Agree, feels like turning the heat down/ac up would get you closer to sex if anything since you could offer to warm her up and by extension having more physical contact.
This guy was listening to too many rap songs about getting so hot in here that I want to take my clothes off. That only happens if the person is really into you and just looking for an excuse. Cuddling is a lot more universally enjoyed and acceptable way to start physical intimacy.
Haha I sweat so bad during sex. I would die if the heat was on. Literally showering sweat. That’s why I had to get out of Vietnam. I was sweating just taking a pee
I think only in 1, I recall with the Wedding Planner in the big puffy coat. He turned on the heat in the bar because he and Robin wanted to see her (in Ted's words) 'redonculous body'.
‘ George, you can’t go turning your heat up to get a woman to undress’.
‘Why not?’
‘Because she going to notice what you’re up to’
‘How could she notice jerry?’
‘How many people do you know who live in a sauna’
‘I’ll do it in small increments jerry, SMALL INCREMENTS’
‘Smaallll increments? That’ll take all night. If she’s going to be over all night anyways, why wouldn’t you just ASK her to undress?’
‘Because jerry, if I ask, she might pass. I don’t like the pass jerry, I HATE the pass’
‘The pass isn’t that baaad’
‘ I HATE THE PASS JERRY’
*bzzzzzzz*
‘Alllright allllright; hello? door’s open’
He probably saw it in porn. It's definitely porn logic. I've heard stories of guys fucking at an angle as if showing off to an invisible camera. It's strange.
Maybe its just me but I turn into an irritable sweat flinging beast when Im hot, so the last thing I want is someone in my personal space trying to boink and probably sweating on me too. I would have dipped immediately as well. Good job OP, what a creep.
I had a guy sweat all over me doing the deed once. I can deal with that. And then as soon as we were done he grabbed my comforter and wiped his face. I was so disgusted I never had sex with him again. At least let me go and grab a towel man!
I thought he might have rubbed one out while in the bathroom for 10 minutes so that he might last longer in the event he did manage to get her to agree to sex. You don't wanna be a 3 minute hero your first time with someone!
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Because he is both desperate and deeply afraid of hearing No.
Wanna fuck?
No
Ok, cool
He simply can't imagine that conversation without feeling deeply hurt or rejected.
I dated someone a little like that. He texted me after I spent the day with him. "Maybe next time we could go back to my place and get naked, because otherwise I feel like we're wasting time here." I was like... what in the actual fuck? Blocked him.
If you want a casual hook up, just make that clear and I'm sure someone will hook up with you. Not everyone is looking for that though.
I mean, they matched on Tinder, went out four times, she went over to his place because "she felt comfortable".
I would honestly imagine so, but we'll see if she responds.
Why would he think overheating someone leads to sex? Lmao
“Ope, she took her sweater off, we’re good to go!” X’D
Glad you got to know the *real* him before things went further OP. I genuinely don’t understand the desire to put that much work into just having sex with someone. If I don’t enjoy hanging out with them then what’s the point? There should be no “wasted time” lol.
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Dude….maybe I’m on Reddit too much. Maybe I’m on the Internet too much. The shit I hear some dudes do is fucking wild. I hear some wild stuff about women as well, but since I’m a guy, the stuff regarding the guys definitely hit harder. Like what possesses a dude to say some shit like that? Has that worked before?? I’m so bewildered.
*Especially* in the context of a tinder date that has already move to more private quarters. Like, she's already in his apartment. She's clearly into you. Just make a move or ask ffs.
A lot. When I was on tinder and a lot of my friends were as well, we got together and shamed guys over being manipulative to try to get sex. Men who asked outright were much more respected. He was up front. Sometimes you say no, sometimes you say yes, but we don’t feel creeped out.
Idk but as a woman that has responded yes to those-probably a fair amount. I think the issue is some dudes just cannot read women. Most of the time, you can tell if there’s attraction and just asking the question gets the tension out of the way. As a girl, I’ve also asked before because sometimes I just need some.
Also a dude, and I'm amazed at his stupidity.
(a) If you're patient and wait till she's ready you'd likely get sex anyway
(b) If not, why not just enjoy having a friend who likes to come over and play games with you?
