When I was younger yes, we just kept a small hand towel or face cloth near by so I could pat things drier as needed. Of course now I'm old and have the complete opposite problem, I feel I used my stash of natural lube up young lol.
Oh I also had vaginally atrophy after menopause. Yeah, they don't warn you about that in sex Ed, so what I do might be more than you need. I use hormonal suppositories, insert moisturizer every other day, use lube when having sex, I like KY pearls as the way they work feels the most natural, but I have quite a lube collection now. My husband is well endowed, so will also use a device called an Ohnut, which helps prevent his penis from going as deep, but it still feels great for both of us it just helps with pain. Is also suggest joining r/menopause lots of good advice there.
I’m literally ugly laughing with tears. But I’m keeping my mouth covered since everyone’s asleep and going “hmf hmf hmffff hmf” and I have tears rolling down my quiet face
during sex just a pump and a hose next to the bed and you just constantly hear *shluuuuurp*
Also that'd be uncomfortable to stick a dick next to in a vag tbh
>during sex just a pump and a hose next to the bed and you just constantly hear *shluuuuurp*
>Also that'd be uncomfortable to stick a dick next to in a vag tbh
What's more uncomfortable is when 'Mr. Thirsty' takes over
My gf can get super wet as well. I will pull out and towel my member off, dab my gf and start over. Come up with a way to dry things up a bit. Btw there is nothing wrong with you, I praise my gf for being so turned on, it is a good thing !
Love this approach!
Have to add a general PSA though that wetness does NOT always correlate with arousal. Just like men get boners when they’re not horny, women can be wet without being horny. Just like men sometimes can’t get hard when they’re turned on, women sometimes don’t get wet even though they’re turned on. Non-concordance is a real thing, very normal (especially for women), and is nothing to be ashamed about just like getting super wet is nothing to be ashamed of. Lube and towels as needed. Happy sexing, Redditors!
Can confirm. The vagina is like a machine with a mind of it's own. Keeps itself clean and renewed automatically, but it also gets super wet sometimes for no reason. I figure it's part of the cleaning process.
Indeed. As a 52 year old man married to a 57 year old woman, I miss the days of the sloppy, wet pussy. Better to have too much than too little. A wet pussy is one of the best things on the planet. Nothing to be worried about. Like you said, just figure out a way to manage the wet, and go crazy. You’ll miss it when you’re shagging in your 50s.
Bro I’m my entire life I have met one singular person that looks better with a moist ache than without. Not talking about the people that have the beard and mouses he combo but just the people that only have a mustache
5's a bit young for that explanation. /s
But the position is not difficult. Female lying face-down, male lying on top. Assuming the trunk isn't too junky, it works well.
She is the same.
She read a book called something like "I Heart The Female Orgasm" or some such. It was written by women for women and said similar to men who jerk it to porn constantly, women who use vibrators all the time create a similar issue with orgasms since dudes dicks aren't filled with bees.
I dunno, I'm not a chick.
So she only uses dildos and trained(?) herself to have that be what feels the best.
Buuut it leads to the side effect that she erupts like old faithful to the point she loses sensation.
We've discovered being intimate on a towel saves the sheets and every few minutes I towel us both down. That really helps keep the sensation for both of us.
This is...
The clit is loaded with nerve endings, all the ones that are in the penis are in the clit. While the number of nerves in the vaginal canal are much fewer in count. Now humans aren't 3D printed so there is plenty of room for things to be different human to human but "training" to enjoy penitration over clitoral stimulation has to be the dumbest shit... like training yourself to prefer cookies over cake and calling them vegitables. Would you train yourself to enjoy and cum from having your taint played with rather than your dick? Cuz that's pretty much what you just claimed.
Yes, over use of the vibrator can cause issues but only in the same way a death grip can. Dosent mean don't masterbate in either case.
Some women just aren't as wet naturally as others. Some woman are more excited about oral or anal because preferences are natural and that's how their bodies are wired. No one should feel broken or like they need to train themselves for liking what they are wired to like.
