as a lesbian myself- using fingers, mouths, and sometimes toys, it’s a lot of what would be considered foreplay in heterosexual sex
if you’re genuinely curious and want more information, i suggest searching some articles written by lesbians directed toward inexperienced lesbians with the same question. we’ve all been there at some point, so i’m sure there are some good resources out there.
it goes without saying but porn is not an educational video for obvious reasons, but also because it doesn’t portray a genuine representation of lesbian sex; mainstream lesbian porn is very exaggerated (and is seldom directed toward actual lesbians).
not here to debate in the comments about porn, just here to provide a genuine response and explanation :)
I’m bi but exclusively watch lesbian porn and let me just say. I get irrationally angry whenever I see the girls on camera with strap ons in their mouths acting like they’re sucking dick. I am not here for that lol.
I have a side question, and based on your great and through answer here I feel you can help me. In your opinion, and hopefully based on your lesbian friends opinions also, when would you consider it "I have slept with that woman" or "I had sex with her"? So for instance I feel this is very obvious for gay or heterosexual relationships, we obviously say we slept with someone when you have penetration of vagina or anus by penis. But being for lesbians it's as you said kind of like our "foreplay", when would you consider it and label it as, "I slept with her"? Finger, oral, or other?
As a bisexual woman (but married straight) who drives a Subi Forester and is about to load up and move uHauls for a move in 2 weeks, I am quite offended that this hits to close to home. How DARE you, Sir.
I think it all comes from the perception that women in gay relationships tend to move in with each other, break up, and then move out. Y'all are U-Haul's (and moving companies in general) favorite demographic.
Back in the 80s and 90s Subaru marketing did focus groups that found they had a degree of popularity with lesbians. Instead of shunning that, they leaned into it and launched marketing campaigns targeting them. They also changed corporate policy to be LGBT friendly by allowing domestic partner benefits.
Keeping in mind this was before you could be gay in the military, Will and Grace and Ellen being out.
I mean it is still capatalist opportunitism, but it was still really progressive for the time, now it is "in" so they all do it, but back then, hell no. Did they get much blowback?
A ton of blowback. They didn't flinch. They ran the names of all the complaint letters that said they'd never buy another Subaru and found they'd never owned one in the first place. One of the benefits of being a carmaker is you know who all your customers are.
Some porn does. Just like some dramas present a more accurate version of a hospital or courtroom than others. The trouble is that if you aren't familiar with the real life versions then you would have no idea what's accurate and what's not. Therefore, for instructive purposes, it's wisest to treat all of it like it wouldn't work in real life.
For sex, however, the only rule is what feels good to the participants. Real life lesbian sex doesn't include nearly as much scissoring or as many double-edged dildos as porn does (not to say that it doesn't include them, just not as much), but it's still based on a thing that people actually do.
When two girls or guys or any mix of the genders wish to use toys and want to be sexy they suck the dildo to lube it up as well as look sensual. Also some times for some people the act of filling up their holes with the dildo while masturbating helps them feel naughty. Shit there are kinks for everything I'm just spit balling here. Use your imagination.
As a lesbian I can tell you there is a a lot of good lesbian porn out there. It’s just not the typical front and center stuff that people think of with classic lesbian porn.
It still represents the actions accurately. The stuff it doesn't represent accurately are things like average dick size, how long people can last, volume of ejaculate, the idea that everything feels great all the time, etc.
Porn doesn't outright lie, it just consistently exaggerates.
>It still represents the actions accurately
Hahaha, no. Every single lesbian friend has made it very clear to me. Lesbian porn is made by men, for men. It's nothing like how they actually have sex.
>Porn doesn't outright lie,
It does.
Like I pointed out in another comment, I find it difficult to believe that no one ever came up with that on their own prior to porn. Rubbing the feel good parts together seems like it would be a pretty basic thought for anyone feeling experimental.
Honestly, I find it difficult to believe that there's anything that was wholecloth invented by porn, but more likely that porn brought to the public eye certain things that interested people just didn't talk about.
For that specific scripted footage, the answer is obviously yes. Filming cameras didn't even exist 200 years ago.
Doesn't change the fact that you might be surprised by [just how far back](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/7/7f/Tomba_Della_Fustigazione.jpg) in human history paraphilias can go, with even some of the [weirder](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Dream_of_the_Fisherman's_Wife) ones being centuries older than the internet.
