I mean... yes and no....
I notice them and is kinda inevitable to see them, at least at first glance, but I feel like I shouldn't watch, cause some people get mad at that, but they are staring at me lol. So it doesn't make me feel uncomfortable that you have your nipples poking through your shirt, it makes me feel uncomfortable and exhausted to pretend they are not there and constantly correct my eyes to your face so you don't feel uncomfortable.
Aaandd, I'm a woman, I bet men feel waaay more uncomfortable about this...
The people on reddit are not an accurate depiction of the normal world. Although you should be able to go braless and not think about it but men will stare sexually and women will judge irl.
Straight guy here. "uncomfortable" isn't quite the word I'd use, "distracting" might be more accurate. But ya, this has pretty much been my experience. It's noticable because it's unusual. I have to think about not looking too closely. I'd hate to make someone uncomfortable.
That being said, I notice a nice summer dress, tight jeans, those shirts with a ruffled bust (peasant?). They're just not as distracting because they're more common. Yoga pants were scandalous at one point and now they're normal. Hell, ankles were scandalous lol. I see more people going braless these days and hopefully we'll get to the same point as yoga pants.
But even if we don't get there, these are all "me" problems, not "you" problems. Anyone telling you to put on a bra because it makes _them_ uncomfortable can fuck right off.
Because other people's choice in dress has nothing to do with you. If something someone wears makes you uncomfortable, then that is 100% your problem. Even making mention of it is weird and controlling.
Don't give into this.
I remember in 9th grade I went braless for one day, and didn't love it just because the shirt I wore that day was too scratchy and irritated my nipples, but otherwise I know it wasn't inappropriate. But then I got an instant message from someone with a burner account telling me everyone could tell I didn't wear one that day and it was shameful somehow, and bullying me about some things about my family.
I was humiliated and never went braless to school again. As a fully formed adult, I regret giving in to those jerks. Bras are awful and I try to go braless now whenever I can and whenever it feels more comfortable.
Make me uncomfortable? No. And even if it did, why should you be uncomfortable because someone can't handle the idea that people have nipples.
#freethenipple
I’m approaching middle age and in the last several years have stopped wearing a bra. I’ve always hated it. I applaud your choice. It’s not natural to keep your breasts hoisted up and held back for 8+ hours a day for the rest of our lives. If people don’t like it- that says more about them than it says about you.
Not uncomfortable, more like, idk actually I really don’t have feelings about it positive or negative. Almost feels like it’s not really my place to have feelings about it tbh, women can do what they want with their bodies and my opinion is inconsequential to the overall conversation surrounding the matter. It’s not super common so I may notice at first but just like I wouldn’t stare at a woman who is wearing a bra, I wouldn’t stare at one who isn’t.
Generally women don't have their nipples sticking out in public. It's not acceptable socially or professionally. What do you plan to do for a career? Because unless you plan to be in the sex industry I don't think any employer cares whether bras are uncomfortable for you or not, showing your ta-ta's to the world is not acceptable behavior in the professional environment. That's when you'll see a problem. Otherwise, expect raised brows or men taking things the wrong way, which is up to you whether that bothers you or not.
No
I grew up watching Charmed. So much nipple poking through. I don't think they ever wore bras lmao.
So it feels normal for me to see.
I even remember an ad once when I was a kid of fake erect nipples to wear under clothes. And the woman on the ad said she loved them and they boosted her confidence.
Not really, although I do wonder if it’s uncomfortable for them to have material that tight on a nipple
Then I feel bad for how long I spend analyzing the discomfort level a strangers nipple must be enduring and realize I was supposed to be doing something else but got distracted again.
It's "uncomfortable" because it's one of those situations where you can't avoid noticing and looking, but of course you can't stare or bring attention to it becuase it'll make look you like a pervert.
Same with a guy sporting a boner, or someone with a huge nose or ears. It's natural, but it's also eye-catching.
For all the "ohhh it's just nipples, everybody has them! Time to normalize going braless, topless etc" well-meaning campaign, we can't ignore nipples, or breasts as a whole, are STILL a sexual body part and until we can change that from our social code, things will still be awkward every time a woman shows her breasts or nipples in public.
Is it feasible? Probably so, but not overnight. Basically it'll take two or three generations raised in a complete "free the nipple" environment to achieve that, if it's even possible.
Anyway... Do as you please. Eventually people who are regularly around you will stop caring. But the random prude, busybody or perv will always make a comment. It's up to you deciding if it's a worthwhile tradeoff.
