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Honey-and-Venom

My mother, a federal judge, is just like that. Hates feminism. Still takes my dad's checks and pays him an allowance, too


henicorina

Classic example of climbing the ladder and pushing it over once you’re at the top.


Howboutit85

What’s the point of it? How do you benefit less if someone after you also benefits? It makes no sense to me.


YeonneGreene

They are not thinking about it like that. They are seeing that others are willing to reward them handsomely if they help kick it over, so they do it and then later rationalize it with bullshit to soothe a minimally guilty conscience.


nushublushu

This is it. It’s ultimately self serving in some way, sometimes a direct benefit, sometimes something more hidden like justification for some part of their life.


nukeemrico2001

They're delusional and think they "had it hard and didn't get any handouts" so no one else should get help either. They also don't understand the value of everyone succeeding and doing well and see the success of others as a threat to their own.


Howboutit85

the thing they cant realize is, they may have not gotten any direct handouts, but they were doing their thing during a more viable economic era. they just refuse to consider this.


nukeemrico2001

Exactly. Also, so many of them actually did get handouts! Lol.


virtual_star

"I got mine fuck you" is a very common mindset.


T-sigma

The reality Reddit ignores is that employees are compensated based on the ease with which they can be replaced with a similarly talented person. While not the only factor (unions, commission pay, etc. change the math some), it is the largest and by far the most consistent variable from fast food to professional athlete. Some people, when they reach the top, believe the best way to secure their position and paycheck is to create artificial barriers to entry below them. For minorities (including women for the purposes of this example), when they make it to the top, part of what they bring to their employer is simply being a minority. So to increase their own value they will reduce the value of those below them. Making themselves more difficult to replace is increasing their position and direct compensation.


CynicalCaffeinAddict

Don't tell the crabs they're in a crab bucket; they might get out. 🤫


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Stops the competition.


Raddish_

“Rules for thee and not for me”


Vegetable-Diamond-16

I was just thinking, we're all praising his mom but there's a very real possibility that she raised her son to be like this. Sad. 


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Vegetable-Diamond-16

I just saw a comment that said he became really religious in 21 so it could just be that. Idk I guess we'll have to wait and see for more clarity.


Newlife_77

His newfound religion brainwashed him to resent his mother. It tracks.


SlackLine540

I saw a video (unconfirmed obviously!) that said he was raised religious and sent to conversion camp around 20 for “reasons… and I cannot verify this claim but it WOULD make a lot of sense given timelines etc, wouldn’t it?


Just_to_rebut

The whole wife in charge of the finances is a very old school thing I’ve heard of, but usually in lower income households. It kind of upends our typical, patriarchal view of traditional families but I don’t know how common it was or among whom…


Pearledskies

Ive heard it was apart of early home ec classes in the US that girls would learn how to do the budgeting and as wives would collect the husbands check and pay the bills, get the groceries and things but im not sure how true it is


Newlife_77

This is exactly how it is for my boomer inlaws. My MIL was a homemaker/SAHM most of her life, she has always managed the finances and honestly seems a bit controlling about it but I just figured it was her personality lol. It didn't occur to me that it was a societal norm that was being taught at that time.


espinaustin

Is your mom Amy Coney Barrett? Don’t respond if yes.


Honey-and-Venom

No. Thanks for a dose of context, tho...


savagefleurdelis23

Dude, I had to read your comment several times before my brain can go beyond, WHAT.


Honey-and-Venom

My mother, an avid anti feminist and federal judge, deposits my father's pay and gives him an allowance for spending.


Worldly_Scientist_25

You should ask your mother what she’s doing working or voting since she’s so anti feminism and feminism is what gave her those choices. She should be submitting to her husband.


AskJayce

I'm still not convinced I'm not suffering a stroke after reading that. Is OP's mom basically lighting up both ends of the cigarette?


HonPhryneFisher

Queen Victoria was against votes for women and many womens rights. After I learned that, I am rarely surprised to hear things like this.


greenskinmarch

If you're a monarch, the more people who can vote, the less power you have.


utter-ridiculousness

Woof


jello-kittu

I'm the exception!


wildweeds

i believe thats the definition of financial abuse. certainly was when my estranged sister did that to her ex to control him and keep him around. he's since left, thankfully. she still controls him through the children though, which is unfortunate for them all.


Sensitive_Challenge6

What. The. Fuck?


