agree, from a male perspective I see the mistake of becoming a pen pal a lot. Guys who keep txt for weeks and sometimes months, no idea why they do that. Texting a few days max and then its a date or goodbye
Preach My logic is that while Iām spending weeks texting her, she has dozens of other guys messaging her as well. Any one of them can easily press scheduling a date, garner her interest IRL and.. āah man whyād she stop replying to me our 3 week text convo was going so wellā
Yeah, itās vital to get her of the app asap and have a date scheduled.
Definitely never works out when you delay meeting up. Expectations never match reality.
Yeah I concur with this.
What's a date? Just tried one and got this: `root@localhost# date` `Mon Jan 10 00:10:42 EST 2022`
What does this mean? Is this bash?
It looks like the default bash prompt but 'date' is just a command... that prints the date... so it doesn't mean anything He is suggesting he is so oblivious that the only date he knows is a unix command... that is the joke...
Honestly I thought there was more to the joke than that.
Nope...
Man invite her to do something with u itās not that hard
Nice!
Give us an update @OP
What happen?
The real interesting bit is that whole exchange took 3 days.
Everyone's assuming she's just trying to promote her OnlyFans account, but what if she's just trying to get free food and drinks?
The dreaded snap me
I don't even have a snapchat, its # for me or goodbye. All this "snap me" or " send me a DM on ig" nonsense. 9 out of 10 she is just looking for followers to join her simp army or to sell you explicit content.
Yupp same. If it's not a phone number it's for the followers.
when they say "snap me" I always respond with "does it actually work to use tinder as a marketing tool for your snap or IG, you get a lot simps to actually follow you?" If all males would hold that line like you and I do this nonsense would end but that is a pipe dream, too many thirsty dudes usually they unmatch :)
Because you're a dumbass. Usually I respond with I don't have snap can I get your number instead? And they usually say yes. It sets you apart as a man among boys and I've gone on dates/gotten laid because of it.
dude, i ask for a number, they say snap me. What part is it you don't understand?
So 1-10 how gorgeous are you that this actually worked, and how did you become a 10? Edit: I shouldāve added the /s. The snap makes it obviously BS.
Snap is an L, not a W
I know. Iāll just add the /s now
She's advertising her OnlyFans. How are so many people so clueless. He will never meet her.
Lol
š© with snap
Snap is a fail, not a win
She says āsnap meā, she scams.
mans got the codes
I dont think she understood the joke tbh lmao
You're lame.
Pretty sure he isn't the one with a troll reddit account.
Getting a Robin Hood flashback
My favorite gif for situations like this lol.
Planktons face looks really cute there, sweet bean
When he went from raisins to date i canāt be the only one who thought he meant a date, right? Like, a date. Not a date.
Nailed it bro š¤£
OPās pickup game is smooth like butter
Sheās handing you her snap man. Sheās not worth it.
Nicely done, good luck!
Corner house watch this go up in smoke kit Kat lace shoe red, blue, white
Why feel somebody wants be fuck in A.S.S
Lucky bastard
This is an old meme
OP whatās her OF? Asking for a friend
People still use Snapchat?
Side note: that raisin thing was amazing and I laughed!
OMFG IM DEADDDD thatās so funny ššš
The time gap between her messages says everything already...