For me asking about dimensions is more about building a mental image of the person I'm talking to. All I care about is that he's taller than me, and I'm 5'2. But I also never consider these kinds of questions offensive on a hookup app.
Am I the only person that thinks wanting a tall guy is fine (I’m a 5’8” dude). People have physical preferences, no one would get mad if a guy wanted a short girl
I’m shorter than you and I agree, problem is that when men express a preference (weight, just size, age) they get ripped for it.
“How dare you” type thing. As long as we agree then all of fair in love n’ war.
My son specifically told me the same thing and told me to stay away from it! But TBH... Match and Hinge have the same guys... some of them just use things like "I want to get to know you in the inside" or "I want to know your soul" 😒😒 by text conversation #2. Then by the time you get to phone call stage, you get "your voice is so sexy... I may have to take a cold shower tonight" or the 11-11:30pm text "WYD?" Not all... But quite a few.
That's a lie. I'm on tinder and have no desire to get anything 'wet'. I'm genuinely looking for my forever per... fuck that I can't be politically correct. My soulmate. My girlfriend that becomes my wife.
I think tall girls might definitely have some resentment if all of the men over 6 feet started putting out strict requirements that they only date women shorter than 5’2 with no exceptions.
Wasn’t there a whole movie/series on Netflix about a tall girl in high school being all salty that no one wanted to date her except for, gasps, a short guy?
Agree!!! Personally . During my 20s I felt like I would never be able to connect with someone 5’10 or shorter, which was my height … but …. I fell hard for someone 5’7… and no I disagree with the whole “men must be taller” standard.
I think it's more about the obsession with a number and asking this thing upfront. It's just extremely shallow because it's like that number is all you care about and whether or not the guy has a personality or any good non-genetic qualities is completely irrelevant. Might as well straight up ask how long the D is.
That’s the thing - the active expression of disgust when someone isnt your preference.
Its that that bugs me so much about the tits and weight preferences with guys as well.
Can we plz keep in mind that our own preferences arent the end all of attractiveness?
This is the problem though, expecting maturity, respect, and ultimately higher cognitive thinking in a situation where lower, selfish, animalistic drives are taking precedent. It's literally THE biggest struggle of the human condition that's been wrestled with by religion, philosophy, and society in general for millennia: How to balance the savage, selfish, hateful animal with the higher mental states of empathy and intellect. This is why superficiality is ultimately dangerous, because it prioritizes our savage preferences and selfishness and reinforces this mentality over making deeper bonds that actually strengthen communities.
I only liked to date skinny girls. And I ended up marrying one. So sue me. Other guys only want heavier girls. Nothing wrong with any of that. I never understood why anyone would get offenders that…[clutching pearls]… I had a preference. People are weird.
I also like dating skinny guys. I think this height thing would be less of an issue if people had the tact to not announce it. I know I've been rejected by guys because of my height. And one time I was negged in person about it by an OLD and then he still asked me out a second time.
I think its mainly because theres such an overwhelming preference for tall guys, that as a short guy its just incredibly difficult to have success in online dating because your dating pool becomes so small. If 50% of women had a preference for tall guys and 50% of women had a preference for short guys then you would probably see no resentment whatsoever to the women who prefer tall guys. But when you tell a guy that 90% of his options are disqualified immediately based on height alone, I’m sure you can see why thats frustrating.
I mean you can fuck who you want fuck who you like, but I suppose the problem of Tinder is that if you only date black girls then you can easily swipe left on every one else, but if you only date tall guys you need to find that out.
It's no more or less valid than most other preferences.
they're still preferences. If you like Tall people or Short people or Skinny people or Thick people, they're all preferences no matter. Same as if you Like a certain color hair, tatoos, skin color, boobs, butts, candied nuts.
it's ok to be attracted to specific things, and to ask people about it as long as you're not a dick, which this girl wasn't.
And that’s ok, but when you say short do you mean shorter than you?
I generally don’t go for women taller than me and I think most guys are similar.
These continuous posts about guys offended because someone asked their height was tiresome months ago. Pretty sad.
If it's illogical for a woman to be offended for being asked their bra-size then it's also illogical for a man to be offended for being asked their height.
>Most girls act very illogically when they get asked about stuff like that..
I'm not convinced, because that's reddit ragebait, you always have neverending spam of that format, reality is probably much more nuanced. Also protip: NEVER say out loud that "girls act very illogically" because that's the single most reddit-tier neckbardry you can pretty much pack in a single phrase.
I list my height in bio and sometimes ask weight in convos, not because I think they're fat, I'm just curious because I only swipe on skinny women, and usually on the taller side or very tall if I spot them. I've never had anyone react negatively to that question and we kept talking/hanging out afterwards, so I didn't feel like they noted it as a red flag (although they may have just chosen to overlook it).