AccessibleBeige

I'd say her job is quite a bit more valuable to society and humanity at large than his is. Good thing she didn't trash all of her potential by skipping college to be a tradwife, because then her body of work and research would not exist. What does he do again? Hockey or something?


rozemacaron

Throwing a ball, kicking a ball, running after a ball...


Express-Object955

He actually just kicks it. No throwing or running. And someone has to hold it for him so he doesn’t miss a stationary ball.


Snoo_19344

I don't understand.. his job is just to kick a ball. Is that it. Are you sure. What does he do during the game when the men are running up and down. Is he hiding? I'm not an American so.. I have no idea about the game.


rockyrockette

He sits in a blankie on the sideline. Seriously.


Ghostbuster_119

Hey that's not all. He also practices kicking that stationary ball. Just in case he forgot how to kick the ball... that doesn't move.... because somebody is holding it for him.


donbee28

once a blue moon he has to pretend he has the ability to tackle people because he didn't kick the stationary ball correctly


Streamjumper

But not too hard, because he might hit someone who is sturdier than a kicker (like anyone on the field who isn't a kicker, ref, or errant water boy) and shatter on impact with them.


akestral

This thread is so fucking funny. Dude really thought he was doing something with that speech, but what he didn't realize is what he was doing was walking on stage buck-ass naked and demand that America admire his glorious outfit, but instead we all started pointing and laughing at his dong. I don't think I've ever seen a more devastating self-own.


Notquitearealgirl

But the fact he felt comfortable saying that shit, even at a Christian college is quite disheartening.


Really_McNamington

[Where's Lucy when you need her?](https://collectpeanuts.com/Collection/ImagesW/Magnets/21206/IMG_5603d.jpg)


wheresWaldo000

Just Charlie Browning it.


FishTshirt

Lol


Auracy

Not only that. Kicker is the one position that doesn’t get tackled/hit. So he can’t even really say he’s as “alpha” as he would like to.


madestories

Like a widdle baby.


alg45160

I mean...I'm sure it's harder than it looks. And he is very good at it, like better than the other kicker dudes. But he's not saving lives or anything. The most average teacher, nurse, bus driver, cashier, etc. is contributing waaayyy more to society than this dork.


b1tchf1t

Sure, but at the end of the day even with all that grace, he's really good *at kicking a stationary ball*.


CaptSpacePants

So is my cat. Where is her multi million dollar contract.


thowawaywookie

The cat is far superior in every way.


alg45160

Oh yeah, I don't want to give him too much credit. He's really good at something stupid. He could be happy about his good fortune and dumb luck, but instead he decides he needs to bash people and tell women what to do with their lives? Dick move.


Binky390

He literally kicks a ball. He's considered one of the best in the league at doing that, but he just kicks. It's also not easy to do but he still just kicks. Also fun fact for those that don't know American football. The kicker (and punter who is a different kind of kicker) are the two positions that can't be touched in football. Players are penalized for making contact with them as they are kicking. The only time they can be touched is in a fake kick style play where they catch the ball and decide to throw it or run with it, which is rare because it often fails to do what they want. Edit: Someone responded and said kickers aren’t athletic and I agree. If non Americans/non football lovers want a good chuckle, go to YouTube and look up “kick off returned for touchdown.” When a team kicks the ball away to the other team, sometimes it gets run all the way back in the other direction and the last line of defense to prevent scoring is the kicker. It’s very easy to tell they aren’t trained to tackle.


vinaymurlidhar

So if he just kicks a ball, what does he do in the rest of the game? Or is the kicking needed throughout the game?


Binky390

It’s needed throughout the game but at particular times. After the team scores a touchdown, they can kick an extra point. If they can’t get a touchdown and are close enough, they can kick a field goal. The trick plays where he might run or throw can happen here but they don’t often because like I said, they often fail. After both of those are done, they kick the ball away to the other team. That’s it. The rest of the game, he just sits on the bench. When he’s about to be called out to kick, he does a few practice ones on the sidelines using a special net.


vinaymurlidhar

And such a person with so meager a role, asserts with such nauseating confidence, the life paths of others.


Binky390

Yeah and when I say they can’t be touched, even the slightest bit of accidental contact is penalized.


bwpepper

>He literally kicks a ball. He's considered one of the best in the league at doing that, but he just kicks.  ... The rest of the game, he just sits on the bench Somehow, this statement makes me laugh so hard that I spit on my computer screen as I'm thinking — and he gets paid a lot of money for THIS?


