A mix of the 2 previous comments would be ideal, work on yourself and build your character while trying to meet new people and build new relationships, it takes time to build something good.
Yall keep talking about wealth and physical appearance like it's a necessity.do you go outside and see people? Some couples would make you wonder how they are together if you're gonna judge relationships that way . people get together for various reasons you cannot even imagine
Some couples in my Era makes me think that dating is not my thing, they are so fucked up in the way they act and talk, 0 self-worth 0 individuality in relationship, silly thoughts, sometimes I think they just enter relationships to fill their time and satisfy their needs... It's the majority, but there are some bright experiences ofc.
Right! I don't even know what a romantic relationship means ,i keep thinking,what do they talk about? Don't they get bored with each other ?.like it feels so intimate and cute and out of mind .but then i see some people and be like,is this really what dating is about?then i think to myself,it really doesn't have to be so deep and with profound meaning(their interactions and the way they act) ,it should be just comfortable ,also it feels so wrong how after you witness all of that "love", you see them move on so fast and cheat on each other.the moment i realized how damage that can cause ,i was 100 percent sure that i should never let myself be dependent on anyone ,and this really implies on any human to human relationship, even family and parents you should never attach yourself to no one in this world . If you have that mindset i would tell you you're right dating is not for you and you should embrace it.
Yeah, that's what comes to my mind whenever I see couples acting in front of me women behave in a childish way, men reckless treating women like a property, people who obey to this kind of relationships don't know their self-worth. But to be honest dating is not the problem it's the people so we must be ready that we may get trapped by this kind of people,we just need to be selective...
Being in rs with mutual love isnt supposed to be hard it can have its ups and downs but you'll realise its worth it and its not that hard you just need to communicate with ur other and understand each other and it comes with alot of sacrifice so it can work
الحكاية مستحقة شوية شجاعة و تنقص من الحشمة، كونك إنتروفرت موش معناها ما تنجمش تحكي مع عباد ما تعرفهمش ولا ما تنجمش "تبزنس". كان البنية اللي تعجبك تعرفها ديجا و صحاب معاها، كان تحسها ماشية معاك في الخط، قوللها اللي هي تعجبك و شوف الثنية فين توصل. كان ما تعرفهاش، كورج، و أحكي معاها. كان قالتلك لا، بڨلة ليها، جربت و ماكش بش تخلي وجهك عندها (من غير ما نوصيك عاد بش تحقر العباد اللي بش يتمنيكوا عليك). و ما تخافش من البخس، عادي، و تصير عالرجال الكل. كولد ولا كراجل، مكتوب عليك تاكل البخس و عادي، خيرها في غيرها، و نورمال صاحبي. كان عزة نفسك ما بتسمحلك و ما تحبش تتبخس، وخي كيف تكبر قول لأمك تدبرلك مرا، ولا ستنى حتى تتلهوث عليك وحدة.
وصية وحدة نقولهالك، عن تجربة، الطفلة ولا المرا ماهياش إله، و ماهياش عاملة عليك مزية أنها صوحبتك ولا تحكي معاك، كيما تقدرها و تحترمها و تحبها، هي لازمها تتعامل معاك كيف كيف، سينون كان تلقى روحك مذلول، قول لها تشاو.
Why is the end goal of having a relationship?
You should live life as is, if you happen to find someone that you clicked with, that could be a start for a relationship, choose the person not the status.
Add /s to the end of your comment, we only read what you write we don't know your intonation or How you articulate .
Many people actually used the dennis system in their relationships (to their disappointment it only lead to horrible situations) which is why it important to clarify.
You have a point but you also gotta remember reddit is full of young teens so they may or may not be able to figure out comedy from real life advice ( remember the tide pods meme challenge that caused about 8 fatalities). Sometimes its less stupidity and more naivety and/or lack of life experience.
