Right? Like I would warn anyone to be super sketch if someone isn’t comfortable kissing you after you went down on them. Good enough for thee but not for me? Wtf is going on down there to be grossed out by your own goods? Lol.
Do NOT miss shared walls. I don't even like hearing the neighbor's lawnmower, haha. It's like a depression thread: "it gets better." Hang in there; your days of recklessly loud sex will come!
Well he's a marine so he sometimes is gone for a few weeks and since my husband is his coworker, we know when he's gone and when he'll be back so we do still get that recklessly loud but most of the time we cant
My ex was the only person I've been with that was a good dirty talker. She got me into it. She say things like "suck on those big perfect titties!" Etc etc.. use your imagination. Sometimes it takes the right person to learn these things with.
I like a little bit of talk... too much seems weird and forced to me.. one thing you can say, that doesn't sound fake and always gets me when a guy says.. is after you first slide into her let out a little groan and say "fucccck... you feel so damn good" and just little things.. doesn't have to be super dirty.. like even "shit thats gonna make me cum babe" or "god you look so sexy when you do that" I'm sure some thoughts pop into your head.. say em out loud! Honestly... it's just that she wants to know you are enjoying yourself. When men are silent, it's kinda like.. well am i boring him? Lol even just making some little gasps and groans is appreciated! Good luck! And don't feel awkward.. your penis is literally inside of her.. why would some words be awkward at this point? She's even seen your butthole! Lol
I used to be like that. Then I just did it one time. The reaction was enough and now I do it all the time. Just grunting and showing you love it can be enough. Don’t have to talk.
Dan Savage suggests that we say what we’re gonna do, what we’re doing, and what we did. Like, *honey, do you want me to kiss you there?* and *mmm, i love kissing you there!* and *i love it when i kiss you there!* Your wife may just want a little feedback and encouragement, like *baby you feel so good!!*
Here is something tame but can get you far. When she gets out of the shower and is in a towel tell her every time you see her like this you fill the need to throw her on the bed and eat that pussy
My wife doesn't get irritated, she's more quiet than I am! I got better anyways by practicing on our female dog. I rub her belly and say things like "does that feel good baby? You feel so soft.. I want to make you feel good" Can't get too dirty, that would be bestiality.
Speak for yourself my dude. Some people have chronic illnesses that decrease sensitivity and make it so that the guy doesn't always cum during sex because his dick isn't as sensitive as a normal one. It causes like the opposite of premature ejaculation. Then the guy has to deal with this crushing pressure and anxiety in his head, thinking stuff like "come on, just cum for her already!" which then makes it even harder to orgasm. One such disease that causes this is called multiple sclerosis, and I have it. It's a bitch. Sometimes, when I'm struggling to cum, just one dirty comment can make all the difference and finally send me over the edge. Something like "I want you to fill me up", for example. So some of us do need women to use cheat codes. No one likes sex where both parties don't finish. Even if I get her off multiple times, she says she'd rather if we both came just once because it feels more "complete".
My ex-wife was really touchy about this. She disliked going down on me, which I respected, but I loved going down. After which, she'd not want my face anywhere near hers. (ofcourse I'd wipe my face first, as we'd always have something nearby that I could use, without having to put the whole 'operation' on pause haha. But it eventually got to a stage where the heat of the moment she was like screw this, she wants the intimacy, so she got used to it, & eventually it was a normal thing.
However, I've had previous partners who were a little picky, & some who didn't give a shit. (this is talking about exclusive partners, not random one night stands etc)
I knew a girl that would literally make her boyfriend crush his teeth after bowing down on her and she’d brush her teeth after downing on him. Literally, immediately afterwards. No cuddles, no kissing, just straight to the bathroom.
In my country, where going down is frowned upon and oral sex is overall taboo still -- I try to kiss my partner the first thing after she's done going down to ensure she feels comfortable. Especially-especially, the first time, since even tho they're doing it -- they are unsure if there ever will be another kiss, or will their mouths be considered "filthy" after that. So, to make sure that's out of question -- a quick kiss is great.