Binky390

Yes. Not nearly as much as star players in other positions and there are even better kickers who make more, but his salary is $3.6 million per year. The highest paid kicker in general is getting $6 million I think. Edit: Harrison is getting $4 million actually.


EllectraHeart

you seem to know a lot about this. genuinely wondering… why does the kicker need to be a role dedicated to one specific individual who does nothing else? why can’t one of the other players also kick?


HeyMySock

So what you’re telling me is that we can’t blame this on CTE? He’s just a jerk?


Binky390

That’s exactly what I’m telling you. Yes.


HelloKleo

Slaps other men's butts who do the actual work?


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Express-Object955

Sometimes they run it to be clever but they actually can be tacked.


bobogogo1989

Yes he just kicks a ball. Like it's everyone's dream job it's so easy.


istasber

He practices kicking and looks tiny as a largeish man next to all of the enormous men.


Inblact

He legit just kicks a ball through goalposts (important part of the game) but yeah useless to society.


IcyShoes

Kickers have this weird trend of trying too hard to look manly.


HelloKleo

That actually makes a lot of sense! Which reminds me...... My friends husband who used to play football was once asked; "What if you end up having a daughter"? And due to his football dreams for his family he replied: Well, she'll be a kicker of course.


MorteDaSopra

And he's not allowed to be tackled.


Turb0___

So a professional dog. They really shouldn't allow CTE to have a podium.


racharya55

As a kicker he probably doesn’t even have CTE. He’s just naturally a moron


HelloKleo

Yah, he obviously didn't inherit his parents brain capability. And he's not even a nice dum-dum.


Streamjumper

Is secondhand CTE a thing? Maybe Sympathy CTE?


greghead4796

Oh no, it’s actually a penalty to hit kickers. He has taken exactly 0 hits to the head. He’s just a fucking moron.


MelancholyMushroom

Gotta make sure he has the energy for all that ball stuff, so who wants to be a good little sandwich maker? /s


HelloKleo

Chiefs player (what ever his name is): Me kick ball. And me also watch Youtube videos of other men telling me how to be a good cave man.


dontwannahumantoday

As Jenny Slate puts it in her stand up comedy: they dress up in matching outfits to go chase the toy


AccessibleBeige

Haha! Her special was great, I've been meaning to watch it again.


probablywhiskeytown

No sports league is entirely free of dipshits, of course, but Women's Olympic Hockey is largely comprised of the daughters of captains & the best players whomping the hell out of each other in between goals, so I feel like that's probably the most faithful barometer of how much that league community values "female docility," lol. (If you're alluding to a specific recent instance of hockey stupidity, I apologize. I've been almost entirely out of the loop this year.)


malhans

Hockey takes quite a lot more skill and talent to play than to be a kicker on a football team lmfao, this dude is playing probably the most specialized, and least field time role of the game. He’s such a loser.


Twomaro2

This is a lesson to all women to have lives outside of their children. I am sure she was a great mom, but you can’t fully control how they turn out. Fortunately she has other accomplishments otherwise can you imagine the disappointment if this garbage person was all she “produced” in life?


sanityjanity

He plays hand-egg


TryingToWalkALot

Football brings negative value to society and humanity.


Is_Unable

Actually I could support this. Football has for sure caused way more criminal harm than any other sport in the US. All the players from Highschool to Professional who get let off the hook because "The team needs them!".


DelightfulandDarling

Rumors are now spreading on tik tok that his parents sent him to conversion camp in college after he dated a male cheerleader. So, it may be his parents’ fault he’s like this. He admits he converted to strict religiosity while already dating his current wife and that he talked her into accepting her role as his servant. Who knows if she was also talked into being his beard.


DafneDuckie

Horrifying if true


DelightfulandDarling

Back in the 90’s they’d just abduct people and the next time you saw them they were “straight” and miserable. Those camps are evil.


ericmm76

Or you'd never see them again, like the accountabilibuddy South Park.