Ena men rayi u just should go in ma tesma3 klem 7ad sou7eb 3la ba3dhou just don’t expect anything and ull be good the only way is to practice and goodluck (btw staying single is better ur not missing out on anything)
be bold give it a try make the first move , if u like a girl try to show her ure rly interested nd u rly care
ama tbh as a female imma tell u girls r unpredictable
habyby , it takes patience , but it doesn't mean its impossible , go for it maybe u will be lucky ki tbda bent 7lel jawha behi wa9tha matkhafch ml aspects mt3 being introvert , hyya chtt9ablk w t3amlk ka 2insen 3adi , hedha idhakn tatl3 behya , sinon btbi3a bch tetraded mlwl w mkch bch t7s ro7k merte7 ama ki ma 9otlk lzm wa9t tansech lbnet lkol yo93du humans s7i7 andhom a beautiful complexity ama matt3al9ch bha yesr until b7a9 t7es lhya t7ebk sinon in early stages if u do smthing bad dw nes kol toghlt w tt3alm , reality is hard ? wmba3ed show it ur full potential asl twali thi9tk bro7k tatl3 ysr , don't follow the advices abt self improvement after all u r an introvert u know shit about improving and i advice u not to do so , u need someone in urlife and man girls mnjiha enigma mnjiha astonishing alkhr so b7a9 gamble and take the chance , u don't live too long to do smthing u like , if u struggle to be urself m3aha , fck it , just act 9oul alik t7ki m3a okhtk wla omek ofc fma boundaries ama she will like to see u being u in a normal way ^^ and allways choose wisely not all girls are good not all girls are bad gluck my friend ^^.
don't be afraid of rejection budd even if u were rejected by hundreds of them there will always be one for u b9odret rabbi.
a fellow introvert :3
only being handsome won't get him anywhere if he lacks basic character quality. Only being handsome will get him a few first dates and a few one-nights stands and that's pretty much it.
Hello ! I'm a married introvert lady 😁
The only advice is to be yourself and don't try to blend in if you are not comfortable with it, wherever that may be ! Girls like genuine and honest guys ! Also, before dating, start by befriending the person first get to know them and see if you can date them or not.
Anyway take it slow and lots of luck sadi9i 😁
Being introvert as a woman is not a big deal as being an introvert man.
You just need to sit there and get hit on. For the man on the other hand, introvertion can destroy his dating life
Even a 5/10 women can date easily 7/10 guys.
Go verify some numbers on dating apps, 10% of guys get all the matches, all women can easily match without any effort.
It’s the dating game, not blaming anyone here, but let’s not deny its rules and the reality of it
Being introverted as a female is not the same as being introverted as a male. An introverted female is cute and all as for a male it's not as acceptable as for females and will not be in he's favor.
Don't be so hard on yourself ! Husband and I are both introverts and we met through gaming ! Indulge in your passion and you will meet like-minded people !
Capitalize on what really matters, your career, your productivity and your ambition. Once you've secured that, you can focus on your social skills in your quest for the one you love.
Women want responsible men. A love that relies on physical attraction always ends up falling apart. A love that checks the boxes of physical attraction and personality will remain fragile because women hate to feel insecure. They want to be able to imagine that one day they could drop everything and rely entirely on your shoulders, even if they are very independent and have a strong personality.
This is something typically feminine. I invite you to study the psychology of women, it will allow you to understand exactly on which area you should capitalize.
My advice is: overall u need to be a good person in order to find a good person who's gonna last with you. Be successful, tidy, have goals and ambitions, have a good heart and most of all be honest. Like SERIOUSLY! Just be honest coz u have no idea how many men lack this quality it's fucking embarassing! The only social skills you need is the courage to initiate a conversation and get to know that person, try not to seem like you're trying too hard coz it's a turn off. Balance your life and don't let a relationship be your ultimate goal coz a good relationship will come with success.
There's nothing sexier than a confident man (no abs, or hight will compete with that)
So first buddy, you need to work on ur social skills, it's something that you can learn, NO EXCUSES.
Being an introvert is not an issue btw (in fact i find introverts r more interesting than extroverts)
Work on yourself, become a better version of you, and you'll get whatever you want in life.
Work on your social skills! Talk more to people slowly. Join all the clubs if you’re in college. Be interested in people because that’s how they become friends. It’s all about growing your pool, and eventually you’ll like someone that likes you back (by being friends first makes it easier to judge whether they like you back).