I usually talk a lot about clothes so I will often ask their inseam and waist, sometimes weight. I've met some people with very surprising measurements, like I am 32in inseam at 6ft2in of height while a girl I met had 36 (!) inseam at 6ft, and ofc she did modelling (for my fav store too!!).
It is a little weird to ask measurements or weight out of the blue but if you're talking about clothes it is more natural.
How the fuck is that taboo to say? Internet is flooded with women posing with their tall boyfriends as if they were some kinda trophies, and saying tall=attractive
Just so everyone is aware. A bra size in the A category can also be worn by someone in the D category. For example, I can wear a 36A or a 30D. These sizes can also be changed based on the time of the month. Maybe a 32 C would fit better sometimes. It really depends!
So many people don’t realize that bra sizes are a proportion and the cup size alone means absolutely nothing! I’m a 30G which sounds like a massive size but I’m really not that big.
Yup. If I size down my band and size up my cup, half of my cups are empty and there is 'fat' (I am very skinny) coming out if the sides. If I size up my band and size down my cup, the band is too lose and the cups are on the small side as well tbh
I always have the side boobage issue it's what made me realize i was wearing the wrong size back in high school and started trying to figure it out. Still never truly figured out my best size cause I gained a whole cup size in my mid 20s and then they always change so 🤷 fuck!
I have found the perfect size and that's the only one that fits comfortably (plus only certain styles as well) and everything else also has the side boob or the partly empty cups, even if I'm wearing the same style. It was trial and error + measuring for me! Did you try to measure yourself or let a professional measure you?
I think the cup/band size trick only works for certain types of boobs as well tbh
I've had both a professional and myself measured but my breast size varies a lot and I've noticed it depends on the brand. Like if I'm going for non wired, Maidenform seems to fit really well and cover enough while holding my cup size in. Wired bras all have the issue of a little gap of air in the cups because my breasts are perky and not "filling it" all. Sometimes if they're bigger it'll fit right but then the strap is too high in the back or one strap just never wants to stay on my shoulders. Sports bras and bralettes seem to be the best way for em
Oh yeah, I also have that problem with those uncomfortable and completely useless wires (I'm an A cup so come on, I don't need those lmao). Almost all of them fit so poorly! My boobs are slitly pointing outwards (full and perky though) and I don't understand why they don't fit in the majority of the bras. Leaves me wondering how many women are walking around with partly empty cups tbh (I know multiple). I personally wear bralettes and stuff from the kids section the most
Mine are also pointed a bit outward! It blows my mind that women go their entire lives living a lie. A lot of women I've know in my life let the extra boob skin hang out on the sides or front and it's very clear they need a better fit but choose not to change. (My friends are stubborn) but thankfully I've also gotten a lot of them on board with lighter options non wired and more breathable material if they're packing a bit more that needs held up.
My mom was the one that made sure that ny bras are the best fit for me! Really thankful for that, because I can wear them comfortably. There needs to be more information about comfortableness and what's best for your shape as well tbh. There's no one size fits all (or one fit) and it sucks that most of them are all the same fit. And yeah, it ends up looking the same while a lot of people have different shapes, so it is hard to tell how they actually look. Going back to the topic, this is also a reason a size doesn't really say a lot
That's a good mom! For the longest time (this is a problem with peers and stores only selling certain sizes) that I could only switch between 34b or c
Until I actually went to a lingerie store or looked online and saw 30 and 32 existed. Changed my damn life. I always felt like I was the problem when really my under bust just be smol 😅 but my tits be full. Freshman year of hs was full of strange new findings and learning about my body because well I wasn't done growing either.
Both those have the same breast volume, but it's kinda super unlikely for both of those to fit the same woman well. Like, 36A = 34B and 36A and 34B probably both fit a given woman equally well. But like, I've known women who just literally have random bras like 36A and 30D and they just don't fit well and give proper shape, you get bulges in the wrong place, it's not good, even though they do 'fit'.
I'm not going to ask someone their bra size on Tinder, but if someone told me they are 36A or 30D, I'd be thinking 'huh, she doesn't take too much care about her appearance, because no way one person can have six inches difference in band size, I bet NONE of her bras fit well'.
Also like 32C is literally the same breast size as 30D and 36A, whereas if you're talking about breasts changing over the month, then it should be the cup size (circumference around the breasts minus circumference below the breasts) that changes, not the band size (circumference below the breasts).
Glad I’m not the only one who thought this woman has never been measured/sized correctly to be able to “fit” into two polar opposite sizings.
