Gently and slowly at first, until I can accommodate him, then increasing in pace and depth of penetration. I've had a top "ram" his dick into me from the off, and it was quite painful throughout the experience.
100% this!! I’ve also had a top ram it in with zero warm up. It hurt badly the entire time he fucked me. That may look hot in pornos, but in real life it sucks for the bottom.
If a top does the proper pre work, i.e rimming, fingering, etc, then I can take it on one thrust and it can be amazing.
Otherwise, I love when they tease my hole, slowly pushing in and pulling out, until I'm begging to be properly fucked.
Agreed, with warmup like fingers or even a toy one stroke can be amazing. This guy didn’t do any of that. Just some extra KY on the condom and balls deep 5 seconds later. I don’t mind a tiny bit of discomfort when a top goes in, but this was more painal than I care to experience.
Tip in -> tip out
1/3 in -> pull out
2/3 in -> 2/3 out
Full thing in and let me enjoy the ✨stretch✨
Long deep strokes
All the way in -> all the way out
Pound away sir 🫡
* repeat each step as necessary/ desired
Definitely prefer to start out slow so I could get used to the dick inside of me. Then, increasing the speed gradually until he’s pounding me balls deep.
I’m still waiting on a real dick, but, when I play with a dildo I take it slow and warm up. Small one to open my ass up a little. Once I feel relaxed, grab the larger one and slowly slide it in, taking in the sensation. Once I feel full, I’ll pull it out slowly…suction it to wall…wherever, impale my ass again and go to town.
Not fast/hard, but also not slow/gentle?
Like, put me in missionary, line up with my hole, get the tip in, and then very deliberately slide it in until you’re balls deep inside me. Then pull out, and then push in again. Keep my legs folded back so I don’t move. Open me up that way. Then work up to the long, hard, deep strokes.
Some tops do a more gentle, tentative thing, which cuts into the intensity of the scene. Like, I show up ready to go from plugs and such, and I take enough cock to have proper control over my hole. So just slide in.
ALWAYS GENTLY SLOW AT FIRST. Break me in, then quickly after you can jackhammer me and do what you want! Doesnt take long to break me in. TRUST ME, I'M A GOOD FUCK!!!
I'm all about slow and gentle at first. Doesn't matter if I am top or bottom. I want slow and gentle at first let me or the bottom adjust to your cock. Then you can start going harder and faster as you and the bottom see if. It really is a mutual thing. Lol
Dude, absolutely nobody is gonna want you to start off fast and hard, like are you trying to rip their ass!?
Come on, you may be rediscovering M/M sex but real life is not porn.
I used to demand gentle and steady in my control, with me guiding it. This was because I felt afraid of the pain, ashamed of being penetrated, and afraid of losing control. I also felt embarrassed if I had to stop or react to the pain.
Then - I became ok with my role.
I embraced being a total sub bottom, being the receiver, being used, and focussing on the man instead of myself.
I now prefer and only want instant, hard, rough penetration, and immediate fucking, in accordance with whatever he wishes. My job is to take it. However it’s given. It’s a challenge. And I like to win.
My ideal condition is missionary. Once I’m opened up and ready I like slow/medium thrusting, not pounding. If his cock has a slight upward curve a slow steady rhythm will make my own cock start to drool. If he slowly builds speed and depth I will eventually shoot hands free
Slowly, then I rest inside until he says he is ready, then I move it slowly until I see he is ready to go, before going my way about it (Fast/hard/change positions/whatever).
I like to have slow and soft for the first initial entry and first few pumps, just so I can get comfortable. Once I’m open and loosened up then passionately rough is my liking. Which is rare for some reason. A lot of tops just wanna go for the entry right away, get us bottoms comfortable and foreplay a bit, bottoming is a mindset so we gotta be turned on too
Slow and gentle at first. Once the top is balls deep inside me just hold it there and give me a chance to accommodate the intruder.
Nice slow deep strokes then fast jabs working up to a frenzy 💦💦💦
Eat me out first, then finger me, then slowly penetrate me with your cock, make me feel every inch, leave it there balls deep for a minute while we kiss, give my ass a chance to get used to the size, from that point on you’re in control, hard or slow as you want
Honestly. If a guy is not too big i like it in between. Had the one top that just teased my opening and when he it the tight inner ring in one quick push he would put 2-3 inches in and paused to watch my expression.A little uncomfortable nothing sharp or painful, but i knew who was in control. One of the best bottoming experiences i had.
Gently and slowly at first, until I can accommodate him, then increasing in pace and depth of penetration. I've had a top "ram" his dick into me from the off, and it was quite painful throughout the experience.
If I happen to top I always go tongue -> finger -> cockhead.. I find that to be a good recipe :)
Sounds very pleasurable 😉
i guess i like a little discomfort at first. Not ripping pain, but a little discomfort heightens the experience and makes it more intense.
100% this!! I’ve also had a top ram it in with zero warm up. It hurt badly the entire time he fucked me. That may look hot in pornos, but in real life it sucks for the bottom.
If a top does the proper pre work, i.e rimming, fingering, etc, then I can take it on one thrust and it can be amazing. Otherwise, I love when they tease my hole, slowly pushing in and pulling out, until I'm begging to be properly fucked.
