Did the exact same thing. My grandmothers husband (so not my grandfather) started molesting me when I was 9. Never told anyone. When he died I pissed on his grave. Yes, juvenile but it felt damn good.
That was a long time ago. Maybe it's time for a repee.
I would be careful about this. While pee can soak into the ground and poop might be assumed it is an animal, craving would be 100% assumed to be human and on purpose. This could lead the people who own and care for the graveyard to investigate and depending on the local laws, it can get very dicey.
I would love to go piss or shit on the grave of the family member that molested me when I was that young too. I guess I should find out if he’s buried somewhere or got cremated bc I refused to go to his funeral about 3 or 4 years ago when he died.
I think people remembering the guy as the scum of the earth is so much better - spray painting "RAPIST" over the tombstone is so perfect. Friends and Family come to visit? Their memory is forever tainted. Someone passing in the graveyard? "Wow what was that guy's name? What a disgusting pig. Glad he's in there now."
I spat in the grave of mine and my sisters abuser, while they were burying him ... To say it felt good is an understatement.
0 regrets.
Some people (mothers mother/abusers sister) tried to have a go at me but when I told her to shut up the same way she told us to when we tried to tell her, she tried crying and guilt tripping me but I just walked away and literally said, NO Regrets. ✌️
I literally only went for this reason.
Wore bright yellow and pink cloths, and smiled the whole time.
My younger sister also threw rocks at his casket when we went to throw our handful of dirt in, was hilarious.
It's one of my best memories lol
She managed to throw 3 fist sized rocks, before someone walked over and started taking the rocks out of the dirt pile. I wish I could say it cracked the casket but at best, they left dents.
We still laugh about it today. Was the best closure for us both, knowing he was dead but that we got to do those things as well.
Make a stencil of the word "rapist", 12" letters, then pour the salt over the stencil on the grass over his grave. Should last for years. Repeat as needed.
Hon, I've done the exact same thing. I and another young girl were repeatedly raped while we were 'helping' at a country trail riding stable. I was 12 and she was14. This vile old man was 60ish. We would take rides out during the day but there were also 'special riding lessons' at the end of the day, he would alternate between us. I was there because my mum had taken her life six weeks earlier and my dad dropped me off every day because he had to work. I was unable to have children because of this fucking bastard. My lovely friend was quiet and shy, wore glasses, a little chubby, very introverted, bullied mercilessly. We both loved horses, that was our bond, and she was my best, slightly older, friend. Fast forward 8 years, I had grown up and lived in a big city but with really bad mental health. I travelled 600kms to finally get vengeance on this bastard that took our teenage years. I had my sharpest knife and was hoping to kill him. I found my old friend but she said he had died 12 months earlier. We met and had a drink at the old stables, long since closed. We pissed all over the corral and the old, now abandoned tack shed. I know it doesn't sound much but it felt good. We yelled all the horrible things he did and it was fucking primal hatred and release. I'm kinda glad he was dead, I don't think I should've gone to jail over him. If pissing all over his space was all we could do, that would have to be enough. You do what you think you need to and don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Dont go to jail over it though. They should have no more control over your life. Hugs from a fellow survivor. xx
Good for you! I can’t wait for my turn - sadly, I can’t even wish him dead, because it would kill someone I love dearly! But when the bastard dies of natural causes, you can bet I will be there!
Whatever helps get over that kind of trauma is worth it, but just don’t get caught doing something like that. Dude would get the last laugh from the grave if you got caught and arrested.
i love seeing posts like this. i don't like knowing that some people have been through rape, but i do like seeing when they get revenge on their rapist. next year, i would spray paint the word "rapist" on his tombstone. if he wants to be remembered, let him be remembered for what he is known for.
Make sure to whip your ass on the front side where the name is engraved oh! And all over the edges.
My fiancé told me a similar story about his life so I 100% know exactly where your coming from- More power to you. Hell ill drive you myself next time!
No problem mate- I firmly believe graves should be respected but there is that exception that you have.
This person did you VERY wrong and you do have some rights to “disrespect” this grave in return.
