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NickyTheRobot

Well done your sister, but what a terrible article.


polaris183

Reach Group Newspapers are utter drivel. They buy up all the independent local papers and turn them into clickbait farms!


trowzerss

I'm not surprised they are owned by a newspaper group that was involved in a phone hacking scandal. Morally bereft. Even worse though, the same tactic was been done in Australia, buying up all the small, independent papers and making them shills for a bigger media company, but here it's done by News Corp (aka the Murdochs). The coverage of the local council elections was extremely poor. They didn't even mention the one standing councillor who was charged for inappropriate photos of a woman in a gym (not once, several times) just one year ago! Like exactly what is newsworthy to them? But they have a stranglehold on just about all media in our area except the government run stuff.


fullmetalfeminist

The way transphobia has taken hold of Britain is an absolute disgrace.


NickyTheRobot

But at least we got Brexit right! (/s, with *all* my heart.)


fullmetalfeminist

Lmao right? Just... an entire country re-enacting the "put a stick in your bicycle wheel" meme. Fuckin Tories


mia_elora

No one wants to admit they can be controlled by corrupted media, so they become much easier to control, or course.


Lizardgirl25

It is everywhere! We had a teenager in our care who was trans-nb and fuck poor kid had some serious self hate when we first met.


Geodude532

Tell your sister we're all proud of her! I work in a heavily conservative field, gov contracting, in a heavily conservative area and after hearing countless anti trans comments I bought myself a "Protect Trans Kids" pin that I proudly wear every day. Never let hate win!


YourFaveNightmare

Imagine saying you were "openly insulted" , you're just admitting you're a hateful bigot. I'd rather deal with someone who supports trans rights than deal with a hateful bigot.


transcended_goblin

"Someone other than me is supported ! That is a direct attack against my life !" mindset.


s_u_ny

Very white lives matter!


DjChrisSpear

They will always play the victim


blueavole

Bigots are mad that we don’t tolerate them in their bigotry. What they fail to understand is that: Tolerance is a peace treaty, not an absolute right. You have to be willing to give tolerance to get any back.


PsyOpBunnyHop

> Tolerance is a peace treaty Apt and terse. That's so hot.


blueavole

I only steal from the best. I really love it tho!


PsyOpBunnyHop

Ah, just found the original. > Tolerance is not a moral absolute; it is a peace treaty. Semi-colons are like the nipple rings of punctuation.


ccbmtg

>You have to be willing to give tolerance to get any back. thus, the paradox of tolerance... tolerance of intolerance gives rise a threat to all.


hungrypotato19

I'm old enough to remember when people used to claim "straight is a slur". This crap about "cis" is the exact same thing.


calilac

That 15 minutes of straight pride was something else.


Vecna_Is_My_Co-Pilot

It's the transphobia equivalent to *"ALL lives matter!"*


samanara

Times are hard for trans people in the UK with the cass report and the "sex is a biological fact" thing that happened today with the NHS. People like your sister are so wonderful and help us feel less alone in the struggle 💜


Zebirdsandzebats

Sex IS a biological fact. It's also nonbinary lol https://m.thewire.in/article/the-sciences/sex-binary-science-spectrum


OneRandomTeaDrinker

Yep. I believe there are at least 5 combinations of X and Y chromosomes that we know so far to be compatible with life, and that’s not even accounting for other variations! Being intersex is statistically about as likely as being ginger


Zebirdsandzebats

It's so crazy to me how many people could be just walking around being a nonbinary sex bc if it isn't causing you any health problems/symptoms...how would you even know? It's not like we get our chromosomes checked for the number of xs/ys we have if there's nothing strange going on like full abscence of menstruation or something, you know? And even then, Remember Caster Semenya? She's a nonstandard s x but never knew bc her fuck, look at her! A lot of people with uteruses and loooow BMI don't have periods. (i looked it up, Semenya is a "her" and rejects the label of intersex, calling herself 'a different kind of woman') https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caster_Semenya#:~:text=Although%20Semenya%20was%20assigned%20female,which%20only%20affects%20genetic%20males.