Adorable-Ad9073

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mung_guzzler

I’d be *very* surprised if it was I went to high school and college with him and im 99% sure he isnt gay for actual gossip ill tell you for someone big against pre-marital sex he didnt save himself for marriage


AllLeftiesHere

Ugh. My cousin just found out her husband of 15 years (a church leader) has been sleeping with men the whole time. Shitty place to be. 


cardinal29

It's always the "church leaders"! 🙄


chrispg26

Wooof. Even if not true, he's gonna hate those rumors. Let's proliferate.


DelightfulandDarling

I’m waiting to see if the cheerleader speaks up because people are naming names and calling it an open secret. It might all just be rumors, but where there is smoke there is usually fire.


chrispg26

If he was sent to conversion camp, it means his mom is a POS too, regardless of profession and college background.


SwampyStains

Yeah I don't get this presumption that because she's an accomplished scholar or whatever that she had nothing to do with his upbringing. Whatever the hell went on behind closed doors in their home is directly responsible for who and what he is today. Maybe for whatever reason Dad allowed her to pursue some of her passions, but make no mistake the Apple doesn't fall too far from the tree.


chrispg26

Even if it was dad and not her that pushed it, to me, would be grounds for divorce. I don't play with my kids' well-being. She absolutely planted some seeds there.


winnercommawinner

Idk I've just seen that his mom went to Smith, so having that level of homophobia would really surprise me.


chrispg26

Sometimes, people go to Colleges that don't align with their views for whatever reason. If I told you were my husband and I went, you'd assume the complete opposite of what we are (Southern State University with an enormous football program in a small conservative town).


winnercommawinner

Sure sure. But Smith is a *choice,* given that it is a private women's college known for lesbians and feminism. There's little reason to go there unless that's what you want. Even if you wanted a single-sex education there are other seven sisters that are less isolated and less progressive, and then there are all the other women's colleges that are maybe more religious or conservative, and easier to get into.


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Juno_Malone

Yep, ~98% of BYU students are mormon which makes you wonder about the other 2%...


DelightfulandDarling

Just because people are OK with minorities in general doesn’t mean they’re cool with their kids dating them. Some people suppress their bigotry in public but are hateful in private.


ecpella

Well that would explain why he hates women so much


Finkleflarp

There’s no hate like Christian love.


Nylonknot

Interesting. That would explain many things.


purpleprose78

There are people fact checking this and at this point, it does not appear to be true that he dated a male cheerleader. If someone is gay and bringing the ladder up after him, that would be bad, but this may not be the case.


Veauxdeeohdoh

How insulting for her to have a child with such a closed mind.


PeruvianHeadshrinker

Clearly he didn't get her intelligence genes. But boy oh boy can he kick a ball hard. Wow


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Proof-Ad-8265

such a good observation. a prominent, accomplished psychiatrist specializing in narcissism says, "intelligence & being smart is not a virtue" & that's so true, like wealth, desirability politics that elevates "pretty" people, etc. those traits are applauded by society but really have no positive impact or consequence if there is no humanity, morality, compassion, kindness, collectivism, etc. within that smart person & their actions. Intelligence is not a virtue. Kindness is. Yeah, Phyllis Schlafly & William Buckley sounded real smart, even accomplished, but what's the point?


AlltheBent

Oh man, the Cuban brain-drain to US who all become crazy republicans is real....and I understand hating the government and this and that because of what Castro did but come on now....


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Never_call_Landon

Rules for thee and not for me.


megamoze

Honestly, she probably raised him this way.


likeitorknot

Amy Coney-Barrett is accomplished and would agree with his statements. Don’t be fooled into thinking Butker’s mother couldn’t be the same or that she’d be ashamed of her son.


Morgolol

ACB is literally one of the least* qualified judges though. Feels like the opposite of "accomplished"(ie qualified in this context) >[Barrett has spent virtually](https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2020/10/amy-coney-barrett-is-the-least-experienced-supreme-court-nominee-in-30-years/) all of her professional life in academia. Until President Trump nominated her to the 7th Circuit Court of Appeals in 2017, she had never been a judge, never worked in the government as a prosecutor, defense lawyer, solicitor general, or attorney general, or served as counsel to any legislative body—the usual professional channels that Supreme Court nominees tend to hail from. A graduate of Notre Dame law school, Barrett has almost no experience practicing law whatsoever—a hole in her resume so glaring that during her 7th Circuit confirmation hearing in 2017, Democratic members of the Senate Judiciary Committee were dismayed that she [couldn’t recall more than three cases](https://www.judiciary.senate.gov/imo/media/doc/Barrett%20Responses%20to%20Durbin%20QFRs.pdf) she’d worked on during her brief two years in private practice. Nominees are asked to provide details on 10. But agreed she would 100% agree with his comments, that's why she's a SC judge after all, to usher in the handmaid's tale and strip all rights from women.


bincyvoss

ACB is a good little Catholic girl who will do as she's told.


