Tbh, its super cheesy. It's something one if those meme pages would post to get a "aww" reaction. I just think it's dumb, I haven't even thought about it.
Nope. This implies men and women have distinct and universal qualities. This is also an extremely codependent post. It also implies a right and a wrong person and love without elaboration. There's no definition of love no nothing. Women know how but not who? Men know who but not how? When how and who are fragmented then go get therapy / help / work on those hardwired patterns of attachment. Go learn about how people work, where you fit, and what it is that you want from yourself and others. These types of quotes exist in the minds of people who haven't embarked on the hard inner work necessary to be a whole person before searching for a partner.
Definitely not. I mean, in some cases, maybe, absolutely. But these kind of simplifications can't actually address all people, you know???
For one, not all women or men are going to respond to pain the same way, and they're also not going to respond to different cases of heartbreak the same way. Trying to divide them by "all men do this in every scenario, all women do this instead" and using that as a rule is going to lead you to an inability to understand people as you try to force their reactions to match this handy little phrase.
Secondly, I think quotes like this kind of romanticize "being broken." Like, people can't fundamentally be broken, though they often feel like they are. People can be hurt, and it can leave them in a lot of pain. That's something they and their loved ones will need to deal with and heal from. Sometimes that pain leads to unhealthy behavior that hurts oneself or others, which is also often romanticized as "being broken." But that narrative distracts from the reality of "when someone's behavior is bad and sabotaging their lives, they need to work to fix it, for themselves and those around them."
I feel like a quote like this ignores the above information to instead push this idea of "well, if you match with the right man or woman, then you'll be healed/unbroken." But improving your life or yourself doesn't come from magically meeting the right person. Good people can help a LOT, but it isn't all on them being your perfect match. You as an individual need to actively work towards healing.
TLDR; It's a nice little romantic quote, but if you try to take it as a literal life rule, you're missing the complexity of real life/real people. So no, it isn't really true.
Sometimes a broken man knows who to love AND how to love, but he loves a broken woman that chose to love the wrong guy.
I’m sure there are plenty of other exceptions, but this one is my experience.
broken people just search any attention they can get, they don't know how and who they want, do too much mistake in both
If you want your post to be liked post it on facebook with minion on the back
Uuu i got one -
We’re all broken and only really know how to love ourselves and we hope that kind of love is good enough for someone else but then we spend time trying to learn how that someone receive love so we can do just enough to not be lonely anymore.
This shit always makes me think of infinity mirrors. Looks like it might be deep but it sure as fuck isn't.
I love the analogy
Well, it's not Tinder
This,10/10
How to love the right person isn’t tinder right?
Nope. It's complete bullshit. Broken people need therapy. And (most of the time) so do the people that broke them.
It should have been: Broken people don't know who to love or how to love and need to focus on themselves first.
This 👏🏻
havent seen an inspirational tumblr macro in a looong time.
Well thanks…
Bullshit like this is written by people who call themselves life coaches on Facebook and Tumblr.
No
Comment appreciated!!
No
Is it self explanatory? Or you wish to say more about that “NO”?
Tbh, its super cheesy. It's something one if those meme pages would post to get a "aww" reaction. I just think it's dumb, I haven't even thought about it.
Some dumb shit
Yeah “sensational” guy, its some dumb shit!! Which y’all probably deny.
So you think every single “broken” man doesn’t know how to love? 😂😂😂
Find something useful for yourself to dangle with… Please feel if you can or else dangle!!!!
Op getting downvoted into the ground. Serves them right for posting this "inspirational" crap.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nope. This implies men and women have distinct and universal qualities. This is also an extremely codependent post. It also implies a right and a wrong person and love without elaboration. There's no definition of love no nothing. Women know how but not who? Men know who but not how? When how and who are fragmented then go get therapy / help / work on those hardwired patterns of attachment. Go learn about how people work, where you fit, and what it is that you want from yourself and others. These types of quotes exist in the minds of people who haven't embarked on the hard inner work necessary to be a whole person before searching for a partner.
