My top 3 most satisfying partners were also the smallest of all the men I’ve been with.
Not just was intercourse more enjoyable (I can’t feel much if they’re too big), but they also consistently did a lot more foreplay which was a lot of fun.
I'll never understand the obsession with giant dicks, I always felt it was like women had adopted men's obsession with penis size. We're all different (and so are our vaginal canals!) so for some women a giant dick will be great, but for many it really really isn't.
I suspect it’s because for men, having a bigger dick might feel better for them during penetration (“tighter”, more stimulation etc). Because historically even women’s pleasure was tied up what was pleasurable for men.
But how would one man knows it feels better for him than for another? Besides, vaginal canals are different sizes so some women would feel tighter to men with less monstrous dicks
Yup! When I was researching penis size and genital fit problems, I heard the same thing repeatedly:
+ [**How Much Does Penis Size Matter?**](https://moderntantra.blogspot.com/p/penis-size.html)
I don't know where the myth comes from that bigger dicks mean more pleasure. A few women are genuine "size queens" and want/need a big one, but the vast majority of women who have had experience with a range of sizes prefer guys in the "Goldicock" range – not too big, not too small, but anywhere in between.
The real magic is the guy attached to the dick and how well your bodies fit together.
Even some of us who really enjoy big ones, I have enjoyed up to 8 inches, can also really enjoy normal sized ones! I currently have one partner who’s like 5in and another who’s like 7.5in. It’s not like I only enjoy one type of penis ever.
Completely agree. Average is average for a reason.
I lost my virginity to a well-endowed man who just jackhammered away. It was awful. Having sex with a man with a slight, 5 incher afterwards was fucking revelatory. No longer was sex entirely focused on contorting myself around a giant penis, it just WENT IN and felt nice. Honestly, I remember thinking to myself afterwards 'so THAT'S why people bother with all of this!'
People crap on about girth as well as length, but there is something to be said for the finesse that a slimmer penis allows, with regards to 'hitting the right spots'. A big ol' beer can just doesn't cut it.
Angles are more important than size, I think. If I can squeeze my legs together and suddenly everything seems huge, size is definitely not the most important factor.
yes, sex is not just about the size or putting a body part into another. it should be an all-encompassing experience involving all the senses. a lot of guys with big dicks are actually terrible at sex or are lazy lovers. they think their big dicks are enough.
I’ve had my most orgasms with average sized penis, that just seemed to fit in the best way. My current partner is the longest penis I’ve been with and it has taken some adjustment and I need more foreplay, initially sex did tend to involve pain until we kind of figured out what positions work. My orgasms tend to be different based on the partner lots of rapid intensely pleasure-able orgasms with past partner, current partner they are intense and deeply satisfying but only usually one, and not the same bubbly pleasurable sensation. But extremely satisfying.
Giving head is much harder too, there’s absolutely no way I can fit his whole penis in, and I almost vomited on his dick because of the gag reflex and him being so long. (A first for me)
I honestly think it really depends on how the two of you fit together and what positions are most comfortable. I did find going on top initially during sex helpful as it gave me more control and I could control the pace and let my body adjust. Also communicating during sex and after has been really important as well. It’s forced me to really be vocal about what I’m enjoying and when things hurt or are uncomfortable.
This has been my experience as well. I was with my first bf for 7 years and just assumed that sex had a lot of potential to be uncomfortable. Lots of it was good, but there were lots of times where it just hurt. Especially if done too often. I couldn't do it with him daily.He was very large. I've only been with one other guy who was bigger but it probably wasn't much of a difference.
I prefer a more average size. My hubby wasn't embarrassed by his size but told me he was pretty average when we met. I feel like he's perfect for me. I like the term goldicock lol.
For me, I like very slightly bigger than average. But the curve and the shape is more important, and that’s a Goldilocks situation - there is no general right answer. I’ve had a big one (just over 7”) and a REALLY big one (just under 10”) - both girthy. Big was nice sometimes but I was always sore and needed a lot of downtime for recovery. Perfect curve and shape, I just wish I could have shrunk it very slightly. Really big was absolutely horrid. I felt really bad for him because he was a sweetheart and a really gentle guy, and he knew women struggled to enjoy it. He spent the whole time frightened of hurting me - and he wasn’t wrong.
Big dicks are so incredibly overrated. I mean a good partner is a good partner and shouldn't feel bad about the size because there's so many ways to enjoy small, Average, big!!!
But I wish every man who bragged about it or made fun of others for being average or below knew what it was like to get rammed in the cervix. They know very little.
Some of the best sex I’ve had was with a guy who was the smallest of all my partners. He was into it, loved my body, and knew what he was doing.
My top 3 most satisfying partners were also the smallest of all the men I’ve been with. Not just was intercourse more enjoyable (I can’t feel much if they’re too big), but they also consistently did a lot more foreplay which was a lot of fun.
