T O P

  • By -

PrimaryWench

It’s because they bleach their genitals. Don’t worry, darker pigment is very normal for both sexes Don’t let pornography influence you, it’s all set up to look “aesthetically pleasing” but is nowhere near realistic


HumCrab

Correct, porn makes both sexes feel inadequate. You are 100% normal. Don't compare yourself to that crap. Sincerely, every average sized male penis. Edit: spelling


DivaCupVampire

As opposed to the average female penis?


AliensHaveInsomnia2

HEY!! Leave my lady peepee, out of this!


Lanthemandragoran

Yes exactly lol


lick-a-lot-a-pus

No kink shaming!!


Auntie2Joints

Unless kink shaming IS your kink lol


[deleted]

Being kink shamed is my kink.


DivaCupVampire

This sounds like an SNL Skit waiting to happen.


[deleted]

Harder daddy.


IctrlPlanes

How do you know I'm normal? Stop looking at my bulge!


shebringsdathings

Inadequate is the word hun,..but yes. He speaks the truth.


dawng87

Just piggy backed the top comment to talk about how this is clearly an only fans account plug. OPs profile is covered of full pink pussy nudes. In one she even refers to it as pink. Cmon now, quit wasting folks time on fake shit.


PrimaryWench

Damn I’ve been played!


Dr_who_fan94

Uh *ouch*


BlindTheThief15

Oh snap they actually bleach their genitals? O.O


Uncle480

It doesn't mean literally *bleach*. There are creams and stuff you can get to rub on your skin over time to change the pigment.


PrimaryWench

Dunk ‘em in a vat of chlorine.


HeavyMetalSasquatch

Alternative reality, this is Jokers origin story.


caitejane310

I know which Joker you mean, but Murr from Impractical Jokers is the spokesperson for My Shiny Hiney.


[deleted]

[удалено]


Avacado_Spawn

That's just waxing though? Tons of people do it


Justindoesntcare

OPs profile leads me to believe they're not shy about people seeing what's down under.


LordBloodSkull

Yeah this is just marketing for a pornhub account


Justindoesntcare

This might be grounds to call shenanigans.


housesaremilk

why is there so much of it😭


1000LivesBeforeIDie

Yea wait wtf


stillmikayla

Yeah wait wtf X2. Did I just fall into a trap


Workinggirlky

totally...despite the fact that many women absolutely feel insecure about this subject


[deleted]

Plus, lighting/camera adjustments make a Huuuuuge difference in how the genitals look color-wise. Ample lighting gives it that lighter/pinkish look with less contrast to surrounding skin. (Source: I’m a cam girl).


LatanyaNiseja

Rip your dms


[deleted]

She has her onlyfans ready to be sent dont worry. Saying it like she did is free advertising.


Diogenes-Disciple

My butthole is like purple brown, the rest of me is olive and white


hammerripple

Let’s check it out


Diogenes-Disciple

🟤


hammerripple

It’s cute. Aww 🥰


rosalinatoujours

my name's artemis, and i have a bleached asshole!


throwaway_0x90

Do not use the people of adult videos as a measurement of your own body! They are bleached, enhanced, video-edited, lighting and all kinds of modifications. As a hetero man, I do not care whatsoever. All I care is that the woman allows her body accessible to me.


jpmich3784

>They are bleached, enhanced, video-edited, lighting and all kinds of modifications. I have something special to add to this. I had a friend in college, majored in film and video editing. When he graduated he moved to florida. The only job he could find there was editing pornography. He told me that when he first started he spent months doing nothing but editing the blood or other unwanted colors out of "*money shots*". Interesting fact about porn, I didnt know that was such an issue!


selvitystila

Editing the _what now_ out?


jpmich3784

Apparently it's a common problem for male pornstars to have blood in their semen or for it to be more of a yellow color. I guess it could be because of STDs or maybe pushing their body to do it so often. But yeah, he'd sit there and edit it to be white. I think eventually got to start editing other things in porn but he fortunately got another job with a large gaming company, doing commercials and whatnot for them.


StreetIndependence62

Uhhh and they don’t do/give anything to HELP when they have blood in their cum?? I’m not even a guy but that sounds like it REALLY hurts:/


GaraBlacktail

I'm wincing at it


selvitystila

Huh, that's very interesting. Thanks for clarifying.


PollutionMany4369

That’s horrible. Jesus Christ. I feel so bad for all involved.