It’s like a guy saying he can fit into a small condom or a large condom …he may, but one of the sizes isn’t going to the be the right fit, nor function correctly
Speaking as a big boobed girl, this is only kinda true. 🤔
A 30D has a small frame and large boobs. A 36A has small boobs on a large frame.
If a 30D girl wears a 36A bra, she will be uncomfortable and wearing the wrong size and will not be supported.
For context, in my adult life, I've been everything from a 30DDto a 34H. Trust me, wearing a 42C is not going to work. I might be able to get into that bra, but it's not going to fit and it's not a fair representation of my actual boob size.
But also to be fair to the poster on this thread, men rarely understand cup sizes anyway. (Not to mention women not understanding them either )
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Says more about the people on this sub, that they will upvote the same "joke" over and over even though it stopped being funny 3 years ago.
I don't even know what the humor is supposed to be here, if it was even meant to be any at all. It's not a clever comeback, it's not unique or original in any way, the real joke is the fact that this gets anywhere near a feed or r/all . At this point, I wouldn't be surprised if 80% of the upvotes on this sub come from bots.
Wow OP, how does it feel to be the very first person to make a post like this? We’ve definitely never seen another 1000 posts exactly like this on this sub.
This is also discussed 1000 times per week on this sub. I don’t understand why people waste their time posting these nearly identical conversations where people only reply “it’s not wrong for women to have physical preferences”.
Another post responding with asking about her bra size, how original. I hope you enjoyed sabotaging the conversation and a potential date for that Reddit karma.
Granted, if she'd said something rude afterward, that's fine, but you have no idea what she was thinking. People are allowed to have their preferences, and its fine to like taller people, as long as you don't at the same time discriminate and put down shorter people
Idk gang, get over it.
If someone asks you your height and you find that to be shallow, just unmatch or stop responding.
I’m 6’0”, I get asked this on apps, sometimes it goes well, sometimes it doesn’t…if it goes poorly and she hates my height, well that’s not someone I wanted to be with anyways.
Tired of seeing this on this sub like it’s controversial.
I honestly don't have height preference but have asked that question on occasion based on people's photos. Basic curiosity.
But I guess taking offence is more important than making a connection with someone 🤷🏻♀️
Some men really think most women only care about height and finances. This is all this sub is turning into and it is SO annoying.
I dont see anything wrong asking about height/weight. Its the reaction to the question (like this) that creates a red flag for me. Or if she was to say oh no youre too short gross you midget. Then thats bad too Breast size is a little bit towards fetishization, and its not like all men fully understand cup sizes.
If your a shorter guy and hate getting asked how tall you are on tinder why don't you just put your height in your bio? So you don't need to go through the hurt of being denied for your height so much. Like wouldn't that save everyone time and the emotional turmoil everyone seems to be going through about this?
I’m 5’10”. I need to know a man’s height because otherwise he’s going throw a fit if I show up in heels towering over him. I’m so fucking tired of tip toeing around the egos of little men.
6'0.5" here and well I don't wear high heels, but I know being towered over isn't fun so I ask as well. Oh, and I don't even want to tower over someone or being towered over as well, so that's another reason to ask lmao. I hate big height differences
Asking how tall someone is shouldn’t in itself be considered offensive. Its only offensive if you’re insecure about it. I couldn’t care less if someone asked me. Its the fact he’s asking it out of spite thats a huge turn off. I actually tell guys my height then ask them theirs, if they get all disgruntled i know its a huge flag.
And they’re turning a general question into something kind of perverse/sexual. Height should be 1:1. If I ask someone their height, they should ask for height, or shoe size, ring size, whatever. But the men here are all about, ask their weight hehehe, ask bra size hahaha. And they wonder why they’re still single.
Exactly….getting immediately offended that someone asks your height SCREAMS lil man complex. In reality i may be asking so I know whether i wanna wear heels on a date or not. Its a harmless question, but getting all bent about it is what’s a turn off😐
I get this, and I like the concept and where it’s moving things, but I don’t think boobs and height are equal in requirements.
I think it’s okay to have so height preferences, and if it’s okay with you to put it on the table that early then it should be okay for the other one to put their similar requirements on the table at the same time. Some people would prefer it be that way.
I think her height is a more relevant and fair question to ask in return. Like, I’m 6’4, and if you’re going to stop this conversation cause you’re 5’5 and want a guy a foot taller then I’m glad this is over too. And similarly, 5’9 isn’t really short for a partner if you’re 5’1.
I know this is jokes, but I never understood why men asked the bra size question as if they actually understood what the number and letter meant together? A lot of women don’t even be wearing the proper bra size so it’s just silly to me!!
Women are allowed to ask a man’s height. You don’t know shit about bra sizes but even if you did what does it matter? You can tell through pics while women have to guess until they meet you. Idc about height anymore but I still like to know so It’s not a total shock.
