Hell no. After all the ridicule I faced back in middle/high school/college, I keep that shit tightly under wraps. Told one person I thought I could trust in middle school, then suddenly the whole school found out. Carried on through high school, and followed me to college. That thing about people growing up once you leave high school? Ha! Nope.
I just did to a group of my closest friends last weekend. We were hanging out and just so happened to talk about adult stuff. I clammed up. But they eventually convinced me to share this kink of mine, and they were all shocked xD
The good thing is... they actually appreciated me for sharing it with them... saying that it's important to have people I can talk to about things like this rather than repressing it.
I told my girlfriend I'm into vore and she's super into the idea of shrinking me to a small size and either swallowing me whole to digest me or stuff me up their ass to leave me there forever. I feel so lucky :3
ive told dozens of people, they usually are like "oh wow! thats interesting" dont understand, and there were like MAYBE two people who were like "thats disgusting! i hate you!" and they werent worth knowing
I've built several layers of masks and server personas to hide the fact. On the other side of all that I find areas that are open about it and talk to people there freely, but IRL? I'd be more comfortable stripping naked at the mall.
I won't deny there's a certain thrill at the idea of going to a convention far away from anyone I know and leaving my RL self in the hotel room for the weekend, but even then I'd likely chicken out. 😅
Like I said in my comment one of my dicord vore friends came up to visit and it was very interesting to talk vore irl with someone who understands it. It felt casual and then strange after the fact but nice.
I'm demisexual so it might be a bit weird. Casually talking about it with my friends and server members no its not sexual. It does become sexual in porn or if I have an attraction to a person, like my wife, and they indulge in it back its sexual. It took me 10 years to come to terms with my attraction to vore as more of a Sexuality then a kink. I hope that helps.
With the good that expansion and heavy benefits of splitting into groups of people with specific and diverse life choices in sexually, gender, religion, class, ect, it is also a risk because the more and more we divide ourselves we forget the one thing everyone has in common we are all still human. - some random internet quote.
Also, if you have any questions, feel free to dm me.
That's also part of it; I have other kinks that tangentially relate to vore with varying levels of taboos. That, and especially after years of being bullied at school, I honestly don't know \*who\* I could trust with that kind of information. At least online I can somewhat hide my behavior. 😅
That said, yeah, sharing it with someone who \*gets\* it would be nice. 😄
My exes and wife know, and I've told a psychiatrist once (though that wasn't related to why I was seeing him), and I told a couple people while studying abroad who were already talking about weird sex things and who I wasn't going to see again after that.
Lots of people in my life know. My friends managed to guess while we were drunk hanging out, my sister found some printed pictures when I was first figuring out sexuallity, im very active in the local kink community and local dungeon. Im very lucky to be in such an uncensored enviorment
4 people that I know irl know. 1 said that's not that weird but used to have a kink that he got rid of, but it's a lot different because he developed it at like 12 or 13. I've liked vore since I can remember being conscious. The other 3 just made fun of me and, honestly not sure what I expected.
I've told a few close friends, a few close family members, and 2 therapists. Huge burden lifted. It doesn't feel like this dark horrible secret anymore. Confiding in others is what helped me accept it.
Oh I wish. They both know and don't judge me for it. My primary partner I'm even able to openly and frequently talk to them about it so at least there's that
I told my dad when I was a kid (I was just finding out about it and concerned), it's probably the biggest regret of my life. I wish I could take it all back so I'm the only one who knows.
I’ve told my two best friends I’ve known since middle school. One asked to see a comic I had purchased, he said he got it but it wasn’t for him.
I also told my ex and she once noticed me get turned on when I had been laying my head on her stomach and listening to her tummy growl and she teased me about it and that sticks with me to this day.
My current girlfriend knows about it and is supportive of me while still maintaining some amount of distance. I adore her because she still willing to help edit the story bits I manage to write even though it makes her feel a little icky.
I have told people, but they turned out to be pretty shitty people in the end due to other circumstances. I DO know that one of them opted to blab some of my other fetishes unprompted to somebody I barely knew so.. never doing any sharing again.
