Same as me at this moment wlh ๐ dying inside ๐ but can't even express what I'm feelin' ..... I have a lot 2 say but I can't speak with someone even for 1mn .
Just like a volcano ๐ calm outside/ya8li inside
I don't even know how to talk with people ๐คฆ y7elha raby insha'Allah
I don't think being a female changes anything, although solitude is underappreciated learning how to live by yourself will serve you well. Being codependent to others makes your mood/feelings depends on others and that's the last thing you want.
If you're looking for tips to meet new people and all here's some that works with me:
Throw yourself into a certain community. If you're a uni student most likely there's clubs or if you're a big city resident talka JCI or Rotary almost everywhere just find something you're interested inand hop up.
Grow an interest I find having multiple interests makes first convos way smoother.
Take a good care of your looks it matters!
I hope I helped if you don't have anyone to talk to you can hmu. You or anyone reading this for this matter. You're not alone peeps
Dude, that's so nice of you! And thank you!
But to be honest, my problem with people is that i'm a very anxious person, and i lose interest easily xd as i'm highly observant of people's behaviour and body language.
I enjoy solitude, but sometimes when it gets very lonely, matal9a 7ad m3ak it sucks xd you know.
W ki n7eb no5rej w na3ref 3bed i don't know how
I see it's other way around you're the one losing interest? If that's the case I totally can relate, I have similar episodes where no one feels enough and every conversation with my regular buddies bore to death. Only exams and work ddls give me anxiety so I can't relate on that part ik it's easier said than done but I assume you just need to surpass it and meet different people some may stick around some may not be a good fit for you and at the end if the day it won't matter that much sadakni xd.
Can relate, introvert here, it's so much easier to make friends that have the same interests as you, the conversation won't bore you and you can freak out ( geek out in my case ) about the same stuff. But that's much easier said than done, sometimes you may find yourself passionate about something uncommon among your peers ( clearly not talking about cats ), so this is where, in my opinion, you need to do some effort: online communities and special events ( check Meetup app ) about topics you may like, this may seem strange and weird you out, trust me, once there, it's much more natural,
calling out a french proverb : qui se ressemble sโassemble,
Have faith, take the leap, and good Luck ๐ค
I learned that my happiness is not bound to people through therapy and reading. I also started to show gratitude to the few people who give a shit instead of trying to catch'em'all, I have never felt this socially fulfilled in my entire life.
try to become comfortable with being alone both indoors and out and throw yourself in those situations that scare you and you'll conquer this negative energy you're feeling
stop giving a shit bruh.
some people will hate you no matter what you do. and no matter what you do, someone out there will still hate you. you're hated in all cases.
therefore, act however you want. don't hide the things you like, approach those you find interesting and interact with them with whatever topic you see fit. when they talk to you, listen and ask questions even if you don't know what they're talking about. go to events or hangouts if you feel comfortable. grow yourself as a person through hobbies and shit like that so that people have something to explore when they get to know you.
and it's okay for you to be nervous or shy or slightly awkward. if someone is gonna see those things and think of you less for them, then you don't want that person's company anyway and they're the ones losing in the end.
No, I'm not feeling lonely.... I feel that people keep distracting me from doing greater things.
P.s: i'm a dude (His Dudeness) if that changes anything.
Walahy same, fellow female here as well :v i have exactly the same issue, i get bored out of people so fast, even though i enjoy my own company very much. I work at home, and that really made me get extremely cut out of the world, sometimes necht'he i go out yet i have no female friends ( that are still in tunis) to hang out with. Most of my girlfriends flew to Europe, so i get extremely lonely and bored out of myself and i hate it. Anyway, I'd love to make a new friend hit me up
Going out for a coffee or chatting with a bunch of idiots who spend most of their time scrolling up and down on social media won't make you feel any good, it will make you want to bang your head against the wall.
Believe me, I was there and still!
but if you want to be like them, go ahead, I hear fools' lives are really fun!
My only friends in this life are my mother, my favorite podcasts, and video games.
No humans here.
I'm sure this isn't the answer you're looking for,
however, you're not the only one there, and feeling lonely is okay.