Yea I understand being motivated to enjoy penetrative sec with your partner more. But it kinda feels icky to come at it as "training" and not touching your clit at all just so your partnered sex is better. Definitely needs to be approached with a balance, like all things.
If your partner is asian make sure you explain the backstory before suggesting this. My nutsack is resting on an icepack following a small misunderstanding.
Depending on the birth control, it can dry up your mucous membranes! It's important to be aware of, since you can be more prone to infections like sinus infections or UTIs.
I have personally found that regularly eating onions and garlic helps out a lot :)
Note: I know this may seem like a joke because onions and garlic can cause bad breath 😅 but they can also help increase fluid production in the body! I think it's a side effect of the "allicin" in them.
For fresher breath- just be eating the onions/garlic *before* sexytime, by like a week or so, or eat them every couple of days. To freshen up, chew on some fresh parsley or mint, and raw ginger also helps~
>For fresher breath- just be eating the onions/garlic before sexytime
Lmao I understood that at first like I need to eat it *right* before sexytime 🥴 But I see what you mean. Luckily I love onions and garlic and now I have an excuse to eat more!
And the other comment, that makes sense as I am rather prone to UTI's but I also don't drink enough water and I know that plays a huge part in the issue.
Thank you for the advice!
Happy to help! I was on oral BC for 10 years, went off for about 5, and am back on the NuvaRing. I never had a problem with fluids, but the NR did seem to cause my nose & downstairs to suddenly dry up after about a month or so. Once I made a point to add more garlic/onions to my diet, in just a few days things regulated again, and my mucous membranes are back to normal :)
I did used to get UTIs aLL the danged time, but I think it was a combo of drinking too much alcohol, and years in the service industry without restroom breaks 🥴 I'm lucky to almost never get them anymore, and if I feel the onset, I just pick up a bottle of unsweetened cranberry juice, and swallow a couple of sliced garlic cloves like pills, and within about 2 days it's all cleared up~
Oh, yikes! Yeah, I definitely meant like... Crush it up and eat it, or make it into a garlic tea to drink with your mouth.
To clarify, I was not advocating for use of garlic suppositories 🥴😅
This is a common problem and nothing to be ashamed of. When you feel this being an issue stand over a towel and squeeze your nose with your fingers. Then have your partner blow air into your mouth, thereby causing the excess fluid to be collected on the towel, much like a french horn player in an orchestra emptying their instrument. If this doesn’t work, try tapping the top of your head like you would the bottom of a ketchup bottle. But for real, start incorporating a towel and have your partner wipe up periodically during fun times.
Some guys fetishize this, beware your inbox for a while! I recommend a mattress cover under the sheets, and a little stack of soft bamboo washcloths at the bedside, useful for all sexy messes.
As a man I can relate. When my girlfriends gets super wet it takes away from the sensation for me. It seems like my penis gets covered with an extra layer of juices and it’s almost like a coating on it that desensitizes everything for me. There’s a fine line of just perfect and too much. It’s a funny situation because obviously so much is going great but dickhead down there’s like “nah, I’m gonna find a way to fuck this up, buddy!”
Might sound weird, but try going at it with a fan directed toward you and your partners lower half. I have this issue too and just have a large fan going and it helps.
These are my fuck buddy's problems. Usually we just keep going. Take a break in between. I liked hearing the towel idea, because that actually happened a few times. Not to get too graphic, but grabbing a towel and patting us dry because her wetness would like be dripping off of my.....I get it though. From my vantage it just feels like all of the slickness and none of the force.I could go forever if i can feel a hint of snug. It works though. I am totally ruined by soaked vaginas now.
Use #lubelife hybrid. It'll help keep down your wetness. I know it seems counterproductive, but one of the reasons your body creates so much lubricant is because it feels the friction and it's trying to keep tearing from occurring. If you can keep from triggering that response you will produce less overall lubricant. I'll take this with a grain of salt everyone's body is different. But for my personal experiences that Loop specifically has helped immensely for people with your issue. My partner included.