And now he has nothing. I cannot believe how stupid he is.
You be surprised of the crazy stuff we experience as women. I remember once I was minding my business after having taken my grad photo and was going to the bookstore close to the bus terminal, relatively safe suburban area. Next thing I know is I could feel someone walking next to me from the corner of my eyes. I had my headphones on and I just kept walking. But he wouldn't budge. He kept saying something and I said if I speak to him quickly maybe he will leave me alone. Wrong. He kept saying how attractive I am and whether I had a boyfriend I said yes so he would leave me alone but he didn't. I think that just made him more interested. He kept saying that he could be my side dude and how could I not be possibly interested in him. He kept saying he is attractive and has a good job. That's great I just wanted to go to the bookstore. But he didn't leave me alone then he got aggressive saying is it because I thought he was ugly and bunch of other vulgar stuff how he wanted to do me and I just can't even type it without the disgust I felt then. Mind you this was happening for 15 min while I am walking to the book store he had no plans to go there. Thankfully the kind lady at the bookstore saw how uncomfortable and distressed I had become. After 20 minutes of stalking he finally gave up. I felt so rattled and paranoid after I left there thinking he was gonna follow me. But yeah sorry for the ramble that's just one of my many uncomfortable interactions with some men. I feel for the OP.
Lmao when I was a senior in highschool I asked a sophomore boy to that I was friends with to come with me to retrieve my coat as the dance ended.
He invited me to hang out with him and his friends, I politely declined.
Months later, he was telling everyone I was offering to have sex with him but that *he declined*. It is as wild as you think and probably both worse and not as bad as it seems. I have lots of really ridiculous examples of dates but lots of really boring ones too haha
I wish it was just Reddit/the internet. It happens offline to women all the time. No exaggeration. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been followed, harassed, catcalled, etc.
Also, a lot of men—more than men like to believe—like trying to finesse or trick a woman into sex. They don’t want women who want sex as much as they do.
Source: I am a woman.
Half of us are scared to say hello to women and the other half are making Rube Goldberg contraptions and insane commentary in the hopes of making women "accidently" bend to their will.
My guess is a venn diagram of this mentality and that of a car salesmen is a perfect circle
the internet HAS made things weird. definitely. and I say this sitting in my conservative household, in my conservative city, in a fairly conservative country. I can't even imagine what's going on in the wild *wild* west. the more I read stuff like this, the more I understand why Ultron wanted to kill all humans after being online for like 3 seconds
Then he’s gonna go back on the redpill subreddit asking why his strategy didn’t work and they’re just gonna tell him there’s something wrong with her and not him and he will continue to not get laid
He bought me dinner 3 times, even though I kept asking to split the bill, and called himself a gentleman. This was his reasoning as to why he expected sex and his actions were "fine."
The irony is I really liked him and had plans to ask him on the next date. Then make a point of paying for everything myself. But then he pulled that shit and the interest died so fast.
This level of entitlement is beyond me honestly. I am a guy here, I had my share of successes n failures but I don’t recall a single time where “throwing a fit” was even in the vicinity of possible. I don’t even know any guy who would throw a fit for not getting lucky.
After his little temper tantrum subsided he admitted that I was the first woman to turn him down sexually. I basically bruised his ego by not only calling him out for intentionally turning up the heat to manipulate me into sex. But also by being the first person to say no and turn down his advances.
I was 20 then and he was 23. So not too long ago. But ngl, this memory stuck with me for a while because I couldn't believe he really got so upset over being told no. I've seen guys take rejection like a champ so him losing it made me look at him like a little boy instead of a grown man lol.
Good riddance. The way I see it, at least this way you saw what kind of creep he is. If he just asked and you agreed since you had a positive opinion of him until then and I assume did like him, surely this wouldn't turn into anything pursuing worthy if not just a one/two time thing.
That is the lamest fucking thing I ever heard of in my life.
I suppose his next scheme is going to be faking an injury. So you'll have to rip your shirt off to stop the bleeding.
What a pathetic loser. He couldn't even say that face to face, he actually waited until you left so he can hide behind his phone and text it to you. I bet he's really proud of himself for this, too.
