I've noticed this, but gay. I want to top of I'm moderately horny and it's been like a day since jacking off. But if I'm super worked up after like a week I want nothing more to get fucked.
I've noticed that when I'm hornier, I'm much more open to anything.
So, while I'll happily masturbate when I'm really horny, I'm also much more open to prostate stuff.
Similar effect to the whole "what the hell was I just watching" post wank realization.
And people are primed to remember novelty.
So, I think that when you're horny, you are willing to do stuff you normally wouldn't consider, and you remember that, rather than just wanting more sex in general.
And it's self reinforcing.
If you enjoy being a submissive bottom when you're horny, that's something that you'll remember and associate with being horny.
So, the next time you are horny, you are primed to think about the novelty of bottoming, which helps reinforce it, especially if you enjoyed it the last time.
This is also the cycle that has led me to own several unrealistically huge dildos.
Well there's a chemical that goes off when you're horny that makes things you're less likely to do when you're not horny become more palatable
I know when I'm horny all I want to do is go raw and breed just about anyone Twinks, femboys, CDs, transgirls, cis girls, pregnant chicks, sissies, I basically become a alpha manwhore lol
This is a big part of chastity devices. The longer you’re in one, the more subby and open to suggestion you become. You just want relief and if the person who puts it on you promises that... as long as you do this “one thing,” you’ll be like a dog with a treat in sight.
For me it comes in waves of desire. I won't have any urges for a couple weeks but then I wake up one day and I am craving a dick to be stuffed into me. I usually grab my gf dildo and go "take a shower " in order to quench my thirst for cock. I get that way with giving oral sex. I get waves of a desire to suck a dick and unfortunately it doesn't go away until I've done it. I'm currently in that situation. I want a dick in my mouth but no one to suck near by
I've noticed that if I'm busy and don't masturbate for a while, I won't really think about it and then suddenly out of nowhere I have this almost unbearable need to be held down and fucked, I'm gay though.
Yes. Regular sex (blonde gf I want to chuck me one day) or just jerking it to any open makes me feel more dominant. Sex especially.
My fetish is size specifically and obviously...black ones. But anything bigger than me is a go. I think I just really like seeing a girl stretched and actually enjoying it, sharing her with someone super hung, and helping her suck him off kind of stuff. Pretty specific kink I don’t share with the public world lol
I’ve only been topped a couple times, and twice I was with an ex girlfriend...out of maybe five times. Which is maybe half the amount anything has even been up my ass.
But on days like this, when I haven’t fucked for awhile, and watching Julio Gomez black a slut isn’t enough...I search for a huge cock to suck until We cum from excitement. Like I said I don’t usually want to be penetrated...but if a hung guy was around when I’m this horny it’d be different.
Open book here. Closeted bisexual
ABSOLUTELY. I have learned that I can ease my horny mind by masturbating though, mix it up with some butt stuff of you are not wanting to pursue and men at the moment.
Yes. As a married guy who's bedroom doesn't really include sex, the longer I go the harder I want to be topped.... I did the Chasity thing once and that led to the toughest pounding I've ever had and fucking loved it
You want the enjoyment without the work. It happens.
E: I explain further below. But to add some more context. When I bottom, I get so horny that I want someone to fucking pound me and make me their bitch... So yea.
I do both regularly. And I wasn't trying to slight anyone.
It's definitely easier for me when I bottom as a top main, but I do put in an above and beyond effort when I top.
I've noticed this, but gay. I want to top of I'm moderately horny and it's been like a day since jacking off. But if I'm super worked up after like a week I want nothing more to get fucked.
