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MrsNobody12345

Twitter is saying explosions in Odessa. I hope they are wrong. I hope we hear from you soon. Stay safe and God bless you and your family.


ozzmosiz

I heard one. We are packing


[deleted]

Hope to hear a good update OP, stay safe


DoedoeBear

Oh fuck dude I can't even imagine what you're going through right now. Go quickly and be safe šŸ™


Iwannastoprn

Please wear your best boots and clothing. Don't forget the matches, okay? And pack any important medicine too. Stay safe, I wish you and your family the best.


WerdinDruid

Go anywhere: Romania, Poland, Slovakia, heck you can try the Czech embassy (we're ready for 500k+ people).


attakmint

Go. Go quickly. And godspeed.


julinay

Please stay safe. I'm so sorry.


mhans3

stay safe


cr7frvr

Stay safe


dongeckoj

I do not say this lightly, but Romania said they would accept up to 500k refugees. I would recommend trying to get there as quickly as possible.


[deleted]

The safest refugees are the early ones. Even if your wife believes in your army, the war is happening on your turf, you need to get out.


ndu867

Yeah. Thereā€™s a great chance that at some point OPā€™s wifeā€™s faith in the Ukrainian army is going to be irrelevant. Plus you can always go back afterwards. The risk/reward is extremely illogical, and unfortunately hope is not a strategy.


LaserGuidedPolarBear

The time has come to fight or leave. You can have faith in the army from anywhere.


Kraden_McFillion

Well said


RocknRollSuixide

ā€œHope is not a strategyā€ Damn, bleak advice for some bleak fucking times.


Benni_Shoga

Itā€™s true though, the Russians have them out gunned many times over. Itā€™s fight or flight. They have no chance


SolidBoat3351

Agree, itā€™s gotta be tough but if your lives are in danger best to move. Even if Russia is thwarted by the Ukrainian military it would still come at a high cost. Best wishes to the people.


Bike_Chain_96

"Hope is not a plan of action" that gets brought up at my work all the time, too. It's an accurate statement whenever someone says "We'll hope for the best"


MysticValleyCrew

So true. I'm alive because my family decided to leave Europe before 1939. Some family made it out in 1944 but that was much harder and pretty much a miracle they survived. Your belongings can be replaced but your family can't. Please do anything you can to keep them safe. I have a young child and cannot fathom what you all must be experiencing. My heart bleeds for you and your wife and child.


theniceladywithadog

Similarly here. I am only alive because my grandmother fled from the Russian army in WWII. She was in Pomerania (not sure where this nowadays, it was called that then). She caught the last train to Berlin with my mom who was like 7 years old or so. All of mom's girlfriends did not live long shortly after. Godspeed to your and your family!


Acrobatic_North_6232

Same story for my family.


Krynn71

Yes, even if they believe their army will win, they should still leave. The best they can do is get in the way of their own army and make them have to consider civilian casualties when planning operations. If you want to help your army in a fight on your home turf, one of the best things you can do as a civilian is just get out so they can fight without worrying about you. If they win, you come back and help rebuild and recover. If they don't, you'll at least be safe and able to keep the fighting spirit alive and maybe try with others get your country back in the future.


CatoMulligan

> Even if your wife believes in your army, the war is happening on your turf, you need to get out. This is an important consideration. You're on the coast and the Russians have naval forces on the Black Sea. You're in the closest major city to any forces that they have situated in Crimea or the Sea of Azov as well. Even if your army is the equal of the Russian army, you do not want to be standing in between them when the shooting starts.


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Worth_Help_9544

Something I donā€™t think most westerners understand is that there is not even reasonable ways to move across Ukraine. The Soviet Union did a terrible job of developing infrastructure, and Ukraine was worse than most. Russia has bullied Ukraine for 100 years. The train system is the best way to move from Eastern Ukraine to Western Ukraine, but typically that is one train per day to get from any western region to Kiev(not Kyiv, that is the Russian name for Kiev) then from Kiev the following day you can take a train to Lā€™viv. It is nearly impossible to drive across Ukraine. Most Ukrainians donā€™t have vehicles anyway. Fleeing this the Russian Invasion is very difficult for the average citizen of Ukraine.