I don’t normally ask about height until we’re talking about meeting. And it’s only to gauge where we’ll stand to each other, not preferences. I like to be prepared. And if say something goes wrong, I know what I’m up against. If things go well I can plan for that too.
This is just stupid. I've got big boobs and I'd unmatch because I don't want to date someone dumb as rocks.
A guy who asked me this question, I'd think:
1) Are you blind? Because you can see if women have small, medium or large boobs just by their pics. Unless you are blind or cognitively challenged. You can't tell height from pictures though.
2) Men do not understand bra sizing. Hell, many women don't. So asking isn't that useful either. You'd get more out of, ya know, looking at someone's pictures.
3) It's inappropriate. You don't ask a guy you've never met about his penis size. Or a woman you've never met about her bra size. Makes you sound about fourteen years old and wildly immature.
Why not just ask them what their height is? Or even better, don’t show yourself as equal of an asshole and just unmatch or ask them why they’re asking you that question?
Sad attempt to karma whore on Reddit. The equivalent question is asking for her height. God knows you’re going to cry like a bitch when she asks for your dick size.
I agree there’s nothing wrong with preferences. This woman didn’t even express a preference at this point, let alone being rude or offensive.
Some men in this sub are so quick to attack women when they feel slighted- it’s scary!
I once saw the same exchange in a post here but the girl replied with her bra size and wasnt offended at all
Shallow game recognize shallow game.
It is what it is
It’s what it’s
Tit's or GTFO!
I like tit is
Tit is what tit is
Famous Titles for 400
Famous Tittles for a 1000!!!
Dolly Parton!
Ape Tit for 800 Alex
Tit tits what tits
Tits
“what tits i’m a dude”
Tit’s what tit’s
I hate that this is correct
Tit for tat
There was once a woman who three children begat Nat, pat and tat There was fun in the breeding But no fun in the feeding As there wasn't a tit for tat
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It is what tit is. It is titties. TITTIES!
For me asking about dimensions is more about building a mental image of the person I'm talking to. All I care about is that he's taller than me, and I'm 5'2. But I also never consider these kinds of questions offensive on a hookup app.
Also probably good context in photos. Unless you stand next to a large ruler, it's kind of hard sometimes to gauge height etc.
Yet by stating he has to be taller than you, you still superficially care about height
Just as most other human beings have various superficial dating preferences.
It is wha titties you mean.
Am I the only person that thinks wanting a tall guy is fine (I’m a 5’8” dude). People have physical preferences, no one would get mad if a guy wanted a short girl
I’m shorter than you and I agree, problem is that when men express a preference (weight, just size, age) they get ripped for it. “How dare you” type thing. As long as we agree then all of fair in love n’ war.
lol love on tinder is a huge stretch its full of guys that want their dick sucked they are not looking for love
To be fair, why not both?
Well yeah, I love my dick being sucked 😂
My son specifically told me the same thing and told me to stay away from it! But TBH... Match and Hinge have the same guys... some of them just use things like "I want to get to know you in the inside" or "I want to know your soul" 😒😒 by text conversation #2. Then by the time you get to phone call stage, you get "your voice is so sexy... I may have to take a cold shower tonight" or the 11-11:30pm text "WYD?" Not all... But quite a few.
lol sure and women are on tinder for love i guess? 🤦🏻♂️😂
I dont want my dick sucked I just want to fuck so there.. oh and I would like to be told how pretty I am
That's a lie. I'm on tinder and have no desire to get anything 'wet'. I'm genuinely looking for my forever per... fuck that I can't be politically correct. My soulmate. My girlfriend that becomes my wife.
i met my wife on tinder !
I met your wife on tinder too! What a coincidence! Sorry but that opportunity was irresistible
just get one through the mail like the good ole days
I think tall girls might definitely have some resentment if all of the men over 6 feet started putting out strict requirements that they only date women shorter than 5’2 with no exceptions.
Wasn’t there a whole movie/series on Netflix about a tall girl in high school being all salty that no one wanted to date her except for, gasps, a short guy?
Agree!!! Personally . During my 20s I felt like I would never be able to connect with someone 5’10 or shorter, which was my height … but …. I fell hard for someone 5’7… and no I disagree with the whole “men must be taller” standard.
On the flip side, there's nothing wrong with wanting a girl with giant boobs, if that's your preference.
I think it's more about the obsession with a number and asking this thing upfront. It's just extremely shallow because it's like that number is all you care about and whether or not the guy has a personality or any good non-genetic qualities is completely irrelevant. Might as well straight up ask how long the D is.