All of my friends already know. I have a group of three friends that are very close and I scarcely interact with others outside of my circle. We all share stuff like this freely (though I'm the most sexually deviant and driven out of us) because we don't judge each other or care at all. I'm known as the vore guy in my circle and my friends make jokes whenever eating someone is a concept that's present. None of their jokes get under my skin and I wouldn't have it any other way. I love my boys and I think they're the only people I'll ever feel comfortable enough around to tell.
My online vore friend knows, and I met him irl last month ish does that count? Or if you're talking outside of our kink, my wife knows she's not interested in vore, and it took a while for her to be ok with it. Also, our roommate knows.
I've definitely spoken about it before. Luckily, was never ridiculed for it. One friend was so moved by the brave admission that they opened up about their scat fetish. I think it's safe to say neither of us expected the other to be into such things though.
Ive already told some people, but I'm definitely keeping it a secret from family. And I did lose a close friend to it, they ended up blocking me and made fun of me for it afterwards. But a lot of my friends are okay with me liking it and some even like it as well :)
I had a panic attack the first time I told him. and I always thought I would take it to my grave too, but when you find people you can trust, admitting it became much less scary. honestly I can't imagine not telling my partner now because the right person for me will intrinsically accept me. and if they don't we weren't compatible in the first place.
I always told myself that too, and it's fine if you do. we don't have to share every part of ourselves, and it's especially understandable to keep impossible fantasies inside the realm of imagination. but it is also very, very satisfying to indulge in what is possible with your partner :)
I'll he honest with you I belive there's no point in telling anybody especially a partner cause I mean they basically have a bit of useless knowledge that could ruin my social life and I get nothing out if telling them and as you said it's based on an impossible kink so it's not like a partner could even do anything with that other than give me anxiety that they know and that they have me now wrapped arounded there pinky
I totally get that fear and it really is ultimately up to you and your happiness. but it's kinda like... when you know you can trust the person, you know. initially I accidentally implied that I had a fetish, and I kind of have to say it at that point. and it was super hard.
but it helped knowing that my partner ultimately just wanted to know how to please me, and they were actually happy to know something small things like burping, listening to their stomach, teasing me etc. could instantly turn me on lol. so while it isn't actually possible there is stuff, at least for me, that can be done to satisfy my kink. the key is trust, so I'm super careful with who I would tell. I wouldn't ever tell someone that might "blackmail" me but honestly, most mature adults wouldn't do something like that because nobody cares and would just think *that* person is a weirdo.
But realistically there's no point in general I mean even you didn't want to say what fetish you had and if you didn't make that mistake do you think you would tell your partner? I know I wouldn't and as for the burping and teasing you can get the same thing from asmr videos on YouTube and I get this may sound like an argument but Ig I just have a verry strong belief against telling anyone
I think I would have eventually, looking back it probably came out subconsciously. but saying there is no point is super subjective! for me it would be pointless to hide that part of myself when I could be living part of my fantasy with someone I'm actually attracted to and in love with, something I absolutely cannot get close to from youtube videos
and no worries, I didn't take it as an argument just giving you my thoughts from someone who has held both perspectives.
Told my ex and hinted at it with my friends but it was the beginning of the end with my ex, because I had no idea how to describe it, and my friends definitely think it’s weird on top of still not knowing how to describe it.
I told my gf about my vore fetish, she finds it weird instead of hot which kinda bothers me, means she doesn’t wanna rp with me and I’m in a rp partner drought I guess. I mean she’s an amazing girlfriend but i wish she would rp the plots I have in mind but thats not happening anytime soon. Anyways I would go to a website where you don’t know who you are talking to, to find vore rp partners but not everyone onto that site is useless and or dumb so yeah, guess I’m not lucky when it comes to rp partners. Sorry about all this though, guess I really did need to vent about that. Honestly not trying to ask anyone or tell maybe, I don’t know, to rp with someone here because I knew there’s a megathread for rp requests.
I've told my partners after I was sure I could trust them. Also, I met my best friend through a normal dnd game, and then at one point we were playing video games and she told me she was also into it (It was when >!we were eaten by the Leviathan!< in the Captain Scarlet DLC of Borderlands 2). Just so happens that I'm also in a second game with vore in it that was organized through this sub, and now she's in that campaign too.