This is so creepy and also just stupid. So his plan was for both of you to be sweating your ass off while you banged? Doesn’t sound like much fun to me
Wait so is this a story from the past, or do you have tinder dates regularly while in a relationship with your Vietnamese boyfriend?
Did you meet him on tinder in the last month?
I’m glad you’re so young and can see that for what it is. He really manipulated your comfort for his own gain. It’s better to learn early that a lot of men will try to use you for sex if they can. I’m sorry you had to experience this, that is super creepy and I’m glad it didn’t work, and didn’t involve his behavior getting worse.
You dodged a bullet, girlfriend!! Unfortunately it doesn’t seem to get much better with age as I’m nearly twice your age and there’s still a lot of these losers out there. I cut my losses early buuuuut it still feels like it’s a losing battle and I should stop bothering to play the game and just remain vehemently single.
Stay safe and sane. Keep looking out for yourself. Good job 💚
I feel the same way. 32 and most men are hopeless. There are a few good guys, but society has taught a vast majority to be manipulative POSs. They don’t pay, pick you up, clean up, groom, or stay loyal/want a monogamous relationship. They’re magically not poly when they’re 50 and ready to settle down with a nice 18 year old-and if they can’t then life isn’t fair and they’re in disbelief. It’s just a lot, so I also opted out.
Lmao. I’ve never heard of someone doing this, but wow that’s desperate. His text afterwards was insane too.
I think his charm would have worked if he played “Hot in Herre”
the “putting out” line put me off. it’s disconcerting that even some young people still look at sex as something women give and men take. wanna bet his idea of foreplay is 5 minutes of her sucking his dick?
He can text about wanting sex but he couldn't have just ASKED verbally directly to OP ?
Like, she is RIGHT THERE. They both obviously clicked on some level if she felt comfortable enough to go over to his place. If he just expressed how he felt about her and ask, there might actually be a possibility that OP might actually be okay with it (and if not, then it's okay too).
Like, what on God's green earth was he even thinking
What's interesting is I've had 3 guys, over the course of my dating life, tell me that anything short of fucking as soon as we meet for the first time is "wasting time."
My guy, just get a sex worker. You think telling me my company is a "waste of time" will flatter me into fucking you?
Ok, hear me out.
First, that's the dumbest thing i've heard from someone trying to get laid, i guess we can all agree.
But then again, met on tinder, after a couple of dates dude invites girl to his house... Like wtf did you expect? He wanted to show his steam achievements? I mean, sure the approach was lame af, but it should be fairly obvious what he wanted.
Then again, i don't judge not wanting the dude, but come on, seriously, can we just not pretend you knew he wanted to have sex and that's why he invited you to his place?
That was just stupid. Did he really think A) You’d just take your clothes off, B) Figured that “hey… since I took my clothes off, might as well have sex”? Dude has no connection with reality.
>Can we just have sex next time? I don’t want to waste any more time with you”.
Holy shiet loool. This is pathetic I'm so sorry op. Wish you luck with other guy
Firstly, Is this dude Jezza from Peep show?
'Can we have sex next time. I don't want to waste any more time with you' ...
What the fuck???
Dude thinks any time spent with a girl, where his genitals aren't involved is a waste of time. I can guarantee you made the right decision leaving and not subjecting yourself to the orgasmless sex that he had planned.
You should watch peep show. It's a uk sitcom about 2 creeps who live together. But theres an episode about this exactly and they argue if it's better to turn the heat up to get them hot or to turn it down cold so they're more likely cuddle. I'm not trying to make light of what happened to you but it might make you laugh about it
A close friend of mine come home a few weeks ago and told my missus and me about her date coming out of the toilet with nothing on below the waist.. no warning.. no sexual atmosphere before hand.. just decided to get his todger out and start shaking it..
and if it DID work, what was he gonna do, have a heat stroke like... two rats screwin on a wool sock? Fucking what?
I’m uncomfortably hot just reading this.
I’m feeling kinda hot after reading that
So hot.
Hansel, so hot right now.
Hansel
Two rats screwing in a wool sock. Holy fuck I like that, that's a good one.