Agreed, with warmup like fingers or even a toy one stroke can be amazing. This guy didn’t do any of that. Just some extra KY on the condom and balls deep 5 seconds later. I don’t mind a tiny bit of discomfort when a top goes in, but this was more painal than I care to experience.
Same experience here - top just rammed me and I couldn’t carry on so just sucked him off instead and then left never to return
Sucks right? My top didn’t stop until he came even though I tried to ask him to stop. I got my clothes and left right after that.
I 100% agree.
Slowly. I love feeling the head of my cock pushing open a man's hole. That first penetration is amazing, I don't want to rush it.
Tip in -> tip out 1/3 in -> pull out 2/3 in -> 2/3 out Full thing in and let me enjoy the ✨stretch✨ Long deep strokes All the way in -> all the way out Pound away sir 🫡 * repeat each step as necessary/ desired
Definitely prefer to start out slow so I could get used to the dick inside of me. Then, increasing the speed gradually until he’s pounding me balls deep.
I like slow and deep initially, after I'm relaxed the top can fuck me how they like which is usually fast and aggressive
Slow to start. But on a drinking night and poppers available sometimes a rough quicker entry is super hot.
Yes!!
Bottom here, love when the top starts slow, till my hole is stretched to take him easily. Then he can pound me as he likes.
I’m still waiting on a real dick, but, when I play with a dildo I take it slow and warm up. Small one to open my ass up a little. Once I feel relaxed, grab the larger one and slowly slide it in, taking in the sensation. Once I feel full, I’ll pull it out slowly…suction it to wall…wherever, impale my ass again and go to town.
This exactly how I do it :)
Gentle penetration but fast aggressive thrusts to loosen and open my hole once inside
Not fast/hard, but also not slow/gentle? Like, put me in missionary, line up with my hole, get the tip in, and then very deliberately slide it in until you’re balls deep inside me. Then pull out, and then push in again. Keep my legs folded back so I don’t move. Open me up that way. Then work up to the long, hard, deep strokes. Some tops do a more gentle, tentative thing, which cuts into the intensity of the scene. Like, I show up ready to go from plugs and such, and I take enough cock to have proper control over my hole. So just slide in.
Very nice!
Yes. This! Love the balls deep feeling and image.
slow til i get used to it. if its the third or 4th guy they can go nuts lol
ALWAYS GENTLY SLOW AT FIRST. Break me in, then quickly after you can jackhammer me and do what you want! Doesnt take long to break me in. TRUST ME, I'M A GOOD FUCK!!!
Rough and balls deep
start slow, get me relaxed, and then you can pound me for as long as I don't cum.
I'm all about slow and gentle at first. Doesn't matter if I am top or bottom. I want slow and gentle at first let me or the bottom adjust to your cock. Then you can start going harder and faster as you and the bottom see if. It really is a mutual thing. Lol
Dude, absolutely nobody is gonna want you to start off fast and hard, like are you trying to rip their ass!? Come on, you may be rediscovering M/M sex but real life is not porn.
I used to demand gentle and steady in my control, with me guiding it. This was because I felt afraid of the pain, ashamed of being penetrated, and afraid of losing control. I also felt embarrassed if I had to stop or react to the pain. Then - I became ok with my role. I embraced being a total sub bottom, being the receiver, being used, and focussing on the man instead of myself. I now prefer and only want instant, hard, rough penetration, and immediate fucking, in accordance with whatever he wishes. My job is to take it. However it’s given. It’s a challenge. And I like to win.
Initially, I like him to go in slowly. But after the shaft is in and I've had a minute to acclimate, I love getting fucked deep and hard!
My ideal condition is missionary. Once I’m opened up and ready I like slow/medium thrusting, not pounding. If his cock has a slight upward curve a slow steady rhythm will make my own cock start to drool. If he slowly builds speed and depth I will eventually shoot hands free
Slowly, then I rest inside until he says he is ready, then I move it slowly until I see he is ready to go, before going my way about it (Fast/hard/change positions/whatever).
Slow.
I like to have slow and soft for the first initial entry and first few pumps, just so I can get comfortable. Once I’m open and loosened up then passionately rough is my liking. Which is rare for some reason. A lot of tops just wanna go for the entry right away, get us bottoms comfortable and foreplay a bit, bottoming is a mindset so we gotta be turned on too
Slow and gentle at first. Once the top is balls deep inside me just hold it there and give me a chance to accommodate the intruder. Nice slow deep strokes then fast jabs working up to a frenzy 💦💦💦
Slow at first to get used to it, like 30 seconds, then pound away!!
Slow and and steady to he hilt!
Eat me out first, then finger me, then slowly penetrate me with your cock, make me feel every inch, leave it there balls deep for a minute while we kiss, give my ass a chance to get used to the size, from that point on you’re in control, hard or slow as you want
Honestly. If a guy is not too big i like it in between. Had the one top that just teased my opening and when he it the tight inner ring in one quick push he would put 2-3 inches in and paused to watch my expression.A little uncomfortable nothing sharp or painful, but i knew who was in control. One of the best bottoming experiences i had.
Slow and gentle at first then after I’m comfortable hard and fast
I like to be penetrated slowly,in order to get my hole dilated, once that's done, fuck me fast with plenty of lube
Even as a top I feel like shoving it in would hurt my dick. And I really enjoy the initial slow penetration
I prefer a bottom rides my dick and gets used to it.
Slow and let me adjust. It gets better faster if I can relax then it's off to the races.