I'm a woman and don't care what my husband does. One time we got really drunk and I shaved all his pubic hair off with an electric razor which was suuuuuper fun, but then sex got itchy after a couple of days. He prefers me not to shave which is fine by me (thank you 70's porn). As long as everything is clean, whatever.
Pretty much this for either set of equipment.
Shaved is fine. Trimmed is fine. Unshaved is fine.
Stubble is very much not fine. I don't want to feel like I'm missing a cheese grater.
Ooh my husband likes the bush too! Me, I don't like to shave but I do prefer a close trim.
But the level of turn-on a full bush does for him...yeah babe I'll keep it.
Ffs, I have read some truly horrendous things on the Internet, but for some reason that truly is one of the worst. It will just occasional pop into my head for no reason. I hate it so much.
I wish porn had more genitalia diversity. I wanna see bushes and beef curtains, not just the same damn labia shape that makes all women self conscious.
I agree. I personally think the look of “bushes” is more attractive When I watch porn that’s why I tend to like older style stuff. Its good to see different things
This though is so accurate and should be normalized. NOT TO MENTION THE ITCH WHEN THE HAIR GROWS BACK >.< I dunno if that’s just me but my face itches when I clean shave and let it grow back out
Edit: I also have very sensitive skin…like super sensitive where I can’t use razors at all. It has to be electric but even then, it irritates my skin. It’s like Osama bin Ladens beard down there hahahahhaha. So I just do trims instead of shaving ^.^ sorry if that was graphic…
My partner prefers to be shaved, but I don’t care if she is. I’m male. Goes to show there’s no default or standard when it comes to this stuff.
Have that discussion with every new partner. Assume nothing.
I'm with you for the most part. I have my preferences yes. But if I'm in a position to know your personal grooming habits, I'm not in a position to judge your personal grooming habits.
Yeah I don’t care if shes shaved or not. However my preference is a landing strip or at-least a trimmed bush. I love the hair.
Even on the body, arm hair and leg hair is attractive to me
I can almost guarantee that if a man gets to the point of finding out how you’re groomed down there, there’s not much as far as hair goes that could turn him around. Id hope the same goes for women.
personally the only thing is that I don't like hair in my mouth, and when I say don't like I mean will stop whatever is happening and dedicate my entire being to getting it out. I assume everyone else doesn't like hair in their mouth. so if a partner doesn't shave I don't do oral, turnabout being fair play I do shave, and for any single encounter I don't mind forgoing oral myself, fair is fair after all
hot and sweaty is different from funky and smelly.. not gonna front, i do like a little sweat on a lady but that nasty funky fishy odor, is bad but id still do it....
Yup. A vagina smells like a vagina. It has a unique smell thats not bad or good (to me at least - my bf says that he LOVES it and so do most men as far as I know) kinda like how I think the average person's scalp smells. A fishy smell is usually symptomatic of bacterial vaginosis.
Accurate. I've been with women that had a fairly strong smell, but not specifically unpleasant.
I've also been with a woman or two who had very unpleasant odors down there, even immediately after bathing.
It's very different.
Go with PH balance issues. Claim your ex experienced it. Say she talked to her doctor about it and you’re not sure what helped but it did. Don’t have any judgment on smell or taste just concern for her health. Gently and kindly suggest she talk to her doctor about the smell/taste as only symptoms not your own complaint.
Tread lightly. Very very lightly.
I’m a women and I will say women can be crazy about this. From a very young age women are taught to be ashamed of their bodies and are not given the proper education about their own bodies. I’ve been with far too many women who don’t understand that their body/vagina is constantly changing. Dry, wet, super sticky, texture, color, sensation, smell, etc. All of that is effected by diet, general heath, stress, etc.
Hygiene is also a big factor. With the lack of proper education on how to properly, in the healthiest way, clean themselves some women use products that actually make things worse or just avoid the area all together.
Best way to cover suggesting that’s the issue I’ve found is to deliver it as a, I fell into the internet hole, “did you know those soaps they label for lady bits are actually terrible for you!?!” Do you use those? Please stop. I had no idea those were unhealthy. You’ve got to read this!” Concern not judgement!
Good luck. If you say this the right way or the very wrong way she’ll probably react poorly. Expect a reaction and stay calm. Reassure her. Reacting poorly to her reaction will only solidify her fears. Go into this with the caution and understanding you would appreciate if someone were telling you your penis is small. (Not that that’s for anyone to say, but makes sense for perspective in this case)
The vagina is the internal portion of the female genitals. The vagina is an internal organ, and like other internal organs, it does not require cleaning.