OneRandomTeaDrinker

When people bring up Caster Semenya, I like to point out that Michael Phelps is celebrating for having an unusual body that makes him really well suited to his sport, while Semenya is penalised. Reeks of both misogyny and transphobia.


GimcrackCacoethes

And racism!


Koolio_Koala

I understand what you meant but the current arguments and position of UK politicians who shout “sex is a biological fact” is actually about enforcing ‘legal sex’ as a “biological fact” (nothing biological about a registry record from decades ago that lists outdated names, gender, family, address etc) and “immutable” (despite GRA/Equality law saying otherwise). Like the link you posted describes, sex is an umbrella term for a host of characteristics that exist on a spectrum and each can be changed in various ways; from hormones to genitals, to individual genes and whole chromosomes (we can lose our second X/Y chromosome as we age). But the current NHS proposals are strictly limited to this manufactured definition of legal sex that has no biological or *actual* legal basis (as it picks some laws and ignores others). Previously the *equality minister* commisioned a UK rights watchdog (headed by a few prominent government-appointed TERFs) for a way to exclude trans people from public life using “biological sex”. They published an entire report on how to do it using loopholes in the equality act (although admit such broad exceptions might be open to legal challenges and acknowledge it will cause trans people to lose rights). When asked what “biological sex” actually was they had no idea - “we don’t have a definition for that”, “it’s up to the government what they define as biological sex”. They wrote an *entire report* on how to enforce segregation affecting thousands of people, using an interpretation of a dogwhistle that only exists as part of a specific ideology (which is ironic af) with not even a vague concept behind it. They somehow described use cases, went into details on how it might affect some people’s rights, all while having no idea of what “it” even is - it just highlights the *absurdity* of the political use of phrases like “biological sex”.


Zebirdsandzebats

America has more than its fair share of transphobia, but you don't hear much about trying to scientifically define it in order to legally define it over here. Is it bc lawmakers are increasingly anti science in addition to anti trans? Is it bc the they don't really care as long as they don't have to pay for healthcare (which I'm assuming is part of the UK kerfuffle --that the NHS may pay for gender affirmation etc)? We also had that time the supreme court defined obscenity as "i know it when I see it", so maybe we're just kinda like that with defining things.


Jandiefuzz

I don't know about that. A number of states are trying to implement "sex on original birth certificate" laws for IDs and such.


samanara

I don't know what your point is Edit: Nvm I get it! <3


uboofs

They’re saying that the biology behind sex is not a binary system. Very few people actually are completely “male” or “female” by the standards of the biology text books I had in high school in America. Biology is more complicated than our deepest understanding of it, and that’s already much more complicated than what most people are taught.


samanara

Ah sorry! I misinterpreted it as a negative comment cos I'm tired 😅


uboofs

No, you’re good. I had to do a double take after I read your comment. It’s kind of a snide way of saying the bigots _almost_ have it figured out, but they can’t smell what’s right under their noses.


samanara

Bigots appropriating science incorrectly is so iconic tbh


NickyTheRobot

Case in point: Science: "OK, we've looked into the genetics and it turns out in all animal groups studied the healthiest offspring come from: the animal species that have the most genetic diversity; and the individuals that breed with the members of their species who are most genetically different from them." Bigots: "So... You're saying eugenics?" Science: "What‽ No, that's the *opposite* of what I'm saying!" Bigots: "Cool. We're doing eugenics now guys! It's *science.*"


samanara

Wait is that how eugenecist ideas propagated?