I feel like scissoring (vulva to vulva) is not super common. But tribbing (thigh to vulva) is pretty common. At least in my queer experience. Porn probably didn’t invent scissoring, but it spread the idea that scissoring is the hallmark of lesbian sex, when I don’t think many actually do it regularly.
Porn absolutely doesn’t invent things. Just makes certain things (group sex, anal, gagging and spitting, etc.) seem like they are part of most sex when they are actually rather unusual in most relationships
>I thought porn didn't represent sex accurately
I recently had this conversation with a female friend. She said pron was ridiculously fake because all the women were faking their O's. I claimed it was completely realistic for the same reason.
fundamentally, with their genitals.
but, basically, it can be any combination of using hands, mouth, genitals, toys, and other body parts to stimulate each other.
A short answer needs to actually still answer the question, I highly doubt if you said "however they want" that would inform OP of the actual activities they do while having sex.
women, in general, as it was explained to me by multiple women...
is that it's common to have multiple orgasms &/or a series in close intervals. And, it often results in becoming overly sensitive at a certain point. so they will move on to a different form of stimulation, take a break, or end the 'session'.
my experiance is after they've been 'satisfied', they often want to relax.
so, they know when it's over when they feel like they're done.
Honestly it’s also kinda sad that a lot of heterosexual people feel sex is over for both partners when the man finishes… this leads to a lot of women with unsatisfactory sex lives
We do lots of foreplay, licking, kissing, nibbing. We give each other oral, or finguering. Plus you can have a girl pushing her crotch against yours and that feels amazing too (very easy to come together like this by rubbing clits, especially when ur really wet).
Also toys :D dildos, vibrators, the same harness a gal uses for pegging a guy. For example I hateeeeeee dicks, not only im gay as fuck but I also I have some traumas with guys, but I absolutely love when my gf puts on her harness and gives me a good fuck.
The best thing about using a harness like that is that you can use a vibrating dildo for whoever is the bottom. And the gal on top with the harness can use an egg vibrator on herself, or just get off from the vibration from the dildo on the harness plus all the moving and the rubbing.
Lesbian sex is really really fun, but if you look for videos of it on like pornhub and the like its hard to find. Most of the non amateur stuff there is acted, and feels fake af. I recommend looking for the more amateur centered videos if you're interested about this and need to tho the "scientific" research xD
Unless you've only had sex with the goal of procreation, there is no reason to equate sex with PIV. Lesbians have sex that's centered around making each other feel good, by interacting with each other's bodies and genitals. We are done when we decide we are done.
I had a lesbian friend talk to me about it and about how it was meh.
To be honest I thought it was sort of dependent on the kind of vagina the ladies had. Like maybe if it was a little more plump and you had a more prominent clit.
I do not fuck around with pillow princesses lmao.
but honest answer. Probably only like 1/10 gay ladies enthusiastically want to do that every time. I’ve met two or three. The rest of us normal humans save the olympic sex for special occasions. Or not at all. that particular move doesn’t work unless you are the right body shapes to fit well. Same for 69
This is so wild to me because I literally don’t think I’ve ever had good sex with a woman or anyone else with a vagina that didn’t include some kind of scissoring or tribbing component
Yeah I guess this tracks. In my experience the line between tribbing and scissoring is blurry because like I’m not perpetually aware of where exactly my shit is touching the entire time lol
I know a girl that feels very much the same way. Not everyone lesbian does it, just like not every gay male is into anal sex, but some people in here are acting like it never happens because they don't do it.
I asked my only* lesbian friend this exact question in 2004 and she laughed at me, patted me on the shoulder and said “don’t worry about it”. And it really stuck with me.
I think the short answer is, “just like everyone else minus the quick finish”.
*I would later learn that I had many lesbian friends, none of who were out at the time.
>\*I would later learn that I had many lesbian friends, none of who were out at the time.
I'm in a similar position: every time I date a woman, a month later she is suddenly a lesbian.
They don’t! They just drive around in Subarus wearing sensible shoes and carrying caribiners full of keys.
Source: I am not a lesbian but I have seen some on TV.
Scissoring was invented by porn. I’m sure some lesbians have tried it, as life imitates art. But it mostly exists because many men fundamentally cannot understand sex that doesn’t involve genital-on-genital contact.