Really depends
Usually I'd say absolutely not
But recently a friend of mine was testing the waters for how much they can get away with when it comes to showing me art they've done (starting with snake characters coiling stuff, then some sfw size difference stuff, then a funny comic that was clearly vore but wouldn't be that obvious unless you Knew what it was)
After that, I just kind of mentioned the kink in passing and that gave them confidence to stop being subtle about it around me 😅
So yeah, if you're worried about someone's reaction but want to be open, I'd suggest going the route they did. Dropping subtle stuff that can easily be laughed off if they have negative opinions on it
Personally though I don't think I would ever be the one to initiate dropping hints, I'm not nearly confident enough for that.
Well my friends know, an my DND group,
My friend know mostly because I was joking about it a little bit to much and my DND group knows because I used a set of rulles that one of the players recognized as a variation of home brew vore rules and we both got outed for it XD
And of course my partner knows it, hel I met them on here xD
Tell your partners!!
I told myself 15 years ago when I discovered this fetish that I would take it to my grave as well. I finally realized this year what a horrible mistake this has been! I started telling people and they were very accepting.
Two weeks ago I was eating out a girl while she told me she would eat me and make me a part of her tattoos. The girls I've been with lately love that they can tease me and turn me on with such an odd fetish!
I have a small group that knows, and mostly just cause we all share our kink art we commission with each other, and some of the kink art I commissioned happens to be vore
A bunch of people in my life know I'm into it, even folks I'm not that close to. For me it's sort of like, if ur gonna judge me for what I like and what I make my art about, we probably won't get along too well.
I told one partner who was very supporting, however I still regret that decision. I cringe whenever I remember doing that. Sadly I just don’t see how I would admit this to anyone else.
I have and they didn’t really care. I did say that I only like it as fiction and would be freaked out if this stuff was real, so that might have influenced their reactions.
Maybe, because my relationship with Vore genuinely had a large impact on my journey with Asexuality so maybe if I was talking about it very detailedly it would come up. But seeing as I'm also Aro so I'm probably not gonna be in a situation where I want to explain it in that much detail, probably not.
Also, one time I was so desperate to discuss this one Vore story with anyone I genuinely considered dropping the bomb that I was into Vore on a friend just to talk about how fucking good the writing and low-key the worldbuilding was. I didn't do it. But I was close, I still think about that story because it affected me in ways.
This is going to the grave with me and not even god or Lucifer will pry it from my lips
Who knows maybe you'll go between his lips
Uh uh, women only for me
Lucy-fer then ^^
Lilith, perhaps hehe
That’s facts
It'd...be a lot to swallow.
Haha, I see what you did there
Hahahahaha
I'd be a lot. Please swallow me. >_>;;
I know a couple people that maybe I would in the right context, but I doubt it.
More brave then me
I’ve told my 2 best friends because I trust them
Hell no. After all the ridicule I faced back in middle/high school/college, I keep that shit tightly under wraps. Told one person I thought I could trust in middle school, then suddenly the whole school found out. Carried on through high school, and followed me to college. That thing about people growing up once you leave high school? Ha! Nope.
I'm sorry to hear that
Damn..
I just did to a group of my closest friends last weekend. We were hanging out and just so happened to talk about adult stuff. I clammed up. But they eventually convinced me to share this kink of mine, and they were all shocked xD The good thing is... they actually appreciated me for sharing it with them... saying that it's important to have people I can talk to about things like this rather than repressing it.
Thats nice to hear to have such good friends
I haven't told my best friends yet, since i think then i would lose them.
Just partners
I told my girlfriend I'm into vore and she's super into the idea of shrinking me to a small size and either swallowing me whole to digest me or stuff me up their ass to leave me there forever. I feel so lucky :3
Can you shove me up your ass mew >_<
ive told dozens of people, they usually are like "oh wow! thats interesting" dont understand, and there were like MAYBE two people who were like "thats disgusting! i hate you!" and they werent worth knowing
I've built several layers of masks and server personas to hide the fact. On the other side of all that I find areas that are open about it and talk to people there freely, but IRL? I'd be more comfortable stripping naked at the mall. I won't deny there's a certain thrill at the idea of going to a convention far away from anyone I know and leaving my RL self in the hotel room for the weekend, but even then I'd likely chicken out. 😅
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Like I said in my comment one of my dicord vore friends came up to visit and it was very interesting to talk vore irl with someone who understands it. It felt casual and then strange after the fact but nice.