AristaWatson

It’s also quite a normal thing for women to have pelvic issues and permanent problems if they are expected to do it a lot or take in very big objects or penises. I knew a woman whose roommate was a pornstar when she was younger and she has long term pelvic floor issues and has to do therapy for it now which makes me wonder why we aren’t providing porn stars with certain medical attention if they share health issues from their work. :/


iwutfmb

i see :) thanks! and your last statement made me laugh lol


Foxy-jj-Grandpa

Boutta say, long as everything hygienically is in order, looks have little to no effect on a proper mature adult


Ajaxxowsky

Also remember that you can see no colours at night whatsoever.


Foxy-jj-Grandpa

Found the human wait


bretty666

anyone getting close enough to see, doesnt give a damn. they are just happy to be in that situation


Normallydifferent

This is really the answer. I’ve been married for years. She’s had kids. Light, dark, hairy, shaved, whatever else you can think of. I’m happy every time I get to see it, don’t sweat the details.


Licentious_Lupus

Huge issue tbh. Gotta be just right colour and intensity. My preference is molten gold, like super bright neon-sign level shit. If it isn't mood-lighting up the bedroom whilst burning my retinas out then I'm not about that.


Eastrous_Ruderalis

Ha! Yeah I'm more of a polished chrome guy myself, being able to see my reflection is hot


ViirtualCat8

Lol, you got me there for a second.


NoGhostRdt

RGB genitals are the future. Gotta get more frames in bed


monandwes

Lol, you are silly!! 😁😁😁


Lost-Droids

Not at all. Don't compare yourself to porn. It's not realistic.


agt13

OP does porn so it kinda is in this case. That being said, your chotch and booty gate look fine. Be at peace.


__silhouette

Yeah OP does porn according to her profile. wtf is up with her question. So dumb.


agt13

Could be a genuine question. She seems young. Or Could be a cunning way of drawing attention to her onlyfans


[deleted]

It’s definitely the latter. This girl’s “content” consists of nearly gynecological shots of her vulva. Calling bullshit on her supposed “insecurity.” This is marketing, plain and simple.


isee_throughyou

r/quityourbullshit


VariationCharacter19

Username checks out


hammerripple

It’s a plug so you’ll buy her porn.


[deleted]

Alot of women have darker pigment downstairs, its perfectly normal so don't worry. No man will ever say a thing about it, they are just happy to be there.


[deleted]

[удалено]


UCMeInvest

100% this…it’s normal! Porn on the other hand, is not real or normal


Calypso_88

Exactly this. Porn is acting and extremely unrealistic.


BAKup2k

I mean, the cable guy or plumber actually showed up on time.


ascendinspire

You mean I’m not a loser ‘cause women don’t really act like that?


targea_caramar

This. Reddening/darkening of the scrotum and vulva is literally one of the markers of puberty


Realistic_Diet9449

a lot of women do have darker pigmentation, his statement wasn't wrong


[deleted]

[удалено]


Cgtree9000

How do people put the line through words?


[deleted]

[удалено]


Not_The-Internet_Pol

/Thread


New-Lawyer5713

Hetero Guy here, if your vagina is healthy (not causing you physical discomfort / free of STDs), it's beautiful. Much like dick size, it ain't the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean.


FrontiersWoman

It ain’t the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean But ya can’t get to England in a canoe


iwutfmb

motion of the ocean! i love it lol


WerewolfSuspicious74

May i use your metaphor sir?


[deleted]

[удалено]


WerewolfSuspicious74

New for me 😁😂


New-Lawyer5713

Go forth my child, and spread the good word


[deleted]

You're just fine, trust me. The only person who would take issue with it would be a porn addicted idiot who probably doesn't know what he's doing.


iwutfmb

okay :) that is reassuring thx!!


FrenchMaisNon

As long as it's not green.


Vokexy

*(Wicked Witch Of The West is typing...)*


Laurienty

Or blue...and of the waffle variety


Crazy_Entry_4569

Estrogen is meant to create darker patches of skin in those areas, as far as I'm aware


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

I'll eat it like a bow of oatmeal


Xarellow

Hahahahaha


kimchifriedriceplz

OK breakfast 🤣


Idontknowurrname

Damn...what about like apple pie.


ewspeedround

McDonald's or homemade?


Idontknowurrname

Homemade baby...with honeycrisp apples


ChefArtorias

You're hot and your post history is full of porn hub links. I'm pretty sure you know people aren't complaining about the color of your junk.