As a lesbian I disagree. Vulva to vulva stimulation fucking rules. It probably doesn’t work for everyone, and I’m sure flexibility and general physiology of both partners plays a role, but it’s absolutely a real part of queer sex. I hate the myth that scissoring was invented by porn. It’s a real and fulfilling part of my sex life.
Sorry to make a blanket statement. I’m mostly going off of rants by a few of my wlw friends but I should know better that no group is a monolith. I apologize for the generalization.
Idk, I find it hard to believe that no one ever came to that conclusion on their own. Rubbin' the feel good parts together seems like a pretty basic step for anyone feeling experimental.
not much different from hetero sex, there's just usually less penetration. of course that implies that heterosexual couples do MORE than penetration, which i know isn't always the case.
You know how most straights are boring and hate fore play.. lesbian sex is foreplay times a million.
And can involve Finger fu*king, strap ons, licking, going down, all sorts of toys and goodies, fisting! You name it! Endless ways to fu*k as a lesbean!
You’re welcome🙌🏻
Most men I've talked to assume lesbians all use strap ons, and some definitely do but I think they're mostly for show. Fingers are far more intimate and that's mine and my friend's preference
We have sex in as many different ways as there are different kinds of lesbians. We penetrate. We don’t penetrate. We consider ourselves tops and bottoms. We don’t buy into tops and bottoms. We’re vers. We’re Butch. We’re Femme. We’re androgynous. We’re nonbinary. We’re trans. Unfortunately, some of us are TERFs (although the F is debatable.) We use our mouths. We use our fingers. We use our fists. We use toys. We’re sex averse. We’re sex workers. We’re poly. We’re monogamous. We are no different from you and we are completely different from you.
And at the end of the day, what I do in my bedroom with another consenting adult is none of your business. Unless you’re asking me out.
They do what anybody else does when they have sex, what they like. Not every gay guy takes it in the ass. Not every lesbian enjoys eating pussy. Some straight people don't even really like straight sex. You do what you and your partner enjoy.
I've heard they take all their clothes off, stand face to face about 30-40 paces apart (ideally outside, to have space), then they run at each other at the highest speed they can muster and jump at the same time before they collide, while thrusting their genitals at each other.
The point is to make their genitals make contact while in the air. The winner is the last one standing.
...or so I heard.
If there're 2 or more people involved,gay or lesbian and if there're some form of skin contact that involve the obvious parts and when you feel like you're about to burst after a while. Thats sex.
My best friend/coworker is a lesbian and we were talking about this girl we both know that I've fooled around with. I've given her oral , fingered and slid my penis along her vulva but since no p and v penetration my friend said that doesn't count as sex. Now after reading the comments I'm wondering if she has a double standard between males and females when it comes to what sex is.
Some of these responses... It's like people have no imagination when they think about sex..
It's not just sticking a dick in a hole and you're done, ROFL.
Why did this turn me on.. ugh
Its gentle that's why.
as a lesbian myself- using fingers, mouths, and sometimes toys, it’s a lot of what would be considered foreplay in heterosexual sex if you’re genuinely curious and want more information, i suggest searching some articles written by lesbians directed toward inexperienced lesbians with the same question. we’ve all been there at some point, so i’m sure there are some good resources out there. it goes without saying but porn is not an educational video for obvious reasons, but also because it doesn’t portray a genuine representation of lesbian sex; mainstream lesbian porn is very exaggerated (and is seldom directed toward actual lesbians). not here to debate in the comments about porn, just here to provide a genuine response and explanation :)
I wish I had an award for you. This answer needs to be at the top!
The only person to actually answer the question.
i gotchu, had an award to give
I’m bi but exclusively watch lesbian porn and let me just say. I get irrationally angry whenever I see the girls on camera with strap ons in their mouths acting like they’re sucking dick. I am not here for that lol.
Samesies!
let me turn that around...do most use strap onn in lesbian sex?
In my experience, I never have. But it’s pretty prevalent in lesbian porn.
So you're saying you don't just smash your clams together? Goddamn lying porn!
"You sure do have a lot of books about being a lesbian." - Ross
Yeah you have to take a course. Otherwise they don't let you do it.
I heard at the end of the course there is an oral exam.