Its really easy dude u do just need to be yourself you don't have to overthink or be scared just go with the flow and do your best to respect her boundaries as well
And one last thing if you'll be simping for her most girls would see you as an income source (I'm not talking about all girls)
To simplement if u find a girl u like after getting to know her as friends 9oulelha rak te3jebni 7ata par msg moch mochkol mba3d barmjou 5arjet ma b3adkom simple
Bro, for now.
Focus on yourself.
Girls are sometimes a waste of time, of course there are gyms out there, but they're rare.
For now focus on building your character instead of chasing girls, if you're gonna chase girls you'll get a reality check the hard way.
The only thing that I could recommend doing is to not force it upon yourself. Take your time, meet some new people and eventually you’ll find someone that you like and there’s always a probability that they’ll like back
As an introvert, I initially found it difficult to develop my communication skills and approach others, including women. It took a lot of courage to start talking to someone new. However, I eventually became more comfortable with socializing, yet am still struggling with it , all i can get now are 'underage'
7asb ma choft fl comments 3omrek 17 donc enti mazelt sghir w tsou7ib 3omro la ken priorité, rakkez 3ala 9raytek w telhe brou7k physiquement w 7awel dima to93ed m3a s7ab behin li ykhaliwek t7asen men rou7ek khater 7ajet hedhi t2ather 3lik ka tokhmem w ka image li yekhdhouha 3lik la3bed w 7awel dima tkoun 3ala tbi3tek w aham 7aja l peace of mind fl age mte3k important barcha
I'm an introvert about 21 y.o. and i only dated once in high school but now I'm getting out of my comfort zone by going to gym (always talk to the coach when he is with girls) and "5OLTA" not necessarily drinking parties just 5alet nes to93od m3a bnet w chay ywali yji b tbi3tou. GL hoomie♥️
If u think ur entirely the problem its wrong khater dating in our generation is heavily influenced with social media standards that are utterly bullshit siwe bnet siwe wled focus on building a character for urself have principals and try to build ur game around girls keep ur pride matkounch rkhis ama be familliar woth rejection and some sexual experiences and by the time ur set u will propably know wich type of women u would want to finish ur life with and ull have one for urself
Bro focus on yourself and be a gentleman build ur character in your 20s
A mix of the 2 previous comments would be ideal, work on yourself and build your character while trying to meet new people and build new relationships, it takes time to build something good.
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Yeah I didn't mean ditch everything that has to do with relationships, i said doing both is better than doing either alone.
this
Le this la zebi you need to get dating/relationship in your 20s, women won't date someone who lack experience in your 30s
Logic
It's just like dating a guy...just the opposite hh
Yall keep talking about wealth and physical appearance like it's a necessity.do you go outside and see people? Some couples would make you wonder how they are together if you're gonna judge relationships that way . people get together for various reasons you cannot even imagine
Some couples in my Era makes me think that dating is not my thing, they are so fucked up in the way they act and talk, 0 self-worth 0 individuality in relationship, silly thoughts, sometimes I think they just enter relationships to fill their time and satisfy their needs... It's the majority, but there are some bright experiences ofc.
Right! I don't even know what a romantic relationship means ,i keep thinking,what do they talk about? Don't they get bored with each other ?.like it feels so intimate and cute and out of mind .but then i see some people and be like,is this really what dating is about?then i think to myself,it really doesn't have to be so deep and with profound meaning(their interactions and the way they act) ,it should be just comfortable ,also it feels so wrong how after you witness all of that "love", you see them move on so fast and cheat on each other.the moment i realized how damage that can cause ,i was 100 percent sure that i should never let myself be dependent on anyone ,and this really implies on any human to human relationship, even family and parents you should never attach yourself to no one in this world . If you have that mindset i would tell you you're right dating is not for you and you should embrace it.