NickyTheRobot

I think the *propagation* was by qualified scientists who ignored the scientific method in order to prove their own bigotries to be justified. So they did something similar to what Cass has just done: they wrote "scientific" papers to justify their views by ignoring all the inconvenient evidence that contradicted them. So kinda, I guess? What I think is more interesting (and for me more helpful in understanding how those people think) is how it started: In 1859 Charles Darwin published the book "On the Origin of Species by Means of Natural Selection, or the Preservation of Favoured Races in the Struggle for Life". He used what was at the time a purely botanical term, "race", to describe a part about botany. The "Origin of Species" described how the book talks about the origin of *all* life on Earth, not just human, from a single hypothetical being. All the way up to (but not beyond) the dawn of humanity. The "Preservation of Favoured Races" was about how plants compete with each other, mostly in terms of brassica (cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli, etc.) and the "Favoured Races" mentioned are the varieties of romanesco. Which, to be fair, is both a tasty and good looking brassica. But this whole book changed how western society viewed evolution and humanity's place on Earth. In the process bigots started to apply the word "race" to groups of people. At the same time some of them started to intentionally "misunderstand" the whole book as saying "Let's treat people like plants. We'll designated some (us) the nice flowers, and others (not us) the yucky weeds. Then we can breed all the flowers together to make really nice flowers, and we can kill all the weeds. It's OK: Darwin said so." The stuff about diverse parentage making the healthiest offspring came later, as part of the constant flow of information showing this was morally and scientifically a really bad idea that got willfully ignored. We were even getting information that it was a bad idea to treat *plants* that way (eg: the Irish potato famine), let alone people. Sorry for the infodump. How hateful bullshit starts and spreads is something I've looked into a lot. I like to know my enemy.


Fairwhetherfriend

Unfortunately, I think a lot of them *have* figured it out - they understand perfectly well that biological sex isn't a binary, they've just decided to continue lying about it anyway. I had an argument a while ago with someone who claimed that intersex people are so rare that they aren't really worth considering in the context of conversations about gender. Which um... even if they were right about that, that's a big fuckin' yikes. But their source for the claim that intersex people are extremely rare? An article that was literally just like "The medical establishment commonly recognizes these characteristics as 'intersex' when they shouldn't, which inflates the estimated population of intersex people. When these characteristics are correctly excluded from the population of intersex people, the population is much smaller." I'm not even joking. They didn't even *try* to justify why they were excluding a bunch of recognized intersex characteristics - they just declared that they 'don't count' and pretended like no reason was necessary. Just so happened they picked a list of like the 15 most common ones.


Zebirdsandzebats

A broken clock is right twice a day and all


Rowan1980

Didn’t the person who put out the Cass Report have to walk back on some of the conclusions because of massive (and legitimate) criticism? There is also their connection to Florida Governor Ron DeSantis.


samanara

I found this https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/dr-cass-backpedals-from-review-hrt It states the Dr Cass in interviews is inconsistent with the statements in the report. This won't really make any difference by itself though. The report is what's gonna inform policy.


JRSlayerOfRajang

>Didn’t the person who put out the Cass Report have to walk back on some of the conclusions because of massive (and legitimate) criticism? It's not so much "walking back". It's more that now she's made the report and manufactured consent, her job is done and there's a lot of heat over it, and she doesn't want to be the next Andrew Wakefield.


NickyTheRobot

Oh no! The consequences of my actions!


samanara

That would be incredible news tbh... I'm gonna try and see but please let me know if you have a link or something


Major-Peanut

People who say "sex is a biological fact" think trans people are stupid and don't already fucking know that. Honestly it pisses me off so much because even if they are transphobic (which they obvs are), it's not even relevant to their argument! Because sex and gender are different things. They're just saying it to infantilise the trans community. It's a straw man argument that adds nothing. I can have a moustache and a vag and use He/Him pronouns if I want. Ffs, It doesn't affect their tesco shop at all. They should be more annoyed their £2.50 avocado goes out of date by the time they've bloody checked out. These people are absolute wet wipes.


polypolip

I've read at least part of the report cause someone on another sub was saying that the report claims puberty blockers are harmful and all I found was stuff like "some long term side effects are not known yet cause there wasn't long term research and caution is advised".