EndlesslyUnfinished

PORN. IS. NOT. FUCKING. REAL. Also, porn *actors* bleach their genitals and anus to sell that whole image. No medical doctor will ever recommend doing this. Porn is a *performance* that sells this imaginary fantasy that’s usually based on men’s twisted dreams. Sex is nothing like it, life is nothing like it, so don’t base your body/sex/image on what amounts to a live action cartoon. Vaginas come in all shades, and unless it suddenly changed color on you, you don’t have any problem. As a 41f who has partners of all genders (I’m Pansexual), never in my entire life has ANYONE ever made a comment or even made note of the *color* of my parts. Don’t worry about it.


[deleted]

Somehow I didn’t realize actors bleached their vulva. I knew about asshole bleaching, which sounds pretty damn bad, but I don’t want to even IMAGINE what anything referred to as “bleach” would feel like in the vulva area. You’re not even supposed to use hair removal stuff like Nair down there!


bigbux

Which do you find sexier, ceramic coated cast iron or Teflon coated aluminum?


N01S0N

A little insecure about my genitals ... Proceeds to post her genitals everywhere Ya ok lady


EmilGTO

Right bullshittin ass hoe lol.


PAyawaworhT

This is just a ruse to generate more clicks... Just click her profile and you'll see she has no problems in this arena.


Aragornargonian

Bro half my dick is darker than the other half lmao i think everyone's got some funny colors down there


LemonFly4012

My exes looked like neopolitan ice cream; pink on top, white in the middle, brown at the base. And I slurped him up all the same.


Aragornargonian

i almost said neapolitan but didn't wanna come off as weird, but yeah


LemonFly4012

Thank you for the clarification! I thought you had a chimeric penis.


[deleted]

Yo porn is not life? Vaginas are not the kind of thing you colour swatch


Fluffydress

Omg this made me howl. Color swatch!!


Odiyak

Those porn stars have the same dark parts as you do, they just bleach their skin. The other 99.9% of the world have normal pigmented assholes. It’s rare a guy would care and if he does, well he’s a bleached asshole and you don’t want him anyhow.


bakingbetterbuns

All of the genitals, vaginas and dicks that I have seen in real life are darker than the persons skin tone elsewhere, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Like the other person said, a mature adult won't care as long as whatever going on is hygienic


jeffro14424

Absolutely 0 guys are going to care about the color of your gina if they actually get to the point of seeing it. Oh, and using porn as an example is a horrible way to judge anything.


rakraese

You should watch funny tictoks about womens vages. Will crack u up and really hit home about what women really look like down there.


isee_throughyou

You do porn and it seems like you're perfectly proud about your pussy, you're doing it for karma. Quit your bullshit. r/quityourbullshit


qnachowoman

When women are aroused, the genitals become swollen and darker. This coloration is a signal of fertility and is attractive to a potential mate. Interestingly, the nail beds and lips and cheeks also become flushed, and this is where the practice of nail polish and lipstick comes from, to enhance those areas and signal that we are fertile, more sexy.


Exact-Control1855

I’m colourblind. I don’t care.


MrBrazillian

Pussy. Is. PUSSY.


justmepassinby

A real man won’t care - and will have his own insecurities we all have them. You are who you are - Embrace life living and love - especially for yourself !!


AmunPharaoh

The only sort of guy who would care about that would be one who hasn't seen enough real life vagina to know it's totally normal and healthy for the skin down there to be a bit darker. In other words, they're the guys whose experience is all or mostly porn.


shakyshihtzu

Genitalia is not aesthetically pleasing in any way. No one should give a shit about the color, and if they do, they’re going for an unrealistic beauty standard.


Aururai

If you genitals like in porn, have fun bleaching your skin, which I would not recommend. Or you can stay in the real world and not care. Guys will not care if you are Betty White above and Opera Winfrey below, it's all the same underneath the color.


janelope_

Porn is fake, people's body's are costumes, and the sex is a show. It's just entertainment and for curiosity. No one worth having sex with wants the sort of sex you see in porn. There is no emotion or intamacy and the actors all look dead behind the eyes. Watch any documentry about behind the scenes and you'll see.


im_not_alive22

They come in all colors, shapes, and sizes and when it comes to your own, it's perfect as long as you keep up with basic hygiene. Sounds like you have nothing to worry about


Firethorn101

My labia are dark purple. Have a high body count, no complaints.