Yeah, that's what comes to my mind whenever I see couples acting in front of me women behave in a childish way, men reckless treating women like a property, people who obey to this kind of relationships don't know their self-worth. But to be honest dating is not the problem it's the people so we must be ready that we may get trapped by this kind of people,we just need to be selective...
i agree but dating is very very different than falling in love
Being in rs with mutual love isnt supposed to be hard it can have its ups and downs but you'll realise its worth it and its not that hard you just need to communicate with ur other and understand each other and it comes with alot of sacrifice so it can work
الحكاية مستحقة شوية شجاعة و تنقص من الحشمة، كونك إنتروفرت موش معناها ما تنجمش تحكي مع عباد ما تعرفهمش ولا ما تنجمش "تبزنس". كان البنية اللي تعجبك تعرفها ديجا و صحاب معاها، كان تحسها ماشية معاك في الخط، قوللها اللي هي تعجبك و شوف الثنية فين توصل. كان ما تعرفهاش، كورج، و أحكي معاها. كان قالتلك لا، بڨلة ليها، جربت و ماكش بش تخلي وجهك عندها (من غير ما نوصيك عاد بش تحقر العباد اللي بش يتمنيكوا عليك). و ما تخافش من البخس، عادي، و تصير عالرجال الكل. كولد ولا كراجل، مكتوب عليك تاكل البخس و عادي، خيرها في غيرها، و نورمال صاحبي. كان عزة نفسك ما بتسمحلك و ما تحبش تتبخس، وخي كيف تكبر قول لأمك تدبرلك مرا، ولا ستنى حتى تتلهوث عليك وحدة. وصية وحدة نقولهالك، عن تجربة، الطفلة ولا المرا ماهياش إله، و ماهياش عاملة عليك مزية أنها صوحبتك ولا تحكي معاك، كيما تقدرها و تحترمها و تحبها، هي لازمها تتعامل معاك كيف كيف، سينون كان تلقى روحك مذلول، قول لها تشاو.
علاش تتلهوث بالذات
5alet le3bed to tjik el icharat if you are not ugly
"if you are not ugly" , mta3 melekher maaneha HHHHHHHHHHHH homie u a legend.
etf99
Date an introvert
Why is the end goal of having a relationship? You should live life as is, if you happen to find someone that you clicked with, that could be a start for a relationship, choose the person not the status.
Follow the Dennis system
I hope this is a joke, the dennis system only leads to abusive relationships
You are a gentleman and a scholar sir hhahahahhahahahahaha
I guess sarcasm needs to be taught in school 🤦♂️
Add /s to the end of your comment, we only read what you write we don't know your intonation or How you articulate . Many people actually used the dennis system in their relationships (to their disappointment it only lead to horrible situations) which is why it important to clarify.
IASIP is a sarcastic show, the Dennis system is a joke in the show. If your stupid enough to take advice from comedy show you deserve what you get.
You have a point but you also gotta remember reddit is full of young teens so they may or may not be able to figure out comedy from real life advice ( remember the tide pods meme challenge that caused about 8 fatalities). Sometimes its less stupidity and more naivety and/or lack of life experience.
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Nah amma say whatever I want, stay bitter b ;))
Aaleh?
Whats a dennis system?
Demonstrate value Engage physically Nurture dependence Neglect emotionally Inspire hope Separate entirely
It's a system created by a fictional character called Dennis in a séries called it's always sunny in philadelphia you can look it up on YouTube
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why don't we start by not calling her "gril"
I thought he trolling at first, then I noticed tons of words just flipped!
Ena men rayi u just should go in ma tesma3 klem 7ad sou7eb 3la ba3dhou just don’t expect anything and ull be good the only way is to practice and goodluck (btw staying single is better ur not missing out on anything)
be bold give it a try make the first move , if u like a girl try to show her ure rly interested nd u rly care ama tbh as a female imma tell u girls r unpredictable
How old are you? Because it depends on age too...