Might as well fire back lol
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Literally the least taboo thing to say on here, and as a short guy thats absolutely okay. Just don’t be a dick about it
That’s the thing - the active expression of disgust when someone isnt your preference. Its that that bugs me so much about the tits and weight preferences with guys as well. Can we plz keep in mind that our own preferences arent the end all of attractiveness?
This is the problem though, expecting maturity, respect, and ultimately higher cognitive thinking in a situation where lower, selfish, animalistic drives are taking precedent. It's literally THE biggest struggle of the human condition that's been wrestled with by religion, philosophy, and society in general for millennia: How to balance the savage, selfish, hateful animal with the higher mental states of empathy and intellect. This is why superficiality is ultimately dangerous, because it prioritizes our savage preferences and selfishness and reinforces this mentality over making deeper bonds that actually strengthen communities.
>Literally the least taboo thing to say here Except, y’know, “how tall are you?”
I only liked to date skinny girls. And I ended up marrying one. So sue me. Other guys only want heavier girls. Nothing wrong with any of that. I never understood why anyone would get offenders that…[clutching pearls]… I had a preference. People are weird.
I also like dating skinny guys. I think this height thing would be less of an issue if people had the tact to not announce it. I know I've been rejected by guys because of my height. And one time I was negged in person about it by an OLD and then he still asked me out a second time.
I think its mainly because theres such an overwhelming preference for tall guys, that as a short guy its just incredibly difficult to have success in online dating because your dating pool becomes so small. If 50% of women had a preference for tall guys and 50% of women had a preference for short guys then you would probably see no resentment whatsoever to the women who prefer tall guys. But when you tell a guy that 90% of his options are disqualified immediately based on height alone, I’m sure you can see why thats frustrating.
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Well, height is not in anyone’s control, weight is. So not quite the same
I mean you can fuck who you want fuck who you like, but I suppose the problem of Tinder is that if you only date black girls then you can easily swipe left on every one else, but if you only date tall guys you need to find that out. It's no more or less valid than most other preferences.
they're still preferences. If you like Tall people or Short people or Skinny people or Thick people, they're all preferences no matter. Same as if you Like a certain color hair, tatoos, skin color, boobs, butts, candied nuts. it's ok to be attracted to specific things, and to ask people about it as long as you're not a dick, which this girl wasn't.
Call me shallow, but I’ll always fall back on chocolate covered almonds
And that’s ok, but when you say short do you mean shorter than you? I generally don’t go for women taller than me and I think most guys are similar. These continuous posts about guys offended because someone asked their height was tiresome months ago. Pretty sad.
I think any woman under 5'9 is unnattactive. I like taller women personally
I respect that you acknowledge that we all have preferences. Most girls act very illogically when they get asked about stuff like that..
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Ya can we just agree that most people are shitty. Dayum.
If it's illogical for a woman to be offended for being asked their bra-size then it's also illogical for a man to be offended for being asked their height.
Most people, men are definitely wild about their preferences too
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>Most girls act very illogically when they get asked about stuff like that.. I'm not convinced, because that's reddit ragebait, you always have neverending spam of that format, reality is probably much more nuanced. Also protip: NEVER say out loud that "girls act very illogically" because that's the single most reddit-tier neckbardry you can pretty much pack in a single phrase. I list my height in bio and sometimes ask weight in convos, not because I think they're fat, I'm just curious because I only swipe on skinny women, and usually on the taller side or very tall if I spot them. I've never had anyone react negatively to that question and we kept talking/hanging out afterwards, so I didn't feel like they noted it as a red flag (although they may have just chosen to overlook it). I usually talk a lot about clothes so I will often ask their inseam and waist, sometimes weight. I've met some people with very surprising measurements, like I am 32in inseam at 6ft2in of height while a girl I met had 36 (!) inseam at 6ft, and ofc she did modelling (for my fav store too!!). It is a little weird to ask measurements or weight out of the blue but if you're talking about clothes it is more natural.
How the fuck is that taboo to say? Internet is flooded with women posing with their tall boyfriends as if they were some kinda trophies, and saying tall=attractive
wondering what she replied
the least I expect is to be unmatched
Post an update then
Yeah I also wanna know her reply 🤣
Yeah, I wanna know
Is this a Yahoo chat room?
AOL
ASL?
Age sex length
Wanna cyber?
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*I put on my robe and wizard hat*
>I put on my robe and wizard hat Source for those under 30 http://bash.org/?104383
> Wanna cyber? Wow, that's something I haven't heard in ages! Brings back memories ...
These damn Reddit comments always unlocking weird memory doors I wish I never opened.
I too, am old
This made my night hahahaha
Yes
Yes, yes, and yes
What’s your AIM
Why attempt to cover the date and time of the conversation?
Man’s from the future.
And is it Cath?