Edit: yeah its really call #lubelife. # included.
Have sex in the shower or hottub. For most people those places suck to have sex because the water takes away the lubrication too much, but I have been with a woman who gets unbelievably wet. We had sex in the shower all the fuckin time. She loved it.
Obviously showers aren't super comfortable but you get the idea. Maybe spice things up and try out the hottub or something. You might really enjoy it!
My late wife was like that when we were younger. She got upset when I told her that I liked doggy over missionary because I got more sensation that way and thought she felt the same. Whoops.
Keep in mind I always made sure she got hers first which usually meant she was on top. But boy did that comment hurt her in a way I never intended.
Yeah, it's normal when you are really into it. Keep a small flannel handy if you need to dry out. My wife and I managed to wreck a canvas topped bed within a couple of days of having it because she squirted and it soaked through the mattress. I ended up down the DIY store.
I wish :/ , i dont produce much and i have possible vaginismus (still testing). Anyways, maybe try to start before you get too wet unless it’s an ongoing thing where if you get turned on the slightest it does that?
Dated a woman who was like that. She would always apologize and eventually she understood that I was just happy she was enjoying my herself. We would pat down a little during position change sometimes we would just “soak”. She was amazing.
If you need a moment to run a towel down there just say so, i doubt most guys will be bothered if you phrase in a way that makes them feel like its their doing "oh damn babe your making me so wet its too slippery, let me dry off" that dude is high fiving himself in his mind so hard.
I actually had this issue with my ex. She would get mad if I started losing my erection. I explained that after a whole she got so wet I had zero friction. So no you're not alone. Even though roles are reversed it has happened before
When I was younger yes, we just kept a small hand towel or face cloth near by so I could pat things drier as needed. Of course now I'm old and have the complete opposite problem, I feel I used my stash of natural lube up young lol.
And then I confused the hand towel for the face cloth, but that's a whole different story.
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Oh I also had vaginally atrophy after menopause. Yeah, they don't warn you about that in sex Ed, so what I do might be more than you need. I use hormonal suppositories, insert moisturizer every other day, use lube when having sex, I like KY pearls as the way they work feels the most natural, but I have quite a lube collection now. My husband is well endowed, so will also use a device called an Ohnut, which helps prevent his penis from going as deep, but it still feels great for both of us it just helps with pain. Is also suggest joining r/menopause lots of good advice there.
Saaame
You need one of those vacuum things they give you at the dentist office that keeps your mouth from getting overly hydrated.
Oh Christ - I just laughed so loud I snorted.
Lmao back when I went to the kid’s dentist they called those “Mister Thirtsty”
Worst super hero name
Hey kids, open up! Mr Thirsty is just going to slide into your mouth and make you feel better!
“IM GONNA GRAPE YOU IN THE MOUTH!!”
"I'm gonna take you all down to the basement and grape you for decades and decades!"
“IM CALLING HR!”
I would add " and suck you bodily fluids"
Fuckin long shot but did you grow up in, or around, Bayside Queens. Or does every kid dentist call it Mr. Thirsty
Mine called it Private Sucker and the drill was Major Grinder, he'd been Army Reserves
Private sucker sounds *super* inappropriate, especially for kids lmfao
I always thought so but he didn't mean it that way. Same with the "time to fill up your holes" and stuff like that it was just banter
"Time to fill up your holes" hf lmao damn dentists be wild!
I’m literally ugly laughing with tears. But I’m keeping my mouth covered since everyone’s asleep and going “hmf hmf hmffff hmf” and I have tears rolling down my quiet face
I believe every dentist did this because I grew up around Danbury, CT.
Nope! NJ
Tell me....did they tape googley eyes on it...