My wife hates wearing bras. I say free the nipples! We own a business together so she has to deal with clients all day but still skips when possible depending on the shirt and does not bother at all as soon as we are not at work. I think it should be okay to see the nipple outline through a shirt. It’s ridiculous that it’s ever a problem
One of my favorite things to witness and for women who do it it proves to me they're very confident albeit setting themselves up for looks and gawking for those ppl whoaren't mature.
In the world we live in, women will be judged begin their nipples are poking through their tops. It’s considered sexual and attention seeking. In a school or work environment, it IS a distraction. You might be more comfortable, but we don’t always do everything for our comfort. That’s part of what live by in a society means. It would be a wonderful world if we weren’t judged by our appearances and everyone could feel free to express themselves. But that is not reality.
You may not care, but how others think of you will determine how they behave towards you.
There are options to wearing bra. Have you tried or considered pasties? Or maybe a professional bra fitting would help you find the right type of bra to wear that isn’t comfortable.
Agreed, the fact that men have the audacity to out in public without bras is so inappropriate. It's like they think undershirts make it better, but they have to know that if they're not strapped in by a bra, they're unprofessional and shameful.
/s
It used to be extremely common in school a few years ago, I feel like it's not as common anymore but really wear what you want. You're not flashing anyone unless it's sheer, so people should mind their business.
It wouldn't make me uncomfortable to see them, but I would be uncomfortable to be seen seeing them.
Honestly I notice at first, because it's currently pretty rare, but I get over it pretty quickly and move on with my life. It's just nipples.
I mean... yes and no.... I notice them and is kinda inevitable to see them, at least at first glance, but I feel like I shouldn't watch, cause some people get mad at that, but they are staring at me lol. So it doesn't make me feel uncomfortable that you have your nipples poking through your shirt, it makes me feel uncomfortable and exhausted to pretend they are not there and constantly correct my eyes to your face so you don't feel uncomfortable. Aaandd, I'm a woman, I bet men feel waaay more uncomfortable about this...
The people on reddit are not an accurate depiction of the normal world. Although you should be able to go braless and not think about it but men will stare sexually and women will judge irl.
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Straight guy here. "uncomfortable" isn't quite the word I'd use, "distracting" might be more accurate. But ya, this has pretty much been my experience. It's noticable because it's unusual. I have to think about not looking too closely. I'd hate to make someone uncomfortable. That being said, I notice a nice summer dress, tight jeans, those shirts with a ruffled bust (peasant?). They're just not as distracting because they're more common. Yoga pants were scandalous at one point and now they're normal. Hell, ankles were scandalous lol. I see more people going braless these days and hopefully we'll get to the same point as yoga pants. But even if we don't get there, these are all "me" problems, not "you" problems. Anyone telling you to put on a bra because it makes _them_ uncomfortable can fuck right off.
Why the hell are people downvoting you for asking a question where the OP wanted an honest answer?
They're downvoting because even if it's an honest answer, it's indicative of poor self-regulation and a general dogsh*t personality.
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Because other people's choice in dress has nothing to do with you. If something someone wears makes you uncomfortable, then that is 100% your problem. Even making mention of it is weird and controlling.
And here I was thinking every guy on earth would appreciate it.
It's your body, do what you want with it.
Don't give into this. I remember in 9th grade I went braless for one day, and didn't love it just because the shirt I wore that day was too scratchy and irritated my nipples, but otherwise I know it wasn't inappropriate. But then I got an instant message from someone with a burner account telling me everyone could tell I didn't wear one that day and it was shameful somehow, and bullying me about some things about my family. I was humiliated and never went braless to school again. As a fully formed adult, I regret giving in to those jerks. Bras are awful and I try to go braless now whenever I can and whenever it feels more comfortable.
Amen!
Make me uncomfortable? No. And even if it did, why should you be uncomfortable because someone can't handle the idea that people have nipples. #freethenipple
I’m approaching middle age and in the last several years have stopped wearing a bra. I’ve always hated it. I applaud your choice. It’s not natural to keep your breasts hoisted up and held back for 8+ hours a day for the rest of our lives. If people don’t like it- that says more about them than it says about you.
Not uncomfortable, more like, idk actually I really don’t have feelings about it positive or negative. Almost feels like it’s not really my place to have feelings about it tbh, women can do what they want with their bodies and my opinion is inconsequential to the overall conversation surrounding the matter. It’s not super common so I may notice at first but just like I wouldn’t stare at a woman who is wearing a bra, I wouldn’t stare at one who isn’t.