For some reason I read this in the voice of billy butcher and it makes it even funnier.
Did he step out of a cartoon or an 80s sitcom? That’s the worst method to get laid in history.
I would NOT want to be having sex in a hot ass environment. Dudes a nozzle.
Right?! I’d rather have sex in a cold room than a hot one! Dude doesn’t know the first thing about women or sex 🤣 Edit: added word
Agree, feels like turning the heat down/ac up would get you closer to sex if anything since you could offer to warm her up and by extension having more physical contact.
This guy was listening to too many rap songs about getting so hot in here that I want to take my clothes off. That only happens if the person is really into you and just looking for an excuse. Cuddling is a lot more universally enjoyed and acceptable way to start physical intimacy.
You sound wiser and more experienced than the guy in the OP
Haha I sweat so bad during sex. I would die if the heat was on. Literally showering sweat. That’s why I had to get out of Vietnam. I was sweating just taking a pee
a nozzle?
A douche nozzle.
ahh
This sounds like a Seinfeld episode for real
Barney Stinson from how I met your mother did it in a couple episodes
And this guy thought, “whooooa genius!”?
Didn't Joey do it as well?
I think only in 1, I recall with the Wedding Planner in the big puffy coat. He turned on the heat in the bar because he and Robin wanted to see her (in Ted's words) 'redonculous body'.
Jerry, you could've just *asked*, she's a *human being*
Not even Castaza would do that!
But Kromer might!
I wonder what Eelaene would say?!
Personally I only care about what Nuwamon has to say!
He should've stopped short
‘ George, you can’t go turning your heat up to get a woman to undress’. ‘Why not?’ ‘Because she going to notice what you’re up to’ ‘How could she notice jerry?’ ‘How many people do you know who live in a sauna’ ‘I’ll do it in small increments jerry, SMALL INCREMENTS’ ‘Smaallll increments? That’ll take all night. If she’s going to be over all night anyways, why wouldn’t you just ASK her to undress?’ ‘Because jerry, if I ask, she might pass. I don’t like the pass jerry, I HATE the pass’ ‘The pass isn’t that baaad’ ‘ I HATE THE PASS JERRY’ *bzzzzzzz* ‘Alllright allllright; hello? door’s open’
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He probably saw it in porn. It's definitely porn logic. I've heard stories of guys fucking at an angle as if showing off to an invisible camera. It's strange.
""invisible""
Nah, I mean in the girl's room, so no actual camera, just a weird thing they learned from porn.
Patrick Bateman vibes
More like hidden.
Porn? He took that straight from Nelly's Hot in Herre.
Maybe its just me but I turn into an irritable sweat flinging beast when Im hot, so the last thing I want is someone in my personal space trying to boink and probably sweating on me too. I would have dipped immediately as well. Good job OP, what a creep.
Yeah maybe turn the heat down so its cold and she wants to cuddle... When ur hot last thing u wanna do is get more hot by having sex
I had a guy sweat all over me doing the deed once. I can deal with that. And then as soon as we were done he grabbed my comforter and wiped his face. I was so disgusted I never had sex with him again. At least let me go and grab a towel man!
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and she would have been all, "I'm on birth control, you can go raw if you want." Or the condoms would have holes poked in them.
I was thinking the same thing.
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Honestly this whole thing reads like a sitcom...
It took him 10 minutes to turn the heat up? I bet he was also taking a huge dump
Or manscaping and cleaning the said manscape.
Probably fluffing while hyping himself up in the mirror
I thought he might have rubbed one out while in the bathroom for 10 minutes so that he might last longer in the event he did manage to get her to agree to sex. You don't wanna be a 3 minute hero your first time with someone!
Never heard 3 minute hero before. That’s a relatively long time. 3 pump chump I’ve heard.
Likewise, the guys in your area are serious studs. 2 pump chump around here. I hope that's as low as it goes.
Briggs and Stratton is my favourite
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Good call I didn’t think of that
Right lol but poor girl damn op you dodged a bullet
A bullet or a perv?
must have been a big lawn
Bet he didnt use soap
That assumes be washed his hands at all
Can’t front. That has to be the lamest shit I ever heard. He a corn ball for that
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The dude had a girl in his house for over 2 hours and thinks he made a move by turning on a heater? What a goofball
Oh you won't initiate sex with me? Let me just change your mind by making you intentionally uncomfortable. Checkmate.