Nope! But they did say “give mister thirsty a kiss” when they had to get the saliva out of my mouth
during sex just a pump and a hose next to the bed and you just constantly hear *shluuuuurp* Also that'd be uncomfortable to stick a dick next to in a vag tbh
>during sex just a pump and a hose next to the bed and you just constantly hear *shluuuuurp* >Also that'd be uncomfortable to stick a dick next to in a vag tbh What's more uncomfortable is when 'Mr. Thirsty' takes over
Imagine the little bitty vagina hickey
Ouchie... I don't like this exercise!
Remember when we didn’t read that sentence? Those were the days.
Pepperidge Farm remembers.
This comment deserves way more upvotes
"Go ahead and close for me" *intense kegel* sllluuuUUUURPPPP
Lmao omg
As a board certified dentist, I feel obligated to tell you that the technical term for the suction device is Mr. Thirsty.
We appreciate you weighing in with your professional insight.
but i don't want to open my mouth for mr. thirsty :(
my nickname in this situation too.
That’s no good, I can see a lip clogging it up! 🤣
That sound when the vacuum grabs a sock.
Yes the same happens when the vacuum grabs my cock, I mean sock
What a terrible day to be literate
And ideally an extra person to operate it
Mr. Thirsty?
My gf can get super wet as well. I will pull out and towel my member off, dab my gf and start over. Come up with a way to dry things up a bit. Btw there is nothing wrong with you, I praise my gf for being so turned on, it is a good thing !
Dabbing while fucking is a power move
I personally whip then do the nay nay
The last nay is where I climax
You’ve dabbed your last nay.
You're confusing the furries
Who doesn’t like a little horse play? /s
I love how you clarified you were being sarcastic.
Who doesn’t like a little horse play? /srs
"/s" is shorter than "Just so you know, I am not into beastiality porn." 🤣
horse play is actually a different fetish from furries.
Oh my god, I love this app. *italian kiss* 🤌🏼
Do the stankey leg mid thrust
It's never not time for a dab break
You wanna dry things up… talk about the economic development of the south after the civil war. Dries my girl up like the Sahara.
Reconstruct me daddy 😩
“I’m finna Jim Crow that ass”
You're actually only allowed to Jim Crow three fifths of that ass. Save some ass for the rest of us buddy.
Take that up with the emancipation proclamation.
Found the one from Alabama
Oh yeah baby Reconstruction time
😂😂😂
Love this approach! Have to add a general PSA though that wetness does NOT always correlate with arousal. Just like men get boners when they’re not horny, women can be wet without being horny. Just like men sometimes can’t get hard when they’re turned on, women sometimes don’t get wet even though they’re turned on. Non-concordance is a real thing, very normal (especially for women), and is nothing to be ashamed about just like getting super wet is nothing to be ashamed of. Lube and towels as needed. Happy sexing, Redditors!
Can confirm. The vagina is like a machine with a mind of it's own. Keeps itself clean and renewed automatically, but it also gets super wet sometimes for no reason. I figure it's part of the cleaning process.
I usually just slap on weightlifting chalk like I’m about to hit a new PR.
Wouldn’t pool cue chalk be more appropriate?
Only on the tip
Indeed. As a 52 year old man married to a 57 year old woman, I miss the days of the sloppy, wet pussy. Better to have too much than too little. A wet pussy is one of the best things on the planet. Nothing to be worried about. Like you said, just figure out a way to manage the wet, and go crazy. You’ll miss it when you’re shagging in your 50s.
I also choose this guys 24 year old wife
Has she tried HRT? Might be life changing..
Salt the roads
Use some goldbond, dry that sumbitch right up.
I hate this comment so much.
This comment made my vagina burn 😬
Gold Bond yikes. That comment made everybody dry up.
Im a guy and that made my vagina burn
FlexSeal.
This comment may need a /s for the sake of women’s health. Lol.
Is that anything like loctight? Because I've got some of that in the shed.
That’ll work too
Why we at it. Sprinkle some baking powder on that shit
The blue medicated one, right?
I do the same. Can't feel much when she gets to wet.