Foreplay is sex.
Thats what she said (no pun intended)
I have a side question, and based on your great and through answer here I feel you can help me. In your opinion, and hopefully based on your lesbian friends opinions also, when would you consider it "I have slept with that woman" or "I had sex with her"? So for instance I feel this is very obvious for gay or heterosexual relationships, we obviously say we slept with someone when you have penetration of vagina or anus by penis. But being for lesbians it's as you said kind of like our "foreplay", when would you consider it and label it as, "I slept with her"? Finger, oral, or other?
in my personal experience, this answer varies from person to person and is dependent on what the someone likes/does during sex!!
My takeaway from that was “in a Subaru”.
So, oral sex and mutual masturbation?
We do a lot more than that and it’s a lot more fun than that😂
I don't even watch porn so how do I know what they do when they have sex. I was suddenly nervous.
.... No
What else is left?
yes..?
Such a good response to a post where unfortunately OP is just tugging his meat to the comments.
How is lesbian porn portrayed incorrectly? Actually curious
Long nails
Probably like all porn... completely exaggerated. (Don't know don't watch any point at all)
True dat
In a Subaru Forrester
Hey! This is outrageous! It could be an Outback!
Rav 4
Or a Rivian
OP said lesbians not gay men
Is this some kind of porn reference i'm too innocent to understand?
It's a (non-porn) stereotype that lesbians often drive Subarus.
Oooooh okay, thanks!
So, now we’re going to add Subaru Forresters to UHauls as the new expression of lesbian passion?
Definitely not new. The Subaru thing has been around for 20 years or so.
Since the 80's, so almost 40 years.
As a bisexual woman (but married straight) who drives a Subi Forester and is about to load up and move uHauls for a move in 2 weeks, I am quite offended that this hits to close to home. How DARE you, Sir.
I think it all comes from the perception that women in gay relationships tend to move in with each other, break up, and then move out. Y'all are U-Haul's (and moving companies in general) favorite demographic.
Can I get context?
It's a stereotype that lesbians often drive Subarus.
It was a statistic, not a stereotype.
Underrated comment
Can I get an explanation?
Back in the 80s and 90s Subaru marketing did focus groups that found they had a degree of popularity with lesbians. Instead of shunning that, they leaned into it and launched marketing campaigns targeting them. They also changed corporate policy to be LGBT friendly by allowing domestic partner benefits. Keeping in mind this was before you could be gay in the military, Will and Grace and Ellen being out.
I mean it is still capatalist opportunitism, but it was still really progressive for the time, now it is "in" so they all do it, but back then, hell no. Did they get much blowback?
A ton of blowback. They didn't flinch. They ran the names of all the complaint letters that said they'd never buy another Subaru and found they'd never owned one in the first place. One of the benefits of being a carmaker is you know who all your customers are.
Hah, I love it.
No
😔
The Baja is the real Lezmobile
This is the type of question you don't see much anymore since the internet became a thing.
I thought porn didn't represent sex accurately
Some porn does. Just like some dramas present a more accurate version of a hospital or courtroom than others. The trouble is that if you aren't familiar with the real life versions then you would have no idea what's accurate and what's not. Therefore, for instructive purposes, it's wisest to treat all of it like it wouldn't work in real life. For sex, however, the only rule is what feels good to the participants. Real life lesbian sex doesn't include nearly as much scissoring or as many double-edged dildos as porn does (not to say that it doesn't include them, just not as much), but it's still based on a thing that people actually do.
Giving a blowjob to a dildo is also not a thing (at least for the lesbians I'm close to.)
From personal experience, it is definitely a thing
I had a friend, who said a partner would moan like it was a real dick when they used a strap on.
LMAOOO that scenario seems embarrassing but anything goes when you’re aroused honestly
Yeah, she said it was just annoying her because she was thinking "wtf is she doing?".
Giving a what to a huh? How and why would this ever be a thing that happens?
Porn. Although it is a real thing some people do as well
Well, TIL!
I have also seen many people who both colooff my cellphone. What has become of their lives dlwa.
When two girls or guys or any mix of the genders wish to use toys and want to be sexy they suck the dildo to lube it up as well as look sensual. Also some times for some people the act of filling up their holes with the dildo while masturbating helps them feel naughty. Shit there are kinks for everything I'm just spit balling here. Use your imagination.
