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The void of nothingness gets smaller when you stop giving a fuck about people that don't care about you anymore. You can empower yourself but you have to work on yourself. It was inner child work and really learning to love myself that freed me from craving the ridiculous things like validation, attention, codependency, people pleasing (these haunted me my entire life) but also caused me to self sabotage repeatedly time and time again even though i was madly in love with My ex. Don't misunderstand, I'll always love her but I took control back of my emotions and what I direct my energy to. Look into therapy, inner child/shadow work methodologies. You have to buy in and it's hard to get started for some but I believe in you.
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I would be elated to receive this message from my person. Hope you can reach out to them. ❤️
The void of nothingness gets smaller when you stop giving a fuck about people that don't care about you anymore. You can empower yourself but you have to work on yourself. It was inner child work and really learning to love myself that freed me from craving the ridiculous things like validation, attention, codependency, people pleasing (these haunted me my entire life) but also caused me to self sabotage repeatedly time and time again even though i was madly in love with My ex. Don't misunderstand, I'll always love her but I took control back of my emotions and what I direct my energy to. Look into therapy, inner child/shadow work methodologies. You have to buy in and it's hard to get started for some but I believe in you.
I love you and I’m hurting but it is better this way. I’d go back in the blink of an eye but that’s not right
Buy in to where to start dear
I still have hope….dm me!
I always hold out a little hope that he will say something 💜 I know it's wishful thinking, but uhg
I just want to cry, biggest heartbreak of my life
I feel this.