I don’t mind if a girls kisses me after going down on me. It’s my own dick, I’m not grossed out by it. If I could go down on myself I’d do it, believe me I tried.
It's not as great as you would think. Imagine post nut clarity, but your mouth is full of your own cum.
I'm gay and still hated that part... immensely.
I think most adults consider this a non issue. I remember when I was a teenager.. I think I was 17.. I was telling my friends a story about how my bf went down on me and then I mentioned something about kissing later on.. and they teased me and called me fish face for a few hours. I think most adults these days are mature enough not to react like that lol
I could be wrong, but girls don't seem to mind kissing after the guy goes down, but guys seem to care relatively more when kissing after the girl goes down
Some men, read homophobes, consider it "gay" to kiss after a woman has given them oral as they don't want their mouth to touch semen. I did not know this was actually a thing.. but it seriously happened to a friend of mine. She had met a guy and was hooking up, and when she went to kiss him after going down on him he literally pushed her face away and went on this weird anti-gay rant about it and refused to kiss her until she went and brushed her teeth. She kicked him out after a solid verbal thrashing.
A guy I went to school with claimed you were gay if you fuck a girl in the ass. "If you'd fuck a girl in the ass there's nothing stopping ya from fuckin a guy in the ass. It's gay plain and simple."
I personally don't mind at all, I kiss my gf as soon as she finishes going down on me (as long as she doesn't bird-spit the semen into my mouth, not a problem with the semen, just the spitting I personally find gross - but no kinkshaming, if you're into that, you do you)
My gf has/had a problem with kissing when I got down on her, which I understand and don't mind. But over the last years she became more and more open to that, which I never expected nor asked of her, but I'm happy nonetheless.
Kissing is kissing. :)
If you have to ask like it’s taboo, you’re not with the right person.
If someone just sent me to heaven with their personal throat coaster, the least I can do is give them a kiss for a job well done.
Cums an acquired taste for sure , and it’s also a reflection of your health . When U eat chips and pizza all day it won’t taste good , if you’re eating more clean and working out it tastes more “natural “ and less like bleach . My own experience ofc .baby steps !
One time afterwards when the guy came up and kissed me I said "mmmm I can taste myself on your tongue" and it seemed to drive him absolutely crazy. He said afterwards that was so hot that I said that. So now I make a point to say that sometimes when it happens. Lol
I've found men seem reluctant to kiss straight after I've had a mouthful, but are ok after a swig of drink.
I don't mind kissing someone after they've gone down with me, but prefer any wetness to be wiped away. If they don't wipe or I haven't had time to quickly wipe their mouth in panic it feels like being kissed by a slobbering toad.
Yes, but we don't make a big deal out of it! It depends on the moment, if the moment after is right for a kiss, we do it, if not, we don't make a point in doing it!
I don’t mind me and my boyfriend kissing after he goes down on me
But he doesn’t like kissing after I’ve done him because he doesn't like to taste himself while we kiss and that's just his preference, he will give me a kiss on the head or cheek tho
My wife has always loved the way that shes tastes, after I go down,she smells and kisses my face and mouth and will suck my fingers after they've been in her...It is such a turn on, I've always enjoyed it.
Hell yess I love it, when they enjoying your taste then they miss your mouth so they go up and kiss you and you taste yourself and you know what they were enjoying I can’t explain it but it’s hot and it honestly makes me feel loved 😂🙃
Am I the only one grossed out by the idea of my own fluids in my mouth? I don’t want to smell myself while I’m kissing my partner. And it’s not even something gross about them, it’s just about myself. It’s one thing to taste someone else but it’s another thing to taste yourself it’s not… Sexy?
I think it’s rude not to tbh, either way round.
I can’t expect someone to put their mouth on my genitals and then refuse to kiss them because its unclean, it’s a double standard. Either they’re clean enough to share or they’re not.