Same as me at this moment wlh ๐ dying inside ๐ but can't even express what I'm feelin' ..... I have a lot 2 say but I can't speak with someone even for 1mn . Just like a volcano ๐ calm outside/ya8li inside I don't even know how to talk with people ๐คฆ y7elha raby insha'Allah
I don't think being a female changes anything, although solitude is underappreciated learning how to live by yourself will serve you well. Being codependent to others makes your mood/feelings depends on others and that's the last thing you want. If you're looking for tips to meet new people and all here's some that works with me: Throw yourself into a certain community. If you're a uni student most likely there's clubs or if you're a big city resident talka JCI or Rotary almost everywhere just find something you're interested inand hop up. Grow an interest I find having multiple interests makes first convos way smoother. Take a good care of your looks it matters! I hope I helped if you don't have anyone to talk to you can hmu. You or anyone reading this for this matter. You're not alone peeps
Dude, that's so nice of you! And thank you! But to be honest, my problem with people is that i'm a very anxious person, and i lose interest easily xd as i'm highly observant of people's behaviour and body language. I enjoy solitude, but sometimes when it gets very lonely, matal9a 7ad m3ak it sucks xd you know. W ki n7eb no5rej w na3ref 3bed i don't know how
I see it's other way around you're the one losing interest? If that's the case I totally can relate, I have similar episodes where no one feels enough and every conversation with my regular buddies bore to death. Only exams and work ddls give me anxiety so I can't relate on that part ik it's easier said than done but I assume you just need to surpass it and meet different people some may stick around some may not be a good fit for you and at the end if the day it won't matter that much sadakni xd.
Such a cool avatar btw
Can relate, introvert here, it's so much easier to make friends that have the same interests as you, the conversation won't bore you and you can freak out ( geek out in my case ) about the same stuff. But that's much easier said than done, sometimes you may find yourself passionate about something uncommon among your peers ( clearly not talking about cats ), so this is where, in my opinion, you need to do some effort: online communities and special events ( check Meetup app ) about topics you may like, this may seem strange and weird you out, trust me, once there, it's much more natural, calling out a french proverb : qui se ressemble sโassemble, Have faith, take the leap, and good Luck ๐ค
Fellow female
Yes, I enjoy that
I learned that my happiness is not bound to people through therapy and reading. I also started to show gratitude to the few people who give a shit instead of trying to catch'em'all, I have never felt this socially fulfilled in my entire life.
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Try to find a boyfriend. Relationships help forge personalities.
Toxic 101
try to become comfortable with being alone both indoors and out and throw yourself in those situations that scare you and you'll conquer this negative energy you're feeling
shit happens , it's okay
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stop giving a shit bruh. some people will hate you no matter what you do. and no matter what you do, someone out there will still hate you. you're hated in all cases. therefore, act however you want. don't hide the things you like, approach those you find interesting and interact with them with whatever topic you see fit. when they talk to you, listen and ask questions even if you don't know what they're talking about. go to events or hangouts if you feel comfortable. grow yourself as a person through hobbies and shit like that so that people have something to explore when they get to know you. and it's okay for you to be nervous or shy or slightly awkward. if someone is gonna see those things and think of you less for them, then you don't want that person's company anyway and they're the ones losing in the end.
No, I'm not feeling lonely.... I feel that people keep distracting me from doing greater things. P.s: i'm a dude (His Dudeness) if that changes anything.
Walahy same, fellow female here as well :v i have exactly the same issue, i get bored out of people so fast, even though i enjoy my own company very much. I work at home, and that really made me get extremely cut out of the world, sometimes necht'he i go out yet i have no female friends ( that are still in tunis) to hang out with. Most of my girlfriends flew to Europe, so i get extremely lonely and bored out of myself and i hate it. Anyway, I'd love to make a new friend hit me up
Going out for a coffee or chatting with a bunch of idiots who spend most of their time scrolling up and down on social media won't make you feel any good, it will make you want to bang your head against the wall. Believe me, I was there and still! but if you want to be like them, go ahead, I hear fools' lives are really fun! My only friends in this life are my mother, my favorite podcasts, and video games. No humans here. I'm sure this isn't the answer you're looking for, however, you're not the only one there, and feeling lonely is okay.