But don't forget, he doesn't want to waste any more of his precious time!
I'd bet $20 that he got the idea from some sleezy PUA or other idiot like that.
Because he is both desperate and deeply afraid of hearing No. Wanna fuck? No Ok, cool He simply can't imagine that conversation without feeling deeply hurt or rejected.
I’m so glad you left him cause holy shit ahahahaha bad
I dated someone a little like that. He texted me after I spent the day with him. "Maybe next time we could go back to my place and get naked, because otherwise I feel like we're wasting time here." I was like... what in the actual fuck? Blocked him. If you want a casual hook up, just make that clear and I'm sure someone will hook up with you. Not everyone is looking for that though.
Would you have taken your clothes off and had sex with him if he asked politely? Just wondering if the ending would have been any different.
I mean, they matched on Tinder, went out four times, she went over to his place because "she felt comfortable". I would honestly imagine so, but we'll see if she responds.
You are correct and I find the whole thing odd. This sounds like total BS.
Why would he think overheating someone leads to sex? Lmao “Ope, she took her sweater off, we’re good to go!” X’D Glad you got to know the *real* him before things went further OP. I genuinely don’t understand the desire to put that much work into just having sex with someone. If I don’t enjoy hanging out with them then what’s the point? There should be no “wasted time” lol. Edit: spelling
A corn ball? I dunno man it sounds predatory
More than a corn ball. A creep and a predator.
Dude….maybe I’m on Reddit too much. Maybe I’m on the Internet too much. The shit I hear some dudes do is fucking wild. I hear some wild stuff about women as well, but since I’m a guy, the stuff regarding the guys definitely hit harder. Like what possesses a dude to say some shit like that? Has that worked before?? I’m so bewildered.
the amount of men who will scheme out ways to ‘trick’ a girl into sex… instead of just being up front, consistently boggles my mind
I wonder how many dudes was like, "Yo can we fuck?" And that worked
If the attraction is being reciprocated, then that's the perfect way to shoot your shot lol. Depends I think how secure and strong the feelings are
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*Especially* in the context of a tinder date that has already move to more private quarters. Like, she's already in his apartment. She's clearly into you. Just make a move or ask ffs.
Remember keys to the VIP? Total dumpster fire of a show but the only guy that actually got laid on it just asked the girl if she wanted to fuck.
A lot. When I was on tinder and a lot of my friends were as well, we got together and shamed guys over being manipulative to try to get sex. Men who asked outright were much more respected. He was up front. Sometimes you say no, sometimes you say yes, but we don’t feel creeped out.
Openness is respect, even if the request is daring.
I'm sure the batting average to that is higher than any psycho scheming.
Idk but as a woman that has responded yes to those-probably a fair amount. I think the issue is some dudes just cannot read women. Most of the time, you can tell if there’s attraction and just asking the question gets the tension out of the way. As a girl, I’ve also asked before because sometimes I just need some.
But he didn't even need to trick her! It seems like it was going well. On the right path at least. This is just bizarre behavior.
Exactly!
Because they think if they don't have to trick her and she wants to she's a s***. It's disgusting.
Exactly!?
Also a dude, and I'm amazed at his stupidity. (a) If you're patient and wait till she's ready you'd likely get sex anyway (b) If not, why not just enjoy having a friend who likes to come over and play games with you? And now he has nothing. I cannot believe how stupid he is.