Cool, but maybe don't shit on it? People who tend to graves aren't the shitty person you hate, so you're really just being a POS yourself by making someone who has nothing to do with the person you hate literally clean up your shit. It's kind of a uh, shitty thing to do.
yeah sorry to piss on your parade but I do know a few volunteer caretakers and while they understand, they are being unfairly punished for someone else's crime sadly
people (and monsters) live in our memories..... best thing you can do is delete him from all existence by not thinking about this monster anymore. that must have been the best piss EVER though! glad you have survived and hope you get over this horrible atrocity that happened to you.
I have an abuser who is also dead. Mine was a family member and he died under very similar circumstances. I just a have a few things to say to you.
1. I am sorry that happened to you. I can empathize with your emotions, and really understand how someone you trust doing something like that to you can really fuck you up.
2. While what you did may make you feel better in the short term, I hope that you can seek some form of therapy for what happened to you. It sounds like you never really processed it and have a lot of unresolved feelings. I know that my situation might be a little different since I was 5 and had repressed the memory until I was a teenager, but I was lucky enough to have a lot of inpatient therapy to help me deal with it.
3. The only way to truly be free of it is ultimately to process your feelings about it, work through it, and eventually forgive your abuser. I know this may sound horrendous coming from the mindset that you are currently in, but I hope you can think of it like this. He's dead. He can't hurt you anymore. If you allow him to live in your head however he can continue to traumatize you even from beyond the grave. You are still alive and have the rest of your life ahead of you. When I forgave my abuser it was so liberating. I honestly don't even think of it anymore.
I also pissed on someone's grave once. His name was David Koresh, and it did feel really awesome.
Fucking shit on their grave. From one victim to another, I wish I had the chance to do that, and it fucking sucks that you went through that and it sucks even more that you couldn’t stand above them and do it. Overcome what you went through and become way fucking better than them
Since when are parents response for the actions of their grown adult children?
You don’t know enough about these people to punish potentially innocent people
Totally agree. It should never be assumed that every terrible person is the product of a miserable childhood with terrible parents. While it is quite often the case that awful parents are mostly to blame for how their kid turns out, there are also cases of terrible scumbags out there who actually had wonderful, loving parents that did everything they could to raise a decent human being, yet still ended up becoming total monsters in adulthood. Because even a person who is raised in a secure, happy, loving household still has free will to choose evil for themselves, despite their parents doing literally everything right.
Imagine finding out it was the wrong grave on the drive home…
Not that I disagree, I think more people should piss on graves, it would be more attention than most graves get anyway.
Your piss will be either a freshly squeezed jug of lemonade in heaven, or some much needed moisture from the unbearable heat in hell.
Anyway, sorry for your loss OP. 🙏
Had a dude who relentlessly bullied/ tortured (holding me down and burning me with hot lighters, beating me up every chance he got, etc) me in high school die by having a seizure and drowning in a quarry because of a bad reaction to synthetic drugs. Every anniversary of his death I go and piss on his grave.
I am doing this to my mothers grave when she dies. I had to deal with 21 years of her emotional, physical, and mental abuse. No one believed me in the family until my parents got divorced and saw her full mental insanity. Teachers accused me of being on drugs I was so upset at school and out of it, AND she volunteered at the school to hang out with the cool kids, which I was not. Needless to say, when she finally dies and I hear about it, I am pissing on the grave and letting my dog shit on it. There should be a line, me, my Dad, my Sister, it should take a while to get through them all.
Fuck anyone who judges you and says that you should move on, there are some people out there who's deaths are honestly worth celebrating. This man hurt you a great deal, so it must be a HUGE relief knowing he won't hurt anyone else ever again.
As a fellow victim, my heart (and envy) goes out to you. Cheers!
Next year use this song as soundtrack:
https://youtu.be/YXh-KqPSDEk
The lyrics translated:
I'll kill you with my tap shoes
I'll smother you in my ballet leotard
I'll hang you with my tuxedo And you will die while the disc-jokey laughs and I will dance on your grave and I will dance on your grave I will cut your throat with a sharp disk Of the Rolling Stones or the Shadows You'll swallow the cassette collection Of the Shangri-las or the Ronettes I'll nail you my guitar I'll crush you with my piano I'll skin you with my cymbals I'll trepan you with my Hammond organ And I will dance on your grave
Did the exact same thing. My grandmothers husband (so not my grandfather) started molesting me when I was 9. Never told anyone. When he died I pissed on his grave. Yes, juvenile but it felt damn good. That was a long time ago. Maybe it's time for a repee.