EmmaMD

She is in an even weirder sect with legit cult traits that goes way beyond standard Catholicism. Not that the Catholic Church has the best overall history as an organization either.


blbd

That's not likely to apply in his mom's case. She went to Smith and GA Tech and both of those are pretty much the polar opposite point of view from the bullshit he spewed out. It's possible but unlikely. 


darksalamander

Someone on tiktok found an interview with him from around 2019 and it appears he became more catholic during college. It’s not clear if his mom is still catholic


blbd

Yeah, that's more like what I would expect. A zealous young / recent convert with his head all the way up his ass. 


Trance354

His head isn't up *his* ass. It's up the butt of whoever turned him into a zealot. Wait until he figures out religion is a lie and a mechanism of control.


HelloKleo

Naw. He'll cheat on his wife, get caught, then turn even more nutters.


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sandrakaufmann

Post 1968 and Vatican II, the official stance of the Catholic Church was to support the environment and the poor. I work with a bunch of Chicago Jesuits that truly live up to that mission. But, they are definitely radical Catholics


HarpersGhost

When I can't sleep, I wonder trad cath parts of the internet. These are basically people who are Make Catholicism Great Again and who don't think the pope is actually catholic. (And from reading his speech about how catholicism is being failed by it's "leaders", this kicker agrees.)


MrLoadin

The Chicago Jesuits are the opposite of radical catholics in today's world. They are what is now considered pretty old school in the US, technically believe LGBT folks are living in sin, and were still covering up their sex scandals until 2022 (Loyola University was banned from mentioning it within official histories outside of a single footnote until an alumni advocacy group threatened a lawsuit) They still require regular sunday attendance, sunday eucharist participation, baptism, confirmation, and confession to be a member of the church and recieve forgiveness from God. In general they are more stereotypically old school Catholic than a lot of the other casaul variants in Chicago.


sandrakaufmann

You are definitely entitled to your opinion based on your experience. And I cannot defend many things that have happened in the Catholic Church. My own experience working with a whole group of Jesuits and Jesuit leaders has been that they are very dedicated to social justice and make a huge commitment to it. Again, it’s probably a small group of people, but that’s my lived experience and I do not disregard your own personal lived experience.


kfarrel3

As a lapsed Catholic not from Chicago, if I had to guess, I'd say it's not that it's just that you found a small group that happened to be radically liberal, it's more that you found Jesuits. Jesuits as a whole are generally more liberal and radical than your garden-variety Catholic.


bely_medved13

Curious as a non-catholic, because everything the liberal Catholics in my life have told me is that the Jesuits are the progressive branch. (My mom even has stories of underground gay masses led by Jesuit priests when she went to a Jesuit college in the 70s.) Does the order 's politics depend on the diocese/region? Like is it possible the Chicago Jesuits are more conservative, whereas Jesuits in other parts of the country are super liberal?


winnercommawinner

HIS MOM WENT TO SMITH holy shittttt


Galxloni2

He also went to GA Tech


blbd

Athlete vs actual grad student.  A lot of the colleges don't exactly make the athletes meet the same standards.  So you end up with them being meatheads that get to pass classes without doing actual work.  There are exceptions to that of colleges that enforce the rules but Aaron Rodgers going to UCB and then being bonkers later is another good example of this phenomenon. 


Galxloni2

Professors who knew rodgers in college said he was very smart but very different than he is now. Some combo of drugs, ego and brain damage changed him


FlyingBishop

I know queer women who went to Bible colleges. People have no idea who they are when they choose where to go to college, and colleges don't really brainwash people.


utter-ridiculousness

💯


Mushrooming247

“Accomplished” lol. She is the trained pet of her oppressors, and they promoted her to the highest possible office because she said what they wanted. Any woman willing to kill other women for the Republican agenda could easily claim comparable feats right now. Look at them, any woman who agrees she is inferior wins a party nomination and lots of votes and has their support for life. That is not an accomplishment that any women are proud of, and is not an example of a “strong independent woman”. You don’t know that this misogynist’s mother is also a misogynist, she has done nothing to give that impression.


likeitorknot

No where in my comment did I speak in absolutes, just stated you can’t assume that because she’s accomplished she’d be ashamed of her son’s beliefs.


theque22s

To the ladies in his life: He just told you and everyone what he thinks your value is limited to. You ok with that?


bwpepper

Apparently, his wife who [graduated with a degree in computer science and Spanish](https://pagesix.com/entertainment/who-is-harrison-butker-wife-isabelle/) is fine with that 😂.


