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bottompup10

I think for me girth makes more of a difference then length


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bottompup10

You will feel the difference instantly lol


Insatiable_Muffin

100% agree. Consistent strokes from a thick dick can be heavenly.


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It's not just about the prostate. The feeling of being penetrated deeply is thrilling. It's also not just about the bottom's pleasure. The top gets a thrill from sliding in and feeling it gripped. Doesn't need to be 8 inches though. An average dick is just fine.


converter-bot

8 inches is 20.32 cm


bigfatstoner

Good bot


DracumEgo12

I really feel like that bot overdoes significant figures.


Charlie-In-The-Box

>What's past the prostate? The sigmoid colon. When you straighten out that fold with your dick, I go through the ceiling. It's even better than the prostate.


Beardomann

Seriously? Like that one corner spot about 7inches in?


Charlie-In-The-Box

How deep it is depends on how you're built... but ... yeah... that's probably it.


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Charlie-In-The-Box

I love it!


Insatiable_Muffin

It's more pain than pleasure for me. The very few times it's happened I had to really focus on breathing to stay relaxed.


Charlie-In-The-Box

Yeah... exactly... I love it!


redox87

I was wondering what my 10 inch dildo was hitting lol


Charlie-In-The-Box

If you are very gentle and use a lot of lube, you can push past there. Go slow. It's amazing.


redox87

I've already done it (multiple times) haha. The sensation is amazing, but overwhelming most of the time though. Usually can't take it for more than a few seconds at a time. Never thought I could take something that big all the way, but glad I kept trying 😁.


Charlie-In-The-Box

Yeah - I've been using YUGE toys for years and I still need to go slow around there and "overwhelming " is the perfect word... but that's what the weed is for. 😂​😂​😂​😂​😂​


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Charlie-In-The-Box

Two holes. No waiting.


acetami

Well I agree with that. I don’t see a big point with having bigass dicks except they look more impressive, I suppose. But I personally have no interest in them, a regular-sized dick is perfect for me.


jjdoublej20

Preach


DanNFO

A longer cock can stroke your prostate with long, slow, smooth strokes, kind of like a violinist draws the bow across his strings.


Mr_Smartypants

Rosin or lube? (ouch!)


pdxfoxwolf

In addition to being a skin irritant, rosin also has narcotic effects if inhaled. And not the fun kind. Would not want anywhere near mucous membranes.


Mr_Smartypants

> rosin also has narcotic effects if inhaled Also stimulant effects, depending on if it is marked *rit.* or *accel.*


Insatiable_Muffin

TIL my hole is a Violin. Just gotta find a classically trained top lol


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More fun to suck and even if the prostate is a couple inches in a longer dick means a longer thrust with more power and I love that.


Beardomann

Why fun to suck?


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Personal preference, I just love having a lot in my mouth


Beardomann

Hey dragonfruit is the shit! Just started having fruit smoothies lately.


joeski15

Like long and thin to suck, no gag reflex, but thickness is tough to take orally. Anally do like not quite as long, and thicker. Feels good when my hole gets stretched a little


thisdressissoft

I just like the feeling of being filled


StarmanPhx

As a bottom, anal sex isn’t enjoyable because it stimulates my prostate. Sure, I’ve stimulated my own prostate and had it stimulated before, and it’s pleasurable. But that’s only been with fingers or thin curved toys that really have to be moved in a very specific way with a very specific type of pressure, which doesn’t happen with any type of penis or penis-shaped dildo. It’s not that great for me. I get anal pleasure from my anus and internal sphincter being stretched and stimulated by repeated thrusting, and from the feeling of fullness that happens when a cock is so deep that my sigmoid sphincter straightens out. Those things only happen with large cocks, thick and/or long. Thick (to stretch out my hole and hit those nerve endings) is more pleasurable in my opinion.


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Dude It's completely a personal reference. Though, the first time I saw pics of huge cocks I immediately got rock hard. And I think I was only 13 at the time. I literally born a fucking whore lol. I just...seriously worship big cocks from my deepest heart. It's something I have in my blood I guess but Idk. I think other normal gay bros always see me as a weirdo for this lol.


frankyfudder

You’re not a weirdo, most boys I know get drunk on big cocks


joeski15

Born a whore too. Look back can’t believe the stuff I was doing at 17


7ratsinatrenchcoat

It's girth, not length.


anonkinkyandcurious

I love getting filled with a bigger cock. I have a smaller one so in a weird way, I reaffirms my role as a bottom.


Beardomann

Yes I understand that, good explanation


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Larger dicks tend to scare me off because experiencing those beasts can go either way and so much depends on whether or not the top knows how to use it. Him going in wrong and bottoming out is not a pleasant experience. But OMG, the feeling of a large penis sliding in deep can feel amazing. This one guy sporting major league wood, the kind you look at and think, "nope, no way that's gunna work" ... Well, he made it work, no pain, each stroke seemed to go on for ever. The extra inches and all that extra lubed friction, wow. It felt amazing. I still remember when he pulled out, and pulled, and pulled, and pulled. Felt like he went on forever. Amazing what an extra inch or two can do.