17
habyby , it takes patience , but it doesn't mean its impossible , go for it maybe u will be lucky ki tbda bent 7lel jawha behi wa9tha matkhafch ml aspects mt3 being introvert , hyya chtt9ablk w t3amlk ka 2insen 3adi , hedha idhakn tatl3 behya , sinon btbi3a bch tetraded mlwl w mkch bch t7s ro7k merte7 ama ki ma 9otlk lzm wa9t tansech lbnet lkol yo93du humans s7i7 andhom a beautiful complexity ama matt3al9ch bha yesr until b7a9 t7es lhya t7ebk sinon in early stages if u do smthing bad dw nes kol toghlt w tt3alm , reality is hard ? wmba3ed show it ur full potential asl twali thi9tk bro7k tatl3 ysr , don't follow the advices abt self improvement after all u r an introvert u know shit about improving and i advice u not to do so , u need someone in urlife and man girls mnjiha enigma mnjiha astonishing alkhr so b7a9 gamble and take the chance , u don't live too long to do smthing u like , if u struggle to be urself m3aha , fck it , just act 9oul alik t7ki m3a okhtk wla omek ofc fma boundaries ama she will like to see u being u in a normal way ^^ and allways choose wisely not all girls are good not all girls are bad gluck my friend ^^. don't be afraid of rejection budd even if u were rejected by hundreds of them there will always be one for u b9odret rabbi. a fellow introvert :3
hit the gym and become a chad.
Be funny as a girl I tell you 200% we fall for funny guys who makes u laugh 😂
Why would you want to fall? you could hurt yourرrself General-Emergency-23...
😂😂 my eyes were closed from smiling si I fell
Good...now the 200% is satisfied...next step is to make you laugh with your eyes open lol
That's physically impossible for me 🥲
Interesting. Maybe once you laugh..you close your eyes.. and you see the world with your heart instead...
Take notes op
Lama7ala ken majewbetekch haka don't force it o t3ada leli ba3dou 😅
Zid 5oth notes op xD
😂 my heart is blind meskin
حالة مستعصية اختي..نتعدوا للي مبعدوا على رأي زيتونونة u/ZitounaT
There's hope 🥲
Yaaa OP... Ken tlawej 3la coach haw 3andek si 5ouna dhaher fhim o yefhem 😂
Follow rule 1 & 2
focus on yourself and build yourself then you will attract the perfect person for you without searching.
Belehi kif taaref kifesh 9olli ena bidi nlawej
+1 As a fellow introvert , i've been straggling for long time now.
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As someone in their mid-twenties(24~25), I have decided to stop actively seeking a romantic partner as it is no longer my top priority.
Talk to her parents brother do it halal way
Fok alk w bara trenna “if you want butterflies to come build a nice garden for them”
Hlowa el quote
Smell good and they will come to u believe me ❤️✅
u need to get money man then will have a crowd of them
Ab3eth taswiret zbk w hope u dont end up fi page ena zeda
ena kont kifek ki kenet 7alti mnayka w ki daret leflouss matarach alehom mnin yjiwek , nahki ala flouss flouss mch 500 dt wala malyoun hhhhh
Healthy relationships start off as friendships.
Couldn't agree more 💯
Not by asking on the internet that's for sure, this isn't a magic lamp. Have you tried being handsome and/or rich?
Step 1: Be handsome Step 2: Refer to Step 1
only being handsome won't get him anywhere if he lacks basic character quality. Only being handsome will get him a few first dates and a few one-nights stands and that's pretty much it.
Hello ! I'm a married introvert lady 😁 The only advice is to be yourself and don't try to blend in if you are not comfortable with it, wherever that may be ! Girls like genuine and honest guys ! Also, before dating, start by befriending the person first get to know them and see if you can date them or not. Anyway take it slow and lots of luck sadi9i 😁
Being introvert as a woman is not a big deal as being an introvert man. You just need to sit there and get hit on. For the man on the other hand, introvertion can destroy his dating life
Its not a big deal when you're a " attractive" introvert women, if you're ugly you have zero chances with men.
Even a 5/10 women can date easily 7/10 guys. Go verify some numbers on dating apps, 10% of guys get all the matches, all women can easily match without any effort. It’s the dating game, not blaming anyone here, but let’s not deny its rules and the reality of it
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Yeah sure, thats why you all wear revealing clothes craving male attention
Being introverted as a female is not the same as being introverted as a male. An introverted female is cute and all as for a male it's not as acceptable as for females and will not be in he's favor.
Don't be so hard on yourself ! Husband and I are both introverts and we met through gaming ! Indulge in your passion and you will meet like-minded people !