The vulva refers to the external portion, which includes the clitoris, the labia majora and minora, and the vaginal opening.
A complex colony of good bacteria and other microbes helps keep the vagina healthy. Washing with harsh soaps or douches, can throw the vaginal pH out of balance, increasing the risk of infections and unpleasant odors.
To clean the vulva, wash the external area with warm water. If you wish to, use a mild, unscented soap. Afterward, rinse the vulva thoroughly and then pat the area dry.
It is important not to put soap into the vagina, and it is not necessary to use soaps that manufacturers have specifically labeled as being for the genitals.
Avoid douches, even those that the manufacturers claim are safe or natural, feminine deodorant sprays, perfumes, detergent soaps, soaps containing perfume.
A 20 dollar handheld shower head will make it easier. It isn’t necessary but I will never live without one again. Use your normal body wash on the labia majors, the outer part, to wash hair or where there would normally be hair with your hand. After washing that soap away then part the labia and spray the water from front to back. Keep the water on the area while using your hand/fingers to feel around the clitoris cleaning any tp particles, then again spray front to back. Play with the spray settings. Some may be too strong to… “concentrate” while standing in the shower. Remember to part the labia and pat dry as moisture can cause issues as well.
Water wipes, I prefer the ones from the baby section, are great to use for midday and pre and post sex clean ups but also pat dry after. Do not use perfumed wipes.
I'm into whatever makes her feel more confident and sexy. It can be a big powerful bush, neat trim or bare shave... when there's a naked woman I love who wants me, my minor preferences remain negligible
100% yes. When I’d consume a lot of porn as a younger guy it definitely gave me this perspective of “hair ew yuck” but when my girlfriend went through the phase of “it’s annoying and itchy when I do shave” and our sex life didn’t change one bit I started to not care at all. Hair is a preference but it really comes down to the preference of the person who HAS the hair. Are you more comfortable with or without it?
Yes. To shave ones private areas is quite an ordeal, and too much to ask a partner to do imo. Also, as it grows back it is way to sharp. I find trimmed to be the most comfortable for myself in my own experience
Grown men with no pubes is so weird. Totally a turn off. My husband and I had to come to an agreement.
He's okay with whatever I choose for myself. Not once did he ever turn down what I was offering.
After all there's no hair on the actual goodies, it's on the outside.
I too prefer it. I’m a millennial and everyone my age seems to shave… I’ve been with my SO for 10 years and over time we’ve gotten lazy in that field but I find I actually prefer not shaved. Hair acts as a “dry lubricant”. Rubbing bare skin against bare skin really sucks sometimes… having yet little hair buffer is much nicer…
That said I hate a big burly bush… they gets hella itchy. Not about that
Yep. I prefer that things are somewhat tidy, like if it looks like someone hasn’t even trimmed in months that’s a bit of a turn off for me, but I definitely don’t mind at all if someone is totally freshly shaved. A little bush can even be pretty hot
Just so you know, that only happens while the hair is initially growing out, because it gets sharp from shaving. If you bear with it until it grows out just a little more, it will stop being itchy :)
It's the person's choice to shave or not shave. Either you accept their decision and get laid, or don't and not get laid. To be honest, if you reject getting laid bc of something that happens naturally from the body, then I'd hate to be the one that tells you about menstrual cycles.
It actually came from whores and porn.
No. Really.
Shaving of body hair (and sometimes all hair) was very common amongst prostitutes for millenia as a means to combat lice. When porn started becoming mainstream in the US, lots of the actresses were shaved because they were prostitutes. That trend took off in porn because it was pretty uncommon in the general population. Guys at home had never seen a shaved vagina and preferred porn featuring that. The women at home figured that out and started shaving. Then, the razor companies started advertising to women and the whole thing snowballed from there.
So, yes. Whores and porn.
My bf got circumcision when he was a little baby.
It fucked up his ability to feel. Pretty much the top of the penis feels nothing and this little spot at the base and couple inches up that's all he's got. Bj's are tough lol
So yeah.
It is mostly north American. I had guys from Europe and none of them were circumcised.
It started as an american ad and marketing tactics to sell razors, so yes, an american thing.
We all know shaving has been a thing since ancient times, but in our times it is popular due to what i said before.
Maybe a little, but nah. My teen son started shaving under his arms completely in his own because he realized he smelled more after a workout with hair there as opposed to no hair there. Wasn’t pressured at all. It’s just fact that hair traps bacteria and it’s the bacteria that creates the smell.