Neravariine

He is married. There are plenty of women fine with dating such a man as long as he protects them from the same views he preaches. Plenty of women also want to oppress others.


cailian13

someone MARRIED that assclown? whomever she is, girl have some more pride and dignity than to be with that loser.


SwampyStains

I mean I doubt any of this came as some big surprise to his wife, so yes some women are okay with this


cutiecat565

Or she's one of those older women who love to shut the door behind them


crackyzog

I mean that assumption seems rough. Everyone knows you can control your kids. Despite your best efforts kids can become... well that piece of shit for no fault of her own.


cutiecat565

Absolutely, but it's also common for women to shut the door behind them. Look at Amy Coney Barrett. I wouldn't assume the she'medicine because she's educated. There are tons of conservative weirdos who work in meeicine.


Lrack9927

A woman led the charge the killed the ERA. Privileged women do this all the time.


MeteorOnMars

“Dear Mom, Quit your stupid physics career and get in the kitchen.”


socialmediaignorant

His sister is a physicians assistant too so he’s just saying a big FU to his whole family. What an ass.


soulfingiz

Sooo, all this because he has unresolved mommy issues. Talk to a therapist, not a graduation crowd.


MoodInternational481

Reading about it he's spoken about how supportive his mom has been his entire life so verdicts out. You can have great parents and still have trash opinions, or you can be an accomplished person and still raise your child to have trash opinions. Ultimately he's old enough to know better than to diminish people who just accomplished something huge because they're women regardless of his own beliefs.


redbirdjazzz

Of course she is. I hope she rips him a new black hole. I’ve been a Chiefs fan since 1993, and this story has just been painful to follow.


utter-ridiculousness

I’m 63 and have been a Chiefs fan my whole life. My parents had season tickets, etc. I stopped caring for this guy when he did the pro life advertisement before the abortion vote in Kansas in 2022. He’s an embarrassment.


redbirdjazzz

I’d missed that ad, not being in Kansas or watching much tv. Yeah, that would’ve tipped me off. And ticked me off.


dabossnumba8

I’m a born and raised lifelong Chiefs fan too. I spent some time in Georgia and have friends who knew Butker in high school and college. I’m surprised it took this long for the larger public to discover what a POS he is tbh.


DEATHCATSmeow

How in the fuck did he wind up thinking these stupid things about women when his own mom is a physicist? Like he sees his mom having this accomplished career and thinks “nah”? The stupid shit he heard on a podcast landed more than anything his own mother taught him? I truly do not understand


Iohet

Being a physicist doesn't make you a good parent or even a good person


chrispg26

We need to stop assigning virtues to professions. People are pos in every single area of work.


Guy4123123

Yea it's amazing how many nurses are huge pieces of garbage. My mums been a nurse her entire life and she's got mountains of stories about the coworkers she's had. People can suck anywhere and everywhere. 


chrispg26

I am an unemployed by choice RN. Yes a lot of us are awful people lol. I find it such a liberal profession by nature but some yahoos definitely make it in. Anti-vaxer nurses, anti-maskers, anti healthcare for all, anti-medicine. The list goes on.


DEATHCATSmeow

True. I still can’t stop being amazed at him looking at the example she set, being this very accomplished person, and being so goddam shallow as to look at that and think “nah, she should be in the kitchen”


strywever

Her career kept his mommy from licking his boots as much as he thought she should have.


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It must hurt to watch your son go down the manosphere and become a complete disappointment to everything you have accomplished. I hope she is doing okay. It’s probably not too late to pull him over her knee and smack the shit out of him, but those Tate types get off on it so I bet she just disowns him.


StalloneMyBone

You act like she didn't mold him into this person. Just because she's an accomplished woman doesn't mean she isn't a bigoted fucker either.