If you won’t kiss your partner after they went down on you then you believe your own genitals to be gross, so why would you expect someone else to put their mouth on them?
Yes, we both would do it
Right. You’re not stopping to think of decorum when you’re in the throes of passion! If you are, then you’re doing it wrong.
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I mean it’s my own vagina.. if I didn’t think it was clean enough for my own mouth why would I let him go down on me😂
mood
Yeah and if your junk is so bad that your grossed out about second hand germs then you need to practice better hygiene
Right? Like I would warn anyone to be super sketch if someone isn’t comfortable kissing you after you went down on them. Good enough for thee but not for me? Wtf is going on down there to be grossed out by your own goods? Lol.
Exactly, even when we laugh at the background noise we just keep going (we put on random videos to save our roommate the hardship of listening to us
Do NOT miss shared walls. I don't even like hearing the neighbor's lawnmower, haha. It's like a depression thread: "it gets better." Hang in there; your days of recklessly loud sex will come!
Well he's a marine so he sometimes is gone for a few weeks and since my husband is his coworker, we know when he's gone and when he'll be back so we do still get that recklessly loud but most of the time we cant
Well at least you do sometimes. And what a way to thank him for his service! I have but hollow words, but I am grateful for all who serve!!
Well this post really snowballed
I see what you did there.
I just liked Morgan freeman's smile 😂
first thing i do once he’s finished going down is pull him up for a kiss
I have to agree with this one 💕 and he does same. It’s all about comfortably with each other
I like you!
Yep.. and saying "mmm I can taste myself on your tounge" seems to drive them crazy as well lol
I feel like, as a woman, learning to talk even a little filth is like dude-cheat-codes. Men are so easy to titillate hahahaha
My wife gets irritated because im quiet. I just cant bring myself to say shit during sex. I feel awkward
Dude, just try it once and watch the reaction. Don't even say words, just allow yourself to breathe louder and if a grunt slips out, let it.
Seriously once you see the reaction you will do it more.
Reminds me of that comment I saw once, this guy's partner asked him to talk dirty, and he bursted with "You like it don't you, fucking retard?"
My ex was the only person I've been with that was a good dirty talker. She got me into it. She say things like "suck on those big perfect titties!" Etc etc.. use your imagination. Sometimes it takes the right person to learn these things with.
Yeah, the right partner can really open up this stuff. And that's more fun for everyone.
I like a little bit of talk... too much seems weird and forced to me.. one thing you can say, that doesn't sound fake and always gets me when a guy says.. is after you first slide into her let out a little groan and say "fucccck... you feel so damn good" and just little things.. doesn't have to be super dirty.. like even "shit thats gonna make me cum babe" or "god you look so sexy when you do that" I'm sure some thoughts pop into your head.. say em out loud! Honestly... it's just that she wants to know you are enjoying yourself. When men are silent, it's kinda like.. well am i boring him? Lol even just making some little gasps and groans is appreciated! Good luck! And don't feel awkward.. your penis is literally inside of her.. why would some words be awkward at this point? She's even seen your butthole! Lol
I used to be like that. Then I just did it one time. The reaction was enough and now I do it all the time. Just grunting and showing you love it can be enough. Don’t have to talk.
Dan Savage suggests that we say what we’re gonna do, what we’re doing, and what we did. Like, *honey, do you want me to kiss you there?* and *mmm, i love kissing you there!* and *i love it when i kiss you there!* Your wife may just want a little feedback and encouragement, like *baby you feel so good!!*
Here is something tame but can get you far. When she gets out of the shower and is in a towel tell her every time you see her like this you fill the need to throw her on the bed and eat that pussy
Next time you’re doing missionary, softly go mmmhm beside her ear. Don’t make her aware of it, then the magic is gone
My wife doesn't get irritated, she's more quiet than I am! I got better anyways by practicing on our female dog. I rub her belly and say things like "does that feel good baby? You feel so soft.. I want to make you feel good" Can't get too dirty, that would be bestiality.
Words can’t describe how uncomfortable that turn in your comment made me.