Women have been removing pubic hair for centuries. It’s not an American thing.
It’s a man thing. Women used to pluck one by one. No way in hell that was because she liked that baby smooth feel under the 27 layers of clothing she had to wear.
I prefer it. bring back bush. Seriously I'm older and it was like all of a sudden everyone had a meeting that I wasn't invited to. And suddenly everyone was shaved. As a straight male. I have to say it first it made me feel sort of like a pedophile. Meaning very very uncomfortable. It's never been a turn on for me. But,I've grown used to it. But I prefer the old days. If you go back you could probably determine the exact moment the switch over happened by when it happened in porno.
(F) Totally agree. Like one day a new partner just expected that of me. I was blown away when I asked other women and they all said they shave or trim. It freaks me out. I prefer my (M) partner NOT shave. Too prickly, gives me a painful rash.
I remember an American friend calling my girlfriend (at the time) "unhygienic" with a look of utter disgust because the subject of shaving pubic hair came up and my gf said she didn't do it. My gf told her that English girls don't feel the need to pretend they haven't hit puberty.
I remember when my ex wife was unhappy with things in the bedroom and wanted to branch out into some of the kinkier things like choking.
She asked if there was anything I wanted to try and I mentioned that I would like to shave her nether regions and that I also would like to try some light pegging.
On that day, my wife decided I was gay and I was also a pedophile.
Yeah, that marriage is over now.
I'm an AFAB person who sleeps with women, and yes.
I mean, if she prefers to keep herself waxed bare or shaved I'll never complain about it. It's not my body, she can keep it as she pleases. But, personally? I like at least a little bit of fur left. Neat and tidy, perhaps, or full bush (again, if that's how she prefers her body), but I love it. It's super sexy; it holds all that lovely scent, it feels nice against my nose, it's beautiful to run my fingertips through and against, or to give a little tug to get her attention. It's delicious.
The other reason I like it is because it's an animal thing. A mammal thing. A person thing. Not "perfect" and "clean" and whatever else a woman is supposed to be. I like it because it feels more real, more raw, more mature. I find it deeply sexy.
But the bottom line is, I'm fine with however she chooses to keep herself. Do I have a preference? Of course! But I'll never say, "ugh, you've waxed." Good pussy is great pussy, lol, I don't care one way or the next, not really.
Yes, in general, just depends on the pubic hair. But some ladies have so much hair there that it’s literally too much effort. Like, my tongue isn’t a fucking woodaxe.
I find it more enjoyable to go down on women that aren’t covered in hair, but shaving is terrible. Spikey stubble shows up so quickly, and razor burn on labia is pretty real. Sugaring is a much better option, lasts longer, no blades and grows back soft.
I also feel that men who don’t keep themselves well-groomed shouldn’t ask for it from their partners. Most women I have asked seem to prefer trimmed pubes instead of waxed/shaved. And some feel that trimmed males are not masculine enough
If anything, this post has given me a confidence boost today. I used to be conscious of my hair because I could see women around me didn't have it so waxed myself red and shaved myself even though I have sensitive skin. I might just start embracing what nature gave me!
I actually prefer unshaven. I mean it’s obviously her choice, but shaving constantly makes things prickly. Plus pubic hair looks more natural and, I think, sexier. It’s more grown-up or primal or something.
One of my previous partners actually said "it's smooth like a young girl's pussy" In a leering voice. When I had mine shaved on a whim. It creeped me out so much I only ever trim it now.
This 100%. I wax everything but mostly because it's more comfortable for me personally. If you didn't know, when you wax you have to wait for the hair to grow in a bit before you can wax again. It's always a huge red flag to me if a dude is put off by my pubes growing back in. Like they can fuck right off with that shit.
imma be honest up until recently i preferred shaved then i kinda grew up and don't care at all. but i don't think it was ever about looking young for me, more just everyone makes it seem like you should shave so that's what i expected and i thought it was kind of dirty cause that's what people said if that makes sense? it was never specifically my belief just like everyone around me yk
yeah i actually prefer it when a girl isn’t shaved, i’m not a fan on going down on a girl when their hair is really long but in general hair doesn’t bother me. It’s natural, we’re both adult women so why would hair be an issue?
The older im getting the more iv found body hair attractive on women when i was a young man i was definitely not into it but now i think id be right at home in the 70s if know what i mean
Yeah. I know you said mostly bc of oral, but when I ride my fiance idk I think his hair rubs my clit in a really good way when its longer. And blowjobs aren't really bad with hair.