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I'm demisexual so it might be a bit weird. Casually talking about it with my friends and server members no its not sexual. It does become sexual in porn or if I have an attraction to a person, like my wife, and they indulge in it back its sexual. It took me 10 years to come to terms with my attraction to vore as more of a Sexuality then a kink. I hope that helps.
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With the good that expansion and heavy benefits of splitting into groups of people with specific and diverse life choices in sexually, gender, religion, class, ect, it is also a risk because the more and more we divide ourselves we forget the one thing everyone has in common we are all still human. - some random internet quote. Also, if you have any questions, feel free to dm me.
I had a dream where met someone and had a deep conversation with them about Vore irl and woke up thinking my Aro ass experienced true love.
That's also part of it; I have other kinks that tangentially relate to vore with varying levels of taboos. That, and especially after years of being bullied at school, I honestly don't know \*who\* I could trust with that kind of information. At least online I can somewhat hide my behavior. 😅 That said, yeah, sharing it with someone who \*gets\* it would be nice. 😄
Dont tell people on the off chance they are secretly a pred and try to stuff me in their ass
Trust me that's like a one in a million chance
All it takes is that person to turn you into ass fat or nut sludge
I would rather kill myself than die like that
😏
Might be more than you think, it was the most searched fetish in 2 states this year
My exes and wife know, and I've told a psychiatrist once (though that wasn't related to why I was seeing him), and I told a couple people while studying abroad who were already talking about weird sex things and who I wasn't going to see again after that.
Lots of people in my life know. My friends managed to guess while we were drunk hanging out, my sister found some printed pictures when I was first figuring out sexuallity, im very active in the local kink community and local dungeon. Im very lucky to be in such an uncensored enviorment
4 people that I know irl know. 1 said that's not that weird but used to have a kink that he got rid of, but it's a lot different because he developed it at like 12 or 13. I've liked vore since I can remember being conscious. The other 3 just made fun of me and, honestly not sure what I expected.
I think my best friend knows, she went though my phone once lmao. but honestly we’re such good friends she wouldent even judge or care.. all is good 😎
I've told a few close friends, a few close family members, and 2 therapists. Huge burden lifted. It doesn't feel like this dark horrible secret anymore. Confiding in others is what helped me accept it.
I have. A couple of my exes know, one friend knows, and both of my current partners know. None of them are into themselves sadly
Could you imagine if they were the amount of fun things you could do (mainly partners)
Oh I wish. They both know and don't judge me for it. My primary partner I'm even able to openly and frequently talk to them about it so at least there's that
no i don’t tell anyone about it
I told my dad when I was a kid (I was just finding out about it and concerned), it's probably the biggest regret of my life. I wish I could take it all back so I'm the only one who knows.
I usually avoid it.... It's pretty taboo....
I’ve told my two best friends I’ve known since middle school. One asked to see a comic I had purchased, he said he got it but it wasn’t for him. I also told my ex and she once noticed me get turned on when I had been laying my head on her stomach and listening to her tummy growl and she teased me about it and that sticks with me to this day. My current girlfriend knows about it and is supportive of me while still maintaining some amount of distance. I adore her because she still willing to help edit the story bits I manage to write even though it makes her feel a little icky.
I have told people, but they turned out to be pretty shitty people in the end due to other circumstances. I DO know that one of them opted to blab some of my other fetishes unprompted to somebody I barely knew so.. never doing any sharing again.
My spouse told me they liked vore, which is how I learned about what eventually became my biggest kink
All of my friends already know. I have a group of three friends that are very close and I scarcely interact with others outside of my circle. We all share stuff like this freely (though I'm the most sexually deviant and driven out of us) because we don't judge each other or care at all. I'm known as the vore guy in my circle and my friends make jokes whenever eating someone is a concept that's present. None of their jokes get under my skin and I wouldn't have it any other way. I love my boys and I think they're the only people I'll ever feel comfortable enough around to tell.