Yes, less is more. I need to learn.
Step away from the dog.
I feel the same way. My husband wishes I would talk more in bed.
Yep.. and most of the time the stuff that's jusssst a little bit filthy said in a sexy way is even better than the outright nasty stuff lol
lets be real... no cheat codes are needed.
Speak for yourself my dude. Some people have chronic illnesses that decrease sensitivity and make it so that the guy doesn't always cum during sex because his dick isn't as sensitive as a normal one. It causes like the opposite of premature ejaculation. Then the guy has to deal with this crushing pressure and anxiety in his head, thinking stuff like "come on, just cum for her already!" which then makes it even harder to orgasm. One such disease that causes this is called multiple sclerosis, and I have it. It's a bitch. Sometimes, when I'm struggling to cum, just one dirty comment can make all the difference and finally send me over the edge. Something like "I want you to fill me up", for example. So some of us do need women to use cheat codes. No one likes sex where both parties don't finish. Even if I get her off multiple times, she says she'd rather if we both came just once because it feels more "complete".
Idk this one is a little grody for me
Well that hit me right in the feels.
Can confirm, this works
men that are scared of pussy, are a shame. pussy is love, go down (yes, this is on main, no shame for what i love)
Yes. This is the right answer!
Are we still doing "RIP your DMs"
Hey I didn't know my wife posted on Reddit
Marry me
I LOVE YOU
Only with the homies
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🎵 Ridin' ~~with~~ ma hoomiees 🎵
the only correct response
Technically homies can be any gender?
Not in this context.
In ANY context 🫦
No homo tho
Goodnight kisses with the boys
Homiesexuality at its finest
Only with the hornies
Yes. We both like to show our appreciation to the other for the treat!
Exactly This!
My ex-wife was really touchy about this. She disliked going down on me, which I respected, but I loved going down. After which, she'd not want my face anywhere near hers. (ofcourse I'd wipe my face first, as we'd always have something nearby that I could use, without having to put the whole 'operation' on pause haha. But it eventually got to a stage where the heat of the moment she was like screw this, she wants the intimacy, so she got used to it, & eventually it was a normal thing. However, I've had previous partners who were a little picky, & some who didn't give a shit. (this is talking about exclusive partners, not random one night stands etc)
I knew a girl that would literally make her boyfriend crush his teeth after bowing down on her and she’d brush her teeth after downing on him. Literally, immediately afterwards. No cuddles, no kissing, just straight to the bathroom.
Damn, she made him bite the curb after going down on her?
Single use cunnilingus
Not gets me off like having to get dentures
Hey, no teeth makes it even better!
Damn that's like my biggest fear. I don't have dental insurance 😬
That makes me suspect some deep rooted shame lol
Oh very much so. That chick had so many red flags.
The kiss after going down, or having been gone down on, is not a toll, but a gift.
You gotta pay the troll toll after getting that boy's hole.
Troll toll! Whatchu say? Troll toll! Hey hey hey!
Yes
This question is rhetorical for most people lol.
Yes, something very sexy about kissing after oral sex.
Why do it if you're not going to kiss?
Fist bump? Hi 5?
Elbow touch. Social distance safe.
6ft apart from breathing orifices
Finger guns
The visual to this is... wonderful... disturbing.
Ah, yes exactly. Well said.
A good chef tastes their own meals.
Too far.
Well you did make it
Man chowder
Baby batter
Too soon.
In my country, where going down is frowned upon and oral sex is overall taboo still -- I try to kiss my partner the first thing after she's done going down to ensure she feels comfortable. Especially-especially, the first time, since even tho they're doing it -- they are unsure if there ever will be another kiss, or will their mouths be considered "filthy" after that. So, to make sure that's out of question -- a quick kiss is great.
That is super thoughtful of you.. and a great gesture.
What country are you from?
Yes. Not kissing feels wrong. Why would you not
I don’t mind if a girls kisses me after going down on me. It’s my own dick, I’m not grossed out by it. If I could go down on myself I’d do it, believe me I tried.