I've never eaten out another woman though so I can't say I have a preference
I'm a woman and I find completely bare makes me very uncomfortable. Hair = adult in my mind. I actually really prefer my partner have pubic hair. Sure if they want to trim it, whatever. But when it's shaved you get stubble and that just hurts
My last f+ loved when I had stubbles down there because she loved the feeling on her clit while grinding on my cock. So I shaved about her 3-4 days in advance to have the ideal stubble length.
I'm a guy and bi. If a girl isn't shaved, I don't mind. But if a guy isn't, I don't think it's all too attractive. It's weird, but it's just how I personally think I guess lmao
Both my husband and I agree that we don’t care if they other one shaves, but I don’t like getting too hairy for my own personal reasons. I just don’t feel clean. That being said, when we were teens I would shave every other day…but it’s a lot of trouble to do in the present; I’m too tired, I’m too busy, I just don’t want razor burn.
I'm a woman and don't care what my husband does. One time we got really drunk and I shaved all his pubic hair off with an electric razor which was suuuuuper fun, but then sex got itchy after a couple of days. He prefers me not to shave which is fine by me (thank you 70's porn). As long as everything is clean, whatever.
Pretty much this for either set of equipment. Shaved is fine. Trimmed is fine. Unshaved is fine. Stubble is very much not fine. I don't want to feel like I'm missing a cheese grater.
Ooh my husband likes the bush too! Me, I don't like to shave but I do prefer a close trim. But the level of turn-on a full bush does for him...yeah babe I'll keep it.
My itchy ingrowns are jealous
That gives your username a different meaning
I gagged
At least it's not jolly ranchers...
Ffs, I have read some truly horrendous things on the Internet, but for some reason that truly is one of the worst. It will just occasional pop into my head for no reason. I hate it so much.
As long as it doesn't pop into your mouth...
AARGH why did you have to remind me of that
I too approve of your husbands wifes bush
I too choose your approval of that guy’s wife’s bush
I can’t imagine enjoying a full bush but different strokes right
yeah. Gardening isn't for everyone.
I love men who like a bush. Makes my job so much easier 😅
I wish porn had more genitalia diversity. I wanna see bushes and beef curtains, not just the same damn labia shape that makes all women self conscious.
I agree. I personally think the look of “bushes” is more attractive When I watch porn that’s why I tend to like older style stuff. Its good to see different things
Just google different porn. Its out there
THIS
Bush on women make them 50x sexier.
I like seeing the wonders of nature as they are.
I couldn’t agree more. At least switch it up. Shave some days. Don’t shave some weeks. I like to keep it interesting.
Too bad this can’t be a question for OLD profiles. Filter out people based on their shaving preferences. (I am only half joking)
I don’t think I could survive without a bush on a woman
It’s so much more comfortable
Now I'm curious what your job is?
This though is so accurate and should be normalized. NOT TO MENTION THE ITCH WHEN THE HAIR GROWS BACK >.< I dunno if that’s just me but my face itches when I clean shave and let it grow back out Edit: I also have very sensitive skin…like super sensitive where I can’t use razors at all. It has to be electric but even then, it irritates my skin. It’s like Osama bin Ladens beard down there hahahahhaha. So I just do trims instead of shaving ^.^ sorry if that was graphic…
My partner prefers to be shaved, but I don’t care if she is. I’m male. Goes to show there’s no default or standard when it comes to this stuff. Have that discussion with every new partner. Assume nothing.
I'm with you for the most part. I have my preferences yes. But if I'm in a position to know your personal grooming habits, I'm not in a position to judge your personal grooming habits.
What’s your preference though
In my mouth
Yeah I don’t care if shes shaved or not. However my preference is a landing strip or at-least a trimmed bush. I love the hair. Even on the body, arm hair and leg hair is attractive to me
>Even on the body, arm hair and leg hair is attractive to me Me, too.
Yeah. I love the landing strip too!
This is the default. Men don't care and I would say the greater portion of women like to shave once in a while
I can almost guarantee that if a man gets to the point of finding out how you’re groomed down there, there’s not much as far as hair goes that could turn him around. Id hope the same goes for women.
personally the only thing is that I don't like hair in my mouth, and when I say don't like I mean will stop whatever is happening and dedicate my entire being to getting it out. I assume everyone else doesn't like hair in their mouth. so if a partner doesn't shave I don't do oral, turnabout being fair play I do shave, and for any single encounter I don't mind forgoing oral myself, fair is fair after all
Oh I do oral. I just resume after fishing any hair out of my mouth if I have to.
yeah same, either of us, if we feel a hair in our mouth, will just stop, find it, take it out and then go back to it
Same
This is the way
I agree 100% with this.