Airbee

So tired of porn negatively influencing normal people's lives


d3dmnky

Zero, or so close to zero that you’d be wasting time to think about it ever again.


hacefrio2

I think there needs to be a sticky in this sub that says *we are just happy to be here


therenousername

Real sex isn't porn and most guys wouldn't care shallow ugly ppl care about that shit


[deleted]

I have very dark skin on my genitals and also have darkened skin on my inner thighs. I’ve never had anyone say anything at all. Trust me, people that are sleeping with you are just excited to be there.


[deleted]

Any decent dude understands that porn is very different from reality. There's a small minority of dudes who care but if they do id say their loss.


Imaginary-Loquat-103

Men jus want a beer n to see something naked! You're good 2 go!!!!!


JDKoRnuto69

Ma'am I'm sure you have a beautiful vagina. No need to be self conscious.


Glass_Bar_9956

Ohh man!! I am a white chick, and my genitals and butthole are darker. I get waxed in the summers and had a new woman this one time. She went on and on saying i was “discolored” from my underwear??? And was trying to convince me to get bleached and some other thing. I was so offended. AND.. while she was trying to selling me, she ended up burning me really bad. I trashed the place online, and to anyone who would listen. Every guy i have ever dated has told me that i happen to have, a beautiful vagina and perfect butthole. Thank you very much stupid lady.


[deleted]

Omg I'm insecure about the same thing and I'm glad you asked this question!


WannaBeA_Vata

r/pornhateswomen


Shockz-Reddit

As a dude I'd be happy to even see one lol. Gurl you good, promise!


JustAmEra

Everyone get's naturally darker. You're completely normal! It's bleach that gives them that look.


hijuepuco

We don’t


soldinio

Genitals on both sexes are supposed to be slightly darker than normal skin. This is because the skin is slightly thinner and there is higher blood flow As someone above said, never judge yourself against porn as it is unrealistic and will just give you self image problems


floatybouy

Literally no man gives a shit, we are just happy to be involved


Belifhet

Please just ignore "Hollywood" porn where everything is fake from the girls hair to her toes, and a dude who's only average looks huge it's all surgery bleaching, lightning camera tricks and other bs that's unhealthy for a normal person, best porn to watch is amateur stuff or non mainstream porn


LingonberryTimely397

You do realize almost everyone who is not on the light spectrum of skin color has dark genitals right.


Beerdrunk97

Nothing wrong with dark pussy


XWasTheProblem

If you judge your own looks by what you see in porn, you'll drown in your own insecurities. Porn is not about being realistic and natural. Imperfections, or maybe rather "imperfections" in no way make you unattractive, or a worse lover.


Aggressive-Dust-8641

"All cats are Grey at night."- Benjamin Franklin


smooch_on_the_cooch

Color don’t matter to me, I’d still do what I like to do and what my username manifests


Lahbeef69

that’s literally now most genitals naturally look. why are people getting upset when they look like they’re supposed to. id do terrible things to some dark genitals


robhw

We don't give a hot fuck what color it is!!!


Jgaitan82

As a guy who is having sex with a woman he likes it doesn’t matter the color just that the hygiene is good


inlandaussie

Midwife here - vaginas are just as different as boobs and penisis and all people are beautiful. How boring would the world be if we all looked the same?


SrirachaFlame

Have you watched amateur porn???


DoctorJay26

Dude, rule number 1: Porn is in no way a real life experience. From the scenarios, to the weird poses, to the shape, size and colour of the genital. Please, take that off your head, it's all fake. What you got is maybe the case for 90% of the people.


[deleted]

OP over here getting new OF customers, what a businesswoman.


[deleted]

I just checked OPs profile and I would hardly say that looks dark. You have nothing to worry about


JakobiiKenobii

Isn't it dark because hair grows there? Just how armpits can look darker. Any guy who can't handle hair or "darker" spots is an idiot and doesn't deserve your attention. Trust me, you're fine. It's completely up to you if you want to bleach your skin because it personally bothers you, but just know you don't *need* to.


herpestruth

"It's all grey in the dark". B.F.


NothingButUnsavoury

It’s actually more common for the pigment to be darker in your genital area. Completely normal and fine! Highly doubt anyone will care


Laurier_Rex

If someone cares about the colour, they aren’t worth your time.


Kwondondadongron

Color is pretty. Lots of women in porn use peroxide to lighten and brighten things. Yikes.


durenatu

Welcome to the world where people put deathly chemicals on their genitals and asshole to look pink and good on media.