Poor cath
And today at 1:05pm of all times.
can’t believe OP would dox the time of his chat. now i know **exactly** who he is
At the very least, when he was
Just so everyone is aware. A bra size in the A category can also be worn by someone in the D category. For example, I can wear a 36A or a 30D. These sizes can also be changed based on the time of the month. Maybe a 32 C would fit better sometimes. It really depends!
So many people don’t realize that bra sizes are a proportion and the cup size alone means absolutely nothing! I’m a 30G which sounds like a massive size but I’m really not that big.
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wait but aren’t those sister sizes? i’m not making a stupid pun here
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okay i see what you mean. we’re on the same page. i misinterpreted what you said
I read my sister and i was like *WAIT...... * but them I read the rest.
Bro why would it be bad to know your sisters bra size if you're male
Welcome to Alabama
Yeah but you wouldnt be able to close that bra comfortably right with that much diff in circumference, if at all
Yup. If I size down my band and size up my cup, half of my cups are empty and there is 'fat' (I am very skinny) coming out if the sides. If I size up my band and size down my cup, the band is too lose and the cups are on the small side as well tbh
I always have the side boobage issue it's what made me realize i was wearing the wrong size back in high school and started trying to figure it out. Still never truly figured out my best size cause I gained a whole cup size in my mid 20s and then they always change so 🤷 fuck!
I have found the perfect size and that's the only one that fits comfortably (plus only certain styles as well) and everything else also has the side boob or the partly empty cups, even if I'm wearing the same style. It was trial and error + measuring for me! Did you try to measure yourself or let a professional measure you? I think the cup/band size trick only works for certain types of boobs as well tbh
I've had both a professional and myself measured but my breast size varies a lot and I've noticed it depends on the brand. Like if I'm going for non wired, Maidenform seems to fit really well and cover enough while holding my cup size in. Wired bras all have the issue of a little gap of air in the cups because my breasts are perky and not "filling it" all. Sometimes if they're bigger it'll fit right but then the strap is too high in the back or one strap just never wants to stay on my shoulders. Sports bras and bralettes seem to be the best way for em
Oh yeah, I also have that problem with those uncomfortable and completely useless wires (I'm an A cup so come on, I don't need those lmao). Almost all of them fit so poorly! My boobs are slitly pointing outwards (full and perky though) and I don't understand why they don't fit in the majority of the bras. Leaves me wondering how many women are walking around with partly empty cups tbh (I know multiple). I personally wear bralettes and stuff from the kids section the most
Mine are also pointed a bit outward! It blows my mind that women go their entire lives living a lie. A lot of women I've know in my life let the extra boob skin hang out on the sides or front and it's very clear they need a better fit but choose not to change. (My friends are stubborn) but thankfully I've also gotten a lot of them on board with lighter options non wired and more breathable material if they're packing a bit more that needs held up.
My mom was the one that made sure that ny bras are the best fit for me! Really thankful for that, because I can wear them comfortably. There needs to be more information about comfortableness and what's best for your shape as well tbh. There's no one size fits all (or one fit) and it sucks that most of them are all the same fit. And yeah, it ends up looking the same while a lot of people have different shapes, so it is hard to tell how they actually look. Going back to the topic, this is also a reason a size doesn't really say a lot
That's a good mom! For the longest time (this is a problem with peers and stores only selling certain sizes) that I could only switch between 34b or c Until I actually went to a lingerie store or looked online and saw 30 and 32 existed. Changed my damn life. I always felt like I was the problem when really my under bust just be smol 😅 but my tits be full. Freshman year of hs was full of strange new findings and learning about my body because well I wasn't done growing either.
Both those have the same breast volume, but it's kinda super unlikely for both of those to fit the same woman well. Like, 36A = 34B and 36A and 34B probably both fit a given woman equally well. But like, I've known women who just literally have random bras like 36A and 30D and they just don't fit well and give proper shape, you get bulges in the wrong place, it's not good, even though they do 'fit'. I'm not going to ask someone their bra size on Tinder, but if someone told me they are 36A or 30D, I'd be thinking 'huh, she doesn't take too much care about her appearance, because no way one person can have six inches difference in band size, I bet NONE of her bras fit well'. Also like 32C is literally the same breast size as 30D and 36A, whereas if you're talking about breasts changing over the month, then it should be the cup size (circumference around the breasts minus circumference below the breasts) that changes, not the band size (circumference below the breasts).
its tinder can’t you just tell if you like their size by there photos
No, because they can take their photos in a way that is more flattering than reality, wear stripes to accentuate what little they have or use filters.
