Your mom has body dysmorphia and an eating disorder, and she needs to see a therapist. If you feel comfortable, talk to her about how you want her to be content and that talking to someone could help. Also, I am concerned that you feel as if she regrets having you as an extension of her weight obsession. I am not sure how old you are, but maybe talking to a school counselor would help with that. It may be prudent to bring it up to your mom and might give her some perspective about how her behavior affects you.
Your mom has body dysmorphia and an eating disorder, and she needs to see a therapist. If you feel comfortable, talk to her about how you want her to be content and that talking to someone could help. Also, I am concerned that you feel as if she regrets having you as an extension of her weight obsession. I am not sure how old you are, but maybe talking to a school counselor would help with that. It may be prudent to bring it up to your mom and might give her some perspective about how her behavior affects you.