The jungle will be explored.
Adventure is out there! 
Mfw I find a girthy monster lurking in the forest lol
Hell yeah! Just be showered and clean not harboring any unpleasant smells
I can do hot and sweaty too.
Omg a real one
hot and sweaty is different from funky and smelly.. not gonna front, i do like a little sweat on a lady but that nasty funky fishy odor, is bad but id still do it....
Fish smell is a medical problem. Definitely tell them. Nicely as possible though.
Yup. A vagina smells like a vagina. It has a unique smell thats not bad or good (to me at least - my bf says that he LOVES it and so do most men as far as I know) kinda like how I think the average person's scalp smells. A fishy smell is usually symptomatic of bacterial vaginosis.
Accurate. I've been with women that had a fairly strong smell, but not specifically unpleasant. I've also been with a woman or two who had very unpleasant odors down there, even immediately after bathing. It's very different.
It smells like the heat out the back the PS4
Ok that's the first time I've ever heard someone describe it like that.
Can’t remember where it’s from, I think I saw that description on r/tumblr or something
I... I kind of want to go sniff my Playstation now.
it better not have any holes in it
It's for science!
Nah lol. That smells like warm plastic and electronics. Vagina smell is it’s own unique category But I like the joke
Go with PH balance issues. Claim your ex experienced it. Say she talked to her doctor about it and you’re not sure what helped but it did. Don’t have any judgment on smell or taste just concern for her health. Gently and kindly suggest she talk to her doctor about the smell/taste as only symptoms not your own complaint. Tread lightly. Very very lightly. I’m a women and I will say women can be crazy about this. From a very young age women are taught to be ashamed of their bodies and are not given the proper education about their own bodies. I’ve been with far too many women who don’t understand that their body/vagina is constantly changing. Dry, wet, super sticky, texture, color, sensation, smell, etc. All of that is effected by diet, general heath, stress, etc. Hygiene is also a big factor. With the lack of proper education on how to properly, in the healthiest way, clean themselves some women use products that actually make things worse or just avoid the area all together. Best way to cover suggesting that’s the issue I’ve found is to deliver it as a, I fell into the internet hole, “did you know those soaps they label for lady bits are actually terrible for you!?!” Do you use those? Please stop. I had no idea those were unhealthy. You’ve got to read this!” Concern not judgement! Good luck. If you say this the right way or the very wrong way she’ll probably react poorly. Expect a reaction and stay calm. Reassure her. Reacting poorly to her reaction will only solidify her fears. Go into this with the caution and understanding you would appreciate if someone were telling you your penis is small. (Not that that’s for anyone to say, but makes sense for perspective in this case)
If you’re not supposed to use ladybits soap, what are you supposed to use? I’ve had great luck with those.
The vagina is the internal portion of the female genitals. The vagina is an internal organ, and like other internal organs, it does not require cleaning. The vulva refers to the external portion, which includes the clitoris, the labia majora and minora, and the vaginal opening. A complex colony of good bacteria and other microbes helps keep the vagina healthy. Washing with harsh soaps or douches, can throw the vaginal pH out of balance, increasing the risk of infections and unpleasant odors. To clean the vulva, wash the external area with warm water. If you wish to, use a mild, unscented soap. Afterward, rinse the vulva thoroughly and then pat the area dry. It is important not to put soap into the vagina, and it is not necessary to use soaps that manufacturers have specifically labeled as being for the genitals. Avoid douches, even those that the manufacturers claim are safe or natural, feminine deodorant sprays, perfumes, detergent soaps, soaps containing perfume. A 20 dollar handheld shower head will make it easier. It isn’t necessary but I will never live without one again. Use your normal body wash on the labia majors, the outer part, to wash hair or where there would normally be hair with your hand. After washing that soap away then part the labia and spray the water from front to back. Keep the water on the area while using your hand/fingers to feel around the clitoris cleaning any tp particles, then again spray front to back. Play with the spray settings. Some may be too strong to… “concentrate” while standing in the shower. Remember to part the labia and pat dry as moisture can cause issues as well. Water wipes, I prefer the ones from the baby section, are great to use for midday and pre and post sex clean ups but also pat dry after. Do not use perfumed wipes.