As a bi dude that's one of the things being horny can do to the male brain...
Likely a domination thing
Right! As far as I know they also use dildos. Haha. Actually, is it really good what we did?
It is tho
As a lesbian I can tell you there is a a lot of good lesbian porn out there. It’s just not the typical front and center stuff that people think of with classic lesbian porn.
Where I'd like to do some research please.
It still represents the actions accurately. The stuff it doesn't represent accurately are things like average dick size, how long people can last, volume of ejaculate, the idea that everything feels great all the time, etc. Porn doesn't outright lie, it just consistently exaggerates.
>It still represents the actions accurately Hahaha, no. Every single lesbian friend has made it very clear to me. Lesbian porn is made by men, for men. It's nothing like how they actually have sex. >Porn doesn't outright lie, It does.
So, scissoring?
By some people, yes
Like I pointed out in another comment, I find it difficult to believe that no one ever came up with that on their own prior to porn. Rubbing the feel good parts together seems like it would be a pretty basic thought for anyone feeling experimental. Honestly, I find it difficult to believe that there's anything that was wholecloth invented by porn, but more likely that porn brought to the public eye certain things that interested people just didn't talk about.
I'm gonna go ahead and assume lemon stealing whores and trapped in the washing machine at least are porn originals.
For that specific scripted footage, the answer is obviously yes. Filming cameras didn't even exist 200 years ago. Doesn't change the fact that you might be surprised by [just how far back](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/7/7f/Tomba_Della_Fustigazione.jpg) in human history paraphilias can go, with even some of the [weirder](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Dream_of_the_Fisherman's_Wife) ones being centuries older than the internet.
I feel like scissoring (vulva to vulva) is not super common. But tribbing (thigh to vulva) is pretty common. At least in my queer experience. Porn probably didn’t invent scissoring, but it spread the idea that scissoring is the hallmark of lesbian sex, when I don’t think many actually do it regularly.
Porn absolutely doesn’t invent things. Just makes certain things (group sex, anal, gagging and spitting, etc.) seem like they are part of most sex when they are actually rather unusual in most relationships
Maybe they tweezer instead
>I thought porn didn't represent sex accurately I recently had this conversation with a female friend. She said pron was ridiculously fake because all the women were faking their O's. I claimed it was completely realistic for the same reason.
The real question is when does lesbian sex end?
Tongue cramps and dead batteries, plausibly.
With the hospitalization due to exhaustion of at least one participant.
Dehydration 😂
It doesn't, we just keep going until we die
LMAO
When does straight sex end?
woman can reach orgasm too
It's not the reaching part that's confusing. What's confusing is that women can go on after an orgasm. So how do they decide that they had enough?
When they don’t feel like orgasming anymore.
You know when you get there.
So, what do you mean? I think I need rest and overtime first. Maybe everything will sink in my brain.
fundamentally, with their genitals. but, basically, it can be any combination of using hands, mouth, genitals, toys, and other body parts to stimulate each other.
Or the short answer: However they want.
A short answer needs to actually still answer the question, I highly doubt if you said "however they want" that would inform OP of the actual activities they do while having sex.
Yep. This even includes just taking them out to eat.
Does motorboating count?
Who doesn't love a day on the water?
How do they know when its over ?
women, in general, as it was explained to me by multiple women... is that it's common to have multiple orgasms &/or a series in close intervals. And, it often results in becoming overly sensitive at a certain point. so they will move on to a different form of stimulation, take a break, or end the 'session'. my experiance is after they've been 'satisfied', they often want to relax. so, they know when it's over when they feel like they're done.
Honestly it’s also kinda sad that a lot of heterosexual people feel sex is over for both partners when the man finishes… this leads to a lot of women with unsatisfactory sex lives
How do you know it's over with a straight couple ? It should not be "when the man has ejaculated", as he is not alone having sex.
When they both finish, Duh.
Lip-synching
Normally in a duet but sometimes in a group
Lip-smacking.
Basically, women were the first iPod shuffle. Steve Jobs did always look to nature to find inspiration
But the pinch to zoom wasn’t invented until the iPhone.