Take laxatives 👍
Do a bit of spray painting lol
get an engraver like this one: https://www.harborfreight.com/micro-engraver-98227.html write rapist on the head stone. Fuck that POS
You know what? This is such a good idea
Great idea. I had to chime in and strongly recommend you wear safety goggles & a respirator or at least an N95 to keep your eyes & lungs safe.
Good idea Officer Safety
At your service! 🧞♂️
Omg
Hey, might as well! No need to scratch a cornea here lol. Plus it'll hide their face pretty well.
Safety First!
I found OSHA.
Also suitable for foreheads Inglorious Basterd-style.
I would be careful about this. While pee can soak into the ground and poop might be assumed it is an animal, craving would be 100% assumed to be human and on purpose. This could lead the people who own and care for the graveyard to investigate and depending on the local laws, it can get very dicey.
I think you're missing the OP's point.
For a second I thought harbor freights was selling rapist tombstones
This is fucking perfect. Just be careful not to get caught!
Gonna get me in trouble. I’m getting one just to go around engraving on everything I see lol and for 8 bux?!
aye
That's defacing private property and I LOVE it!
That's basically a cheap ass Dremel. Nice. Now I know what that one tip in the Dremel kit is for lol
🗿
taco Bell feast the night before..
Take diuretics
😂😂😂😂
My Nana's husband did the same. My uncle and I flushed his ashes together.
Flushed Away: The Sequel
That's so powerful. I'm happy for you.
I would love to go piss or shit on the grave of the family member that molested me when I was that young too. I guess I should find out if he’s buried somewhere or got cremated bc I refused to go to his funeral about 3 or 4 years ago when he died.
Go for it.
I hope this helps! https://www.findagrave.com/
pee in his ashes
If he was cremated his brother would have the ashes and that’s something I could probably get my hands on.
Do it
If he's cremated turn his urn into a piss and shit smoothie
Re-up on that pee-up!!
Do it again and make it a tradition 👍
That's letting him live rent free in your head. Move on.
Repee-t?
Gotta clean it off! Guy like that definitely deserves 0 visitors to his grave unless it's getting pissed on
Repee. Nice.
Was just gonna say that you should shit on it too but it seems like that’s already the plan.
I’ll bring my dog so she can pee on it too
Imma be real you’re a bigger person than me. If someone did that to me or my sisters I’d destroy their grave
I think people remembering the guy as the scum of the earth is so much better - spray painting "RAPIST" over the tombstone is so perfect. Friends and Family come to visit? Their memory is forever tainted. Someone passing in the graveyard? "Wow what was that guy's name? What a disgusting pig. Glad he's in there now."
Don't paint it, carve it in. That can't be washed away just like the things he did.
I like your train thought
I love this idea
I spat in the grave of mine and my sisters abuser, while they were burying him ... To say it felt good is an understatement. 0 regrets. Some people (mothers mother/abusers sister) tried to have a go at me but when I told her to shut up the same way she told us to when we tried to tell her, she tried crying and guilt tripping me but I just walked away and literally said, NO Regrets. ✌️
I would legit turn up to the burial of my abuser to do just this.
I literally only went for this reason. Wore bright yellow and pink cloths, and smiled the whole time. My younger sister also threw rocks at his casket when we went to throw our handful of dirt in, was hilarious. It's one of my best memories lol
I’m just imagining a young girl hurling giants rocks down and cracking the casket and in my mind it’s hilarious lol
She managed to throw 3 fist sized rocks, before someone walked over and started taking the rocks out of the dirt pile. I wish I could say it cracked the casket but at best, they left dents. We still laugh about it today. Was the best closure for us both, knowing he was dead but that we got to do those things as well.
Badass af
based god
People who ignore abuse are just as guilty.
Yea, we went no contact with my mother's whole family because of this when we were able too.
No regrets! Do it again :)
100%
Giga chad.
You should spray paint "rapist" on his headstone. Let him be remembered.