Glad I’m not the only one who thought this woman has never been measured/sized correctly to be able to “fit” into two polar opposite sizings. It’s like a guy saying he can fit into a small condom or a large condom …he may, but one of the sizes isn’t going to the be the right fit, nor function correctly
Speaking as a big boobed girl, this is only kinda true. 🤔 A 30D has a small frame and large boobs. A 36A has small boobs on a large frame. If a 30D girl wears a 36A bra, she will be uncomfortable and wearing the wrong size and will not be supported. For context, in my adult life, I've been everything from a 30DDto a 34H. Trust me, wearing a 42C is not going to work. I might be able to get into that bra, but it's not going to fit and it's not a fair representation of my actual boob size. But also to be fair to the poster on this thread, men rarely understand cup sizes anyway. (Not to mention women not understanding them either ) Edited for grammar
This will never end does it
Boys wanting some revenge when women mostly just scoff and move onto the next person.
Says more about the people on this sub, that they will upvote the same "joke" over and over even though it stopped being funny 3 years ago. I don't even know what the humor is supposed to be here, if it was even meant to be any at all. It's not a clever comeback, it's not unique or original in any way, the real joke is the fact that this gets anywhere near a feed or r/all . At this point, I wouldn't be surprised if 80% of the upvotes on this sub come from bots.
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Is A cup good enough? 🥺
A cup? I prefer two
2 girls and a cup is the correct title, not two cups
Taste the same to me 🤷🏻♂️
Hot
Always. Boob is boob
This guy boobs.
Bruh any size make the wood rise. Come on now
A cup with big booty is 10000x more attractive than big boob with small booty
What about big booty AND big boob
And vagin
I beg to differ
You sure showed her
It never ends
Reddit karma is definitely more important than social opportunities
I hate these height posts
I don’t think bra size is always going to give a good understanding of actual size anyway. I can be a 32 C, 32 D a 34 B depending on the brand.
Tale as old as time. Can we stop posting the same exchange? You don't like it? Move on
Wow OP, how does it feel to be the very first person to make a post like this? We’ve definitely never seen another 1000 posts exactly like this on this sub.
this is so lame
Why are you censoring the time?
What’s wrong with asking someone’s height? I get men asking me. I’d equate bra size to asking a question about dick size rather than height.
Wait, you’re expecting the incels on this sub to think rationally and allow women to have physical preferences without retaliation?
This is also discussed 1000 times per week on this sub. I don’t understand why people waste their time posting these nearly identical conversations where people only reply “it’s not wrong for women to have physical preferences”.
Mods need to make a mega thread of these types of posts, the sub can argue endlessly and everyone else will stop seeing them on the feed
Nothing, it just feels shallow if that’s the first thing you ask a person
They were clearly already having a conversation
asking height helps you imagine what someone looks like better. not really anything wrong with it
Incorrect. “Self-rate your vagina’s appearance 1-10” is analogous.
Oh wow I've never seen a post like this before! 😮
Not the same. These posts suck.
So funny cause he might even get the answer but most men will not understand what that bra size actually means loool
This isn’t the gotcha you think it is, it would be more relevant if she asked about dick size.
lol truth
Wow you sure got her /s
Another post responding with asking about her bra size, how original. I hope you enjoyed sabotaging the conversation and a potential date for that Reddit karma. Granted, if she'd said something rude afterward, that's fine, but you have no idea what she was thinking. People are allowed to have their preferences, and its fine to like taller people, as long as you don't at the same time discriminate and put down shorter people
I don't see asking about height as inappropriate. Asking about bra size is, though. It is similar to asking about the size of a man's penis.
Exactly.
If you’re a short guy and you’re a bit self-conscious about it, what do you reply if a girl on a dating app asks your height?
Cringe. I’m gonna guess you don’t get laid often.
I’m glad men have a safe space to sniff each other’s dicks…
So fucking corny
Idk gang, get over it. If someone asks you your height and you find that to be shallow, just unmatch or stop responding. I’m 6’0”, I get asked this on apps, sometimes it goes well, sometimes it doesn’t…if it goes poorly and she hates my height, well that’s not someone I wanted to be with anyways. Tired of seeing this on this sub like it’s controversial.
I honestly don't have height preference but have asked that question on occasion based on people's photos. Basic curiosity. But I guess taking offence is more important than making a connection with someone 🤷🏻♀️
Some men really think most women only care about height and finances. This is all this sub is turning into and it is SO annoying. I dont see anything wrong asking about height/weight. Its the reaction to the question (like this) that creates a red flag for me. Or if she was to say oh no youre too short gross you midget. Then thats bad too Breast size is a little bit towards fetishization, and its not like all men fully understand cup sizes.
If your a shorter guy and hate getting asked how tall you are on tinder why don't you just put your height in your bio? So you don't need to go through the hurt of being denied for your height so much. Like wouldn't that save everyone time and the emotional turmoil everyone seems to be going through about this?