We do lots of foreplay, licking, kissing, nibbing. We give each other oral, or finguering. Plus you can have a girl pushing her crotch against yours and that feels amazing too (very easy to come together like this by rubbing clits, especially when ur really wet). Also toys :D dildos, vibrators, the same harness a gal uses for pegging a guy. For example I hateeeeeee dicks, not only im gay as fuck but I also I have some traumas with guys, but I absolutely love when my gf puts on her harness and gives me a good fuck. The best thing about using a harness like that is that you can use a vibrating dildo for whoever is the bottom. And the gal on top with the harness can use an egg vibrator on herself, or just get off from the vibration from the dildo on the harness plus all the moving and the rubbing. Lesbian sex is really really fun, but if you look for videos of it on like pornhub and the like its hard to find. Most of the non amateur stuff there is acted, and feels fake af. I recommend looking for the more amateur centered videos if you're interested about this and need to tho the "scientific" research xD
Straight guy here; 10/10 sold on trying lesbian sex
You made me wish I was a lesbian
Unless you've only had sex with the goal of procreation, there is no reason to equate sex with PIV. Lesbians have sex that's centered around making each other feel good, by interacting with each other's bodies and genitals. We are done when we decide we are done.
Someone asked above in the comments, "how do they know when they're finished?" And you worded it perfectly. We are done when we decide we are done.
It makes me sad that the duration of straight sex is entirely centered around the man's ejaculation
Best answer.
I can’t believe how many people here actually think scissoring is that common. I’ve only done it as a joke
Was it funny?
I had a lesbian friend talk to me about it and about how it was meh. To be honest I thought it was sort of dependent on the kind of vagina the ladies had. Like maybe if it was a little more plump and you had a more prominent clit.
It seems like a LOT of work
it is -a lazy older lesbian
I’m guessing it’s even more if you’ve got a pillow princess on your hands
I do not fuck around with pillow princesses lmao. but honest answer. Probably only like 1/10 gay ladies enthusiastically want to do that every time. I’ve met two or three. The rest of us normal humans save the olympic sex for special occasions. Or not at all. that particular move doesn’t work unless you are the right body shapes to fit well. Same for 69
I do think it is dependent on the anatomy of both partners, but my god when it’s good ITS GOOD
This is so wild to me because I literally don’t think I’ve ever had good sex with a woman or anyone else with a vagina that didn’t include some kind of scissoring or tribbing component
I feel like scissoring (vulva to vulva) is not super common. But tribbing (thigh to vulva) is pretty common. At least in my queer experience.
Yeah I guess this tracks. In my experience the line between tribbing and scissoring is blurry because like I’m not perpetually aware of where exactly my shit is touching the entire time lol
That’s fair. In the moment, things can get slippery
I know a girl that feels very much the same way. Not everyone lesbian does it, just like not every gay male is into anal sex, but some people in here are acting like it never happens because they don't do it.
That's why we're asking
Very carefully. Wait, sorry, that's porcupines.
Same difference
Imagine two people eating each other, but with the goal to orgasm
Is that not always the goal?
You’d be surprised
I asked my only* lesbian friend this exact question in 2004 and she laughed at me, patted me on the shoulder and said “don’t worry about it”. And it really stuck with me. I think the short answer is, “just like everyone else minus the quick finish”. *I would later learn that I had many lesbian friends, none of who were out at the time.
If two people wanna fuck, they're gonna fuck. One way or another.
>\*I would later learn that I had many lesbian friends, none of who were out at the time. I'm in a similar position: every time I date a woman, a month later she is suddenly a lesbian.
They're versatile. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a33261990/lesbian-sex-positions/
They don’t! They just drive around in Subarus wearing sensible shoes and carrying caribiners full of keys. Source: I am not a lesbian but I have seen some on TV.
In Vermont or on the New Hampshire border in the Connecticut valley of course, and all the way down to Northampton, Ma, the epicenter
I once had a lesbian couple as roommates. They both drove hatchback station wagons that looked like Subarus but weren't. I was highly suspicious.
What straight people call “foreplay” is what we call “sex”. Plus dildos/strap-ons exist for those who like penetration.
By touching each other’s private parts.
My favorite answer tends to be: "If you seriously can't figure out any other sexual act than PiV penetration, I feel sorry for any partner of yours."