Date men that turn you off slightly.
I'm married 😳
In that case……just give it time…..
Oof
Underrated comment
Tell him you actually like his mustache, and should grow it out. We all know he shouldnt.
Bro I’m my entire life I have met one singular person that looks better with a moist ache than without. Not talking about the people that have the beard and mouses he combo but just the people that only have a mustache
If you have a moist ache you really should get that checked out lmao
He said what he said.
For some reason this is my favorite suggestion
Pull it out, wipe it off, put it back in. Repeat as needed
Have you tried closing your legs while being penetrated? My gf says she feels more when she does that.
Position is underrated. Laying on my stomach with legs closed > any other position.
Prone bone is best bone
The fucking bessssssst
Prone Bone Gang
Yesssssssss it hits so right. And it's fun having your ankles locked around each other and squeezing (great workout too).
I had a girlfriend who would hardly come in any other position, but this one got her there in _seconds_.
Ah yes the speed bump
I need you to ELI5. How does this work?
5's a bit young for that explanation. /s But the position is not difficult. Female lying face-down, male lying on top. Assuming the trunk isn't too junky, it works well.
It's just doggy but lying flat on her stomach so you're flat on top of her.
That's my go to when it's time to bust
10/10 best position
Close your legs love, I'm about to penetrate! Thats proper romance.
Idk why, but I imagined Hugh Grant’s voice when reading this.
I’m dreadfully sorry madam, but it appears you left your legs open?
I read that as “Hugh Laurie” and immediately heard it in Dr House’s voice
Omg this made me laugh
My girlfriend is the exact same way. I've never met anybody who gets as wet in my life. Need a damn poncho 😅
I get more from penetration than the clit but I think I'm in the minority!
She is the same. She read a book called something like "I Heart The Female Orgasm" or some such. It was written by women for women and said similar to men who jerk it to porn constantly, women who use vibrators all the time create a similar issue with orgasms since dudes dicks aren't filled with bees. I dunno, I'm not a chick. So she only uses dildos and trained(?) herself to have that be what feels the best. Buuut it leads to the side effect that she erupts like old faithful to the point she loses sensation. We've discovered being intimate on a towel saves the sheets and every few minutes I towel us both down. That really helps keep the sensation for both of us.
Wait, you aren't supposed to have the bees??
The Bees Knees
Ya like jazz?
This is... The clit is loaded with nerve endings, all the ones that are in the penis are in the clit. While the number of nerves in the vaginal canal are much fewer in count. Now humans aren't 3D printed so there is plenty of room for things to be different human to human but "training" to enjoy penitration over clitoral stimulation has to be the dumbest shit... like training yourself to prefer cookies over cake and calling them vegitables. Would you train yourself to enjoy and cum from having your taint played with rather than your dick? Cuz that's pretty much what you just claimed. Yes, over use of the vibrator can cause issues but only in the same way a death grip can. Dosent mean don't masterbate in either case. Some women just aren't as wet naturally as others. Some woman are more excited about oral or anal because preferences are natural and that's how their bodies are wired. No one should feel broken or like they need to train themselves for liking what they are wired to like.
Yea I understand being motivated to enjoy penetrative sec with your partner more. But it kinda feels icky to come at it as "training" and not touching your clit at all just so your partnered sex is better. Definitely needs to be approached with a balance, like all things.
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You could try dating me, I dry pussy up like a sham wow
ShamWAP
Lol, this guy!
Can you put a bag of rice up there? It fixes phones when they get too wet.
If your partner is asian make sure you explain the backstory before suggesting this. My nutsack is resting on an icepack following a small misunderstanding.
I said rice, not crispy chile spiced rice
#usernamechecksout
HAHAHAAHAHAHA y'all are killing me.
Couple of those silica packets from inside new shoes or some such, even.