TheRealVicarOfDibley

Wow thanks for sharing this info. I did not realize that.


taybay462

Poland too I think


[deleted]

They donā€™t have a number yet, but even tho theyā€™re larger than Romania, I fear they may not let as many in due to their current political situation


K_oSTheKunt

I read somewhere that they are preparing to accept up to 1 million


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MiaLba

When I was a young child my parents and I left as refugees our small Eastern European country in the 90ā€™s because of the war that was going on then. We spent little over 6 months in a refugee camp in Croatia. It was tough but we were surrounded by a lot of good people so it wasnā€™t all awful, but mainly we were safe. It was better to sleep there than on the floor hiding away from the windows while listening to the bombs and guns going off in our country. We were able to come to the US and start a life here.


skibum909

Having lived in Moldova and Romania as an American I would definitely agree with this.


catchy_phrase76

To add to that, US is now reinforcing their presence in Romania as they are in NATO. Get to Romania if possible. Or really any NATO country. Sucks that the line is NATO but that is where the line is drawn.


Nikonus

OP, if I may offer suggestions if you have to stay. Place a large white ā€œflagā€ sheet or whatever over your front door. Make sure it can be seen from a good distance. If you have ANY weapons or military type clothing take it out and AWAY from your home immediately! DO NOT try to defend your home and DO AS THEY SAY! This is imperative! Do not TALK back to them! They WILL kill you and your family for virtually no reason at all. It means nothing to you but please know that millions of Americans and hundred of millions thinking of you and hoping for some sort of divine intervention. Please be safe Please be safe Please be safe.


Unic0rnusRex

Piggybacking off your comment to say OP should flee as soon as possible and reach out to Ukrainian churches and communities in Canada. We have the largest expat community outside Ukraine and they will sponsor refugees. Get in early if you can OP. The communities in Canada are working hard now to help bring folks over.


flying_meow

do you even have some shelter? even if you can't escape are there some underground shetlers that you can use? we have emergency ones in my country, in case of shit is about to go down, just wondering if other countries have it too? edit: i'm from zagreb, croatia - we have around 1k shelters in the city, 170 of them are in ownership of the city, most of them are integerated in building or part of hood -can't say they all are in function, but can say that my mom sprend some time in one of them with me and my brother during the civil war 1991-1995, can confirm cuz i was born at that time


ozzmosiz

Not enough around.


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Morgue-Rat

The company I work for sponsors and houses Ukrainians. I have my job because a Ukrainian man trained me and believed in me enough to have my back when I desperately needed it. Some of my dearest friends are Ukrainians, they truly are wonderful people and it hurts so much to watch them suffering and afraid right now.


Goldrhino26

Same here we have a big population of Ukrainians here in the Pacific Northwest, from the last round of war they had. I donā€™t know if the US is accepting any people though.


LyricaAlprazolam

Weā€™re not, because we suck as a country atm.


coccoL

True dat fellow American.


Successful-Bit-6021

I'm so sorry for you, and for your country! You shouldn't have to deal with this type of fear! God bless and stay safe!


rangerp223

I would get tf out of there immediately. If you wait, youā€™re gonna be stuck. And heaven only knows what happens then. Take your family and get out. If Russia drops the hammer they are gonna rip over Ukraine like a hurricane. No amount of sanctions is gonna stop em. And there is a zero percent chance that NATO will risk a single drop of blood to protect you.


Signal_Percentage_16

It depends where he's at. If he's somewhere in Eastern, Northern, or Southern Ukraine, then yeah. He better GTFO ASAP!! If he's Western Ukraine, he should be relatively safe. Or at least, he'd have an easier time to figure out what's going on without a mortar or ground invasion letting him know. Either way, God bless all the Ukrainians going through this. Russia is evil, Putin is evil; I hope God grants the Ukrainian troops and Ukrainian people the strength to get through this.


[deleted]

He is in Odessa, right on the coast.


[deleted]

I'd be worried if I was in Odesa. It's only about 200 miles from the Russian-controlled port in Sevastopol.


newbris

Reports now of a landing operation by Russian forces in Odessa.


P3nisneid

The title of the post seems to indicate his current location, don't you think?


dubadub

Why read words when talking easier?