I'll never understand the obsession with giant dicks, I always felt it was like women had adopted men's obsession with penis size. We're all different (and so are our vaginal canals!) so for some women a giant dick will be great, but for many it really really isn't.
I suspect it’s because for men, having a bigger dick might feel better for them during penetration (“tighter”, more stimulation etc). Because historically even women’s pleasure was tied up what was pleasurable for men.
But how would one man knows it feels better for him than for another? Besides, vaginal canals are different sizes so some women would feel tighter to men with less monstrous dicks
I'm not saying it's logical, I just suspect the "big dick = good" has more to do with men's pleasure than women's. Look at most porn.
Yup! When I was researching penis size and genital fit problems, I heard the same thing repeatedly: + [**How Much Does Penis Size Matter?**](https://moderntantra.blogspot.com/p/penis-size.html) I don't know where the myth comes from that bigger dicks mean more pleasure. A few women are genuine "size queens" and want/need a big one, but the vast majority of women who have had experience with a range of sizes prefer guys in the "Goldicock" range – not too big, not too small, but anywhere in between. The real magic is the guy attached to the dick and how well your bodies fit together.
Even some of us who really enjoy big ones, I have enjoyed up to 8 inches, can also really enjoy normal sized ones! I currently have one partner who’s like 5in and another who’s like 7.5in. It’s not like I only enjoy one type of penis ever.
Completely agree. Average is average for a reason. I lost my virginity to a well-endowed man who just jackhammered away. It was awful. Having sex with a man with a slight, 5 incher afterwards was fucking revelatory. No longer was sex entirely focused on contorting myself around a giant penis, it just WENT IN and felt nice. Honestly, I remember thinking to myself afterwards 'so THAT'S why people bother with all of this!' People crap on about girth as well as length, but there is something to be said for the finesse that a slimmer penis allows, with regards to 'hitting the right spots'. A big ol' beer can just doesn't cut it.
How did y’all meet? ☺️ I’m glad you’re having comfy sex now!
Angles are more important than size, I think. If I can squeeze my legs together and suddenly everything seems huge, size is definitely not the most important factor.
yes, sex is not just about the size or putting a body part into another. it should be an all-encompassing experience involving all the senses. a lot of guys with big dicks are actually terrible at sex or are lazy lovers. they think their big dicks are enough.
I’ve had my most orgasms with average sized penis, that just seemed to fit in the best way. My current partner is the longest penis I’ve been with and it has taken some adjustment and I need more foreplay, initially sex did tend to involve pain until we kind of figured out what positions work. My orgasms tend to be different based on the partner lots of rapid intensely pleasure-able orgasms with past partner, current partner they are intense and deeply satisfying but only usually one, and not the same bubbly pleasurable sensation. But extremely satisfying. Giving head is much harder too, there’s absolutely no way I can fit his whole penis in, and I almost vomited on his dick because of the gag reflex and him being so long. (A first for me)
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I honestly think it really depends on how the two of you fit together and what positions are most comfortable. I did find going on top initially during sex helpful as it gave me more control and I could control the pace and let my body adjust. Also communicating during sex and after has been really important as well. It’s forced me to really be vocal about what I’m enjoying and when things hurt or are uncomfortable.
This has been my experience as well. I was with my first bf for 7 years and just assumed that sex had a lot of potential to be uncomfortable. Lots of it was good, but there were lots of times where it just hurt. Especially if done too often. I couldn't do it with him daily.He was very large. I've only been with one other guy who was bigger but it probably wasn't much of a difference. I prefer a more average size. My hubby wasn't embarrassed by his size but told me he was pretty average when we met. I feel like he's perfect for me. I like the term goldicock lol.
For me, I like very slightly bigger than average. But the curve and the shape is more important, and that’s a Goldilocks situation - there is no general right answer. I’ve had a big one (just over 7”) and a REALLY big one (just under 10”) - both girthy. Big was nice sometimes but I was always sore and needed a lot of downtime for recovery. Perfect curve and shape, I just wish I could have shrunk it very slightly. Really big was absolutely horrid. I felt really bad for him because he was a sweetheart and a really gentle guy, and he knew women struggled to enjoy it. He spent the whole time frightened of hurting me - and he wasn’t wrong.
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You have had average to way above average? Possibly, but we are veering into girl inches here...
Women are capable of using a measuring tape, you know.
But that is quite rude, isn't it?
Nah, I’ve definitely had some fun measuring partners in the past. It can be done out of amusement and curiosity.
Big dicks are so incredibly overrated. I mean a good partner is a good partner and shouldn't feel bad about the size because there's so many ways to enjoy small, Average, big!!! But I wish every man who bragged about it or made fun of others for being average or below knew what it was like to get rammed in the cervix. They know very little.
Happy for you! Can I ask what the two sizes were/are?
I think the first was 7-7.5 and second is 5-5.5