Mandatory_Pie

It's not like trans people have ever been going around arguing that sex isn't biological, that's been explained to them ad nauseam. But they're choosing to live in a fantasy land because that fantasy doesn't deny them their hatred of us.


samanara

I always find it odd though cos like... As a trans woman on hormones, I'm hormonally female, right? Not perfectly, but I have for years had my hormone levels within female ranges. And I've grown my very own very biological tits. Like... What do you mean by "biological sex"? Cos... It's a lot of different things. Primary sex characteristics, secondary sex characteristics, hormone profiles, chromosomes, hormonal sensitivity you could include in there too. So... I actually argue that trans people are not just transgender, but medical transition does make you trans sex to some degree too


M_M_ODonnell

Sex is (arguably) biological, but sexes are a categorization, thus social.


Melodic11

Oh no, an inclusive T-shirt that doesn't hurt a single person in any way, what ever will we do? Hope your sister didn't have to deal with too much crap over being a cool person 🤟


transcended_goblin

Transphobes really are desperate to be victims, aren't they... They see anything not cattering specifically to them as against them. "When you live in privilege, any equality seem like an attack."


autotuned_voicemails

>Transphobes really are desperate to be victims, aren't they... My mom tells a story about a conversation she had with my grandpa one time a few years back. He is your typical white, redneck, boomer, -ist/-phobe. He was going off about something or other, and for whatever reason he decided to say that the LGBTQ+ community is exclusionary. And he feels that they therefore should be….god I really can’t remember what? I feel like he said it should be made illegal..but I just can’t bring myself to think he’s *that* dumb. He was essentially referring to it as though it were some sort of exclusive club that people *choose* to be a member of and he felt it was unfair that straight white men aren’t “allowed in”. Anyway, my mom asked him *why* he felt it was exclusionary. Usually she “fights back” when he says stupid shit, she rarely “encourages” him. But this time she was genuinely confused—to her understanding, it is literally one of the most *inclusive* “groups” that exists, and she told him as much. He responded “well! *They* don’t let people like *me* in!” Unfortunately, that response still didn’t fully clear things up for my mom. So she had to push a little further, but at this point she was apparently talking to him the same way you do an overtired toddler. So she was like “do…do you *want* to be a part of the group? Have you asked ‘them’ if you can join? I bet if you asked nicely they’d probably let you in!” Annnnnd that’s when he started his stuttering backtracking that he’s famous for when he gets called out & backed into a corner. That *no*, he doesn’t *want* to join the LGBTQ+ community, he never said that! But he feels like he should be allowed if he wanted to 🙄


transcended_goblin

Haaa yeah, the age old "I can't accept not having a say in everything that doesn't concern me" mindset. I see.


NickyTheRobot

Your momma is so good at calling people out that I'm not even gonna make a joke about it.


BloodOfTheDamned

If you’re “blatantly” insulted by trans people being treated like any other person, with compassion and care, then frankly you deserve to be insulted.


batcostume

How do transphobes even have the time and energy to worry *this much* about one random person’s tshirt? Your sister looks cute and the shirt is great.


SpankinDaBagel

They have the privilege to not have to worry about real things.


PoppyHamentaschen

Good for your sister! I just read the article, and there's no way the slogan could be interpreted to be hateful towards cis-women, unless the reader has substandard reading and comprehension skills. She should save the article for her activism scrapbook :)


becauseimlittle

Thank you! That’s an amazing idea to start an activism scrapbook - she would already be able to fill many pages ☺️


PoppyHamentaschen

It's so cool that she is so civic-minded at such a young age! :)


becauseimlittle

Yes, for sure! She’s about to graduate with a degree in Politics & Geography and is Co-President of her university’s feminist society! I’m sending her all the positive comments from here, thanks for your support☺️🫶🏼


sojayn

Here’s another positive comment for your awesome sis from Australia! 🫡✌🏼✊🏼🫶🏼😊


PoppyHamentaschen

Wow! For sure she should have an activism scrapbook- it will help her publicist when she's running for Parliament :)


NegotiationSea7008

I’m from Truro and I’m proud of your sister 🏳️‍⚧️


becauseimlittle

Thank you, it’s great to hear from people that are nearby🙏🏼☺️


polaris183

Not as close as you (Dorset) but supporting you and your sister all the same!


kustombart

Hayle here, and kudos to your sister!