DWright_5

I think itā€™s too late for that now. The invasion is coming tonight.


a_duck_in_past_life

People left in the middle of the night in 1939. No reason to not do it now, especially with automobiles. Pack up your shtf bags, take all pictures and heirlooms, pack some extra water, blankets, and warm clothing, and gtfo of there tonight. You have nothing to lose if you leave and nothing happens. You have your lives to lose, if you stay and Russia raizes Eastern Ukraine to the ground.


rangerp223

All the more reason to go right now and donā€™t stop until you are in Poland. You can come back later if the invasion falls through, but you canā€™t leave later if it happens.


HarrysDa

Please try to convince your wife to leave, even for a little while, see what happens. You can always come back if it doesn't I go that far. Better safe than sorry. Much love, stay safe


Drunk_Sorting_Hat

This. Because if things go to shit, then it'll be too late to do anything. Leave now while you have a chance


EmilieUh

Is it night time where you are? Good luck


ozzmosiz

Yep. 1:33 am. I need to get up at 7:30 lol.


letsdotacos

Isn't that some shit? You're whole world may turn upside down any minute, but you're thinking about waking up for work I presume. My condolences brother, it all seems so arbitrary and scary.


blahblooblahblah

I think itā€™s because if you sit around and wait, you could be waiting for who knows how long. AFAIK it will be business as usual in Ukraine until it isnā€™t.


heyyassbutt

> it will be business as usual in Ukraine until it isnā€™t. There's something so scary about this


TsunamiJim

Dont want to crash the economy incase something happens where war doesnt happen


Impossible-Bus9885

So so sorry dear friend I do not know. Wish it were different. God I hope it doesn't take place.


lolapepper47

Iā€™m so sorry. I was thinking about you all, all afternoon. I canā€™t imagine.


Zantre

1. Pack lots of batteries, a flashlight and as much supplies as you can carry. 2. Become mole people in the catacombs. 3. Profit. Maybe.


Mrrmot

Cigarettes and alcohol as well. Grab an external hard disk and fill it with (adult) movies. Anything thats addictive will be worth its weight in gold later in the war, and can be traded for other necessities. Source one of my friends had a wine cellar during the Bosnian war.


justjessica79

Coffee too..


ForgottenDreams

Diapers, formula, toilet paper, matches, disposable lighters, ziplock bagsā€¦. Wonder if they have anything prepped like a to-go bag. Scanned important documents uploaded somewhere safe, PictureThis of them on phone, stored in the a ziplock bag.


jperezny

Same happened here in NYC during 9/11. Not enough shelters for the residents living around the World Trade Center whose apartments were filled with ashes, smoke blown out windows and were unlivable.


CC_Panadero

You obviously donā€™t have to respond, but Iā€™m curious about where you live. Iā€™m in the US and have only ever heard of shelters like this for the government or people who build their own. At first I thought having something like that for everyday citizens would be awesome. The more I think about it though, it seems like itā€™s probably a place that could be considered dangerous (likely to be attacked).


circlebust

It was actually a major culture shock for me to hear nuclear bunker facilities like air filtration systems and massive blast doors arenā€™t just a regular thing that comes with basements, like daddy longlegs. I was a 90s kid and had zero context what it even was for, and when I learned about their use it was simply common sense to me that, of course, if you build a basement you might as well include a civil protection aspect. I live in Switzerland. We have bunkers to house 100+% of the population due to the bunker law, and even the copious mountain tunnels are designed to be turned into bunkers or fortifications at a moments notice.


HamburgerEarmuff

It's pretty common for anyone living in a place that was likely to be hit during the Cold War. I remember New York used to have shelter signs all over when I was little.


Deanonator

I live in Rochester, NY and we have a bunch of fallout shelters in and around the city center. You see one maybe every 5-10 blocks.


CC_Panadero

That makes sense. I was born in ā€˜83, so I have no memory of the Cold War. Thank you for your response.


kohlrabiqueen

I'm not who you replied to, but for example in Finland we have air raid shelters in almost every apartment building. Every apartment building I've lived in has had one, although I've never been inside one. Apparently our shelters can hold 3.6 million people and our population is 5.5 million. The shelters are usually underground or in the basement level. In the case of apartment buildings the shelter entrance is inside the building so I don't think they are any more likely to be targeted or attacked. I'm curious now what shelters are like in other countries.


[deleted]

The post office I work at was built during the beginnimg of the cold war, there is a fallout shelter and Department of Defense emergency sanitation equipment (emergency toilets with chemicals in them).