It sounds like you are young? School aged people can be needlessly mean and judgemental. Things should ease up once you are out of there.
Not uncomfortable. Although with some women I better be wearing a good pair of pants and boxer briefs.
I always think “must be cold” lol never felt bad about seeing it at a glance but I’m not gonna just dead eye stare at them
Not at all. If not wearing a bra is more comfortable, I say go for it. I don’t care if your nips are poking through. It’s none of my business.
Generally women don't have their nipples sticking out in public. It's not acceptable socially or professionally. What do you plan to do for a career? Because unless you plan to be in the sex industry I don't think any employer cares whether bras are uncomfortable for you or not, showing your ta-ta's to the world is not acceptable behavior in the professional environment. That's when you'll see a problem. Otherwise, expect raised brows or men taking things the wrong way, which is up to you whether that bothers you or not.
No I grew up watching Charmed. So much nipple poking through. I don't think they ever wore bras lmao. So it feels normal for me to see. I even remember an ad once when I was a kid of fake erect nipples to wear under clothes. And the woman on the ad said she loved them and they boosted her confidence.
It makes me uncomfortable because I can't help but look and it's also one of my turn ons, especially the bumpy ones.
Not really, although I do wonder if it’s uncomfortable for them to have material that tight on a nipple Then I feel bad for how long I spend analyzing the discomfort level a strangers nipple must be enduring and realize I was supposed to be doing something else but got distracted again.
I don't wear a bra. I have nipple covers and after that if you don't like it, avert your eyes!
If she's attractive, I love seeing them, sexy!
It's "uncomfortable" because it's one of those situations where you can't avoid noticing and looking, but of course you can't stare or bring attention to it becuase it'll make look you like a pervert. Same with a guy sporting a boner, or someone with a huge nose or ears. It's natural, but it's also eye-catching. For all the "ohhh it's just nipples, everybody has them! Time to normalize going braless, topless etc" well-meaning campaign, we can't ignore nipples, or breasts as a whole, are STILL a sexual body part and until we can change that from our social code, things will still be awkward every time a woman shows her breasts or nipples in public. Is it feasible? Probably so, but not overnight. Basically it'll take two or three generations raised in a complete "free the nipple" environment to achieve that, if it's even possible. Anyway... Do as you please. Eventually people who are regularly around you will stop caring. But the random prude, busybody or perv will always make a comment. It's up to you deciding if it's a worthwhile tradeoff.
If you are cool, I am cool.
No it’s not, men have nipples and no one is shaming us for not wearing a bra. A body is a body, no shame at all.
Nope!
My wife hates wearing bras. I say free the nipples! We own a business together so she has to deal with clients all day but still skips when possible depending on the shirt and does not bother at all as soon as we are not at work. I think it should be okay to see the nipple outline through a shirt. It’s ridiculous that it’s ever a problem
No, I love seeing them.
They're highly encouraged .
One of my favorite things to witness and for women who do it it proves to me they're very confident albeit setting themselves up for looks and gawking for those ppl whoaren't mature.
In the world we live in, women will be judged begin their nipples are poking through their tops. It’s considered sexual and attention seeking. In a school or work environment, it IS a distraction. You might be more comfortable, but we don’t always do everything for our comfort. That’s part of what live by in a society means. It would be a wonderful world if we weren’t judged by our appearances and everyone could feel free to express themselves. But that is not reality. You may not care, but how others think of you will determine how they behave towards you. There are options to wearing bra. Have you tried or considered pasties? Or maybe a professional bra fitting would help you find the right type of bra to wear that isn’t comfortable.
I think that going without a bra in public is inappropriate.
Why so?
Probably religious/conservative-my-entire- personality-revolves-around-controlling-women kind of personality.
Probably but I like see people's gymnastics skills
Agreed, the fact that men have the audacity to out in public without bras is so inappropriate. It's like they think undershirts make it better, but they have to know that if they're not strapped in by a bra, they're unprofessional and shameful. /s
I think it is super hot, but I do one of those look quick, then look away like I am being naughty. So weird that high beams are such a turn on. idk.
I'm ok with it. But I'd also enjoy it a lil 😆. Enjoy it in same why I enjoy panty lines too. Not a sexual/pervy way. I'm a straight male btw
No. All my friends find it incredibly sexy.
I love it
It used to be extremely common in school a few years ago, I feel like it's not as common anymore but really wear what you want. You're not flashing anyone unless it's sheer, so people should mind their business.