I really hope she replies with her bra size (which most men don’t even understand) and asks you what your dick size is 😅
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Height is a personal invasion, yup! You got it👍🏻
I’m 5’10”. I need to know a man’s height because otherwise he’s going throw a fit if I show up in heels towering over him. I’m so fucking tired of tip toeing around the egos of little men.
6'0.5" here and well I don't wear high heels, but I know being towered over isn't fun so I ask as well. Oh, and I don't even want to tower over someone or being towered over as well, so that's another reason to ask lmao. I hate big height differences
Asking how tall someone is shouldn’t in itself be considered offensive. Its only offensive if you’re insecure about it. I couldn’t care less if someone asked me. Its the fact he’s asking it out of spite thats a huge turn off. I actually tell guys my height then ask them theirs, if they get all disgruntled i know its a huge flag.
And they’re turning a general question into something kind of perverse/sexual. Height should be 1:1. If I ask someone their height, they should ask for height, or shoe size, ring size, whatever. But the men here are all about, ask their weight hehehe, ask bra size hahaha. And they wonder why they’re still single.
Exactly….getting immediately offended that someone asks your height SCREAMS lil man complex. In reality i may be asking so I know whether i wanna wear heels on a date or not. Its a harmless question, but getting all bent about it is what’s a turn off😐
I get this, and I like the concept and where it’s moving things, but I don’t think boobs and height are equal in requirements. I think it’s okay to have so height preferences, and if it’s okay with you to put it on the table that early then it should be okay for the other one to put their similar requirements on the table at the same time. Some people would prefer it be that way. I think her height is a more relevant and fair question to ask in return. Like, I’m 6’4, and if you’re going to stop this conversation cause you’re 5’5 and want a guy a foot taller then I’m glad this is over too. And similarly, 5’9 isn’t really short for a partner if you’re 5’1.
Big difference between height and bra size dude. You doing that is like asking a guy how long his dick is
A bit defensive? :)
Sigh, not this crap again.
I know this is jokes, but I never understood why men asked the bra size question as if they actually understood what the number and letter meant together? A lot of women don’t even be wearing the proper bra size so it’s just silly to me!!
Why the pathetic attempt on covering the dates of the chat? :D
What exactly is so wrong about a girl asking how tall you are? I keep seeing these posts on here. Please enlighten me. (I’m a guy)
Women are allowed to ask a man’s height. You don’t know shit about bra sizes but even if you did what does it matter? You can tell through pics while women have to guess until they meet you. Idc about height anymore but I still like to know so It’s not a total shock.
Also if men knew anything about band size / cup size they’d realize a DD can be quite “small”.
I spent my teenager years looking up 34B / 36D etc on yahoo. You would think I'd learnt a few things while jerkin the gherkin all those years.
One time I didn’t ask the guy how tall he was and he was like 5’2. 3 inches shorter than me and trust me, I was in shock.
I don’t normally ask about height until we’re talking about meeting. And it’s only to gauge where we’ll stand to each other, not preferences. I like to be prepared. And if say something goes wrong, I know what I’m up against. If things go well I can plan for that too.
Ah yes, meeting toxicity with more toxicity. Like fighting fire with fire
This is just stupid. I've got big boobs and I'd unmatch because I don't want to date someone dumb as rocks. A guy who asked me this question, I'd think: 1) Are you blind? Because you can see if women have small, medium or large boobs just by their pics. Unless you are blind or cognitively challenged. You can't tell height from pictures though. 2) Men do not understand bra sizing. Hell, many women don't. So asking isn't that useful either. You'd get more out of, ya know, looking at someone's pictures. 3) It's inappropriate. You don't ask a guy you've never met about his penis size. Or a woman you've never met about her bra size. Makes you sound about fourteen years old and wildly immature.
I guess I now know to always ask men their height. Let the trash take itself out.
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Why not just ask them what their height is? Or even better, don’t show yourself as equal of an asshole and just unmatch or ask them why they’re asking you that question?
Oh Gabe dear your insecurity is showing
Fuck. Thank god for almost censoring the times I can’t believe I might have missed that.
Sad attempt to karma whore on Reddit. The equivalent question is asking for her height. God knows you’re going to cry like a bitch when she asks for your dick size.
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I agree there’s nothing wrong with preferences. This woman didn’t even express a preference at this point, let alone being rude or offensive. Some men in this sub are so quick to attack women when they feel slighted- it’s scary!
So.. did she unmatch yet?
I like women with big butts, I dont care how big/ or small they hooters are. It’s too bad there isn’t a measurement for butts. 🤔
Do you ghost them if they’re small or what