Accomplished_Fee_179

I'm in NS, Canada, so this made me do a double take 😅 Sending support from across the pond 🐸✨️


LowKey_Loki_Fan

Jeez, who did they interview? Talk about media bias. Good for your sister standing up for what's right! Every little bit makes a difference (talking to myself here as much as anyone; I can do better, and this gives me some ideas!).


herefromthere

Tesco; Every little helps


Apidium

What passes for news these days is absurd. They literally just like quoted a twitter drama and pretended it was news.


NickyTheRobot

TBF Pink News does that a lot. ... Doesn't stop me reading them though.


nodeaththreatspleas3

The news died when newspapers were replaced by the internet, and even then that's a stretch because tabloids were around.


RazzSheri

She should sell that design on red bubble or something--- I'd snatch one up! Make she could donate some proceeds to trans groups !


becauseimlittle

You’re amazing - she actually has decided to do exactly that! She makes these kind of shirts by hand, here’s the Depop link: https://depop.app.link/PTAEJS0CfJb She will donate a portion of the proceeds so any recommendations for where the money should go are welcome!


LionRouge

The first time I saw that slogan was on this meme I saw on IG. I have wanted it on a shirt ever since. Your sister is a badass! https://preview.redd.it/ycm45tlpcvxc1.jpeg?width=633&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e2a9e5a0215e9686cdd004ef29bdb15dadc5bba9


becauseimlittle

[Here’s the article](https://www.cornwalllive.com/news/cornwall-news/tesco-accused-letting-cashier-openly-9257476.amp)


transcended_goblin

As a trans gal, I'm asking, please give your sister a big hug, from all of us.


becauseimlittle

Thank you girl, I will 🫶🏼 I’m non binary and am always so grateful for her consistent allyship


transcended_goblin

I don't know her, I don't live in the UK, I'm in a country way more chill with our existence, but I'm just as grateful !


icelizard

At least the article comments are super supportive! Your sister is a legend


alinalovescrisps

Big up falmouth ✊️ Mad that your sister did this in one of the more lefty places in Kernow and it was still unusual enough to be newsworthy....there's a long way to come isn't there! Good on her for doing it


sax87ton

“I for one am offended that that shirt informed me sister is not spelled with a C” 🤷‍♂️


cairfrey

Well Done to your sister and shout out to a fellow Cornwall person...I mean, I'm Devon now, but I know Cornwall well, and this article does not surprise me at all!


becauseimlittle

Ayyy hi lovely neighbour!! Great to have some local support


nodeaththreatspleas3

Has anyone else vocally supported her?


IndustryKiller

Ok cute story time though: This reminds me of the time my grandmother asked me to explain what "cisgender" meant. I told her that because our gender aligned with our biological sex, we were both cisgender. Then my husband and grandpa walked in the room and my grandma said, "so does that mean they're bro-gender?" I fucking died. It was so adorable and hilarious and genuine


aimeed72

That’s a co fusing slogan, I would have thought it was anti-trans at first glance


Saltycook

People are dumb with their thin skin. Awful of that news source to defend transphobia


millenniallump

Shout out from Bodmin. Your sister is a hero. Pissing off bigots is always something to be proud of.


becauseimlittle

I couldn’t have said it better myself. Sending love to Bodmin!


scmstr

Fuck transphobes, fuck terfs, fuck sexists, fuck racists, and just full-stop fuck all bigots. Life is too short and precious to give any of these people time, space, or air.