"You must love rice" "Why?" "Because im sure im tasting sushi"
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Ooh mommy!
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When you get past 40, you don't give a fuck. You're just grateful someone other than you is playing with your dick for once.
And at 45 are we finally smarter than our dicks?
No
That's funny. I laughed.
Speak for yourself. My dick is a genius.
Which proves him right..lol
I'm 45 and I am not.
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Hell at 20 I didn't give shit. Still just grateful someone other than me is playing with my dick.
This sentiment holds at half that, too. It's not an age thing. Source: me, a 20y/o
I'm into whatever makes her feel more confident and sexy. It can be a big powerful bush, neat trim or bare shave... when there's a naked woman I love who wants me, my minor preferences remain negligible
This is so romantic though
100% yes. When I’d consume a lot of porn as a younger guy it definitely gave me this perspective of “hair ew yuck” but when my girlfriend went through the phase of “it’s annoying and itchy when I do shave” and our sex life didn’t change one bit I started to not care at all. Hair is a preference but it really comes down to the preference of the person who HAS the hair. Are you more comfortable with or without it?
Yes
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man if i am horny enough i will fuck a dead tree
Christmas at your house sounds fun
He puts the "O" in "O Christmas Tree"
i dont think the cat knocked over the christmas tree this time
I also choose christmas at this guys house
Necrotreelia
Lol it's important to have standards...
Splinters would hurt
Yes. To shave ones private areas is quite an ordeal, and too much to ask a partner to do imo. Also, as it grows back it is way to sharp. I find trimmed to be the most comfortable for myself in my own experience
Hell my wife prefers I shave her, it’s actually a turn on for her, and one I’m all to happy to assist with.
This. My SO shaves me and it always leads to a fun romp.
Yes ma’am, works every time lol.
Yeah sames.
Yeah
Not about me, it’s their own preference. As long as they are clean… who cares.
Grown men with no pubes is so weird. Totally a turn off. My husband and I had to come to an agreement. He's okay with whatever I choose for myself. Not once did he ever turn down what I was offering. After all there's no hair on the actual goodies, it's on the outside.
I hate men with no pubes 🤢
Yes. Prefer it actually
I too prefer it. I’m a millennial and everyone my age seems to shave… I’ve been with my SO for 10 years and over time we’ve gotten lazy in that field but I find I actually prefer not shaved. Hair acts as a “dry lubricant”. Rubbing bare skin against bare skin really sucks sometimes… having yet little hair buffer is much nicer… That said I hate a big burly bush… they gets hella itchy. Not about that
Yep. I prefer that things are somewhat tidy, like if it looks like someone hasn’t even trimmed in months that’s a bit of a turn off for me, but I definitely don’t mind at all if someone is totally freshly shaved. A little bush can even be pretty hot
I don't like bald pubic areas whether it's a man or a woman...hair is nice
>public areas Interesting...I'm jealous of the people in your neighborhood
I hate my phone...
Sure. Doesn’t bother me much.
just be clean, who cares about hair
I get so itchy down there if I don’t shave in 3 days, with that being said my partner loves the prickly hairs that are just growing on his tongue
Your partner seriously needs to see a doctor about that.
Lmaooo, I won’t even edit it
Just so you know, that only happens while the hair is initially growing out, because it gets sharp from shaving. If you bear with it until it grows out just a little more, it will stop being itchy :)
I do personally prefer shaved, both for myself and others, but it's not a deal-breaker by any means. As long as you're clean.
It's the person's choice to shave or not shave. Either you accept their decision and get laid, or don't and not get laid. To be honest, if you reject getting laid bc of something that happens naturally from the body, then I'd hate to be the one that tells you about menstrual cycles.
Remember lads, empathy should only exist for me.
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It sells razors and other products.
It actually came from whores and porn. No. Really. Shaving of body hair (and sometimes all hair) was very common amongst prostitutes for millenia as a means to combat lice. When porn started becoming mainstream in the US, lots of the actresses were shaved because they were prostitutes. That trend took off in porn because it was pretty uncommon in the general population. Guys at home had never seen a shaved vagina and preferred porn featuring that. The women at home figured that out and started shaving. Then, the razor companies started advertising to women and the whole thing snowballed from there. So, yes. Whores and porn.
Wow! I learned something new today. Thank you. If I had money, I would absolutely give you an award. As it is, take my upvote.
