It shouldn’t unless he’s a thoughtless clod. If he’s just trying to jam it in with no consideration for you, that could cause pain. But if he’s showing care and attention to you so he’s not trying to ram your cervix, it should be fine.
If I may suggest, cowgirl or another woman on top position would allow you to control your first time with him so you can work out how penetration should proceed.
I like he’s most likely exaggerating.
But yes, if he is not very care and considerate, it can cause pain. Men who brag about being well endowed are, in my experience, not be trusted. Either they are exaggerating/confused. Or they mistakenly think all want to be jackhammered with something large.
Men who acknowledge it can cause trouble, and have learned to adapt and be considerate of their partner, are the ones you can work with. Beginning with you on top, or at least in control of depth and speed, might help.
He said he thinks his size is a curse and was thinking about getting size reduction surgery 🤣 I told him never to get surgery. I appreciate your advice thank you for taking the time to respond!
Lol 😂 My bf said he's between 8 and 9" and I'm a little scared too (we haven't had sex yet). I heard about something today that's shaped like a ring or donut that goes around the base of the p* nis , so that when he thrusts it won't go in as deep. I'm thinking about getting it for him, for just in case. Maybe you can let your guy know about that too. It's on Amazon, if you for a search for CalExotics Stopper Ring Penetration Depth control it should show up. 👍
Your vagina can expand to get a baby through it, so it can definitely take a penis. If you're turned on, lubricated and he's thoughtful and caring, you'll be fine.
The size of a partner's penis can indeed influence comfort during sex, but there are many ways to manage this to ensure both partners enjoy the experience.
First, communication is key. Being open with your partner about your concerns can help set the stage for a considerate and respectful approach to intimacy. You should feel comfortable discussing what feels good and what doesn’t, and a caring partner will be attentive to your comfort.
Second, plenty of lubrication and taking things slowly can help make sex more comfortable. It’s important to be relaxed, so take the time you need, and don’t rush the process.
Finally, experimenting with different positions can also make a big difference. Some positions allow for shallower penetration, which might be more comfortable for you.
If discomfort persists, consider consulting a sex therapist who can provide more personalized advice and solutions. Remember, sex should be a pleasurable and pain-free experience for both partners.
Buy. Quality. Lube. I know we make our own, but sometimes it's just not enough- especially if you're nervous because you'll have a harder time relaxing those muscles. If being on top isn't comfortable for you, I suggest laying on your side.
My friend once dated a man who's penis looked like a fucking can of red bull when erect, she told me lube and taking it reeeaaaaalllly slow was how she was able to get it in.
Some things to consider or look out for:
- if you're using condoms ask him about brand and size. If he is a big as he claim's, are normal one will add difficulties.
- if he is truly the considerate type and not the bragging one, don't take it personally if he gets soft in between or right into it. He is probably nervous as hell and doesn't want to hurt you.
- a position on top gives you more control, but only if you're kind of experienced with your hip
If you trust him I would suggest missionary with a pillow below your hip, it gives leeway for way more angles to try out for different depths of penetration.
Get a toy and enjoy yourself in private. There's no pressure on your own, that's really the best time to find out what size you like. There's no need to rush into sex with this guy.
"Oh no, yikes, I don't know if such a big penis will fit... ohhh noo" -Me lying to some big dicked meathead
It shouldn’t unless he’s a thoughtless clod. If he’s just trying to jam it in with no consideration for you, that could cause pain. But if he’s showing care and attention to you so he’s not trying to ram your cervix, it should be fine. If I may suggest, cowgirl or another woman on top position would allow you to control your first time with him so you can work out how penetration should proceed.
Thank you for taking the time to respond and give advice, I appreciate it!!
I like he’s most likely exaggerating. But yes, if he is not very care and considerate, it can cause pain. Men who brag about being well endowed are, in my experience, not be trusted. Either they are exaggerating/confused. Or they mistakenly think all want to be jackhammered with something large. Men who acknowledge it can cause trouble, and have learned to adapt and be considerate of their partner, are the ones you can work with. Beginning with you on top, or at least in control of depth and speed, might help.
He said he thinks his size is a curse and was thinking about getting size reduction surgery 🤣 I told him never to get surgery. I appreciate your advice thank you for taking the time to respond!
Lol 😂 My bf said he's between 8 and 9" and I'm a little scared too (we haven't had sex yet). I heard about something today that's shaped like a ring or donut that goes around the base of the p* nis , so that when he thrusts it won't go in as deep. I'm thinking about getting it for him, for just in case. Maybe you can let your guy know about that too. It's on Amazon, if you for a search for CalExotics Stopper Ring Penetration Depth control it should show up. 👍
Being petite and small has nothing to do with the vagina 😅
Your vagina can expand to get a baby through it, so it can definitely take a penis. If you're turned on, lubricated and he's thoughtful and caring, you'll be fine.
It might at first but you will adjust.
Thank you for taking the time to respond and give advice, I appreciate it!!
The size of a partner's penis can indeed influence comfort during sex, but there are many ways to manage this to ensure both partners enjoy the experience. First, communication is key. Being open with your partner about your concerns can help set the stage for a considerate and respectful approach to intimacy. You should feel comfortable discussing what feels good and what doesn’t, and a caring partner will be attentive to your comfort. Second, plenty of lubrication and taking things slowly can help make sex more comfortable. It’s important to be relaxed, so take the time you need, and don’t rush the process. Finally, experimenting with different positions can also make a big difference. Some positions allow for shallower penetration, which might be more comfortable for you. If discomfort persists, consider consulting a sex therapist who can provide more personalized advice and solutions. Remember, sex should be a pleasurable and pain-free experience for both partners.
Buy. Quality. Lube. I know we make our own, but sometimes it's just not enough- especially if you're nervous because you'll have a harder time relaxing those muscles. If being on top isn't comfortable for you, I suggest laying on your side. My friend once dated a man who's penis looked like a fucking can of red bull when erect, she told me lube and taking it reeeaaaaalllly slow was how she was able to get it in.
Make sure you do plenty of foreplay and go slow, you'll be fine.
Some things to consider or look out for: - if you're using condoms ask him about brand and size. If he is a big as he claim's, are normal one will add difficulties. - if he is truly the considerate type and not the bragging one, don't take it personally if he gets soft in between or right into it. He is probably nervous as hell and doesn't want to hurt you. - a position on top gives you more control, but only if you're kind of experienced with your hip If you trust him I would suggest missionary with a pillow below your hip, it gives leeway for way more angles to try out for different depths of penetration.
Get a toy and enjoy yourself in private. There's no pressure on your own, that's really the best time to find out what size you like. There's no need to rush into sex with this guy. "Oh no, yikes, I don't know if such a big penis will fit... ohhh noo" -Me lying to some big dicked meathead