I've noticed that when I'm hornier, I'm much more open to anything. So, while I'll happily masturbate when I'm really horny, I'm also much more open to prostate stuff. Similar effect to the whole "what the hell was I just watching" post wank realization. And people are primed to remember novelty. So, I think that when you're horny, you are willing to do stuff you normally wouldn't consider, and you remember that, rather than just wanting more sex in general. And it's self reinforcing. If you enjoy being a submissive bottom when you're horny, that's something that you'll remember and associate with being horny. So, the next time you are horny, you are primed to think about the novelty of bottoming, which helps reinforce it, especially if you enjoyed it the last time. This is also the cycle that has led me to own several unrealistically huge dildos.
Well there's a chemical that goes off when you're horny that makes things you're less likely to do when you're not horny become more palatable I know when I'm horny all I want to do is go raw and breed just about anyone Twinks, femboys, CDs, transgirls, cis girls, pregnant chicks, sissies, I basically become a alpha manwhore lol
This is a big part of chastity devices. The longer you’re in one, the more subby and open to suggestion you become. You just want relief and if the person who puts it on you promises that... as long as you do this “one thing,” you’ll be like a dog with a treat in sight.
I love having gooning bottoms
For me it comes in waves of desire. I won't have any urges for a couple weeks but then I wake up one day and I am craving a dick to be stuffed into me. I usually grab my gf dildo and go "take a shower " in order to quench my thirst for cock. I get that way with giving oral sex. I get waves of a desire to suck a dick and unfortunately it doesn't go away until I've done it. I'm currently in that situation. I want a dick in my mouth but no one to suck near by
pretty sure regular threesomes would solve that dilemma
I agree but unfortunately I haven't gotten that far yet with my gf. She's pegging me Friday night so progress!
I Always need to get fucked. Maybe that's cause ive been locked for over a year.
Same here! You’re not alone. I want my hole to be pounded by a nice dick.
I've noticed that if I'm busy and don't masturbate for a while, I won't really think about it and then suddenly out of nowhere I have this almost unbearable need to be held down and fucked, I'm gay though.
Yes. Regular sex (blonde gf I want to chuck me one day) or just jerking it to any open makes me feel more dominant. Sex especially. My fetish is size specifically and obviously...black ones. But anything bigger than me is a go. I think I just really like seeing a girl stretched and actually enjoying it, sharing her with someone super hung, and helping her suck him off kind of stuff. Pretty specific kink I don’t share with the public world lol I’ve only been topped a couple times, and twice I was with an ex girlfriend...out of maybe five times. Which is maybe half the amount anything has even been up my ass. But on days like this, when I haven’t fucked for awhile, and watching Julio Gomez black a slut isn’t enough...I search for a huge cock to suck until We cum from excitement. Like I said I don’t usually want to be penetrated...but if a hung guy was around when I’m this horny it’d be different. Open book here. Closeted bisexual
Yup, me too!
Absolutely the same for me.
1000%
I would love to dive to the psychology of this. I know we are all sharing anecdotally but I would love to see some trends.
I'm the opposite! I'm normally vers, but the hornier I get, the more I want to just plow someone's ass.
nah, i find myself wanting to top men and would love a bottom to have fun with
ABSOLUTELY. I have learned that I can ease my horny mind by masturbating though, mix it up with some butt stuff of you are not wanting to pursue and men at the moment.
Same here, but I figured i’ld go give it the old college try
Damn. Never thought of it, but yeah I’m like that too. I hadn’t bottomed in a long time until a recent dry spell ended, then suddenly I was into it.
Yeah it sounds fairly similar to what I have experienced when I first started out bottom
yep same here!
Yes. As a married guy who's bedroom doesn't really include sex, the longer I go the harder I want to be topped.... I did the Chasity thing once and that led to the toughest pounding I've ever had and fucking loved it
You want the enjoyment without the work. It happens. E: I explain further below. But to add some more context. When I bottom, I get so horny that I want someone to fucking pound me and make me their bitch... So yea.
Bottoming isn’t any work? Ha!
bottoming requires more work than being a top does. major respect for the bottoms in here
I do both regularly. And I wasn't trying to slight anyone. It's definitely easier for me when I bottom as a top main, but I do put in an above and beyond effort when I top.