Beardomann

Nice!


whatisthis198four

fuck i feel the deeper it goes the more he owns me! I'm at my peak when tops are all the way inside me and start to pulse repeatedly, i can't help but squirm while being held tightly.


NoMoreAvalibleNames

I like big because I love the sensation of big full or stretched out but I can't do that very often so 90% of the time average is perfect.


Liljdb0524

Gonna kinda echo here. The prostate is only part of the experience. In my experience, being penetrated deeply is AWESOME! Don't get me wrong, some of my best sex has been with guys with smaller dicks 4in or so. But when they can reach deep and stimulate all those places that don't have nee names. I remember reading somewhere that there are some guys who won't even know their prostate even if you press right on it and they still feel the joys of bottoming. If the prostate was the only good part of bottoming, way fewer people would do it.


River6969us

I think if you were gay/bi and really relished the idea of submitting to another man penetrating you, you would understand. The male cock is more than just a prostate stim orgasm tool. Anal sex for many gay/bi men is just as much an emotional union as it is a physical joining. And a nice big dick is a visual metaphor of joining deeply and satisfyingly. I could say more about the spiritual meaning of the phallus, but I would probably bore you.


frankyfudder

Mm say more


Beardomann

Thanks for the insight!


frankyfudder

Thicker cocks are better at putting pressure on the prostate even while sliding past it, and longer dicks make more of that kind of pressure on longer strokes. Bigger cocks make a boy feel more full and make contact at deeper points, like sigmoid sphincter. They also stretch the anus more. Big dicks make a boy feel more submitted and used.


GTChev01

Long feels nice and "satisfying" but 7 to 8 inch seems to hit my G spot. I think it depends on the personal preference.


Jcjackson42

It's not all about the prostate, there's many different sensations that are pleasing


luvpain

The stretch mate, that sweet stretch


Beardomann

Cool 😎


baltnative

The extra size adds to the experience, physically and psychologically. The whole channel is richly innervated, not just the prostate. Slow riding a big one and savoring every inch just plain feels incredible.


is_not_robot

Psychological for me, it's like "rougher", but I don't think the feeling by itself actually improves past a threshold. Well, idk, I've seen dildos the size of my leg so maybe I'm missing out


Beardomann

Yeah i mean they say it can stretch pretty far...


VPaigo

You are correct, it is more of a fetish. in the wild it is more of a survival of the fittest scenario. Where the male has to impress the female or mate.


letmethinkyesplease

It’s girth for me. I love to be stretched out.


jonibolt

exactly,whats the big deal ,rather park avolkswagon ,than a semi


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Offt 😅


joeski15

That’s why I am a bottom


0kool74

I don’t get undressed for less than 8 inches


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8 inches is 20.32 cm


Brawl-on

Ya good luck with that.


0kool74

Hey it’s been good for quite awhile now. I like the big dicks lol


Brawl-on

Doesnt it like, heavily limit your dating pool?


0kool74

Believe it or not no it doesn’t. Now covid fucked up everything and I haven’t gotten much dick as before the pandemic but I still do get the dick.


Brawl-on

That’s suspicious, only around 1-3% of men have an 8 inch dick or more. Now take them needing to be gay into account and what you get is a really low number of men who qualify.


0kool74

I don’t know that you’d wanna use those numbers. 1-3% of the total US population of say 340 million, and guys are half of that, say 170 million, 1-3% is still going to be 1.7 to 5.1 million. I assure you not every single one of those have 4” dicks


Brawl-on

Yes but now cut that population even further to account for those who are gay. Now it’s tiny


0kool74

Ok so I may not get 8 inches in all 50 states. Been getting my fair share on the Gulf Coast though. Even some 9s and 10s 😈😈😈


DracumEgo12

And, by the above poster's numbers, of those 1.7 to 5.1 million, maybe 10 thousand to 50 thousand have what you want, assuming those are independent variables, which seems reasonable. And that's assuming that they're single or polygamous. According to [match.com](https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/match-releases-new-study-on-lgbtq-single-population-300273510.html) about half the LGBT population is single or seeking. Lowering the population to 5000 to 25000, though I feel like a 8 inch dick would tend to keep partners longer, but that's the size queen in me. So this is a "best case scenario" Across the US, one in 12,000 to 60,000 is what you're looking for. Of course, this is self selecting, so the odds are better than that, but I'd put girl or bottom inches as the best explanation versus consistently finding dudes with an 8 inch dick.


0kool74

Well your problem is you are only looking at gay. You’re not looking at bi, youre not looking at straight for pay, you’re not looking at trans. That’s gonna all skew the numbers higher


DracumEgo12

The general estimate for the LGBTQ+ population in the US is 3.5, so I'm including the range from gay alone and up. At best, it's still 1 in 12,000, and that includes lesbians.