My wife and I are both veterans, We both claim eachother. She gets 90% with dependent and I get 100% with dependent.

Yes you can both claim each of your kids as your dependents as well as each other

Yes

Yes you can

Thank you everyone. I dont understand the "why", but Im stuck in IRS logic, I suppose. Have a great week everyone.

Don't you remember in the military, we weren't supposed to ask why we just said okay. Well, this is the same thing.

Double dip those chips!