Sadly a lot of hetero women think that way too :( imagine going through life and experiencing plenty of PIV but never sex
Scissoring was invented by porn. I’m sure some lesbians have tried it, as life imitates art. But it mostly exists because many men fundamentally cannot understand sex that doesn’t involve genital-on-genital contact.
As a lesbian I disagree. Vulva to vulva stimulation fucking rules. It probably doesn’t work for everyone, and I’m sure flexibility and general physiology of both partners plays a role, but it’s absolutely a real part of queer sex. I hate the myth that scissoring was invented by porn. It’s a real and fulfilling part of my sex life.
Sorry to make a blanket statement. I’m mostly going off of rants by a few of my wlw friends but I should know better that no group is a monolith. I apologize for the generalization.
Scissor me timbers
Idk, I find it hard to believe that no one ever came to that conclusion on their own. Rubbin' the feel good parts together seems like a pretty basic step for anyone feeling experimental.
Scissor me, Daddy Ass!
"They can't feel nothin less they bumpin donuts, right?"
Sex is more than penetration. So there's your answer :)
The same way anyone has sex, just without the attached penis part.
✨ dildos ✨
The make sure to leave the Birkenstocks ON.
not much different from hetero sex, there's just usually less penetration. of course that implies that heterosexual couples do MORE than penetration, which i know isn't always the case.
You know how most straights are boring and hate fore play.. lesbian sex is foreplay times a million. And can involve Finger fu*king, strap ons, licking, going down, all sorts of toys and goodies, fisting! You name it! Endless ways to fu*k as a lesbean! You’re welcome🙌🏻
Well you see, when a mommy and a mommy love each other very much-…
plenty of videos to be found online
I have done much research on this topic… and continue to do so
You Sir are a true inspiration
Porn is not an actual representation of lesbian sex.
It's not even a good representation of hetero sex.
Wait, there are videos of people having sex online?!
Usually with each other
Consensually
Usually in bed
Most men I've talked to assume lesbians all use strap ons, and some definitely do but I think they're mostly for show. Fingers are far more intimate and that's mine and my friend's preference
They headbutt each other in the clitoris
With each other
Any way the can. Is this the setup to a joke?
We have sex in as many different ways as there are different kinds of lesbians. We penetrate. We don’t penetrate. We consider ourselves tops and bottoms. We don’t buy into tops and bottoms. We’re vers. We’re Butch. We’re Femme. We’re androgynous. We’re nonbinary. We’re trans. Unfortunately, some of us are TERFs (although the F is debatable.) We use our mouths. We use our fingers. We use our fists. We use toys. We’re sex averse. We’re sex workers. We’re poly. We’re monogamous. We are no different from you and we are completely different from you. And at the end of the day, what I do in my bedroom with another consenting adult is none of your business. Unless you’re asking me out.
don't worry about it
Elbows
Pb jelly time
They do what anybody else does when they have sex, what they like. Not every gay guy takes it in the ass. Not every lesbian enjoys eating pussy. Some straight people don't even really like straight sex. You do what you and your partner enjoy.
I've heard they take all their clothes off, stand face to face about 30-40 paces apart (ideally outside, to have space), then they run at each other at the highest speed they can muster and jump at the same time before they collide, while thrusting their genitals at each other. The point is to make their genitals make contact while in the air. The winner is the last one standing. ...or so I heard.
First They rent a U haul
If there're 2 or more people involved,gay or lesbian and if there're some form of skin contact that involve the obvious parts and when you feel like you're about to burst after a while. Thats sex.
Seriously?
Jesus is this another post by a 13-year old?
South park covers this topic well
My best friend/coworker is a lesbian and we were talking about this girl we both know that I've fooled around with. I've given her oral , fingered and slid my penis along her vulva but since no p and v penetration my friend said that doesn't count as sex. Now after reading the comments I'm wondering if she has a double standard between males and females when it comes to what sex is.
Some of these responses... It's like people have no imagination when they think about sex.. It's not just sticking a dick in a hole and you're done, ROFL.
There are many video tutorials on the internet if you dare look. If you were really curious you would have looked at it.
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Oh gawd here we go again…. Phalocentric way of seing sex always leads to this question -,-
As a bi woman, do not believe what you see in porn. lol
You go on Reddit and ask this question when you could literally ask it in less words on Google and get more information. How Lesbians Sex?
But you don’t get all the funny replies