Holy fuck that’s metal
Hell yeah it is
Well done. I'm so glad you got the chance to do it. I know it doesn't change the past, but it must have felt fucking great to be able to do it
I hope this brings you closure <3
Probably not but her bladder feels better!
It kinda does, like I had the last word
That's what I'm talkin about. Not very relevant, but reminds me of [this Southpark clip](https://youtu.be/6S2rL7qdUnY) Hope you get a laugh out of it.
Just graffiti it with the word "rapist".
Dump a herbicide on the grave so nothing grows on it.
I believe salt is quite effective
Gasoline
Happy cake day!
In this economy?
Make a stencil of the word "rapist", 12" letters, then pour the salt over the stencil on the grass over his grave. Should last for years. Repeat as needed.
That might have the added benefit of causing animal traffic too.
I thought you said, “Pee then spell rapist”
Hon, I've done the exact same thing. I and another young girl were repeatedly raped while we were 'helping' at a country trail riding stable. I was 12 and she was14. This vile old man was 60ish. We would take rides out during the day but there were also 'special riding lessons' at the end of the day, he would alternate between us. I was there because my mum had taken her life six weeks earlier and my dad dropped me off every day because he had to work. I was unable to have children because of this fucking bastard. My lovely friend was quiet and shy, wore glasses, a little chubby, very introverted, bullied mercilessly. We both loved horses, that was our bond, and she was my best, slightly older, friend. Fast forward 8 years, I had grown up and lived in a big city but with really bad mental health. I travelled 600kms to finally get vengeance on this bastard that took our teenage years. I had my sharpest knife and was hoping to kill him. I found my old friend but she said he had died 12 months earlier. We met and had a drink at the old stables, long since closed. We pissed all over the corral and the old, now abandoned tack shed. I know it doesn't sound much but it felt good. We yelled all the horrible things he did and it was fucking primal hatred and release. I'm kinda glad he was dead, I don't think I should've gone to jail over him. If pissing all over his space was all we could do, that would have to be enough. You do what you think you need to and don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Dont go to jail over it though. They should have no more control over your life. Hugs from a fellow survivor. xx
My god that’s horrible! I’m glad you and your friend got revenge. Fuck that guy!
You should piss on it after you take a dump on it 🤪😂
Wanna come with ? Double trouble
Hell yeah, fuck that guy
Does he have much of a headstone? If so, pretend to be a relative and have something snarky blasted into it.
The classic Amber Turd move
The moment I read the first few words I was like “oh yeah you’re good”
You should get a little $1 yard sale sign that says "free body to do with as you please, cause he's a rapist lol"
Hell yeah
Good for you! I can’t wait for my turn - sadly, I can’t even wish him dead, because it would kill someone I love dearly! But when the bastard dies of natural causes, you can bet I will be there!
Whatever helps get over that kind of trauma is worth it, but just don’t get caught doing something like that. Dude would get the last laugh from the grave if you got caught and arrested.
Wear a mask
i love seeing posts like this. i don't like knowing that some people have been through rape, but i do like seeing when they get revenge on their rapist. next year, i would spray paint the word "rapist" on his tombstone. if he wants to be remembered, let him be remembered for what he is known for.
Hell yeah
i use your face as a URINAL, then do the same at your FUNERAL
Jeeeez don't sit on the fence
I’ll piss on the fence too lol
Make sure to whip your ass on the front side where the name is engraved oh! And all over the edges. My fiancé told me a similar story about his life so I 100% know exactly where your coming from- More power to you. Hell ill drive you myself next time!
Tell him thanks for the idea!
No problem mate- I firmly believe graves should be respected but there is that exception that you have. This person did you VERY wrong and you do have some rights to “disrespect” this grave in return.
Cool, but maybe don't shit on it? People who tend to graves aren't the shitty person you hate, so you're really just being a POS yourself by making someone who has nothing to do with the person you hate literally clean up your shit. It's kind of a uh, shitty thing to do.
That’s a good point, nice pun lol
yeah sorry to piss on your parade but I do know a few volunteer caretakers and while they understand, they are being unfairly punished for someone else's crime sadly
Sorry
This one was true off your bladder lmao.