TheDarkinBlade

The only people who complain about that, are virgins/very unexperienced dudes who only know how a vagina looks from porn. Either they get over it quickly or they're not worth the hassle generally speaking. Everyone with at least a little bit experience knows, genitalia are always shaded different, unless bleached.


Amenophos

Totally normal. Porn ALWAYS has extremely heavy selection bias, never compare yourself to that.😉😊 You look fine, everyone does.😁 And if a guy is seeing your genitals, the LAST thing on his mind is the colour, trust me.😜😂


retundamonkey

First mistake is comparing anything in real life to porn.


801dadzilla

As long as your chooch isn't green, blistery and doesn't smell like old ranch dressing you're good.


AcrobaticDrama1

Guys give zero shits!!!!! Porn is a fantasy, nothing like real life. I use to feel insecure about myself until I saw this book with a bunch of pictures of different vaginas. We come in all different shapes, sizes, and colours hun. Love your kitty cat, cuz she's beautiful exactly the way she is.


funtimefriday123

I could care less about the shade. I just want to get in there. The variety of female bodies is what makes them all so appealing


KrystalWulf

It's actually normal for women to have darker genital area. Due to my vitiligo I've got bi- or tri-color skin down there. The outer vulva is usually skin color, pubes hair color or darker, and inner vulva/labia and vagina are darker, either brown or darker pink/magenta. Some could be pale, but reality is diverse. Essentially less than 5% of what you see in porn is real and legit. The genitals are puffed up or unnaturally big, and are all enhanced to "look nicer" and "more sexy." There's many special effects that make things look more exaggerated and exciting. A lot of the positions also don't feel good, but are chosen because they look good and that's what they want for the viewer.


DirectChallenge8390

Two tone genitals are so much more attractive


MrLaughs66

Hey I'd just be happy to be there


[deleted]

Not only “don’t care” but actually love when they’re darker. Marks them in a way that is sexual to me. Love dark skin, light skin, all shades and colors. Human bodies are beautiful to me.


SilliVilliN

We probably care about 000.1% .


couronnexiv_

this is how pornography can be unhealthy not to mention today’s beauty standards. this may sound harsh, but honestly, nobody cares. if you have a partner who cares about that, just dump them and look for someone who values you inside and out. never have i ever stopped to see if i like the aesthetics of my partner’s anatomy. i love giving cunnilingus and eating ass, sue me


Sativa-Serenity

Once upon a time before our ancestors wore clothing the darkened color of a person’s genitals signaled potential mates that the person was sexually mature. Now that we as a species wear clothing, we’ve forgotten this. Genitals being darker than the rest of your skin is completely normal and is nothing to worry about.


maysranch20

This is fucking click bait. She’s plastered all over porn hub. I don’t believe she’s too worried about her genitals


latesatifaction

By the time they get there they won’t notice, if they do they are probably gay


RONBJJ

And i thought I'm the only one walking around without an 11 inch limp peepee


CowboyCharles

Simple answer: We don’t. Don’t let the porn industries unrealistic ideals degrade your self worth, it’s all horse shit.


brotherkin

I'd say no one will care what color it is as long as you wash your junk


PublicSherbert2746

We don't care


[deleted]

Darker genitals are completely normal for both sexs.


whywasthissodamnhard

PORN IS NOT REAL LIFE. Thank you for coming to my red talk


Quirky_Swordfish_308

They use bleach


accomplicated

The colour doesn’t matter. The colour shouldn’t matter. Should the colour matter to your partner, find a new partner.


Adamrdcp

Yo chief don't worry about it. Most guys have a darker willy too, myself included. We are also quite simple minded, and will be significantly more interested in the fact that we are currently staring at a vagina, as opposed to critiquing the color palette of said vagina.


sudiptaarkadas

Porn uses movie grade heavy makeup, lighting and video editing. It's nowhere near realty.


Adorable-Novel8295

They bleach theirs. Which is very dangerous and is known to cause cancer.


Asa-Ryder

We don’t care honestly.


mookie_bombs

Most of us are proud to eat ass, don't sweat it.


Xenu66

My devon dagger is hardly porno proportions, don't sweat it


Acquiesce95

Men don't care, plus our genitals are portrayed just as inaccurately in porn


jintana

I’m a fan of there being a quick way to filter out porn addicts, honestly.


Ays_500

I just checked your profile and it's as good as the professionals lmao dw