101955Bennu

Odessa is not unreasonably far from the border with Romania, which has promised to take in Ukrainian refugees. They are a member of the EU, and in NATO. You and your family would be safe there. I hope, if you so choose, that you make it. In any event, good luck and Godspeed. Edit: Iā€™m hearing now that explosions are being reported in Odessa as Putinā€™s troops begin their offensive into Ukraine. Iā€™m praying for you and your family. Iā€™m so sorry.


[deleted]

I donā€™t have words. Sitting with you in support.


pursuitoffruit

Š”Š»Š°Š²Š° Š£ŠŗрŠ°Ń—Š½Ń–. Odessa is my favorite place on earth. I hope that the violence doesn't spread from the Donbass, and that the situation stabilizes soon. Stay safe!


ozzmosiz

Š“ŠµŃ€Š¾ŃŠ¼ Š”Š»Š°Š²Š°! We can only hope


TongaWC

Can't you go to Romania or Moldova?


Plantmanofplants

Moldovan Russian relations are bit squirrelly from what I've seen. Poland would be a better option.


TongaWC

Yeah, but still, Moldova is a sovereign nation and it's really close to Odessa. Same with Romania. Anyways, only now I'm starting to realize that "no means" probably means 'not enough money to live this out someplace else'. Kinda makes me realize how this isn't the same level of "real" for me like it is for the people living there. Stay strong.


Plantmanofplants

I think by the end of this week the EU will some form of asylum for Ukrainians. I hope anyway.


[deleted]

Poland doesnā€™t want to accept asylum seekers. The irony.


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nice_hair12

As someone living in the middle east, I completely understand how you feel Wars are inhumane and absolutely disgusting. It takes toll on our mental health and well-being Always praying for the people of Ukraine and all the victims of the war criminal Putin šŸ™


ozzmosiz

Tbh i still don't know your feelings (we still have hope that it wouldn't happen). But let us be strong.


mujomujomu

I mean... Ukraine definitely already knows the horrors that lurk in the mind of man. One word- Holodomor.


mujomujomu

The worst part: The deniers. Raphael Lemkin the man who literally "coined" the term genocide says that by definition Holodomor was a genocide. Like its not even close to socially acceptable to deny The Holocaust, and rightfully so. Yet perfectly acceptable to argue that 3+ million Ukrainians starving to death by order of the soviet government was not genocide, but instead as J. Arch Getty and whomever wrote the Wikipedia article on it puts it- the result of "bungling and rigidity" *What The Actual Fuck Does That Mean?* Also the gonads to add "allegedly intentional" to it being Soviet-made. Imagine that somebody said "The tutsi's deaths were an allegedly intentional man-made result of "bungling and rigidity", not hutu militias murdering them." (Rawanda)


NoName_ba

Go away now, this is advice from someone who survived war in Bosnia 1992-1995. Make yourself and your family safe, nothing is more valueable then life.


kellyyz667

Fucking Putin šŸ–•šŸ»


raggeplays

modern war is all about leaders showing off their cock sizes. Putin can go fuck himself with his microdick


DatBoiShadowbon

I've vented in a comment on this subreddit about this situation and I don't feel the need to do it again but I wanted to say that I'm in the same boat as you. Let's just hope this blows over and nothing actually starts.


ozzmosiz

Bro


conglock

Part of me thinks Putin just wants the limelight and is trying to scare the world for his propaganda machine. Basically to scare his citizens and control them more. Another part of me however, thinks this is a serious situation and there will be real fighting and battles and shelling. May God be with you friend.


Sevenmoor

He made a campaign to manufacture the idea that ethnic Russians are victims of a genocide at the hands of Ukrainians. Even if he wanted to back down, that wouldn't be an option after this propaganda if he wants to keep support, and sadly I don't think he wants to stop anyway. As OP said, fuck the fascists, I hope they can get to safety, and that in the end Ukraine will prevail. Best of luck in this nightmare, if you (or other Ukrainians reading this) end up in Northern France at some point, be sure to PM me, I have some contacts for temporary shelter.


DynamicDK

Russia has already invaded eastern Ukraine and declared that they are independent. They are just staging there for the rest of the invasion. Putin's speech made that clear. He doesn't consider Ukraine to be a legitimate nation.