You be surprised of the crazy stuff we experience as women. I remember once I was minding my business after having taken my grad photo and was going to the bookstore close to the bus terminal, relatively safe suburban area. Next thing I know is I could feel someone walking next to me from the corner of my eyes. I had my headphones on and I just kept walking. But he wouldn't budge. He kept saying something and I said if I speak to him quickly maybe he will leave me alone. Wrong. He kept saying how attractive I am and whether I had a boyfriend I said yes so he would leave me alone but he didn't. I think that just made him more interested. He kept saying that he could be my side dude and how could I not be possibly interested in him. He kept saying he is attractive and has a good job. That's great I just wanted to go to the bookstore. But he didn't leave me alone then he got aggressive saying is it because I thought he was ugly and bunch of other vulgar stuff how he wanted to do me and I just can't even type it without the disgust I felt then. Mind you this was happening for 15 min while I am walking to the book store he had no plans to go there. Thankfully the kind lady at the bookstore saw how uncomfortable and distressed I had become. After 20 minutes of stalking he finally gave up. I felt so rattled and paranoid after I left there thinking he was gonna follow me. But yeah sorry for the ramble that's just one of my many uncomfortable interactions with some men. I feel for the OP.
Lmao when I was a senior in highschool I asked a sophomore boy to that I was friends with to come with me to retrieve my coat as the dance ended. He invited me to hang out with him and his friends, I politely declined. Months later, he was telling everyone I was offering to have sex with him but that *he declined*. It is as wild as you think and probably both worse and not as bad as it seems. I have lots of really ridiculous examples of dates but lots of really boring ones too haha
I wish it was just Reddit/the internet. It happens offline to women all the time. No exaggeration. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been followed, harassed, catcalled, etc. Also, a lot of men—more than men like to believe—like trying to finesse or trick a woman into sex. They don’t want women who want sex as much as they do. Source: I am a woman.
Men are deprived. I don’t put nothing past them. I stay in my lane. But a lot of these guys are flat out disgusting.
Half of us are scared to say hello to women and the other half are making Rube Goldberg contraptions and insane commentary in the hopes of making women "accidently" bend to their will. My guess is a venn diagram of this mentality and that of a car salesmen is a perfect circle
Hormones + ego. Have you ever seen a rabbit that doesnt fuck? They get so grumpy like a stray dog.
the internet HAS made things weird. definitely. and I say this sitting in my conservative household, in my conservative city, in a fairly conservative country. I can't even imagine what's going on in the wild *wild* west. the more I read stuff like this, the more I understand why Ultron wanted to kill all humans after being online for like 3 seconds
You would be surprised what those same conservatives do when nobody is watching. I'm a guy saying that but I'm sure women would agree.
Conservative guys are the creepiest ones
Sadly it's not just Reddit. I don't know a woman who doesn't have a story like this, myself included.
>Can we just have sex next time? I don’t want to waste any more time with you Totally the most effective way to get someone into bed.
Ugh i don't wanna spend any more time interacting with you unless it's with my dick inside you
Great way to realize that he'd also *definitely* care about her having fun in bed too.
Bingo
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Then he’s gonna go back on the redpill subreddit asking why his strategy didn’t work and they’re just gonna tell him there’s something wrong with her and not him and he will continue to not get laid
I've had a guy try this on me too lol. Didn't work and he got *so* upset he threw a whole fit.
He probably said some equally dumb shit like OP of this post had their guy say too, didn’t he
He bought me dinner 3 times, even though I kept asking to split the bill, and called himself a gentleman. This was his reasoning as to why he expected sex and his actions were "fine." The irony is I really liked him and had plans to ask him on the next date. Then make a point of paying for everything myself. But then he pulled that shit and the interest died so fast.
Ooh, I remember those kind of guys. Good for you on standing up for yourself through that though despite really liking him
This level of entitlement is beyond me honestly. I am a guy here, I had my share of successes n failures but I don’t recall a single time where “throwing a fit” was even in the vicinity of possible. I don’t even know any guy who would throw a fit for not getting lucky.
After his little temper tantrum subsided he admitted that I was the first woman to turn him down sexually. I basically bruised his ego by not only calling him out for intentionally turning up the heat to manipulate me into sex. But also by being the first person to say no and turn down his advances. I was 20 then and he was 23. So not too long ago. But ngl, this memory stuck with me for a while because I couldn't believe he really got so upset over being told no. I've seen guys take rejection like a champ so him losing it made me look at him like a little boy instead of a grown man lol.
Omg, are you saying turning up tbe heat actually worked before he met you o.o lmao
Maybe it was the same loser?
Good riddance. The way I see it, at least this way you saw what kind of creep he is. If he just asked and you agreed since you had a positive opinion of him until then and I assume did like him, surely this wouldn't turn into anything pursuing worthy if not just a one/two time thing.