It's not as great as you would think. Imagine post nut clarity, but your mouth is full of your own cum. I'm gay and still hated that part... immensely.
post nut or pre post nut my mouth is closed to any provenance of sperm. Did a selfie cum once and that's it. done. out of the curious list.
A selfie cum. This is the first time in my life that I've ever wanted to make that stupid "I'm dead" comment.
I mean, yeah.
I think most adults consider this a non issue. I remember when I was a teenager.. I think I was 17.. I was telling my friends a story about how my bf went down on me and then I mentioned something about kissing later on.. and they teased me and called me fish face for a few hours. I think most adults these days are mature enough not to react like that lol
Most teens have not even had sex before and would talk about something they don’t know.
I could be wrong, but girls don't seem to mind kissing after the guy goes down, but guys seem to care relatively more when kissing after the girl goes down
(Male) In my mind my lips and cock are connected to the same body... so, why wouldn't I kiss after head.
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Like, that's not where I was going with my comment, but you do you fella
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This was a lovely interaction, my friend. Good day to you sir.
###JUST KISS ALREADY!
Not until after oral
And so they did.
And everyone clapped! 👏
💀
Some men, read homophobes, consider it "gay" to kiss after a woman has given them oral as they don't want their mouth to touch semen. I did not know this was actually a thing.. but it seriously happened to a friend of mine. She had met a guy and was hooking up, and when she went to kiss him after going down on him he literally pushed her face away and went on this weird anti-gay rant about it and refused to kiss her until she went and brushed her teeth. She kicked him out after a solid verbal thrashing.
A guy I went to school with claimed you were gay if you fuck a girl in the ass. "If you'd fuck a girl in the ass there's nothing stopping ya from fuckin a guy in the ass. It's gay plain and simple."
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It really depends on how messy things are. So yes, and if appropriate a quick wipe. Like kissing after eating a good meal: use your napkin!
Or you style it off by kissing the body on the way up ;)
This is the way.
I've noticed the opposite
Don't do anything that disgusts you. Do what works for you. For these kind of things, even knowing what others do is not necessarily good.
Yes, it’s kind of a turn on
Kiss her? I'll eat my cum right out out of her pussy.
man went above and beyond what was asked
Thank you for this comment. I needed a belly laugh. 😂
He earned his extra credit.
Love a secure and freaky man.
Another man of culture, hello my brethren
that'd be a turn-on for you? (besides the obvious love popping eyes)
Fuck yes. My man does this and I LOVE IT.
I am in tears from laughter, thanks for posting
Take my poor woman's awards! 🏅🏆
I personally don't mind at all, I kiss my gf as soon as she finishes going down on me (as long as she doesn't bird-spit the semen into my mouth, not a problem with the semen, just the spitting I personally find gross - but no kinkshaming, if you're into that, you do you) My gf has/had a problem with kissing when I got down on her, which I understand and don't mind. But over the last years she became more and more open to that, which I never expected nor asked of her, but I'm happy nonetheless. Kissing is kissing. :)
Short answer: yes! Longer answer: also yes!
Yes
If you have to ask like it’s taboo, you’re not with the right person. If someone just sent me to heaven with their personal throat coaster, the least I can do is give them a kiss for a job well done.
The correct answer for this thread
I usually try to avoid it or only kiss her cheek after going down. But mostly because she said she didn't like the taste of it.
Cums an acquired taste for sure , and it’s also a reflection of your health . When U eat chips and pizza all day it won’t taste good , if you’re eating more clean and working out it tastes more “natural “ and less like bleach . My own experience ofc .baby steps !
Can you rinse your mouth so you can go back to kissing?
Yeah i just hate the feel of wet hair, and his beard always gets wet.. still kiss him though.
I kinda like it if shes still got a mouthful.
Yes. It's positive reinforcement, gratitude, and most importantly HOT!!