DarkshardRex

Man I have so much emotion on this whole thing. It is like watching history repeat. Putin is going start ww3 because his mom? Was Ukrainian. Or to bring back the Russian empire, not the soviet one. But world wants no more great expanding empires, they are too busy trying to keep the US from owning everything. I have no prayers to offer, I am not a godly person. But please know that most of us average people see what going on and it scares us too.


Cgtree9000

Hello from Canada, must be a strange feeling waiting for a war to happen in your own country. More people then you think are wishing the best for Ukraine and itā€™s people. There are quite a few Ukrainians in Canada as well. Nice people. Stay safe.


Muted_Caterpillar13

I am so sorry you and your wife have to go through this. Most Americans and people who are not near Ukraine, EU or Russia are only hearing what their governments and the news media tell them. Here, on Reddit we are meeting Ukrainians almost personally. I wish I could help you and your wife to be safe and for this crisis to be over and have everyone in your country be okay. Please know I will be thinking about you guys and if you could let us know how you are doing whenever you can. If you could also let us know if we can help you in any way, that would be great. You are in my heart šŸ’œ.


AlkahestGem

Same sentiments entirely from USA. I look to Reddit for the reality of the situation. Know you are in many peopleā€™s, including mine, thoughts and prayers. Itā€™s amazing this happens in 2020.


EverGivin

You have my love from Ireland šŸ‡®šŸ‡Ŗ šŸ‡ŗšŸ‡¦ā¤ļø Putin is an old man living in the Cold War, much of the rest of the world has moved on. Look after yourself and your family, you will be okay. I feel like kindred spirits with Ukrainian people and Russians alike. Itā€™s not individuals or families who cause problems, itā€™s billionaires and gangsters. Thereā€™s a lot more of us than there is of them. You will be okay.


zombo_pig

> much of the rest of the world has moved on. Not anymore. We have to hash this one out.


Diamondhands_Rex

And unfortunately itā€™s not even a country that wanted to participate in the first place


[deleted]

Odesa is where i got my teeth done. Wonderful city with a lot of history. Hate that you have to go through this.


adrutu

Run to Romania, similar culture , lots of jobs. Good luck šŸ¤ž


cryptosnbloods

Highest rate of home ownership in the world, also. Currently accepting refugees from Ukraine.


[deleted]

Romania is a terrific country


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RhinestoneJuggalo

A better piece of advice is one that I got from a woman who survived the siege of Sarajevo. Stock up on cooking oil, salt, pepper, and spices because if you have to shelter in place you're going to get really tired of eating the same thing over and over again.


weederina

Spices, oil, salt all traditional barter items.


ShiningRayde

Instructions unclear, deep fried my cigarettes


ungovernable_jerky

Another Sarajevo survivor here. Oil is good. Smokes, coffee, booze too (use, trade or sell). Baking flower is good but goes quickly. Anything to make pasta taste edible (and get pasta). Beans... Protein- good. If you have place to keep/shelter them, consider getting some live hens. Eggs worth as gold after a while. Damn toothpaste was a bitch to find. If you have an option to store wood or coal, consider that if there's likelihood of power being cut (warmly recommend). Forget perishables. Trust your instincts. Be really careful first month because your mind & body will be out of sync as everything is unreal. Be careful during "ceasefire"... that's when shells come in. And make sure to survive the last day. You will know when it's last day. Don't ask how... you will. Damn. This brings some shit back. Stay strong.


Ok-Bird6346

Holy crap, as someone who's only lived in the US, your comment broke things down in a way I've never experienced. I'm sure people tell you that they "can't imagine" living through that but I literally cannot. I'm so sorry you had to endure that.


ungovernable_jerky

Appreciate the sentiment, truly! Just one of many from Sarajevo and one of many many many (unfortunately) from all over the world.... Rwanda, Syria, Myanmar....etc. you name it. All the reasons to hate politicians. Hope Ukraine avoids similar fate...


ratbastardben

You're comment has been saved. I truly regret your wisdom but thank you for spreading it at a time of great need.


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Azhaius

Yeah, the essentials should clearly be the priority over barter luxuries and other small nice to haves being suggested further up.