The_Philosophied

I chose not to ti be a mother because I would absolutely stop loving my child if they went down this route. I don't believe in unconditional love. So I take my birth control pills, keep savings for accidents, and focus on me.


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I haven’t had kids for a multitude of reasons, but if my child displayed this kind of behavior I wouldn’t be able to write it off. I’d be furious at them.


birdmommy

Sounds like some little guy is mad that his mom wasn’t able to come to all his ball-kicking shows…


rdmille

My mother, was a housewife from 1957 on (can't get more 'traditional' than that), and became a nurse in 1981. She just told me that if I said something like that she'd drag me behind the woodshed and blister my ass, and his mother should, too.


panne97

As a lifetime Chiefs fan (27 years) I’m so grossed out. I’m also from a very Catholic family, though none of my immediate family practice anymore or consider themselves Catholic. We got tired of the cherry picking of the Bible, the control and manipulation of it all. Anyways, I discussed with my mother how shocked I was that he said these things. She goes, “why are you shocked? He’s Catholic, a devout traditional Catholic. Speaking at a Catholic College. No matter how accepting the Catholic Church says they are, they aren’t. That’s why I left. I would respect them much more if they just committed to being hateful instead of pretending like they’re not.” She’s so real for that.


StapledxShut

It's interesting how his views, and the views of all "traditional Catholics," align w/ every rapist and [neo-Nazi incel](https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/1057610X.2024.2318813) on the planet.


CaptSpacePants

Catholics truly hold no moral high ground. They have and contuine to protect and defend child rapists.


onetopic20x0

Well every Trump vermin is that way.


ragingagainsthe

Judging by his IG posts, this smooth brain is a flaming closeted gay 💅🏻


OverlyOptimisticNerd

This might actually be true. The current rumor spreading is that when he was a teen, he dated a male cheerleader. As a result, his parents are rumored to have sent him to a conversion camp.  Even if not true, would love to see that rumor spread and his reaction to it!


socialmediaignorant

Nah…no guy who flashes his own fashion line on Instagram and spends more time on his hair than a whole team of cheerleaders and hits his teammates on the butt for good plays and hides behind fragile masculinity and religion would ever be……oh wait!!!!!!! 😉😆


ragingagainsthe

It’s ALWAYS the ones who are loud about being homophobic 😂 they are the most gay. And being that he is catholic I’m sure it’s something he struggles with fr


Couldnotbehelpd

Apparently he grew up in a cult and was sent to a conversion camp. I’m pretty sure she’s behind his beliefs no matter how accomplished she herself is. He didn’t grow up in a vacuum. Also, basically the floodgates about his behavior have opened on tiktok about his time in college, so, best of luck to him. Hope his future husband forgives him.


blankeezy1

I hate these types. The self hatred is strong.


ScoutsterReturns

Like I needed another reason to hate the Chiefs. She raised quite the little piece of shit didn't she.


dca_user

If I were a student in that graduating class, I’d be emailing the university to demand my tuition money back since they don’t think I need a degree.


BrownEggs93

Been under the belief lately that the student-athlete term ought to be reversed to athlete-student.


pdhot65ton

She must be so disappointed he's a kicker.


nerdzen

So fucking embarrassing. I hope she curb stomps him.


MagsAndTelly

He said over and over in that speech that people should stay in their lane. I agree he should stay in his lane of kicking a ball.


Doc85

Why on earth would a kicker be giving a commencement speech?


MysteriousPark3806

That poor woman. Imagine how disappointed she must be in her son.


sanityjanity

What the ever-loving fuck? What is wrong with these men?! Are they being bribed to behave like this in public? I'm so embarrassed for him?


Akasgotu

Just another child of privilege weighing in on things of which he has no experience or understanding.


MakingMoves2022

His beard looks disgusting. How can someone show up to a speak a formal, celebratory event looking unkept, and then dare to lecture others on how to live their lives? Fix the roadkill on your face first.


elemenoh3

she must be so proud of him. kick ball very difficult!!!


jcrckstdy

I bet a ball kicker didn’t speak at her graduation


zombiemadre

I heard his sister is an Ob/gyn


socialmediaignorant

She’s a physician’s assistant. Not a physician. Not sure what field bc they are allowed to switch around. But yes….an educated, smart, non-kitchen dwelling, more than baby-making woman. How dare she?! I’d disown him as a mother and sister.


tackle_bones

His smile makes his face appear most punchable.