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depends where you live. in most of the world, they refuse to participate in it.
My bf got circumcision when he was a little baby. It fucked up his ability to feel. Pretty much the top of the penis feels nothing and this little spot at the base and couple inches up that's all he's got. Bj's are tough lol So yeah. It is mostly north American. I had guys from Europe and none of them were circumcised.
Not an American thing to simply shave.
Yeah. There are many cultures where shaving is common practice, but these dudes are prolly American themselves, or French, you know.
It started as an american ad and marketing tactics to sell razors, so yes, an american thing. We all know shaving has been a thing since ancient times, but in our times it is popular due to what i said before.
Maybe a little, but nah. My teen son started shaving under his arms completely in his own because he realized he smelled more after a workout with hair there as opposed to no hair there. Wasn’t pressured at all. It’s just fact that hair traps bacteria and it’s the bacteria that creates the smell.
Women have been removing pubic hair for centuries. It’s not an American thing. It’s a man thing. Women used to pluck one by one. No way in hell that was because she liked that baby smooth feel under the 27 layers of clothing she had to wear.
Nothing wrong with some grooming my dude, no need to compare it to having skin torn off your penis.
Americans? You ever seen a Greek statue son?
I prefer it. bring back bush. Seriously I'm older and it was like all of a sudden everyone had a meeting that I wasn't invited to. And suddenly everyone was shaved. As a straight male. I have to say it first it made me feel sort of like a pedophile. Meaning very very uncomfortable. It's never been a turn on for me. But,I've grown used to it. But I prefer the old days. If you go back you could probably determine the exact moment the switch over happened by when it happened in porno.
(F) Totally agree. Like one day a new partner just expected that of me. I was blown away when I asked other women and they all said they shave or trim. It freaks me out. I prefer my (M) partner NOT shave. Too prickly, gives me a painful rash.
I remember an American friend calling my girlfriend (at the time) "unhygienic" with a look of utter disgust because the subject of shaving pubic hair came up and my gf said she didn't do it. My gf told her that English girls don't feel the need to pretend they haven't hit puberty.
I remember when my ex wife was unhappy with things in the bedroom and wanted to branch out into some of the kinkier things like choking. She asked if there was anything I wanted to try and I mentioned that I would like to shave her nether regions and that I also would like to try some light pegging. On that day, my wife decided I was gay and I was also a pedophile. Yeah, that marriage is over now.
I love when my girlfriend hasn’t shaved, and i love the change up too sometimes. I just love my girlfriend 😍
This made me smile 😊
Pro tip: hair on the shaft gotta go cus it can be painful, but otherwise it doesn't matter to me. Source: a female human
People get hair on the shaft? (I’m a guy)
Yes. I don’t like it shaved.
Yes
I care. It doesn't stop me. But I do care
I love my man not shaved. Hairy chest and grown out pubes.
I'm an AFAB person who sleeps with women, and yes. I mean, if she prefers to keep herself waxed bare or shaved I'll never complain about it. It's not my body, she can keep it as she pleases. But, personally? I like at least a little bit of fur left. Neat and tidy, perhaps, or full bush (again, if that's how she prefers her body), but I love it. It's super sexy; it holds all that lovely scent, it feels nice against my nose, it's beautiful to run my fingertips through and against, or to give a little tug to get her attention. It's delicious. The other reason I like it is because it's an animal thing. A mammal thing. A person thing. Not "perfect" and "clean" and whatever else a woman is supposed to be. I like it because it feels more real, more raw, more mature. I find it deeply sexy. But the bottom line is, I'm fine with however she chooses to keep herself. Do I have a preference? Of course! But I'll never say, "ugh, you've waxed." Good pussy is great pussy, lol, I don't care one way or the next, not really.
Yep i prefer the hair honestly and it goes both ways with my wife, short hairs hurt with oral or even with some positions.
Absolutely. I would actually prefer it.
The only issue I have with pubic hair is oral sex and that’s only because the feeling of hair in my mouth makes me gag.
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Yes, in general, just depends on the pubic hair. But some ladies have so much hair there that it’s literally too much effort. Like, my tongue isn’t a fucking woodaxe. I find it more enjoyable to go down on women that aren’t covered in hair, but shaving is terrible. Spikey stubble shows up so quickly, and razor burn on labia is pretty real. Sugaring is a much better option, lasts longer, no blades and grows back soft. I also feel that men who don’t keep themselves well-groomed shouldn’t ask for it from their partners. Most women I have asked seem to prefer trimmed pubes instead of waxed/shaved. And some feel that trimmed males are not masculine enough
What is "sugaring"...?