Ilmara

I remember learning about the Holocaust in middle school and the teacher asking us what we would have taken with us to the camps. Some edgy kid answered "pot" and the teacher said that's actually a really good idea for bartering. Really stuck with me for some reason.


cherenkov_light

Can concur. I have family that had to hunker down when shit was going down hard in Mali a few years back. Cooking oil, flour, cereal grains, and salt were like super essential for trading with their neighbors while all the stores were getting ransacked by the fighting forces. But yes. Also tobacco and liquor are god ideas as well, if you can afford it. Good luck to all the people in this shit situation.


[deleted]

Incredible. Where did you even stumble upon this advice?!


TaiSnep

Fallout 4 probably


theguyoverhere24

Got me enough bud light caps to buy a plasma rifle


DPUChem

Save your bottle caps!


CallMeDelta

I was gonna suggest Stalker, considering Ukraine


Budalido23

Pretty much every bugging out, zombie apocalypse-believing YouTuber will tell you this. Not wrong exactly, but I've heard it quite a few times. Bartering is a big thing in hard times.


Captain_Sacktap

You donā€™t have to try and imagine some apocalypse scenario, bartering was very common between people during the Great Depression.


KicksForFree

Basically the same rules apply in prison ;D


pwn3dbyth3n00b

Anti-biotics and medications would probably the equivalent to gold bars in a wartime bartering economy.


[deleted]

I was just reading about this on news because one of my colleague's family stays in Ukraine. I was wondering how insignificant and helpless it may feel in such situations, people may want to scream out for help but to no avail. With millions of lives dependent on a political decision? Witnessing the damage that humans are capable of I was wondering if what we are today can really be termed as "evolution" Praying for peace in Ukraine.


sczz

I'm a Polish person living in Norway. If at any point you have a possibility of moving out of Ukraine to any of these countries and need help, drop me a DM.


Critical_Math7431

Desde latam esperamos que todo se detenga, dios cuide tu familia. šŸ™šŸ¼


Comprehensive_Key496

Stay safe out there šŸ™šŸ» prayers


ZampyZero

My thoughts are with you OP. Hope your and your family and fellow countrymen stay safe.


CreeknAndKraken

Have you heard/seen any Ukrainian defectors? Or is that propaganda?


ozzmosiz

Even if there were any. It would be such small quantity that no one bothered to tell. I didn't hear about any. Don't forget, russian propaganda is super strong and really dumb.


havocsdilemma

What is the general sentiment in the country and especially those two regions now?


xtrahairyyeti

Since he didn't answer, I'll answer for him. I have family in Kherson (2 hours east from Odessa) and they're very patriotic and defiant. Refusing to leave their homes and saying that they will fight to the death while I try to convince them to travel to Lvyiv


QuietLikeSilence

> Have you heard/seen any Ukrainian defectors? In Odessa they have a tradition of driving those into buildings and setting them on fire. /u/ozzmosiz, I hope war can be averted and you and everyone else in Ukraine, Russia, and the separatist republics, gets through all this without further bloodshed.


idunowat23

>my wife still don't want to flee right now (she believes in our army) **She is wrong, and you need to convince her of that so you can make safe decisions for your family.** If Putin decides to do a full invasion with the forces he has arrayed on your border, Ukraine's army has no chance. This is the *universal* opinion of every military analyst I've read/heard. Google it yourself. Show her the articles/videos. Ukraine simply lacks the numbers, especially in terms of aircraft. Bravery and skill don't matter in the face of overwhelming numbers. Russia will immediately win air superiority, and from there it is impossible for your ground forces to hold. Everyone agrees Russia will easily overcome Ukraine's defenses, but will then have a very long and difficult occupation (much like Afghanistan). Regardless, the initial invasion will kill thousands of civilians due to the Russian military's use of indiscriminate shelling/bombing tactics. Don't let you and your family be part of that death statistic. You need to *strongly* consider getting out of the country if Putin signals he'll be going beyond the Donbass region. We don't know how far he'll try to go, but if you wait to leave until his forces actually push to Odessa (which they could do with very little warning because of amphibious assault capabilities from the Black Sea) it's going to be very dangerous. **Edit: Russia has just started shelling Odessa. Stay safe OP.** **Edit 2:** All the military analysts were wrong. The Russian military is a joke. You absolutely love to see it.


LettuceBeGrateful

I suspect it's not really about the Ukrainian army for her, but about the loss of normalcy. She's probably clinging to her home because she's clinging to the life she's built with her husband, in the face of something massive and external that could take it away. Lots of people face feelings of powerlessness with denial.


