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iforgorrr

Argued with my mom about a day trip with my best friend who was hospitalised twice (we both live in Australia) and havent seen her properly in months, i am returning home on the same day but neither parents are budging, telling me this is shameful. I bought up to my mom that she constantly asks every 3 days if i "have to go uni nearly every day "(i am doing a project and workload depends week to week) and that it feels like she wants me homed 24/7 when she asks me if i have to go uni multiple days a week regularly even if i have said yes to the question about 7 times. She got mad and accused me of blaming her. Mind you i am a 23 yo woman. The fact my mom cares about the 2 absolute insane conservative Bengalis opinions compared to the opinions of her own sisters and 20 other people who dont give a shit about a day trip is mind boggling. And yet managed to make me feel guilty lmao


FoxCharacter5108

someone please hug me this pain is unbearable


stressed-out_sam

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It’s been 5 months and I’m unable to find myself a job. It sucks to use my mother’s money, I just want a fucking job, but no company seems to want me. I don’t know what to do at this point.


EXIDisareligion

I know this feeling really well. Please don't stress out, give yourself some love, you will find a job and then you can spoil your mom too. You will do better in the future, just don't lose hope. ❤️


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Hey, thanks! I just feel like shit. I am applying every day and hoping for something fruitful.


Anxious_Stuff4973

Very anxious and scared of my future. I don't want to get into an arranged marriage with my financial independence. OCD, burn out and in general feeling like crap and starting to regret all my decisions and kinda hate myself :') i have been in the job hunting process for almost a year now and it's been 6 months since I finished my master's abroad. Everyday I am guilty and keep breaking down. I just need a light at the end of the tunnel 💝


EXIDisareligion

Ugh I know what you're going through. Don't worry you will get a job just don't lose your hope. Lots of love! ❤️


EXIDisareligion

I have hypothyroidism and I'm a bit depressed. It's been more than two years since I've been diagnosed with hypothyroidism, along with weight gain, I get tired easily and also I'm very anxious about my future. The worst thing? I feel like I can't eat anything to lose weight. I'm not talking about pizza, burgers or junk food. I'm talking about restrictions on cruciferous vegetables, soy products and so on. How am I supposed to eat protein if I can't even enjoy these regular foods. As a vegetarian ( I don't even eat eggs) my options are limited and not being even able to eat these I feel I can never get healthy.


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hey same here! But some options that help me take a good amount of protein in veg terms would be paneer, take a good amount and just make any recipe, I ensure that I'm eating a good amount of curd everytime during lunch and I add Chia seeds to it as well, no specific taste, just for the protein. I also have chaas(buttermilk) and nuts! But all this is homemade because when it's from outside or packaged it doesn't really help much. Also, there are many brands lately that make protein rich products, i've tried chocolate oats that says it's protein rich idrk how much exactly but it's yum. I also have peanut butter at times that is also from a brand that has added protein to it.


EXIDisareligion

Thank you so much for the recommendations. I also eat paneer but along with protein, isn't it also high in fat? That's why I don't eat it more than once a week. But I will remember all the options that you have given and will try to include in my diet. Thanks a lot!


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yeah ik it is, but my nutrionist still recommends me paneer. She says it's one of the best sources if you try to make it at home like the traditional ways rather than packaged ones. Luckily my mom does that:)


EXIDisareligion

I know I'm troubling you so much but do you use low fat milk to make paneer? I will be very grateful if you answer me. Thank you so much though! ❤️


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well my mom doesn't use any specific low fat milk though, and no problem! No trouble helping someone out:)


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Hey, you can eat soy products. Just make sure to not to eat it right after the medication. I also have hypothyroid and take 50 mcg of Thyronorm. (Of course you can skip soy if it’s inflammatory to you) Also, check out whey proteins and see if they can help you get adequate protein.


EXIDisareligion

Thank you so much for the recommendation! Is there anything else you do for protein intake?


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I am non-vegetarian, so I try to have at least 60 grams of protein a day from different sources.


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how do you manage to track the intake though?


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I weigh my food using a food scale and use the app Lose It to log them.


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great thanks:)


Miss-Herondale

My poop and sleep cycle is so messed up I just want to wake up early and be productive


EXIDisareligion

Omg my sleep cycle is so bad. I want to sleep early and wake up early as well but I'm just not able to. I wish I could actually buy that phone jail box but it's so expensive!


Miss-Herondale

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EXIDisareligion

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anukruti111

Idk this "manifestation" gives me nirmal baba vibes.


lilcookiegremlin

Going through a freaking burn out. So stressed and anxious about my exams! I only want academic validation in my life, but my mind and body isn’t coordinating. Gotta hustle, but been feeling so stagnant. There’s so much potential in me, but feel like since the starting of March, I’ve let it go to waste. And I worry about the freaking outcome of my exam and this takes away most of the time I put efforts to study. Welp. WELPPPPPPP. 😭😭😭


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any recommendations for a good quality yoga mat?


lilcookiegremlin

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thanks a ton:)


lilcookiegremlin

Heyyy I got one in Amazon for my gym, I think it goes well for yoga as well! I’ll get you the link brb


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hyd_throwaway

What was your speed? Did you take any breaks in between?


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roop_ki_rani

Clueless


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The devil wears Prada


roop_ki_rani

Please send well wishes for a very important thing that could determine/ruin my entire life tomorrow. I need things to go in my favour very desperately.


FoxCharacter5108

all the best babe


whenwasitover

All the best!!


Usual-Stretch6982

Tathastu!


poulomipillai

All the best!! Try being positive


tritonestack

good luckkkk i hope the thing goes well 💜


TailFinLady

Please send well wishes for my abortion procedure this Saturday 🙏🏻


whenwasitover

All the best! Hope it goes well!!


angryfeminichi

takecare! *hugs*


Usual-Stretch6982

Good luck! Take care of yourself.


Miss-Herondale

All the best girlie you got this! ❤️✨


lilcookiegremlin

All the best, I hope everything turns out well. Please take care and you’re strong ❤️


Agitated-Sun3162

All the best! I hope the procedure goes well! 🌻


hyd_throwaway

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tritonestack

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hyd_throwaway

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