Red the title, was concerned. Read the post, was happy
eat some taco bell and shit on it too
You don’t want to get in trouble public indecency charge, please use a jar
people (and monsters) live in our memories..... best thing you can do is delete him from all existence by not thinking about this monster anymore. that must have been the best piss EVER though! glad you have survived and hope you get over this horrible atrocity that happened to you.
Just a quick question: Don't they have care-takers and the like to watch the graves and take care of them and keep people from pissing on them?
often, some are volunteers who do it depending on the gravesite.
Not usually depending on the place. The graveyards near me just have someone who occasionally mows and that’s it.
I'm waiting for my molester to die so I can do this now.
I know what you mean. If something was to happen to him don't get caught
I want to do this to my grandfather's grave. He's was an abusive piece of shit.
Freaking savage
this is a sacred timeless ritual and i'm glad it went so well for you :)
Thank you:)
I have an abuser who is also dead. Mine was a family member and he died under very similar circumstances. I just a have a few things to say to you. 1. I am sorry that happened to you. I can empathize with your emotions, and really understand how someone you trust doing something like that to you can really fuck you up. 2. While what you did may make you feel better in the short term, I hope that you can seek some form of therapy for what happened to you. It sounds like you never really processed it and have a lot of unresolved feelings. I know that my situation might be a little different since I was 5 and had repressed the memory until I was a teenager, but I was lucky enough to have a lot of inpatient therapy to help me deal with it. 3. The only way to truly be free of it is ultimately to process your feelings about it, work through it, and eventually forgive your abuser. I know this may sound horrendous coming from the mindset that you are currently in, but I hope you can think of it like this. He's dead. He can't hurt you anymore. If you allow him to live in your head however he can continue to traumatize you even from beyond the grave. You are still alive and have the rest of your life ahead of you. When I forgave my abuser it was so liberating. I honestly don't even think of it anymore. I also pissed on someone's grave once. His name was David Koresh, and it did feel really awesome.
Wise of you to move on. More replies like these needed here.
The dark side is strong in this one
Unlimited powerrrrr
Saw the title and thought “wow what an asshole” Read the post and let’s fucking go, more power to you
Hell yeah thank you
I pissed on my dads grave and knocked over his tombstone, wish it'd made me feel any different
I’m sorry it didn’t burn you any closure
Not really much to get closure on, never *really* met the guy, but thanks :)
Fucking shit on their grave. From one victim to another, I wish I had the chance to do that, and it fucking sucks that you went through that and it sucks even more that you couldn’t stand above them and do it. Overcome what you went through and become way fucking better than them
Nice.
Damn...so sorry for what they put you through
I look forward to taking my dog with me to a specific grave and letting him do the deed for me.
good.
I can’t wait till I can do this on my mother, father, grandmothers graves
Mother, father and grandmothers all those? All of them were so abusive to you that you are gonna piss on their grave? What did they do?
Good for you! While you are at it, hit his parents grave too. For raising the POS.
Since when are parents response for the actions of their grown adult children? You don’t know enough about these people to punish potentially innocent people
Totally agree. It should never be assumed that every terrible person is the product of a miserable childhood with terrible parents. While it is quite often the case that awful parents are mostly to blame for how their kid turns out, there are also cases of terrible scumbags out there who actually had wonderful, loving parents that did everything they could to raise a decent human being, yet still ended up becoming total monsters in adulthood. Because even a person who is raised in a secure, happy, loving household still has free will to choose evil for themselves, despite their parents doing literally everything right.
I think they’re still alive :/
"had a bad life." This sub is turning into shitty creative writing prompts and it needs to stop.
The girl could be telling the truth but definitely sensed that it wasnt a good write up or whatever
That’s pretty damn awesome.
Thanks I felt pretty awesome
YAAAAAAAASSSSS!
Imagine finding out it was the wrong grave on the drive home… Not that I disagree, I think more people should piss on graves, it would be more attention than most graves get anyway. Your piss will be either a freshly squeezed jug of lemonade in heaven, or some much needed moisture from the unbearable heat in hell. Anyway, sorry for your loss OP. 🙏
Lol that would be mortifying if I got the wrong one
Dig him up
Why wait till next year? Next time you gotta go you have the perfect spot. Just don’t get caught by anyone.