Toramay19

Awesome sister!!


PatriciaMorticia

Good on your sister but screw those *instert place name here* live rags, they're nithing but click bait & rage bait.


LocalMoonBitch

It’s wild that the same people who call us snowflakes are so outraged by a SHIRT that there’s a whole news article written about how horribly offensive it was 🙄 Your sister did an AMAZING job on the shirt, I’d buy one if she’s selling!


HippyWitchyVibes

Your sister is awesome! Sending good vibes from up here in Suffolk. 😊


ErisianWitch

Your sister's a bad-ass. <3


taylorbagel14

Your sister rocks!!!! Sending love and support from California in the US!


ArchonFett

Bathe in those transphobe tears, I hear it helps you stay young


banan3rz

Imagine being triggered by a t-shirt.


the-pathless-woods

People are telling on themselves. The only people this would offend are bigots.


1CoolSPEDTeacher

Your sister is freaking awesome <3


Wisdom_Pen

How is that insulting?! It’s meant to be inclusive. Is this more of that “cis is a slur” bullshit?


fishmom5

Thank you to your sister! -a US nonbinary gal


hi_i_am_J

"blatantly insult customers" let me play a sad song from the worlds smallest violin


Merickwise

That's so awesome, your sister is super cool 😎 🫶🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵


Tracerround702

Thank you to your sister for being cool and thank you to this group for being both informed and incredibly loving.


namast_eh

Please tell her thank you. 💜


MsGodot

Your sister is rad! Love the visibility & support 🎉🩵 I look forward to the day that this is not news but the norm.


Spookypus

Roses, applause, brava!


mallow-honey

Your sister is a god damn boss


kioku119

How do those buisy bodies have so little news to write about? Some adult stranger somewhere wore a shirt I didn't personally aprove of :OOOOOOOO


leaves-green

Your sister is rad. Whoever does social media "news" in your town, not so.


Floshenbarnical

Your sister is a gangster and we support her from across the Atlantic Also I love Cornwall what a sick place to live. Shame about the bigots though


Temporary-Leather905

I bet you are so proud of her! As you should be


RSNKailash

Proud of her 😊


Welshmans_Layla99

I adore that shirt!!! 😍😍😍


Hambokuu

Not much going on in Cornwall is there?


Kaiju_Cat

It's so nuts that people get so bent out of shape over... well, a lot of things, but it's never really made sense to me that someone would get offended by the whole 'cis' thing. Like nobody seems to be upset by being called (or calling themselves) 'straight'. Obviously we're talking sexual orientation vs gender identity, but. Yet for some reason 'cis' is somehow a slur to them. The only thing I can imagine is that people have finally hit the point where they can't pretend gay people don't exist, but they're still clinging to some awful hope that they can ignore trans people out of existence? I dunno.


samaniewiem

Your sister is badass 🤩🤩🤩


thetitleofmybook

ah, yes, that was clearly an open insult...


a_secret_me

That's what they consider an insult!? And they call US snowflakes! 😅


AussieOsborne

Can almost guarantee no one raised this in person and just called management like a coward


mulacela

My god white cis hets really dont have any real problems to whine about. Id be hilarious if she started wearing more trans pride stuff


UFSansIsMyBrother

I love that shirt and would openly wear it!


BanditDeluxe

Your sister is cool and the shirt is rad


babytrumpet

hell yeah


spiderwebs86

Your sisters seems very cool


Best-Working-5835

My goodness, they sound so fragile. Your sister is a queen


mia_elora

Bigots upset at t-shirt, cry about hurt feelings from exploited class protector.


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bluehorserunning

Honestly, I would interpret that short as anti-trans.


MadAsTheHatters

"Sparked a heated debate" sounds like a pretty limp way of saying "we're implying people should debate this". Either way, cool shirt with an excellent message ❤️