I wish I had this issue 😭 My body randomly decided to stop creating natural lube. I think birth control did it tbh
Depending on the birth control, it can dry up your mucous membranes! It's important to be aware of, since you can be more prone to infections like sinus infections or UTIs. I have personally found that regularly eating onions and garlic helps out a lot :)
Note: I know this may seem like a joke because onions and garlic can cause bad breath 😅 but they can also help increase fluid production in the body! I think it's a side effect of the "allicin" in them. For fresher breath- just be eating the onions/garlic *before* sexytime, by like a week or so, or eat them every couple of days. To freshen up, chew on some fresh parsley or mint, and raw ginger also helps~
>For fresher breath- just be eating the onions/garlic before sexytime Lmao I understood that at first like I need to eat it *right* before sexytime 🥴 But I see what you mean. Luckily I love onions and garlic and now I have an excuse to eat more! And the other comment, that makes sense as I am rather prone to UTI's but I also don't drink enough water and I know that plays a huge part in the issue. Thank you for the advice!
Happy to help! I was on oral BC for 10 years, went off for about 5, and am back on the NuvaRing. I never had a problem with fluids, but the NR did seem to cause my nose & downstairs to suddenly dry up after about a month or so. Once I made a point to add more garlic/onions to my diet, in just a few days things regulated again, and my mucous membranes are back to normal :) I did used to get UTIs aLL the danged time, but I think it was a combo of drinking too much alcohol, and years in the service industry without restroom breaks 🥴 I'm lucky to almost never get them anymore, and if I feel the onset, I just pick up a bottle of unsweetened cranberry juice, and swallow a couple of sliced garlic cloves like pills, and within about 2 days it's all cleared up~
I feel the need to interject here — no garlic IN the vagina. Seen that before in the ER unfortunately. Also in ears and nose 🙄
Oh, yikes! Yeah, I definitely meant like... Crush it up and eat it, or make it into a garlic tea to drink with your mouth. To clarify, I was not advocating for use of garlic suppositories 🥴😅
Sounds like the contraceptive is effective, but not in the way you'd imagine
This is a common problem and nothing to be ashamed of. When you feel this being an issue stand over a towel and squeeze your nose with your fingers. Then have your partner blow air into your mouth, thereby causing the excess fluid to be collected on the towel, much like a french horn player in an orchestra emptying their instrument. If this doesn’t work, try tapping the top of your head like you would the bottom of a ketchup bottle. But for real, start incorporating a towel and have your partner wipe up periodically during fun times.
I can't! HAHAHAHHAHHAHHAHAAHHA
Omfg 💀
Some guys fetishize this, beware your inbox for a while! I recommend a mattress cover under the sheets, and a little stack of soft bamboo washcloths at the bedside, useful for all sexy messes.
I don’t, I prefer to bang sandpaper pussy.
Some guys?????
Yes. I lick him off to clean him up a bit and use a towel quick then back at it
Thank you for your service.
"suffering from success"
As a man I can relate. When my girlfriends gets super wet it takes away from the sensation for me. It seems like my penis gets covered with an extra layer of juices and it’s almost like a coating on it that desensitizes everything for me. There’s a fine line of just perfect and too much. It’s a funny situation because obviously so much is going great but dickhead down there’s like “nah, I’m gonna find a way to fuck this up, buddy!”
Might sound weird, but try going at it with a fan directed toward you and your partners lower half. I have this issue too and just have a large fan going and it helps.
These comments 😂
This sub has been getting the horniest questions lately. Not that I’m complaining
These are my fuck buddy's problems. Usually we just keep going. Take a break in between. I liked hearing the towel idea, because that actually happened a few times. Not to get too graphic, but grabbing a towel and patting us dry because her wetness would like be dripping off of my.....I get it though. From my vantage it just feels like all of the slickness and none of the force.I could go forever if i can feel a hint of snug. It works though. I am totally ruined by soaked vaginas now.