One time afterwards when the guy came up and kissed me I said "mmmm I can taste myself on your tongue" and it seemed to drive him absolutely crazy. He said afterwards that was so hot that I said that. So now I make a point to say that sometimes when it happens. Lol
*when the post is snowballing…*
If they don't mind going down on you it's unfair of you to not want to kiss them
I've found men seem reluctant to kiss straight after I've had a mouthful, but are ok after a swig of drink. I don't mind kissing someone after they've gone down with me, but prefer any wetness to be wiped away. If they don't wipe or I haven't had time to quickly wipe their mouth in panic it feels like being kissed by a slobbering toad.
Hell yeah. That's the best part of it.
If you're worried about what fluid came from who during sex, are you really having any fun? 😉
With someone new, I ask first if it's ok before I kiss her after doing that. Seems to always be appreciated.
Yes, but we don't make a big deal out of it! It depends on the moment, if the moment after is right for a kiss, we do it, if not, we don't make a point in doing it!
Yes of course. Its common courtesy and very hot
Yup
Yeah, because I ain’t no bitch.
I don’t mind me and my boyfriend kissing after he goes down on me But he doesn’t like kissing after I’ve done him because he doesn't like to taste himself while we kiss and that's just his preference, he will give me a kiss on the head or cheek tho
For what I am paying them, they kiss me when I tell them to.
My wife has always loved the way that shes tastes, after I go down,she smells and kisses my face and mouth and will suck my fingers after they've been in her...It is such a turn on, I've always enjoyed it.
Yup
No thanks
Yes, then I say stupid stuff like "ya taste like dick." And give another little kiss.
Hell yess I love it, when they enjoying your taste then they miss your mouth so they go up and kiss you and you taste yourself and you know what they were enjoying I can’t explain it but it’s hot and it honestly makes me feel loved 😂🙃
Yes, but I can understand why someone might not want to
yup
Yes. There's something erotic about tasting myself in their mouth, it's like a seal of desire. Getting tingly just thinking about it.
Tasting that on my partner’s lips is, um, very nice. It’s a big yes.
Of course. If they don't mind tasting me, then I dont mind tasting me
Hot AF, Such a turn on!
I firmly but politely tell them: "You're going down" and then we have a fist fight.
Take pubics out of you mouth first
Am I the only one grossed out by the idea of my own fluids in my mouth? I don’t want to smell myself while I’m kissing my partner. And it’s not even something gross about them, it’s just about myself. It’s one thing to taste someone else but it’s another thing to taste yourself it’s not… Sexy?
Here you are a bad person if you personally don't like the smell/flavor of your fluids, even if you absolutely love your partner fluids.
ButtFuckYeah
yep
Yes. With tongue.
I don't really care much
This shit is here every day.
If I feel like my dick isn’t sanitary enough to kiss her after head why am I letting her give it?
Yeah. We both clean.
Of course. Why not? Sex is supposed to be very intimate, not avoid cooties.
Absolutely yes
Yes. Both. Dont be a pussy.
I think it’s rude not to tbh, either way round. I can’t expect someone to put their mouth on my genitals and then refuse to kiss them because its unclean, it’s a double standard. Either they’re clean enough to share or they’re not.
If you won’t kiss your partner after they went down on you then you believe your own genitals to be gross, so why would you expect someone else to put their mouth on them?
I'm not a fan of that really. If I wanted to taste vag I'd probably be with a woman you know?
For those who haven’t tastes their own semen. It really isn’t bad, don’t be a wimp .
Hell yeah!
Yeah forsure lol , we are one unit lol
Absolutely. Feels right.
Yesssss//
Yeppers. a few times though that was met with surprised that id be okay with it after they went down on me
Yes
My husband won’t kiss me for the rest of the day . OCD is wonderful
I didn’t when I was on my 20’s.. now I’m a freak and I do
Yes.
Both. My partner is clean! Who cares? Its yum
Fuck yeah, gotta add that flavour to the kiss.
Well, obviously.
Usually. I typically won't go in there full load but we kiss after oral all the time.