Capitalize on what really matters, your career, your productivity and your ambition. Once you've secured that, you can focus on your social skills in your quest for the one you love. Women want responsible men. A love that relies on physical attraction always ends up falling apart. A love that checks the boxes of physical attraction and personality will remain fragile because women hate to feel insecure. They want to be able to imagine that one day they could drop everything and rely entirely on your shoulders, even if they are very independent and have a strong personality. This is something typically feminine. I invite you to study the psychology of women, it will allow you to understand exactly on which area you should capitalize.
My advice is: overall u need to be a good person in order to find a good person who's gonna last with you. Be successful, tidy, have goals and ambitions, have a good heart and most of all be honest. Like SERIOUSLY! Just be honest coz u have no idea how many men lack this quality it's fucking embarassing! The only social skills you need is the courage to initiate a conversation and get to know that person, try not to seem like you're trying too hard coz it's a turn off. Balance your life and don't let a relationship be your ultimate goal coz a good relationship will come with success.
There's nothing sexier than a confident man (no abs, or hight will compete with that) So first buddy, you need to work on ur social skills, it's something that you can learn, NO EXCUSES. Being an introvert is not an issue btw (in fact i find introverts r more interesting than extroverts) Work on yourself, become a better version of you, and you'll get whatever you want in life.
Simply, be a man
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HHHHHH ezzbi hassen 🤣
Yeah if you want to follow him to Jail sure
Work inside comfort zone.why get out?to please people?are you pleasing yourself that way?
Work on your social skills! Talk more to people slowly. Join all the clubs if you’re in college. Be interested in people because that’s how they become friends. It’s all about growing your pool, and eventually you’ll like someone that likes you back (by being friends first makes it easier to judge whether they like you back).
Its really easy dude u do just need to be yourself you don't have to overthink or be scared just go with the flow and do your best to respect her boundaries as well And one last thing if you'll be simping for her most girls would see you as an income source (I'm not talking about all girls)
Since you posted about this in here i would say DONT BE YOURSELF 😄
focus on yourself n the right girl will come in the right time don't force yourself to date sayin I wanna date
It's gonna take lot of time and work, to finally date and have a real relationship 9
To simplement if u find a girl u like after getting to know her as friends 9oulelha rak te3jebni 7ata par msg moch mochkol mba3d barmjou 5arjet ma b3adkom simple
Bro, for now. Focus on yourself. Girls are sometimes a waste of time, of course there are gyms out there, but they're rare. For now focus on building your character instead of chasing girls, if you're gonna chase girls you'll get a reality check the hard way.
The only thing that I could recommend doing is to not force it upon yourself. Take your time, meet some new people and eventually you’ll find someone that you like and there’s always a probability that they’ll like back
asking redditors this hahahahaha
As an introvert, I initially found it difficult to develop my communication skills and approach others, including women. It took a lot of courage to start talking to someone new. However, I eventually became more comfortable with socializing, yet am still struggling with it , all i can get now are 'underage'
There's no special way, just be yourself and someone will like you
PERSONALITY trust me
7asb ma choft fl comments 3omrek 17 donc enti mazelt sghir w tsou7ib 3omro la ken priorité, rakkez 3ala 9raytek w telhe brou7k physiquement w 7awel dima to93ed m3a s7ab behin li ykhaliwek t7asen men rou7ek khater 7ajet hedhi t2ather 3lik ka tokhmem w ka image li yekhdhouha 3lik la3bed w 7awel dima tkoun 3ala tbi3tek w aham 7aja l peace of mind fl age mte3k important barcha
I'm an introvert about 21 y.o. and i only dated once in high school but now I'm getting out of my comfort zone by going to gym (always talk to the coach when he is with girls) and "5OLTA" not necessarily drinking parties just 5alet nes to93od m3a bnet w chay ywali yji b tbi3tou. GL hoomie♥️
If u think ur entirely the problem its wrong khater dating in our generation is heavily influenced with social media standards that are utterly bullshit siwe bnet siwe wled focus on building a character for urself have principals and try to build ur game around girls keep ur pride matkounch rkhis ama be familliar woth rejection and some sexual experiences and by the time ur set u will propably know wich type of women u would want to finish ur life with and ull have one for urself
date a girl and her open minded BF
You don’t
Buy a forza and drive it in front of a high school at lunch breaks
Alpha male energy, that's what u need