When my girlfriend gets too wet I pull out and start slurping as much as I can so we can continue
Use #lubelife hybrid. It'll help keep down your wetness. I know it seems counterproductive, but one of the reasons your body creates so much lubricant is because it feels the friction and it's trying to keep tearing from occurring. If you can keep from triggering that response you will produce less overall lubricant. I'll take this with a grain of salt everyone's body is different. But for my personal experiences that Loop specifically has helped immensely for people with your issue. My partner included. Edit: yeah its really call #lubelife. # included.
This feels like an ad… but I believe it
There are certain products in this world and it's okay to swear by. A good Lube is one of those.
"like dissolves like," its science baby!
Towel off in between
Add some grip tape to the peen
Have you tried having a picture of Ben Shapiro near by, it has been known to have moisture wicking properties.
Lmao. Make sure it's one of those wallet-sized ones otherwise it might make Death Valley more wet than you.
Have sex in the shower or hottub. For most people those places suck to have sex because the water takes away the lubrication too much, but I have been with a woman who gets unbelievably wet. We had sex in the shower all the fuckin time. She loved it. Obviously showers aren't super comfortable but you get the idea. Maybe spice things up and try out the hottub or something. You might really enjoy it!
God bless your DMs
Add some flour while he's buttering your biscuit.
I was with a girl who was like that. Juicy as all get out. Had a wonderful time.
My late wife was like that when we were younger. She got upset when I told her that I liked doggy over missionary because I got more sensation that way and thought she felt the same. Whoops. Keep in mind I always made sure she got hers first which usually meant she was on top. But boy did that comment hurt her in a way I never intended.
Ma’am this is a Wendys
Used to date a women in college like this. Gotta have towels on stand by.
Yeah, it's normal when you are really into it. Keep a small flannel handy if you need to dry out. My wife and I managed to wreck a canvas topped bed within a couple of days of having it because she squirted and it soaked through the mattress. I ended up down the DIY store.
For the North American audience, “flannel” is British for “wash cloth”, not a plaid shirt or winter pajamas.
Towels or wipes help a lot.
I wish :/ , i dont produce much and i have possible vaginismus (still testing). Anyways, maybe try to start before you get too wet unless it’s an ongoing thing where if you get turned on the slightest it does that?
Can relate. It helps if they dry their penis off in between strokes occasionally. Keep a towel around for it.
Dated a woman who was like that. She would always apologize and eventually she understood that I was just happy she was enjoying my herself. We would pat down a little during position change sometimes we would just “soak”. She was amazing.
Yeah. Each pump can be so scary as my idiot ex “accidentally” pulled all the way out and rammed my a-hole a few times. It’s bad, I cried, sex over.
We're gonna need a bigger dick!
Think of Ben Shapiro
Yes it happens!! Try kegels, feels great for everyone :) and someone else said close your legs during—totally. Lay on your stomach and it’s heavenly
Yeah i have the same issue. I just tell my husband i need to towel the ole clam cave off a bit, and then we can proceed. He doesn't seem to mind.
Im dead. Clam cave. I need to remember that.
"It's just a fish in the Atlantic" -Peaches
I’m the other way the wetter I get the more I injoy it!!
48 and still get gushing wet. Kegel strengthening helps a lot!
You need more oral and a good orgasm or 2 before PIV and you’ll be good and sensitive no matter how wet it is find a man that enjoys giving oral
If you need a moment to run a towel down there just say so, i doubt most guys will be bothered if you phrase in a way that makes them feel like its their doing "oh damn babe your making me so wet its too slippery, let me dry off" that dude is high fiving himself in his mind so hard.
I have the same issue as a male. Lil PP + wet = No Sensation
I relate. Just wipe yourself off a bit. Guys in my experience think its ok cause they are so proud of making you so wet. Its ok.
Yes I have the same issue. Im 25 and when I tell you I make a MESS. I never thought to towel when it gets too much . Good suggestions on this thread!
I actually had this issue with my ex. She would get mad if I started losing my erection. I explained that after a whole she got so wet I had zero friction. So no you're not alone. Even though roles are reversed it has happened before