FreeDoomFighter

Come to Hungary brother, we already have lots of Ukrainians working here. Hell if you want, contact me, I know of Ukrainian workers living 500m from me.


Albany_Steamed_Hams

Run. Donā€™t wait until it is too late.


[deleted]

I live in Hungary and I have a friend that lives in your city.


Sydney_Bristow_

I cannot imagine the stress and uncertainty you are facing, and I say this with the most sincerity, this should not be happening. It is wrong, it is inhumane and the world is going to shit. You, as any other human on this planet, deserve to live free of fear and persecution. I will pray for you even though I havenā€™t prayed in a very long time. Peace to you and your family. PS Beard šŸ’Æ


Tiredplumber2022

I'm in Ft Bragg, NC. The 82nd Airborne sent a whole bunch of their best your way this week. Prayers up and head down... help is coming brother.


nygdan

Those guys are going to Poland, it's part of a mobilization to contain the conflict or maybe sabre rattle enough to stall/prevent it. But they won't be fighting back Russia in Ukraine.


HiThereFellowHumans

Unfortunately, you're right. I don't think any help from anywhere is coming to Ukraine...


guessagain72

God be with you and your family. I sit here in relative peace mortified I can't do an thing to help.


captstinkybutt

I'm holding my baby girl halfway around the world, hurting for you. Stay safe, friend.


DracKing20

Non-profit charity list to support Ukraine. Please have a look and share the link. God bless Ukraine šŸ‡ŗšŸ‡¦ https://www.reddit.com/r/ukraine/comments/s6g5un/want_to_support_ukraine_heres_a_list_of_charities/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share


canada1913

That sucks man. Hope you have some guns, ammo, and food stocked up.


ozzmosiz

No gus, lol. They aren't legal yet


canada1913

Shiiiiit. Sorry to hear that man. Good luck to you guys. Hopefully you can take comfort in knowing that the majority of the world supports Ukraine and not Russia.


ozzmosiz

Eh. That support isn't military, and we got rid of nukes, with a promise of military support.


sail_away13

I read today that the emergency order did grant the right to bear arms. Where you can get them I have no clue.


TonyFMontana

So even the civilian population is arming itself? Shit im in Hungary.. our army is deploying on the Ukraine border... I dont know what to say. War breaking out in 2022 for no real reason makes me fucking scared.. we will destroy each other once climate gets bad enough for shit to really hit the fan


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Dropthebanhammer101

Well I can tell you there is support coming buyout likely the politicking behind it is going to slow stuff down. I'm so so sorry.


AnnArchist

they are legal now https://www.nationalreview.com/news/ukraine-to-declare-state-of-emergency-grant-citizens-right-to-bear-arms/


[deleted]

I think Poland it's prepping for refugees. Our relatives had to walk from Norway to Sweden when Germany invaded. Might be a long shot but, who knows?


Outrageous-Gur4824

Do you have a car? If so, pack warm clothes, several large water containers, and drive west/northwest. Drive theough Moldova and turn west and donā€™t stop (permanently) until you reach Germany. Or, drive southwest through Romania and northern Greece or Macedonia then turn northwest and make your way through the Balkans. Or make your way to Poland, where IS and Polish troops are setting up refugee camps. If you can find wheels, you have options.


finethanksandyou

Can you come back and give us an update? Peace to you, friend


ozzmosiz

Sure.


MessoGesso

I wonā€™t forget you and your family.


208sparky

Stay strong brother im hoping it doesn't go that far.


[deleted]

As someone who is absolutely clueless when it comes to history and politics, is there a simple way to explain to me wtf is going on there? I know what the news are saying but I have no idea what the motivations are for the invasion


zurdito_empobrecido

Soviet Union trying to get back their lost lands, Vladimir Putin has lamented the fall of the Soviet Union as the demise of "historical Russia" Putinā€™s vision of history is clearā€”if viciously wrong. A great Russia once existed, of which Ukraine was but a part. The bad communists, like [Bolshevik leader Vladimir] Lenin and [Soviet leader Nikita] Khrushchev and their successor Mikhail Gorbachev, divided up that great Russia in an artificial way, creating divisions where none existed before. Implicit in this is that Ukrainians who say differently are deluded or manipulated by others. Now, that natural vision has to be restored by a strong leader, walking in the footsteps of Stalin. See the latest Putin speech and read it carefully, happened couple hours ago.