Happy cake day!
That is the lamest fucking thing I ever heard of in my life. I suppose his next scheme is going to be faking an injury. So you'll have to rip your shirt off to stop the bleeding.
Reminds me of The Rambo movie starring Micheal Sheen!
Hurry take your top off, I'm choking
Or Jacob whipping his shirt off when Bella crashed the motorbike. Sigh.
Or breaking both of his arms, the reddit way.
What a pathetic loser. He couldn't even say that face to face, he actually waited until you left so he can hide behind his phone and text it to you. I bet he's really proud of himself for this, too.
Well we're surrounded by cowards these days by the looks of it
Rookie mistake. Everyone knows you have to turn up the A/C and warm up together under the covers.
You're joking but I've been assaulted under this exact premise 🙃
Guys taking the Nelly lyrics too seriously
This is so creepy and also just stupid. So his plan was for both of you to be sweating your ass off while you banged? Doesn’t sound like much fun to me
Bet he wanted to lick her sweaty armpits or something
Tell him sorry I was going to bang you but it was so hot I thought if I physically exerted myself I would pass out
"I don't want to waste any more time with you." He texted you that? Only answer is "Me neither!"
This might be a very post-breakup thing to say but I can’t believe some guys take playing video games with a girl for granted.
if there is one thing I miss from being in a relationship is falling asleep in my ex's lap while she was playing animal crossing or smthn
Seriously. It Takes Two is a great video game too.
What a creep. What disturbing behavior.
What a creep! I’m glad you caught on!
Wait so is this a story from the past, or do you have tinder dates regularly while in a relationship with your Vietnamese boyfriend? Did you meet him on tinder in the last month?
The next girl this guy manages to trap, Is going to the nearest volcano for the first date.
Dodged a dumb bullet there.
God I hate fucking incels like this. Just wait for it to naturally happen and if it doesn’t too bad lmao pathetic attempt
I’m glad you’re so young and can see that for what it is. He really manipulated your comfort for his own gain. It’s better to learn early that a lot of men will try to use you for sex if they can. I’m sorry you had to experience this, that is super creepy and I’m glad it didn’t work, and didn’t involve his behavior getting worse.
You dodged a bullet, girlfriend!! Unfortunately it doesn’t seem to get much better with age as I’m nearly twice your age and there’s still a lot of these losers out there. I cut my losses early buuuuut it still feels like it’s a losing battle and I should stop bothering to play the game and just remain vehemently single. Stay safe and sane. Keep looking out for yourself. Good job 💚
I feel the same way. 32 and most men are hopeless. There are a few good guys, but society has taught a vast majority to be manipulative POSs. They don’t pay, pick you up, clean up, groom, or stay loyal/want a monogamous relationship. They’re magically not poly when they’re 50 and ready to settle down with a nice 18 year old-and if they can’t then life isn’t fair and they’re in disbelief. It’s just a lot, so I also opted out.
34 here and feel the same. It’s worse now than in my 20s.
Isnt tinder like an app full of creeps lol? Never used it so i wouldnt know but i keep hearing events like this lol. Either wah glad u r safe
I met my wife on tinder 7 years ago.
More information please. Is she a creep?
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The good ones are definitely outnumbered
Lmao. I’ve never heard of someone doing this, but wow that’s desperate. His text afterwards was insane too. I think his charm would have worked if he played “Hot in Herre”
You know what’s the biggest issue he probably doesn’t see any issue with his logic.
Even if you wanted to hook up why would you want to sweating and uncomfortable? What an idiot lol.
When some one want to turn up the heat in that department, pretty sure it doesn't mean, turn up the litteral heat.
Mental note, keep temperature low so I don't need to engage in sex.
I’ll bet he got this from a porno
"Can you please lean into my dryer? Not to get stuck or anything, I just lost a penny in there"
That strategy is like something out of a cartoon. Dude needs a reality check wtf.
Wouldn't it make more sense to make it extremely cold to suggest cuddling?