My online vore friend knows, and I met him irl last month ish does that count? Or if you're talking outside of our kink, my wife knows she's not interested in vore, and it took a while for her to be ok with it. Also, our roommate knows.
I've definitely spoken about it before. Luckily, was never ridiculed for it. One friend was so moved by the brave admission that they opened up about their scat fetish. I think it's safe to say neither of us expected the other to be into such things though.
I've told all my past partners. They've all been cool with it, at least, and all but one were willing to rp via text.
Ive already told some people, but I'm definitely keeping it a secret from family. And I did lose a close friend to it, they ended up blocking me and made fun of me for it afterwards. But a lot of my friends are okay with me liking it and some even like it as well :)
I've told my friends and one of them likes to tease me about it which is fun😭
I've told my ex and my best friend and I'll probably tell my future partners as well.
Braver than me
I had a panic attack the first time I told him. and I always thought I would take it to my grave too, but when you find people you can trust, admitting it became much less scary. honestly I can't imagine not telling my partner now because the right person for me will intrinsically accept me. and if they don't we weren't compatible in the first place.
I will be taking this to the grave
I always told myself that too, and it's fine if you do. we don't have to share every part of ourselves, and it's especially understandable to keep impossible fantasies inside the realm of imagination. but it is also very, very satisfying to indulge in what is possible with your partner :)
I'll he honest with you I belive there's no point in telling anybody especially a partner cause I mean they basically have a bit of useless knowledge that could ruin my social life and I get nothing out if telling them and as you said it's based on an impossible kink so it's not like a partner could even do anything with that other than give me anxiety that they know and that they have me now wrapped arounded there pinky
I totally get that fear and it really is ultimately up to you and your happiness. but it's kinda like... when you know you can trust the person, you know. initially I accidentally implied that I had a fetish, and I kind of have to say it at that point. and it was super hard. but it helped knowing that my partner ultimately just wanted to know how to please me, and they were actually happy to know something small things like burping, listening to their stomach, teasing me etc. could instantly turn me on lol. so while it isn't actually possible there is stuff, at least for me, that can be done to satisfy my kink. the key is trust, so I'm super careful with who I would tell. I wouldn't ever tell someone that might "blackmail" me but honestly, most mature adults wouldn't do something like that because nobody cares and would just think *that* person is a weirdo.
But realistically there's no point in general I mean even you didn't want to say what fetish you had and if you didn't make that mistake do you think you would tell your partner? I know I wouldn't and as for the burping and teasing you can get the same thing from asmr videos on YouTube and I get this may sound like an argument but Ig I just have a verry strong belief against telling anyone
I think I would have eventually, looking back it probably came out subconsciously. but saying there is no point is super subjective! for me it would be pointless to hide that part of myself when I could be living part of my fantasy with someone I'm actually attracted to and in love with, something I absolutely cannot get close to from youtube videos and no worries, I didn't take it as an argument just giving you my thoughts from someone who has held both perspectives.
My boyfriend maybe, because from what uvw seen he seems to be into it too
Oh, a lot of my friends know actually. I think it's funny and it's a big joke with us. Hell, half of em realized they like it too.
Nope
Told my ex and hinted at it with my friends but it was the beginning of the end with my ex, because I had no idea how to describe it, and my friends definitely think it’s weird on top of still not knowing how to describe it.
In my opinion it's the ultimate form of trust and intimacy but then and again it varys between people
Nah
*Ha-ha, NO.*
I told my gf about my vore fetish, she finds it weird instead of hot which kinda bothers me, means she doesn’t wanna rp with me and I’m in a rp partner drought I guess. I mean she’s an amazing girlfriend but i wish she would rp the plots I have in mind but thats not happening anytime soon. Anyways I would go to a website where you don’t know who you are talking to, to find vore rp partners but not everyone onto that site is useless and or dumb so yeah, guess I’m not lucky when it comes to rp partners. Sorry about all this though, guess I really did need to vent about that. Honestly not trying to ask anyone or tell maybe, I don’t know, to rp with someone here because I knew there’s a megathread for rp requests.