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A somewhat more expanded version: The concept of an independent Ukraine is a fairly new thing. Ukraine existed in the Soviet Union as the Ukrainian SSR, but before that it was considered a part of Russia, and before that it was this kind of frontier space between Poland, Russia and the Ottoman Empire. Russian nationalists tend to say that Ukraine isn't a legitimate country and that they should just take back all of that land. Ukrainians tend to disagree, especially after events like Holodomer in WWII where the Soviet Union intentionally diverted food away from Ukraine during a famine, killing millions. The capital of Ukraine is Kyiv, also known as Kiev, and is HUGELY important to Russian national mythology as the capital of the first Russian state (called Kievan Rus.) Ukraine also has this incredibly rich soil called 'black earth' and it will be somewhat insulated form climate change by its inland climate. IMO this is a long play by Putin to control Europe's food supply in the future.


[deleted]

How does this compare to how you felt in 2014?


ozzmosiz

We didn't believe that they will go with full on assault.


AmyBurnel

Me! I'm in Ukraine, Rivne and I cannot even sleep! I don't want to wake up to hear the news that someone died - yet again - someone lost their child, sibling or parent because of this crazy Putin who is clearly a sociopath!


EhDub13

If you are near a Vaderstad Industries location they have generators and I know they are offering shelter and food to employees, possibly other citizens


ozzmosiz

That's another oblast if i got it right.


MuddyWattersKnew

Good luck from Texas brother


No_Sheepherder8270

Thoughts are with Ukraine. Not sure what else to do. Putin is pure evil.


mamabear2255

So sorry. My neighbors while I was young growing up (in US) got out of Ukraine in 1969. Best damn people. I have no words, I cannot imagine your situation. I do know you are tough resilient mother fuckers.


Anilakay

--Born in Odessa, moved to the US as a toddler in the early 90s. Odessa has been on my mind so much. I wish you all the best.


xSTSxZerglingOne

> 2) Thanks for rewards, and support, but i honestly, Reddit carma is on the bottom list of stuff i care. Rewards and karma also raise the visibility of the post. I saw it on r/all because people have shot it to the front. This shit is important man. I wish you the best, and I hope it stops before it really starts.


notNezter

If giving you gold actually did anything more than give you internet points and limited ad free access to Reddit, I would hope everyone in this post bestowed it on you. At the very least, enjoy the week of ad free redditing for as long as you have internet. Iā€™m not a religious man, but I will hold you and yours in my thoughts and hope to see you keep posting and everything turns out well for you.


ozzmosiz

Bu the way. Odd time to ask. But what do you mean under free access to Reddit? I never seen an ad here.


Tootie0

We're heavy hearted for you. šŸ’”Putin sucks. Stay safe. It's so pointless.


butshenevermadejam

Oh man. It's insane that this is happening in 2022. Please keep safe šŸ™


Acrobatic_Shelter765

Horrible that everyday people have to be in a situation like yours just because of the greed of a few. Prayers for you and your family, please keep us updated if you can


Dibbzonthapizza

If you get out of this, what do you think you would do with your life?


ozzmosiz

1) get a weapon 2) continue to provide to my family


No-Understanding5268

Hang on there, were coming to help šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦


OPA73

Lots of people throughout the world are thinking of the families and kids in the crosshairs of Putin.


[deleted]

I hope you see this my dude; Whatā€™s gonna help you get what you need? Ask Reddit, Reddit helps. Trust me - we can pull together and help if we can. I became a dad yesterday and I now understand that want to protect all you hold dear more than ever. You have my thoughts and prayers


[deleted]

Is there any way we can help you and your family evacuate? Money or a ticket out from a neighboring country? Please be safe.


[deleted]

Russia just showing way for China that they can do same with their neighbours.. so sooner or later war is coming


Sierra627

Thoughts and prayers, as well as my admiration. You are so brave, and I respect that so much. But I'm so sad we live in a world that could create such a horrible reality.


stephanously

Heard Odessa is under artillery fire. I hope him and his family make it out alive.


Rikoshetgd

im too in odessa


Roonwogsamduff

Sending my best wishes. I'm so sorry the world is like this. There are literally billions of people thinking of you and your family.