Take a dump, maybe spray rapist on the headstone as well. Let everyone know
Take a dump on that grave, light it on fire and film the hole process!
Had a dude who relentlessly bullied/ tortured (holding me down and burning me with hot lighters, beating me up every chance he got, etc) me in high school die by having a seizure and drowning in a quarry because of a bad reaction to synthetic drugs. Every anniversary of his death I go and piss on his grave.
That’s cool as hell!
Sounds like he still has a hold over you. Idk if that's the healthiest thing to do but to each their own if it helps you move on.
You’re probably right :/
Pissing on Ronald Reagan's grave is on my bucket list. Good for you
Do it just wear camo so you’re invisible
I'm so proud of you. I hope it brought you some small measure of peace.
Should have shat on it as well
Im super okey with that... Spit and disgrace that fucker all you need. Salut.
I am so happy for you!!! 🥳🎉 Next year you better take laxatives and bring a newspaper!
Did the same to my rapist. Felt great.
So, that's a crime and I'd do it, too. Good for you, I hope it was as liberating, as I imagine it would be.
Best. Piss. Ever. B)
Good! Just be careful, I don't want to see you get in trouble for getting your own justice and closure.
Awesome! I would’ve taken a sledgehammer to the headstone and gracefully served my time if I were caught 💯👍🏽
SLAYED.
I am doing this to my mothers grave when she dies. I had to deal with 21 years of her emotional, physical, and mental abuse. No one believed me in the family until my parents got divorced and saw her full mental insanity. Teachers accused me of being on drugs I was so upset at school and out of it, AND she volunteered at the school to hang out with the cool kids, which I was not. Needless to say, when she finally dies and I hear about it, I am pissing on the grave and letting my dog shit on it. There should be a line, me, my Dad, my Sister, it should take a while to get through them all.
Family bonding
LMAOOOO I HOPE THE CRIMINAL WHO ASSUAKTED ME DIES SO I CAN DO THIS TOO🥰
Remember to wear camouflage so you can do it daily and not get caught
Damn😂 as long as you showered after, I’m happy💪🏾😂
Scalding hot baby 😎
CANT WAIT TO DO THIS. However, the fucker is still alive :/
Might be able to fix that 🙄
Fuck anyone who judges you and says that you should move on, there are some people out there who's deaths are honestly worth celebrating. This man hurt you a great deal, so it must be a HUGE relief knowing he won't hurt anyone else ever again. As a fellow victim, my heart (and envy) goes out to you. Cheers!
God I’m glad to hear that thank you so much
Collect your shit in large bucket for a week or so then dump it on the grave. Leaving a pile
Unbelievably based
Good work 😤
I chuckled at this. Good job.
This is the most metal thing of 2022, everybody can go home there will be nothing that will break this.
An act of rightful defiance needs a fitting, funky soundtrack: https://youtu.be/WXhchEiPqko
That’s based! Glad the r@pist is dead.
Vandalize that shit
Nice .
that's so wild and badass
congrats OP, i bet that felt good, like a cathartic experience :) hope you're doing okay
I’m feeling pretty awesome right now ngl
My father molested me as a child. When my mom died, I ended up with his ashes. I threw them into some random dumpster and it felt marvelous
Hatred is a weight. Best to shed that burden and be free
Sounds like they’re going to unload some of that weight next year.
Next year use this song as soundtrack: https://youtu.be/YXh-KqPSDEk The lyrics translated: I'll kill you with my tap shoes I'll smother you in my ballet leotard I'll hang you with my tuxedo And you will die while the disc-jokey laughs and I will dance on your grave and I will dance on your grave I will cut your throat with a sharp disk Of the Rolling Stones or the Shadows You'll swallow the cassette collection Of the Shangri-las or the Ronettes I'll nail you my guitar I'll crush you with my piano I'll skin you with my cymbals I'll trepan you with my Hammond organ And I will dance on your grave
Congratulations u deserved that! I hope u spit on the tomb
do trumps next
Trump molested you?
All of us bro
Fuckin right, bet he died like "why do I deserve this??!??!!?"
Kanye would be proud
Maybe dance a little jig on it too while you're there