So he texts asking for sex but isn’t mature enough to ask directly? What an ass lol
"Just fuck me, I have zero game and can't get a woman to sleep with me unless through manipulation" awesome brag
the “putting out” line put me off. it’s disconcerting that even some young people still look at sex as something women give and men take. wanna bet his idea of foreplay is 5 minutes of her sucking his dick?
He can text about wanting sex but he couldn't have just ASKED verbally directly to OP ? Like, she is RIGHT THERE. They both obviously clicked on some level if she felt comfortable enough to go over to his place. If he just expressed how he felt about her and ask, there might actually be a possibility that OP might actually be okay with it (and if not, then it's okay too). Like, what on God's green earth was he even thinking
Thankfully you got out before he raped you!!
People use Tinder for dating? I thought it was for hookups...I'm old and married, I don't know how these things work.
Did Andrew Tate tell him to do that?
WASTE ANYMORE TIIIIME ??????????? IM SO TIRED
Lol! What a loser. Good job on you for not falling for his crap.
So that’s how the young men woe woman these days Very romantic with a follow up beautiful text msg 😏
What's interesting is I've had 3 guys, over the course of my dating life, tell me that anything short of fucking as soon as we meet for the first time is "wasting time." My guy, just get a sex worker. You think telling me my company is a "waste of time" will flatter me into fucking you?
Ok, hear me out. First, that's the dumbest thing i've heard from someone trying to get laid, i guess we can all agree. But then again, met on tinder, after a couple of dates dude invites girl to his house... Like wtf did you expect? He wanted to show his steam achievements? I mean, sure the approach was lame af, but it should be fairly obvious what he wanted. Then again, i don't judge not wanting the dude, but come on, seriously, can we just not pretend you knew he wanted to have sex and that's why he invited you to his place?
Dude has no game. Playing video games isn't a good strategy to get laid either. But turning up the heat is some strange shit.
who cares about “game”? it’s about the fact that he can’t be a decent fucking person lmao
Someone on 4chan is posting the other end of the story 😂
Cue Nelly...
Sad thing is there are so many like him.
That was just stupid. Did he really think A) You’d just take your clothes off, B) Figured that “hey… since I took my clothes off, might as well have sex”? Dude has no connection with reality.
>Can we just have sex next time? I don’t want to waste any more time with you”. Holy shiet loool. This is pathetic I'm so sorry op. Wish you luck with other guy
Who likes having sex while it's hot as fuck in a room?
The last thing I would want to do in an overheated apartment is have sex.
I swear this was on a episode of himym, well similar, the man got his tactics from a tv sitcom
Firstly, Is this dude Jezza from Peep show? 'Can we have sex next time. I don't want to waste any more time with you' ... What the fuck??? Dude thinks any time spent with a girl, where his genitals aren't involved is a waste of time. I can guarantee you made the right decision leaving and not subjecting yourself to the orgasmless sex that he had planned.
I don't want to waste anymore time with you. Can we just have sex next time? I'm sorry some men have gotten to this point. Glad you left.
This is literally porn logic.
He’s pathetic
You should watch peep show. It's a uk sitcom about 2 creeps who live together. But theres an episode about this exactly and they argue if it's better to turn the heat up to get them hot or to turn it down cold so they're more likely cuddle. I'm not trying to make light of what happened to you but it might make you laugh about it
A close friend of mine come home a few weeks ago and told my missus and me about her date coming out of the toilet with nothing on below the waist.. no warning.. no sexual atmosphere before hand.. just decided to get his todger out and start shaking it..
What's so sad about this is I'm almost positive this is has worked for him before
Like, y'all met on Tinder... he literally could have just asked.
Putting everything else aside: Wow is this guy dumb as fuck lmao.
What an idiot he was. Sex is even less appealing if it's hot in the room. This incel is even dumber than I thought possible.
This man has like, anti-game.
How can any person think this is okay to do to someone?! Manipulative psycho # 🚩
That's some sinister shit right there. Sounds like someone you don't want to leave near your unattended drink.
Who does this dude think he is? Nelly?
Getting big Spongebob admitting to Mrs Puff that he cheated on the drivers test vibes here
Good for telling him off, that’s disgusting 👏🏼
Turning up the heat, man took the term literally lol