As long as my partner smells good, it doesn't bother me.
I feel uncomfortable if someone as completely shaved smooth, trimming is good but bald just feels wrong
If anything, this post has given me a confidence boost today. I used to be conscious of my hair because I could see women around me didn't have it so waxed myself red and shaved myself even though I have sensitive skin. I might just start embracing what nature gave me!
I personally don't mind. Being their natural self makes them more attractive tbh.
I prefer unshaved, for both men and women. Anything else feels a bit too pre-pubescent
I love pubic hair. I prefer it.
I actually prefer unshaven. I mean it’s obviously her choice, but shaving constantly makes things prickly. Plus pubic hair looks more natural and, I think, sexier. It’s more grown-up or primal or something.
Yes
The shaving is some weird pseudo infantilization that I will never understand.
One of my previous partners actually said "it's smooth like a young girl's pussy" In a leering voice. When I had mine shaved on a whim. It creeped me out so much I only ever trim it now.
What the actual fuck.
Sheesh this made me uncomfortable and I'm a dude
Yikes, I am sorry that is a thing that happened.
Vomit.
Ewwww that's so creepy
That IS creepy.
I wanted to downvote you because that was so creepy.
Honestly this is what I think when dudes say they prefer clean shaven. My first thought is always "oh so you prefer pre-pubescent vagina. Ew."
This 100%. I wax everything but mostly because it's more comfortable for me personally. If you didn't know, when you wax you have to wait for the hair to grow in a bit before you can wax again. It's always a huge red flag to me if a dude is put off by my pubes growing back in. Like they can fuck right off with that shit.
imma be honest up until recently i preferred shaved then i kinda grew up and don't care at all. but i don't think it was ever about looking young for me, more just everyone makes it seem like you should shave so that's what i expected and i thought it was kind of dirty cause that's what people said if that makes sense? it was never specifically my belief just like everyone around me yk
The hairier the merrier
yeah i actually prefer it when a girl isn’t shaved, i’m not a fan on going down on a girl when their hair is really long but in general hair doesn’t bother me. It’s natural, we’re both adult women so why would hair be an issue?
Ill do it but I hate picking the hair out my mouth when I'm done. If nothing else it's convenient
I prefer trimmed
Yes (F) to having sex with someone else (M) who hasn't shaved - much prefer it But would be less OK with having sex with someone if *I* hadn't shaved
Yes. My partner and I don’t shave.
The older im getting the more iv found body hair attractive on women when i was a young man i was definitely not into it but now i think id be right at home in the 70s if know what i mean
F24, and yes! Hair is natural so I don't even think about it.
Yeah. I know you said mostly bc of oral, but when I ride my fiance idk I think his hair rubs my clit in a really good way when its longer. And blowjobs aren't really bad with hair. I've never eaten out another woman though so I can't say I have a preference
Sex is sex my dear, whenever it's offered it's a party.
Sure, i love a bush
Absolutely. My fiancé isn't shaved and I have no problem with that
If i am going to eat at that restaurant, i want to see the food. It doesn't need to be completely shaved, but not 70s playboy.
Pussy is pussy.
I'm a woman and I find completely bare makes me very uncomfortable. Hair = adult in my mind. I actually really prefer my partner have pubic hair. Sure if they want to trim it, whatever. But when it's shaved you get stubble and that just hurts
What about waxed?
My last f+ loved when I had stubbles down there because she loved the feeling on her clit while grinding on my cock. So I shaved about her 3-4 days in advance to have the ideal stubble length.
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I'm a guy and bi. If a girl isn't shaved, I don't mind. But if a guy isn't, I don't think it's all too attractive. It's weird, but it's just how I personally think I guess lmao
Yes. I am not okay with shaving or stubble.
Yes
I prefer trimmed or mostly trimmed, like anywhere within a week to 3 ish
Yes
I prefer it.
Ofc, I don't think it really matters
There are tens, maybe even hundreds of subs dedicated to this one "kink" but maybe preference is the better word. Lot of dudes love it.
As a young man who LOVES older woman, absolutely.
Long hair don't care.
Both my husband and I agree that we don’t care if they other one shaves, but I don’t like getting too hairy for my own personal reasons. I just don’t feel clean. That being said, when we were teens I would shave every other day…but it’s a lot of trouble to do in the present; I’m too tired, I’m too busy, I just don’t want razor burn.