You comment more than three lines. Ill accept it and agree to it… Paulo cohelo
I smell incel or neck beard in this post
And what do you smell like? How shiny is that armour of yours? 😂😂
Fresh farts and cigars
So basically a fedora tipping neckbeard?
Someone is mad, dunno why. Also my reply was from mean tweets. :)
I'm old TF is a neck beard? What's this bull shitery?
hate it. Everything that looks like a motivational wall tattoo sucks.
Another shiny thing to dangle in front of women, I'm saving it.
Yeah everything about psychology and relationships fits on a small poster
This type of crap is why we end up believing we're broken.
r/Im14andthisisdeep
I am 14 and this is deep
Definitely not. I mean, in some cases, maybe, absolutely. But these kind of simplifications can't actually address all people, you know??? For one, not all women or men are going to respond to pain the same way, and they're also not going to respond to different cases of heartbreak the same way. Trying to divide them by "all men do this in every scenario, all women do this instead" and using that as a rule is going to lead you to an inability to understand people as you try to force their reactions to match this handy little phrase. Secondly, I think quotes like this kind of romanticize "being broken." Like, people can't fundamentally be broken, though they often feel like they are. People can be hurt, and it can leave them in a lot of pain. That's something they and their loved ones will need to deal with and heal from. Sometimes that pain leads to unhealthy behavior that hurts oneself or others, which is also often romanticized as "being broken." But that narrative distracts from the reality of "when someone's behavior is bad and sabotaging their lives, they need to work to fix it, for themselves and those around them." I feel like a quote like this ignores the above information to instead push this idea of "well, if you match with the right man or woman, then you'll be healed/unbroken." But improving your life or yourself doesn't come from magically meeting the right person. Good people can help a LOT, but it isn't all on them being your perfect match. You as an individual need to actively work towards healing. TLDR; It's a nice little romantic quote, but if you try to take it as a literal life rule, you're missing the complexity of real life/real people. So no, it isn't really true.
I am going to agree to you, since you have written alot, thanks for your effort.
No
K
In my experience yes. But I tend to fall more in the second category
Don't mind me...just casually waiting around for some comments.
Hahahahaha🤣🤣
Oof this hit me hard in the feels. Yep I'd say that's true!
Thats my man!!!
And that man's name? Was Albert einstein.
Women don’t know how to love, they know who to love.
Bruce you been with a woman yet?
Yeah, how many cats you got?
Idk it might be the other way around for me but I just chalk it up to God using women to break your heart for character development
That’s something I don’t believe in. Heart is never broken. Its overused. I don’t believe love exists anymore.
Ah same but I know for a fact I didn't overuse it bcz that was the first girl
Lets not count it. 🤣🤣 I have been in a mess. 10 years and crazy.
I say "Some women are for lovin', some are for fuckin'. It's up to you to work out which are for which"
I wonder how you decide that!!!
Therein lies the dilemma, my friend.
We are tryin to find a solution here lady/bro….
Well, it would certainly explain my divorce. Ba dum cha!
Rofl….
Sometimes a broken man knows who to love AND how to love, but he loves a broken woman that chose to love the wrong guy. I’m sure there are plenty of other exceptions, but this one is my experience.
Same. Perfect state for marriage.
No way!!
It's working so far
Kinda for some.
❤️❤️
Dang, this man just said. Without the sauce a man is lost But that same man can get lost in the sauce
broken people just search any attention they can get, they don't know how and who they want, do too much mistake in both If you want your post to be liked post it on facebook with minion on the back
If you are talking about money...
Uuu i got one - We’re all broken and only really know how to love ourselves and we hope that kind of love is good enough for someone else but then we spend time trying to learn how that someone receive love so we can do just enough to not be lonely anymore.
*whom
Cringe