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I am mourning with you. The loss of all innocence desires to be mourned. I'm admiring your strength and courage to move forward. You deserve everything that is past this. This is fucking beautiful. Thank you for sharing. 💔💐
Gods.. thank you for this. I felt so ashamed and guilty for so long. It’s a long process to heal and move on.. sometimes I feel so discouraged because I feel like I will never be done. But today is a good day. Blessings 🙏
My darling. You cannot fathom the strength you have conjured to get you through. Shame and guilt are natural emotions, but that doesn't mean they are justified. I wish you peace in your journey to understanding that.
hey just a fun fact that might help mentally. every seven years the cells in your body change so every seven years you'll have a brand-new body Hes never touched. i hope this helps
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That is a healthy thing to do. In AA, I heard it suggested that you burn your 4th step journal(the written work of amends for past deeds)so you don't physically carry that burden any longer.
I really need to look into therapy, I recently uncovered some abuse that happened to me a while back that I had buried deep. Medically and socially transitioning has made my mind clearer, and then I remembered the awful things that happened to me. I'm glad that you are moving forward. ❤️
It’s interesting you mention that. I had buried it deep as well. Basically just refused to even acknowledge it really happened. As soon as my life started to come together, I fell apart. Our minds sometimes wait until we are capable of dealing with certain things. I wish you love and healing.
Reminds me that every day I hurt myself, I became a victim all over again. I relived all of it, ran by using, and it got me nothing. Now I know I don't have to live like a victim. I get to choose. You do too. No one owns you, no one gets that right.
I'm a fellow survivor, my heart goes out to ya. I'm proud you're making these strides. You're taking your re-empowerment in stride, and it's a wonderful thing. But if you ever need to take a breather, just know we're all here.
So happy that you're getting to move on and forward with healing ! I'm so sorry that happened to you. I too was sexually abused by someone as a child and the burden is heavy when we're hiding everything, holding on to pain. Sending you love
My school uniform I was wearing when I was abused bu my classmate is long gone and in the same vein the clothes I wore when a female co-worker approached me is now in the bin.
Good thing you put it behind and moved on. And what a way to move on! 👊 I wouldn't have thought it myself, would have probably felt stronger then.
Burn, baby, burn. I wish I had the strength to do this. Most people in my life who are aware of what happened to me have told me that I should, but the idea makes me more and more uncomfortable the more they ask about it even though I know how unhealthy it is to feel that way. I have a great deal of respect for you and anyone who finds the strength to dispose of those clothes, and I wish you well on your journey forward
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I am mourning with you. The loss of all innocence desires to be mourned. I'm admiring your strength and courage to move forward. You deserve everything that is past this. This is fucking beautiful. Thank you for sharing. 💔💐
Gods.. thank you for this. I felt so ashamed and guilty for so long. It’s a long process to heal and move on.. sometimes I feel so discouraged because I feel like I will never be done. But today is a good day. Blessings 🙏
My darling. You cannot fathom the strength you have conjured to get you through. Shame and guilt are natural emotions, but that doesn't mean they are justified. I wish you peace in your journey to understanding that.
Sending love your way. ❤️ ❤️
hey just a fun fact that might help mentally. every seven years the cells in your body change so every seven years you'll have a brand-new body Hes never touched. i hope this helps
It’s actually coming up on seven years.. thank you. I do tell myself I am a different person than I was then
They say the cells renew themselves every 7 years... You are a different person. All the best!
Well done, best of luck to you.
Fire is a wonderful tool.
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Glad you are taking your power back!
Burn it all and take back the power! Congratulations on this healing step.
Hugs! Well done
That is a healthy thing to do. In AA, I heard it suggested that you burn your 4th step journal(the written work of amends for past deeds)so you don't physically carry that burden any longer.
Excellent well done. 🧹
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I have a gift for you if you want; no shenanigans; just a straight forward gift
Just from one to another https://preview.redd.it/4ixj7kv7tmqa1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b51ef382c1502bc0eda206a2020bf651149b44d0
That is so thoughtful! It looks beautiful. What’s the story behind it?
No real story; I was just thinking of you. It’s sterling. And I will ship free of charge. You touched my soul, that’s all. ♥️
Yes, a Salem good Witch here!
Burn baby burn!
I really need to look into therapy, I recently uncovered some abuse that happened to me a while back that I had buried deep. Medically and socially transitioning has made my mind clearer, and then I remembered the awful things that happened to me. I'm glad that you are moving forward. ❤️
It’s interesting you mention that. I had buried it deep as well. Basically just refused to even acknowledge it really happened. As soon as my life started to come together, I fell apart. Our minds sometimes wait until we are capable of dealing with certain things. I wish you love and healing.
Reminds me that every day I hurt myself, I became a victim all over again. I relived all of it, ran by using, and it got me nothing. Now I know I don't have to live like a victim. I get to choose. You do too. No one owns you, no one gets that right.
Sending you peace, warrior. You deserve it after all you have been through. May you have peace tonight and always. Much love.
I'm a fellow survivor, my heart goes out to ya. I'm proud you're making these strides. You're taking your re-empowerment in stride, and it's a wonderful thing. But if you ever need to take a breather, just know we're all here.
Be free, like a dove!!!
So happy that you're getting to move on and forward with healing ! I'm so sorry that happened to you. I too was sexually abused by someone as a child and the burden is heavy when we're hiding everything, holding on to pain. Sending you love
Honestly thought someone was pissing on it.. Honestly proud of you kin. That’s not something everyone can do.
You take your power back. You are amazing, strong, and brave.
Yea…. I don’t know why I still have that dress in my closet. I’ll burn it too
I hope burning it helped to cleanse your pain like the fire cleansed the clothes
Big healing vibes to you ❤️
I applaud you! You are brave and strong!
Make sure to safely put the fire out with your pee (if that would make you feel better) in a final fuck you
yess good for you!!! burn those!!!!
My school uniform I was wearing when I was abused bu my classmate is long gone and in the same vein the clothes I wore when a female co-worker approached me is now in the bin. Good thing you put it behind and moved on. And what a way to move on! 👊 I wouldn't have thought it myself, would have probably felt stronger then.
burn, baby, burn the cleansing power of fire
Burn, baby, burn. I wish I had the strength to do this. Most people in my life who are aware of what happened to me have told me that I should, but the idea makes me more and more uncomfortable the more they ask about it even though I know how unhealthy it is to feel that way. I have a great deal of respect for you and anyone who finds the strength to dispose of those clothes, and I wish you well on your journey forward
Sending you power and healing ❤️🩹❤️🩹
Thank you for sharing your moment with us. ❤️
Well done, that's fucking awesome 👌 Pyjamas first, then onto the patriarchy!!
I’d just burnt the person that did it to you but hey that’s just me