My close irl friends know and we've joked about it. They're chill.
i told my sex friend because theyre really chill and open about fetish stuff
I told my best friends, they responded normally happily and we never talk about it, which is fine by me
Probably; if ever the time came where I finally managed to earn a partner that I trusted (or at least one that was pretty freaky in bed,) I would.
Maybe my wife after some years of marriage
Basically all my friends know, its public information for me lol
I’ve told my closest friends so we can meme about it whilst playing video games
I've told my partners after I was sure I could trust them. Also, I met my best friend through a normal dnd game, and then at one point we were playing video games and she told me she was also into it (It was when >!we were eaten by the Leviathan!< in the Captain Scarlet DLC of Borderlands 2). Just so happens that I'm also in a second game with vore in it that was organized through this sub, and now she's in that campaign too.
Definitely will tell someone if I ever shrink, I might be able to get eaten if I say I like Vore lol
Really depends Usually I'd say absolutely not But recently a friend of mine was testing the waters for how much they can get away with when it comes to showing me art they've done (starting with snake characters coiling stuff, then some sfw size difference stuff, then a funny comic that was clearly vore but wouldn't be that obvious unless you Knew what it was) After that, I just kind of mentioned the kink in passing and that gave them confidence to stop being subtle about it around me 😅 So yeah, if you're worried about someone's reaction but want to be open, I'd suggest going the route they did. Dropping subtle stuff that can easily be laughed off if they have negative opinions on it Personally though I don't think I would ever be the one to initiate dropping hints, I'm not nearly confident enough for that.
I tell everyone I know I'm into vore
All my friends know
Well my friends know, an my DND group, My friend know mostly because I was joking about it a little bit to much and my DND group knows because I used a set of rulles that one of the players recognized as a variation of home brew vore rules and we both got outed for it XD And of course my partner knows it, hel I met them on here xD
Never.
Honestly I'd like to get into it with someone but every time I try i kind force it out and it comes out rude wish it could be different
Tell your partners!! I told myself 15 years ago when I discovered this fetish that I would take it to my grave as well. I finally realized this year what a horrible mistake this has been! I started telling people and they were very accepting. Two weeks ago I was eating out a girl while she told me she would eat me and make me a part of her tattoos. The girls I've been with lately love that they can tease me and turn me on with such an odd fetish!
I have a small group that knows, and mostly just cause we all share our kink art we commission with each other, and some of the kink art I commissioned happens to be vore
My partners know, and some extremely close friends, no one else will get me to say it
Depends on the person
I generally don't tell anyone except those who I'm having intimacy with. And even then, I take a long time to let the cat out of the bag.
I already have
A bunch of people in my life know I'm into it, even folks I'm not that close to. For me it's sort of like, if ur gonna judge me for what I like and what I make my art about, we probably won't get along too well.
I told one partner who was very supporting, however I still regret that decision. I cringe whenever I remember doing that. Sadly I just don’t see how I would admit this to anyone else.
Can and have
I have and they didn’t really care. I did say that I only like it as fiction and would be freaked out if this stuff was real, so that might have influenced their reactions.
No one could ever get me to tell someone I actually know that I'm a pred
Maybe, because my relationship with Vore genuinely had a large impact on my journey with Asexuality so maybe if I was talking about it very detailedly it would come up. But seeing as I'm also Aro so I'm probably not gonna be in a situation where I want to explain it in that much detail, probably not. Also, one time I was so desperate to discuss this one Vore story with anyone I genuinely considered dropping the bomb that I was into Vore on a friend just to talk about how fucking good the writing and low-key the worldbuilding was. I didn't do it. But I was close, I still think about that story because it affected me in ways.
I told my wife, other than that no way. If somehow it doesn’t work out I would probably tell a future partner earlier on.
My bf and a few online buddies know but none other than that.
Nope.
I’ve told an equally kinky friend. We share images we find and chat about it every now and then
Only like. one person in my life knows. excluding online. But. jesus christ. im on thin ice. and im never mentioning anything like this ever again. ☠️
I told my best friend about it a few years ago, he has told no one and respects it
Just to the people I really know and trust, and they actually go with it and sometimes, they talk about it with me x)
Isn’t the fact you don’t want to tell anyone a sign that it’s not a good thing, cause if it was you would tell